Startup Dad

Jonathan Stull is the President and COO of Handshake, the career platform connecting students and recent grads with employers that recently made a massive pivot into scaling an AI product. He’s spent the last decade helping build the company from a seed stage startup working out of a house in Palo Alto into a massive platform serving millions of students, universities, and employers.He’s also a husband to Emmy-winning journalist Emily Chang and a dad of four kids, ages 13, 11, 9, and 6. At home, he’s juggling the beautiful chaos of school drop-offs, carpools, Little League, robotics, math enrichment, ski trips, and four very different schedules. In our conversation, we talked about how Jonathan and Emily rely on their nanny, grandparents, neighbors, and community to make it all work, the challenge of being present when work is still running in the background, why kids need agency and resilience more than ever, and how becoming a dad has made him a more direct and caring leader. We discussed:Building a life with four kids: How Jonathan and his wife manage the beautiful chaos of school, sports, activities, and constant logistics.Relying on your village: Why their nanny, grandparents, carpools, neighbors, and community are essential to making family life work.Staying present when startup life is intense: The challenge of being physically at a kid’s game while mentally pulled into Slack, AI agents, and company decisions.Raising kids with agency in the AI era: Why Jonathan believes resilience, adaptability, self-starting, and passion matter more than ever.Parenting through direct feedback: How being a dad helped Jonathan become a clearer, more direct, and more caring leader at work.Embracing adventure before the years disappear: Why Jonathan tries to say yes to family trips, backyard games, and small moments of connection.Where to find Jonathan StullLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonstull/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Jonathan Stull, President and COO of Handshake (and baseball coach)(02:14) Why Jonathan and Emily decided to have four kids(03:53) Managing the beautiful chaos of four schedules(05:51) Building the village that keeps family life moving(09:46) The first moment fatherhood really hit(10:42) Growing Handshake while learning to stay present at home(16:25) Why parents should not wait for the perfect time(19:36) What kids teach you about resilience(22:11) Showing up, saying yes, and protecting family time(24:35) How parenting made Jonathan a more direct leader(27:09) Navigating enrichment, ambition, and different parenting instincts(30:00) Raising kids to be ready for an AI shaped future(31:20) Why agency matters more than following a playbook(34:10) Using AI to plan trips, pranks, and Little League schedules(39:12) Lightning round: white noise, limericks, dad pranks, and minivansResources From This Episode:Handshake: https://joinhandshake.com/ SNOO Smart Sleeper Bassinet: https://www.happiestbaby.com/products/snoo-smart-bassinet Bluey (TV Series): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7678620/ The Lion King (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/ Billy Madison (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112508/ Braveheart (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112573/ Glory (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097441/ Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0357413/ Old School (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0302886/Wedding Crashers (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0396269/ Chevrolet Suburban (Car): https://www.chevrolet.com/suvs/suburban Chrysler Pacifica (Car): https://www.chrysler.com/pacifica.html —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Ashish Kundra is the CEO of Conceptual, a growth agency that helps companies like Cursor, Perplexity, Superhuman, Fenty Beauty, GPTZero, and dozens more. Prior to that, he led growth at DuckDuckGo and founded two other companies.He’s also a husband and the father of a four-year-old son. In this episode, Ashish shares why starting a company when his son was one made sense for his family, how being married to a pediatrician shapes their parenting, and why he believes small falls prevent big falls. We discussed:Being married to a pediatrician and how that shapes parenting: Why Ashish sees it as a major advantage in handling health, nutrition, and everyday parenting decisions.Starting a company when his son was one: Why Ashish felt that early parenthood was still the right time to build something of his own.Avoiding over-parenting: How he gives his son more agency and lets natural consequences do some of the teaching.Why small falls prevent big falls: How Ashish thinks about struggle, discomfort, and building resilience early.Tracking happiness and contentment: Why he journals regularly and what he’s learned about sleep, exercise, and stress.Why your child is not your trophy: How he thinks about ambition, identity, and raising a son without ego.Where to find Ashish KundraLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ashish-kundra-5a9b784/ X: https://x.com/akundra Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Ashish Kundra, CEO of Conceptual(02:57) What it is really like being married to a pediatrician(05:15) Nutrition, hydration, and diet hacks that actually help(08:31) Why he started a company when his son was a baby(12:38) Avoiding over-parenting and giving kids more agency(16:41) Why small falls can prevent bigger ones later(20:01) Tracking happiness, sleep, and stress in real time(24:13) The weekly one-on-one that keeps their marriage aligned(25:47) How he and his wife divide life at home(27:44) Grandparents, family planning, and designing life on purpose(29:34) Embracing imperfection as a parent and partner(31:15) Raising a kid without turning him into a trophy(34:33) The mistake he wishes he could redo as a dad(35:53) Navigating startup pressure and family time(37:59) Lightning round: strollers, quesadillas, Cocomelon, and minivansResources From This Episode:Conceptual: https://conceptualhq.com/ Baby stroller: https://a.co/d/0aRvEiDH The Sound of Music (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0059742/ The Lion King (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/ Mrs. Doubtfire (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107614/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Robert Whitney is the Co-Founder and CTO of Hapiko, the company that invented Stickerbox, an AI powered product helping kids create and play in more imaginative ways. Before starting Stickerbox, he helped scale New York Times Games, Grailed  and spent time at Anthropic thinking deeply about the future of AI and how it will shape the next generation.He’s also a co-parent to a four-and-a-half-year-old son in New York City. In this conversation, Robert shares how fatherhood changed the way he approaches work, decision-making, discipline, and presence. We also talk about co-parenting as a founder, his shift away from a hard-partying New York lifestyle, the parenting principles he’s