Soft Spot

During this episode I discuss how to get through a breakup.  I discuss how to properly establish boundaries when ending a relationship.  During this episode I also added a spotlight of a black entrepreneur.  This spotlight guest was Chris Dickens the owner and CEO of Kwik Protective Services.  He discusses the services provided which include armed security, executive protection, firearms consultation, fugitive recovery, MD HQL, MD wear & carry, private lesson, and process serving. For additional information check out his IG: KwikProtectiveServices Email: [email protected] phone:(202)577-4605

This episode is a little different than my typical podcast on relationships, love, sex, and parenting.  I had to respond to Monique's interpretation on what pride looks like.  Pride starts with your mindset, and not what you have on. I don't see the same thing Monique sees when I see a fellow sister in a bonnet.  Let me know your opinion. 

This episode is about blended families.  I was joined by two special guests Cherry Jones & Shay Clark.  Cherry Jones is a black family & couple therapist. Cherry educated us about the timing on introducing your children to your significant other. She also provided some great tips on dealing with boundary issues. If you enjoyed this episode and would like to reach out to Cherry you can visit her website www.goodjones.com and her Instagram: Berrygummybear.  My Co-host for this episode, Shayla Clark can be reached on Instagram: Dripjla and Facebook: Jammin Life Acessories.  You can find me on Instagram & Facebook: MySoftSpots. Don't forget to check out www.mysoftspot.org for all your adult toy needs.

With us wrapping up the black maternal health week Ester McCant joined me today to discuss the important roles doulas have within the birthing community. Ester McCant is a doula practicing in the South Florida area. She has been a Birth & Postpartum Doula for over five years. We discussed how doulas can be an important part of your birthing team. Doulas are an important factor in helping to eliminate the maternal mortality crisis we are currently experiencing. Ester also offers a mentorship program if you are interested in becoming a doula. If you are interested in more info please visit Ester McCant's website www.metromommyagency.com Facebook: Metro Mommy Agency, Inc. Instagram: Icandoula.

This was a very informative episode done with Tiffany Townsend the 1st Black Certified Professional Midwife in Grand Rapids MI. We discussed what a midwife is & why this might be a better choice for you during your pregnancy.  We also discussed breaking the stigmas of breastfeeding within the black community. You can find Tiffany on Instagram @Delaflormidwifery Make sure you donate what you can to help Tiffany create a new home birth practice.  With this practice she will be providing home birth scholarships for low income families, and community outreach & education.

This podcast discusses the moment we found out the devastating news about our daughter's condition.  I offer this as a moment where I'm completely transparent about a trying moment in our lives.  I also offer some advice to some other parents who might be dealing with the same situations.  Often times as a special needs parent you can feel alone in what you are dealing with.  Well you are not alone!  May my story offer some comfort & support during your difficult moment.  Please leave your comments and feedback below!

This podcast was a continuation of last podcast conversation about body count from the male's perspective.  These educated Kings discuss their view on if body count really matters to men. We also discussed opinions on monogamy & why men cheat. Leave your opinions & comments below.

This is a topic that comes up often, but are the current opinions on body counts outdated and misogynistic?  I had my two sisters Mimi & Shay join me to discuss their take on the topic.  We discuss the double standards placed on women and, whether or not a person's body count would keep them from continuing a relationship with that person. I would love to hear your opinion.  Leave a comment or a voice comment.  Guest Speakers Shayla IG: @DripJla & Miyako IG: @serenitybodyessentials

January is human trafficking awareness month. 24.9 million people are victims of forced labor & 4.8 million are trafficked for forced sexual exploitation. My special guest Quintina Sonnie (Instagram @Quintinasonnie) got vulnerable and discussed how she survived and walked away from human trafficking.  She offers some insight on how she had to do the work to begin her healing process.  She also offers some advice to parents on how to possibly prevent their child from becoming a victim of human trafficking. If you are a victim of human trafficking please contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline by calling 1-(888)373-7888 or texting 233733 (text "Help" or "Info"). #HumanTrafficking #HumanTraffickingAwareness #DomesticAbuse #ForcedLabor #SexualExploitation #Recruitment #Coersion #Pimp #ForcedProstitution

This was an amazing interview done with Mr. and Mrs. Ruff that helped educate me on their Poly relationship.  We touch on how they handle jealousy and insecurities in their relationship. I want to educate people on poly relationships.  I learned a lot and I hope you do too.  Pls feel free to leave comments if you can relate to this episode. Enjoy

October is breast cancer awareness month, an annual campaign to increase awareness about the disease. There are 1.38 million new cases and 458,000 deaths from breast cancer each year. I talk about my own experience of finding a lump & how I handled it. 

This Podcast is for any other moms and dads working from home & helping their children with digitial learning.