developed, and why he believes most AI products are failing kids. We discussed:Why parenting is the ultimate life experience: How becoming a dad made Robert more grounded and less reactive.Co-parenting while building a startup: What it looks like to split time as a founder and a parent, and how Robert thinks about being fully present in each mode.Leaving behind a hard-partying New York lifestyle: Why Robert made a major life change years before becoming a dad, and how sobriety reshaped his priorities, energy, and sense of self.How loss changed his perspective on fatherhood: What losing his mom shortly after becoming a parent taught him about time and presence.What most AI products get wrong for kids: Why Robert believes kids need safer, simpler, more thoughtful tools.How Stickerbox started with his son: The rainy-day moment that turned into a company built around play and creativity.Where to find Robert WhitneyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertjwhitney/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robertjwhitney/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcoming Robert Whitney, Co-Founder/CTO of Stickerbox(02:12) Why parenting is the ultimate life experience(06:11) Co-parenting while building a startup(09:46) Leaving behind his hard-partying New York lifestyle(13:56) The career shift that forced deeper self-reflection(16:09) Losing his mom and learning to value presence(18:18) Why he got pulled into AI for kids(22:13) The biggest AI risks facing children(27:16) Why safety matters more than being on the bleeding edge(32:20) Parenting principles that help him let most things go(34:38) Why he makes his son help with everything(38:27) Why slowing down and sleeping on things matters(43:07) Why discipline matters more than motivation(48:12) How Stickerbox was created with his son(52:58) Lightning round: Yoto wins, bowling obsession, and manual minivansResources From This Episode:Stickerbox: https://stickerbox.com/ Hapiko: https://hapiko.com/ Yoto: https://www.yotoplay.com/ Moana (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/ My Neighbor Totoro (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096283/ Dodge Caravan (Car): https://www.dodge.com/grand-caravan.html—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Caleb Avery is the Founder and CEO of Tilled. He started his first company at 19 and has spent the last seven years building Tilled while raising three kids with his wife, Kelsey.In this episode, Caleb shares what it really looks like to build a startup and a family at the same time. We talk about the trade-offs founders need to be honest about, his regrets around paternity leave with his first child, and why bedtime became his most important non-negotiable as a dad.We also get into the little-discussed challenge of making parent friends, what coaching his son’s T-ball team taught him, how he and his wife think about screen time and technology, and why he believes work-life balance is less useful than clear boundaries. We discussed:Starting a company while raising young kids: How Caleb thought about the trade-offs of building a startup and growing a family at the same time.Paternity leave regrets and what changed: Why Caleb still thinks about working from the hospital after his first child was born, and what changed with his second child.Why bedtime is his top parenting priority: How Caleb built his schedule around being home for bedtime and why it became his most important non-negotiable as a dad.Boundaries over balance: Why Caleb does not chase perfect work-life balance and focuses on a few clear non-negotiables instead.The little-discussed challenge of making parent friends: Why it is so hard to find families where both the kids and the parents actually click.Honest advice for founders thinking about kids: Caleb explains why aspiring startup parents need to be brutally honest about the trade-offs before signing up for both.Where to find Caleb AveryLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/caleb-avery/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcoming Caleb Avery, Founder/CEO of Tilled(02:50) Starting Tilled while raising young kids(05:12) The time and energy trade-offs of startups and parenting(07:53) Paternity leave regrets after his first child(10:53) How COVID unexpectedly gave him the leave he wanted(14:19) Why it is so hard to make parent friends(17:43) What fatherhood taught Caleb about nature versus nurture(19:19) Becoming an accidental T-ball coach(28:03) His advice to founders thinking about having kids(30:23) How becoming a dad made him a better CEO(32:22) Why bedtime is Caleb’s top parenting priority(35:04) Family time boundaries and being fully present(37:41) Redefining work-life balance as a startup dad(40:36) Kids, iPads, and setting screen time boundaries(48:15) Lightning round: Snoo wins, dishwasher rules, and a toy assembly nightmareResources From This Episode:Tilled: https://www.tilled.com/ The Snoo: https://www.happiestbaby.com/products/snoo-smart-bassinet The Sandlot (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108037/ Diehard (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0095016/ Golf Cart for Kids: https://a.co/d/0hVZwx85 iPad: https://www.apple.com/ph/ipad/ Lincoln Navigator (Car): https://www.lincoln.com/luxury-suvs/navigator/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Sam Yagan is the founder of OKCupid and former CEO of Match Group. He’s also an investor, board member, married to a CEO, and a dad of three kids ages 12 to 18.In this episode, Sam shares how he and his wife think about raising kind, grounded kids while navigating success, wealth, and ambition. We talk about family values, philanthropy, work-life integration, the pressure kids can feel from high-achieving parents, and why Sam believes “normal” is overrated.We also get into the systems that shape their household, from weekly family meetings and value shout-outs to annual family reviews and intentionally making their home the place where all the kids want to hang out. We discussed: Raising grounded kids in a high-achievement household: How Sam and his wife work to keep their kids kind, self-aware, and unentitled despite growing up around success and wealth.Building family values into everyday life: How Sam’s family uses weekly meetings, value shout-outs, and annual reviews to make generosity, kindness, and self-awareness part of daily life.Introducing philanthropy before personal wealth: Why Sam wants his kids’ first understanding of money to center on giving, impact, and responsibility.Choosing the right partner for the long game: Why Sam believes ambitious founders need a spouse who shares their values and vision for family life.Creating a home that pulls people in: How Sam and his wife built a family environment where kids and friends naturally gather, creating more connection and shared memories.Bringing a founder mindset into parenting: Why Sam believes decisiveness, experimentation, flexibility, and comfort with failure matter at home too.Where to find Sam YaganLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samyagan/X: https://x.com/samyaganWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Sam Yagan, Former Founder/CEO of OKCupid & Match Group(02:44) Raising kind kids in a world of privilege(04:59) Family values meetings that actually work(06:23) When your kids start asking about net worth(12:10) Why philanthropy comes before wealth(14:57) Work-life integration during the startup years(18:29) The tradeoffs that come with constant travel(20:59) The pressure kids feel from successful parents(22:27) Teaching a “fail forward” mindset at home(26:58) Why normal is boring(29:24) Why choosing the right partner matters(32:53) Putting your family values on the wall(36:27) The annual family review(38:47) Making your home the hangout house(48:01) Lightning round: Parenting products, dishwasher rules, and Sam’s hard no on minivansResources From This Episode:OKCupid: https://www.okcupid.com/ Match Group: https://mtch.com/ Playing cards: https://a.co/d/05A9UUbF Basketball: https://a.co/d/0erx9ow0 Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0241527/ A Few Good Men (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104257/ Toyota Highlander (Car): https://www.toyota.com/highlander/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Rex Gelb is the Founder/CEO of Summit Chase, a paid media agency serving B2B, SaaS, and professional services companies. Before starting Summit Chase, Rex spent more than 11 years at HubSpot, where he became the company’s Head of Paid Media. He’s also a husband and dad to a daughter who recently turned one. In this episode, Rex shares what it was like for both him and his wife to quit their jobs within 24 hours of each other right after parental leave, why that leap made sense for their family, and how becoming a dad has changed the way he thinks about ambition, hard work, and presence. We discussed: Leaving stable jobs right after parental leave: How Rex and his wife both quit their jobs within 24 hours of each other and why that felt like the right move for their family.The sooner you give up, the better: Why Rex believes fatherhood gets easier when you stop clinging to your old life and allow yourself to evolve into a new season.Fighting the “should gremlins”: How Rex thinks about the pressure to show up perfectly at work, at home, and for himself, and why letting go of impossible standards matters.Household systems that reduce friction: The shared notes, walking one-on-ones, and email threads Rex and his wife use to stay aligned and keep family life running smoothly.Using AI as a parenting tool: How Rex and his wife use monthly “leap alerts” with Gemini to stay on top of milestones, safety considerations, and what’s coming next for their daughter.Never deprive them of a struggle: Why Rex is already thinking about how to let his daughter work through challenges on her own so he can build confidence instead of accidentally undermining it. Where to find Rex GelbLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rex-gelb-43445b1b/ Summit Chase: https://www.summitchase.co/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Rex Gelb, Founder/CEO of Summit Chase(07:54) Why this was the right time to start a company(08:45) The sooner you give up, the better(11:05) Fighting the should gremlins(14:13) Work, family, and the balance trap(17:14) The newborn phase is not what you think(19:34) The “No 2AM Fight” rule(22:18) You do not need to master every phase(24:37) The household systems that keep things moving(27:43) Monthly leap alerts and using AI as a parent(30:31) Time hacks for dads building startups(35:43) Never deprive your kid of a struggle(39:37) Using AI for baby health questions(41:34) Raising a kid in the age of AI(43:23) Lightning round: Parenting philosophy, family rhythms, and raising an AI native kidResources From This Episode:Summit Chase: https://www.summitchase.co/ Huckleberry (App): https://huckleberrycare.com/ Baby Shusher (App): https://babyshusher.com/pages/baby-shusher-app The Incredibles (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317705/ The Sandlot (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108037/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jesse Randall is the founder and CEO of Sweater, a company making venture investing accessible to anyone with a smartphone. He is also a husband and father of five kids, ranging from 7 to 17 years old. In this conversation, Jesse shares how he thinks about balancing ambition, marriage, and fatherhood without losing sight of what matters most. He talks about moving his family to Puerto Rico, why putting career above everything else can leave you miserable, and why dads need to be strong, caring, and fully engaged at home.Jesse also opens up about his parenting philosophy, including why he believes fathers should be authoritative first and friends second, how he and his wife use a no hint dropping rule to communicate better, and why both parents need something outside of work and family that is just for them. We also get into one of the most fascinating parts of the conversation, how Jesse is using AI to rethink his kids’ education and teach them how to think critically in a world where information is everywhere. We discussed: Moving a family to Puerto Rico: How Jesse approached a major family transition and helped his kids adapt to a completely new environment.The cost of putting career first: Why Jesse believes chasing professional success at the expense of family can leave you deeply unfulfilled.What strong fatherhood really looks like: Why dads need to be caring, present, emotionally grounded, and willing to lead at home.Better communication in marriage: The “no hint dropping” rule Jesse and his wife use to avoid passive-aggressive communication and say what they actually mean.Why parents need a third pillar: Jesse shares why both partners need something outside of work and family that helps them stay grounded and fulfilled.Rethinking education with AI: How Jesse is using AI to redesign his kids’ learning and teach them to think critically in a world full of instant information.Where to find Jesse RandallLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sweaterceo/  Sweater: https://www.sweaterventures.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcoming Jesse Randall, founder and CEO of Sweater!(01:39) Why Jesse moved his family to Puerto Rico(03:09) Helping five kids adjust to a massive family move(05:16) Why putting career first can leave you miserable(09:41) The family and faith values that shaped Jesse(13:53) Preparing kids for a world changed by AI(16:31) What it means to be a strong and present dad(24:21) Why every parent needs something outside work and family(28:32) Endurance sports, headspace, and staying grounded(32:17) Why dads should be authoritative first and friends second(35:43) The “No hint-dropping” rule that changed their marriage(39:54) Why clear communication matters with kids too(43:29) How Jesse is rethinking education with AI(53:30) The biggest surprise after 17 years of fatherhood(57:46) Lightning round: Parenting philosophy, family rhythms, and what matters mostResources From This Episode:Sweater Ventures: https://www.sweaterventures.com/  Ball Floater (Toy): https://a.co/d/04uaYZ3C The Emperor's New Groove: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120917/ Dumb and Dumber: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109686/ Ford Expedition: https://www.ford.com/suvs/expedition/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Mike Rome is the founder of moonwater, a performance marketing studio that helps startups grow, and a longtime operator in growth stage tech where he previously served as a CMO and growth leader. Before starting his own firm, he spent a decade inside venture-backed companies building teams and learning the craft of marketing. Mike and his wife Kate are parents of three boys and built their life around entrepreneurship, resilience, and perspective after navigating their son’s heart condition while launching his company. We discussed: Starting a company later in life: Why Mike believes the advice to launch startups young is a myth, and how having kids can sharpen focus and urgency. The myth of founder flexibility: Why running your own business doesn’t automatically mean more family time and the intentional tradeoffs required to design it. An accidental path to entrepreneurship: How quitting a new job after six weeks pushed Mike to start advising, which unexpectedly became his company. Building a company through crisis: What it was like launching a business while navigating his son’s rare heart condition and repeated hospital stays. The parenting power law: Applying startup frameworks like ICE and power laws to focus on the parenting moments that matter most. Presence over proximity: The mistake Mike made early as a founder-dad: confusing simply being around with actually being present. Where to find Mike RomeLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mike-rome/ Moonwater website: https://moonwater.co/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Mike Rome!(02:35) The myth of starting startups young: why kids can sharpen focus(10:19) Starting a business with a family: turning an experiment into a company(15:08) Burning the boats: why real commitment matters when going solo(17:15) Gavin’s heart condition: navigating a family health crisis while building a company(23:19) When life hits hard: perspective, expectations, and resilience(39:39) The fishing realization: discovering the difference of shared time and shared interests(40:09) Bring kids into your passions: why parents should lead some adventures(40:54) Ignore the highlight reel: the danger of social media comparisons(42:57) Redefining success: gratitude, ambition, and moving goalposts(45:15) Presence over proximity: why simply being around isn’t enough(47:14) The dinner disaster: a dad weekend story that didn’t go as planned(52:59) The messy years: why chaos with young kids is something you’ll eventually miss(54:11) The Letter to Nirvana: a lesson on craft, conviction, and authenticity(59:40) Lightning round: dad hacks, dishwasher debates, and minivan takes Resources From This Episode:Steve Albini’s Letter to Nirvana: https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/steve-albini-letter-to-nirvana/ Impact, Confidence, Effort (ICE) Framework: https://www.productplan.com/glossary/ice-scoring-model/Reforge (Growth Programs Mentioned in Discussion): https://www.reforge.com/Feherty (Clothing Store): https://fahertybrand.com/ The Sandlot (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108037/The Goonies (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/Luca (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt12801262/Home Alone (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099785/ iPad: https://www.apple.com/ipad/ Kia Telluride (SUV): https://www.kia.com/us/en/telluride—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Amy Winther is the Head of Product Design for Core Products at Square and the writer behind Motherboard, a Substack sharing honest stories about senior women in big tech. Chris Winther is a former financial planner turned stay-at-home dad and the primary parent for their three kids.They’ve built a family setup that flips the traditional script. Amy’s the full-time working parent and Chris runs the home. And what’s wild is how fast it came together. One brutal childcare moment, their third nanny situation falling apart, and they made the call in basically an hour. We discussed:Childcare chaos that forced a fast decision: The nanny and scheduling breaking point that made them change their whole setup in basically an hour.Flipping the traditional script: Why Amy stayed in her career and Chris became the primary parent, and what surprised them about how it felt in real life.Money, power, and partnership: How “what’s mine is yours” removed tension early, and how they split ownership across work and home without resentment.Being the only dad in kid spaces: The awkwardness at playgrounds and playdates, the “creepy guy” fear, and how Chris found his footing and community.Schools and doctors calling mom first: The practical playbook for getting institutions to recognize the primary parent, even when defaults are outdated.Their annual family meeting system: The repeatable way they plan goals, calendars, health, and money so life doesn’t just “happen” to them.Where to find Amy WintherLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amywinther/IG: https://www.instagram.com/winnie_gram/Where to find Chris Wintherhttps://www.instagram.com/cdubbonline/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Amy Winther, Head of Product Design at Square, and Chris Winther, Stay-At-Home Dad(03:21) The childcare breaking point that flipped their roles(08:49) Why Amy thought she’d be the one to stay home(12:00) Chris on the identity shift from career to primary parent(13:29) Money and power dynamics and why shared finances matter(16:38) Stay-at-home dad social life and finding your people(21:06) The assumptions, the mental load, and the stuff no one says out loud(27:22) Rewiring the default mom call at schools and doctors(29:26) Time is the real budget and how they protect it(32:58) The annual family planning meeting that keeps them aligned(38:43) Working backwards from the life they actually want(40:08) Renovation bootcamp year while raising kids(43:38) You and me versus the baby mindset(45:13) Advice for couples considering a role swap(55:09) Lightning round: SlumberPod wins, dishwasher rules, and the minivan debateResources From This Episode:Square: http://squareup.com/   Mother Board: https://amywinther.substack.com/p/welcome-to-mother-boardv0.app: https://v0.app/   SlumberPod: https://www.slumberpod.com/  Cocomelon (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt12427840/ Paw Patrol (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3121722/ Paddington (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1109624/ Jurassic Park (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107290/ Toy Story (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107290/ VW ID. Buzz (Minivan): https://www.vw.com/en/models/id-buzz.html —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jacob Bank is the Founder and CEO of Relay.app, a profitable, fast-growing startup that helps teams build AI agents to automate their work. Previously, Jacob founded Timeful, which was acquired by Google, where he spent six years before leaving to start Relay when his first daughter was just six months old.He and his wife Sonia, a pediatrician at UCSF, now have three young kids and have intentionally designed both their company and their family life around flexibility, autonomy, and depth over scale. We discussed:Leaving Google with a baby at home: The three-part framework Jacob used to decide when it was financially and professionally the right time to start again.Why startups can be better for parents: How small, async teams with high trust can offer more flexibility than big companies.Double-dipping as a dad: Turning errands, chores, and workouts into bonding moments with his kids.“Imagine if I Did That”: The parenting framework Jacob uses to teach emotional regulation and responsibility.Patience through repetition: How each additional child made him calmer, more flexible, and less reactive.Raising AI native kids: Helping children develop intuition and depth while still embracing powerful new tools.Where to find Jacob BankLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacobbank/ X: https://x.com/jebankWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafIn this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcoming Jacob Bank!(02:30) Parenting with a pediatrician spouse: the blessing and the anxiety tax(04:45) The 3-part decision framework: bills, growth, and daily fit(08:32) Big company vs startup “risk”: what’s actually safe in a modern career(11:13) Founder paternity leave: the phased approach that made it workable(15:22) Why small teams can be best for parents: async culture, no meetings, high trust(20:40) Logistics and support systems: daycare, nanny, family, and parent carpools(27:33) Daycare vs nanny: why kid three changed everything(32:12) Double dipping: turning chores and errands into quality time(36:19) Kids and work talk: bringing them into problems and building curiosity(41:19) How three kids changes you: patience, flexibility, and letting go of control(46:58) “Imagine if I Did That”: Jacob’s tantrum and behavior framework(49:56) Redefining founder success: staying small, profitable, and intentional(54:11) Negotiating parenting styles: physical risk and the playground debate(55:27) AI at home: curiosity threads, voice mode, and raising AI-native kids(59:44) Lightning round: CocoMelon trauma, minivans, and dad grocery store dominanceResources From This Episode:Relay.app: https://www.relay.app/ Rider Safe Travel Vest: https://ridesafertravelvest.com/Little House on the Prairie (Audiobook): https://www.audible.com/pd/Little-House-on-the-Prairie-Audiobook/B01N12SFSCLeo (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5755238/ Bluey (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7678620/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Amit Shah is the COO of Virta Health, a company on a mission to reverse Type 2 diabetes, and a dad to two young children. As a high-level executive and father, Amit has navigated the challenge of balancing his demanding career with raising a family. In this conversation, he shares his approach to intentional parenting, the value of shared family principles, and how he prioritizes both work and home life in his fast-paced world. We discussed:The power of partnership: How Amit and his wife, Bijal, support each other in their careers while raising two young kids.Balancing career and family: The conscious decisions Amit and Bijal made to ensure their careers and family life could thrive together, despite the challenges.Shared values in parenting: Amit’s approach to instilling values like kindness, curiosity, and persistence in his children and how he aligns with his wife on these principles.Parenting through trade-offs: The sacrifices Amit has made to maintain work-life alignment, including how they manage time, travel, and childcare logistics.Raising resilient kids: Amit’s thoughts on teaching his kids resilience through boundaries and handling disappointment.The importance of structure: How Amit uses his love for operations and structure to maintain balance and ensure his family’s needs are met.Where to find Amit ShahLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amitrshah1/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Amit Shah, COO at Virta Health(03:49) The decision to start a family: career executives navigating parenthood(06:11) Shared values and partnership: aligning family and career priorities(07:59) Logistics and support systems: the power of the one calendar rule(29:35) Advice for career-focused executives considering parenthood(32:46) Facing the inevitable trade-offs: making parenting and career work together(33:16) Aligning family and career priorities: finding balance in a busy life(34:07) Parallels between work and family: applying business skills to parenting(34:49) Supportive work environment: the impact of a family-friendly workplace(36:01) Favorite books to read to kids: Amit’s go-to parenting reads(45:00) Balancing nutrition and health for kids: Amit’s approach to healthy eating(49:34) Negotiating parenting styles: challenges and compromises in raising kids(50:46) Fun and challenges of parenting: Amit’s personal parenting philosophy(54:49) Lightning round: the diaper genie, minivans, and other parenting hacksResources From This Episode:Virta Health: https://www.virtahealth.com/Diaper Genie: https://www.diapergenie.com/Minivans (Toyota Sienna): https://www.toyota.com/sienna/Giraffes Can’t Dance (Book): https://www.amazon.com/Giraffes-Cant-Dance-Giles-Andreae/dp/0545392551 Wonderbly (Personalized Books): https://www.wonderbly.com/Cat & Jack (Target Clothing Brand): https://www.target.com/b/cat-jack/-/N-qqqgm Khan Academy Kids (App): https://learn.khanacademy.org/khan-academy-kids/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Lee Robinson is the VP of Developer Education at Cursor, one of the fastest-growing AI developer tools in the world. Before Cursor, he spent five years at Vercel helping define how modern developers learn and build on the web.He’s also a husband and a dad to a young daughter, with a second daughter on the way. When I first invited Lee on the show, he had a five-month-old baby and felt like he was deep in the trenches of new parenthood. Nearly a year later, we finally sat down to talk about what that first year of fatherhood was really like.In this episode, Lee shares how becoming a dad changed his perspective on work, ambition, empathy, and priorities. He talks about parenting while working inside hypergrowth startups, navigating family planning with an intense career, setting boundaries, sharing the load at home, and how Lee thinks about AI, education, and raising kids in a rapidly changing world. We discussed:Becoming a dad inside hypergrowth startups: What it was like navigating new parenthood while working at two of the fastest-growing companies in tech.Questioning readiness for fatherhood: How uncertainty, self-doubt, and honest conversations with his wife shaped the decision to start a family.Miscarriage and pregnancy anxiety: The emotional challenges that came before their first daughter and how it changed Lee’s perspective on control and fear.Setting boundaries without losing ambition: Why prioritizing health and family actually made Lee better at his job, not worse.Sharing the load at home: How Lee and his wife divide responsibilities, protect evening routines, and make remote work actually work for their family.Raising kids in an AI-powered world: Lee’s thoughts on education, curiosity, and why he wants his daughters to believe they can build and shape the future.Where to find Lee RobinsonLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leeerob/ X: https://x.com/leerobYT: https://www.youtube.com/@leerobWebsite: www.leerob.comWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Lee Robinson, VP of Developer Education at Cursor(01:05) The first year of fatherhood: how becoming a dad changed everything(03:06) Building inside two hypergrowth startups while raising a young family(06:17) Deciding to have kids: timing, doubt, and tough conversations(09:31) Parenting with an intense career: fears vs reality(15:10) Deciding to start a family: timing, anxiety, and hard conversations(20:12) What becoming a dad changed that Lee didn’t expect(28:16) Sharing the load at home: dividing responsibilities with intention(32:07) Protecting family time without sacrificing ambition(35:13) Seeing my wife become an incredible mom(37:34) Parenting challenges we’re still figuring out(39:47) Empathy after becoming a dad: seeing the world differently(43:46) AI and education: how Lee thinks about raising kids in a new era(53:07) Looking ahead to 2026: family, work, and optimism(54:02) Lightning round: parenting products, minivans, and dad lifeResources From This Episode:Cursor: https://cursor.com/ Vercel: https://vercel.com/ ChatGPT: https://chatgpt.com/ Baby bottle washer: https://a.co/d/aGUSOwn Toy Story (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/ Finding Nemo (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0266543/  —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Pranav Piyush is the co-founder and CEO of Paramark, a marketing analytics company, and a dad to two young children. On his entrepreneurial journey, Pranav has faced health challenges, raised kids without a local support network, and balanced family life with the demands of running a startup. In this conversation, he shared his parenting philosophy alongside his founder wisdom. We discussed:The hero at home: How Pranav’s wife, Charu, has played a key role in supporting his entrepreneurial journey and balancing family life.Startup struggles and family life: The challenges Pranav faced starting a company with two young kids and without a local support system.The balance of 9-9-6: Pranav’s personal take on balancing work and parenting by dedicating quality time to his kids, especially on weekends.Parenting through health challenges: How a major health scare for one of his daughters shaped his perspective on family and resilience.Challenging kids to think: Pranav’s approach to fostering curiosity and critical thinking in his children, including using trivia and custom GPT tools.Building responsibility and agency: Why Pranav believes it’s crucial to instill a sense of personal accountability and how he applies this in his parenting.Where to find Pranav PiyushLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pranavp/ X: https://x.com/pranavpiyushWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Pranav Piyush, Co-Founder and CEO at Paramark(02:10) The hero at home: how Pranav’s wife supports his entrepreneurial dreams(06:02) Raising a family as immigrants: the challenges and rewards(22:03) Parenting principles: joining your kids in fun activities and creating memories(25:38) Challenging your kids: encouraging curiosity and critical thinking(30:24) Enjoying the small moments: family time, digital detox, and connecting(32:52) Education: why pranav believes it’s broken and needs change(33:20) Boredom in school: how it reflects a systematic issue(34:52) Solutions beyond school: the search for engaging education(35:49) The role of AI in education: will technology revolutionize learning?(36:30) Why college still matters: the importance of traditional education(41:25) Teaching personal accountability: how pranav instills responsibility in his kids(45:11) Technology and kids: setting boundaries and encouraging real-world experiences(47:16) Exciting family plans: what’s next for Pranav and his kids(49:57) Lightning round: the SNOO, unlimited iPad time, and other parenting hacksResources From This Episode:Paramark: https://paramark.com/ SNOO (and other Happiestbaby products): https://www.happiestbaby.com/ Zootopia 2 (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5042066/ Back to the Future (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088763/Taylor Swift (Artist/Music): https://www.taylorswift.com/The Warriors (Basketball Team): https://www.nba.com/warriors/CocoMelon (TV Show): https://www.cocomelon.com/Toyota Sienna (Car Model): https://www.toyota.com/sienna/ Honda Odyssey (Car Model): https://www.honda.com/odyssey GTMN (Podcast): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/gtmn/id1845001203  Brandformance (Podcast): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/brandformance/id1746064786  —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jason Smith is the Co-Founder and CEO of Klue, an AI-powered competitive intelligence platform. He’s a five-time startup founder, Ernst & Young Entrepreneur of the Year, and a father of two daughters. But his most transformative experience wasn’t raising capital or scaling companies. It was stepping away from it all to travel the world with his wife and kids.When his daughters were just 8 and 9, Jason and his wife quit their jobs, pulled the kids out of school, and spent a full year traveling across 11 countries. We discussed:Leaving work to reconnect: What prompted Jason to walk away from startup life and plan a year-long trip around the world with his wife and two daughters.When things go wrong: Why Jason believes travel disasters make the best family memories and how they used setbacks to teach adaptability and problem-solving.Building deep connections off-grid: How spending 24/7 together changed their family dynamic, from independent dinners to hard conversations.Teaching self-reliance through discomfort: Jason shares his philosophy on preparing kids for the real world and why he sees challenge as essential, not optional.From startup grind to dad mode: The binary approach Jason takes to work and parenting, and why he believes being all-in matters more than balance.How his daughters see him now: Why watching their dad work hard, and then totally disconnect, influenced how his kids think about careers, failure, and ambition.Where to find Jason SmithLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/onemoresmith/  Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcoming Jason Smith, Co-Founder and CEO at Klue(01:09) What sparked a year-long trip around the world(02:21) How planning the journey went from 6 weeks to 12 months(05:08) The wild story of renting their house before quitting their jobs(06:33) Early travel struggles and breakthrough moments(09:54) Teaching kids on the road and bringing learning to life(12:48) Volunteering in Peru and breaking the privilege bubble(17:03) Favorite travel memories and embracing the unexpected(24:51) Why real connection takes getting off the grid(36:17) How his daughters see startups and business now(39:35) Navigating AI and the new rules of work(41:15) Building resilience by leaning into hard things(46:27) United front parenting and avoiding the ‘ask mom, ask dad’ trap(48:26) How the parent-child relationship evolves over 20 years(51:44) Teaching work ethic and financial independence(01:00:49) Lightning round: parenting quirks, movie picks, and minivan takesResources From This Episode:Klue: https://klue.com/ Jason’s Travel Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O1vMnTDHe6c One More Smith (Jason’s Blog): https://onemoresmith.com/ Jolly Jumper: https://jollyjumper.com/ The Matrix (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0133093/ Frozen (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2294629/ Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Dr. Emilio Galán is a former medical student, entrepreneur, and now a full-time stay-at-home dad. He took a drastic turn in his career, moving from building a successful AI-driven company to focusing on family life after stepping away from the startup world. Dr. Galán shares how he navigated autoimmune health challenges, the difficult decision to leave his medical career behind, and the challenges of being a stay-at-home parent to his young children. We discussed:The pivot from entrepreneurship to fatherhood: Dr. Emilio Galán’s decision to leave his startup career behind and become a stay-at-home dad after stepping away from his company.Balancing health challenges with career demands: How Dr. Galán manages four autoimmune conditions and the toll his previous career took on his body.Building a family-first life: The struggles and rewards of becoming a full-time parent to two young children and how this shift allowed him to reconnect with his family.The philosophy of “Wipe the Butt”: Dr. Galán explains his approach to parenting, teaching responsibility, and maintaining boundaries while staying emotionally available to his kids.Finding contentment in the "dopamine desert": How Dr. Galán adjusted to life without the constant hustle of the startup world and learned to find joy in small, everyday moments.Self-care as a priority: How Dr. Galán incorporates practices like flexibility exercises and the Happy Body method to manage his physical and mental well-being while raising his kids.Where to find Dr. Emilio GalánLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emiliogalan/ X: https://x.com/emilio_galanWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Dr. Emilio Galán, former co-founder of Robin Healthcare, now a stay at home dad(03:03) Early life and aspirations of becoming a doctor(06:12) The struggles and realities of medical school(09:04) Founding Robin: the start of his entrepreneurial journey(12:51) Transitioning from startup life to stay-at-home dad(17:26) Finding balance: self-care, family, and health(21:16) Navigating parenthood, resentment, and expectations(31:51) Advice for founders who are parents(37:43) The long-awaited family project: creating meaningful work(38:49) Understanding emotions, needs, and communication(39:34) Creative expression and setting requests in parenting(42:21) Celebrating personal growth and change as a dad(43:55) Contrarian take: why shyness doesn’t exist(47:08) Contrarian take: the “Wipe the Butt” philosophy(50:51) The taco episode: a parenting breakdown moment(58:21) Lightning round: parenting insights and funny dad momentsResources From This Episode:The Happy Body Method: https://thehappybody.com/the-happy-body-program/ Jordan Peterson: https://www.jordanbpeterson.com/Brene Brown: https://brenebrown.com/Gabor Maté: https://drgabormate.com/Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy: https://www.selfleadership.org/Nonviolent Communication: https://www.cnvc.org/Alexa: https://alexa.amazon.com/Google Home: https://store.google.com/us/product/google_home Land Before Time (Fil): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0100507/Jumanji (1995) (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0113497/Dead Poets Society (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097165/Patch Adams (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0129290/Frida Baby (Butt Frida): https://www.fridababy.com/products/windi-the-wind-reliever Frida Baby (Nose Frida): https://www.fridababy.com/products/nosefrida-the-snot-sucker —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Michael Goodbody is the former Global Head of Marketing & Communications at Robinhood, CMO at Dave, and VP Marketing  at Credit Karma. A year ago, he resigned from his executive job at Robinhood to homeschool his children while traveling to 21 countries in just nine months.Michael, a British expat married to a German partner, shares what it was like stepping away from a demanding executive career to prioritize global experiences with his family and a deep connection with his kids. We discussed:Ditching routine for the unknown: What drove Michael and his wife to finally say yes to a long-held dream of traveling the world with their kids.Homeschooling while abroad: How they navigated state regulations, picked a suitable curriculum, and stayed on track academically from Tanzania to China.Teaching math in paradise: Michael shares what it was like to turn a beach in French Polynesia into a classroom and how he helped his daughter jump two grade levels in math.Genetic testing and pregnancy stress: The emotional rollercoaster of discovering a rare genetic match mid-pregnancy and what they learned from it.Redefining success: Why Michael believes happiness matters more than grades or accolades, and how he’s shaping his parenting philosophy around presence over pressure.Parenting far from family: The pros and cons of raising kids without extended family nearby and why Michael and his wife chose to stay in the US.Where to find Michael GoodbodyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelgoodbody/ Twitter: https://x.com/mcgunomeWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Michael Goodbody, former Global Head of Marketing & Communications at Robinhood(01:06) Leaving a top exec job to homeschool and travel(02:36) Quitting Robinhood and chasing a dream(05:04) Homeschooling logistics across 21 countries(07:35) How they planned financially for a year off(09:46) Learning through travel: science, history, and volcanoes(22:50) Safari in Tanzania and chasing pandas in China(26:28) What it’s like coming home after the journey(29:28) A genetic testing scare during pregnancy(33:50) Why fatherhood surprised Michael in a good way(36:42) What he’d tell his pre-dad self(40:05) Two principles that guide Michael’s parenting(44:31) A/B testing parenting styles with two kids(47:57) Redefining success for your kids(52:02) Using AI to win parenting arguments(58:20) Lightning round: parenting quirks, travel hacks, and dad skillsResources From This Episode:Robinhood: https://robinhood.com/ Generation Genius: https://www.generationgenius.com/ Waldorf Education: https://www.waldorfeducation.org/ Alexa: https://alexa.amazon.com/ Curious Kid (Podcast): https://www.curiouskidpodcast.com/ Greeking Out (Podcast): https://www.nationalgeographic.com/podcasts/greeking-out Million Bazillion (Podcast): https://www.marketplace.org/shows/million-bazillion Crystal Palace F.C.: https://www.cpfc.co.uk/ Short Circuit (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091949/ Raiders of the Lost Ark (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0082971/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Andrew Song is the co-founder of Make Sunsets, a climate startup working to slow global warming by deploying reflective aerosols in the stratosphere. A longtime startup operator, Andrew has spent his career taking contrarian paths, from early work in AI to now building one of the most debated climate interventions in the world. At Make Sunsets, he focuses on translating complex science into practical action, raising capital through unconventional channels, and pushing forward a mission-driven company designed to buy humanity time as temperatures rise.But Andrew’s most demanding role is being a full-time single dad to his two young sons. After gaining sole custody due to their mother’s struggles with bipolar disorder, Andrew has learned to navigate parenting, entrepreneurship, and mental health advocacy all at once. Living in the Bay Area near extended family, he relies on community, resilience, and regimented prioritization to raise his boys while building a startup on hard mode. We discussed: Why climate change became personal: How Andrew’s motivation to cool the planet is rooted in building a safer future for his kids.Building a startup on hard mode: What it’s like to raise venture capital, run a climate company, and be a full-time single dad at the same time.Navigating mental health and custody: Andrew’s experience gaining sole custody of his sons and why normalizing conversations around mental illness matters.Creating a village of support: How living near family and leaning on community makes single parenting and entrepreneurship possible.Choosing purpose over comfort: Why Andrew believes it’s possible to live modestly in the Bay Area while prioritizing meaningful work.Raising resilient, curious kids: From RV road trips to using AI as a learning tool, how Andrew encourages independence, curiosity, and grit at home.Where to find Andrew SongLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ajsong/ Twitter: https://x.com/ASong408Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Andrew Song, co-founder at Make Sunsets(02:25) What Make Sunsets does and why Andrew started the company(04:05) How reflective aerosols work to cool the planet(07:01) Funding climate tech through individual “climate dads”(09:04) From AI to climate intervention: Andrew’s unconventional career path(10:49) Almost becoming a Catholic priest and choosing fatherhood instead(13:27) Gaining sole custody and navigating parenting amid mental illness(17:36) Explaining a parent’s absence to young children with honesty(19:28) The isolation of being a single-dad-founder and seeking community(20:47) Building a startup while raising two kids alone(23:24) Living modestly in the Bay Area on a startup salary(30:06) Relying on family support and rebuilding the “village”(35:55) Traveling the West Coast in an RV with toddlers(45:37) Lightning round: Legos, road trips, AI, and minivansResources From This Episode:Make Sunsets: https://www.makesunsets.com/Termination Shock - Neal Stephenson: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57094295-termination-shockTerraform Industries: https://www.terraformindustries.com/Y Combinator: https://www.ycombinator.com/Bloomberg: https://www.bloomberg.com/ChatGPT: https://chat.openai.com/Sora: https://openai.com/soraAlva Learning App (Educational app used by Andrew’s kids): https://www.alvalearning.com/Scale AI: https://scale.com/Monarch Money (Personal finance app Andrew references): https://www.monarchmoney.com/World Book Encyclopedia: https://www.worldbook.com/Doom: https://doom.com/Pinocchio: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1488589/Star Wars: Episode IV – A New Hope: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0076759/Joshua Tree National Park: https://www.nps.gov/jotr/index.htmiPad: https://www.apple.com/ipad/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

This special episode looks back at the most powerful moments from Startup Dad in 2025. Host Adam Fishman reflects on a year of raw, honest conversations with 46 founders, operators, and leaders who are also Dads (and sometimes, Moms) navigating the chaos of startup life while raising families.From redefining balance and sharing mental load to leading through crises and building parenting systems that actually work, this episode captures the hard-earned wisdom from a community trying to do both: build companies and raise kids without losing their minds. We discussed: What balance really means: Why Startup Dad guests reject work-life balance in favor of integration, trade-offs, and showing up fully wherever they are.Systems that protect what matters: From calendar blocks to structured rituals, the frameworks Dads use to stay present and sane.Raising resilient kids: Why letting kids fail, struggle, and make decisions is key to building confidence and grit.Mental load and invisible work: How Dads are learning to share not just chores, but the cognitive labor of running a household – and how far we still have to go.Building true partnerships: What it takes to communicate clearly, divide responsibilities, and support each other in parenting and work.Letting kids lead: From college choices to daily decisions; why modern fatherhood means preparing kids to own their path.Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Startup Dad’s biggest year yet and what’s coming next(02:12) Why balance is a myth and integration is the goal(09:23) Letting kids struggle so they grow stronger(13:54) When everything falls apart and you keep going anyway(21:55) What it really means to be the lead parent(25:41) The invisible work that’s burning parents out(30:05) Tech boundaries that actually work at home(37:37) Guardrails for parenting when you’re tired and overwhelmed(44:31) Becoming a dad doesn’t happen all at once(47:05) Helping your kid own their journey after high school(50:09) Making marriage and startups work at the same time(52:10) Why you need a village (even if it’s a group chat)Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Daniel Borok is a Managing Partner at nvp capital, an early-stage venture firm investing in founders building the next generation of vertical AI companies. With a focus on B2B applications, Dan spends his days meeting visionary entrepreneurs, making high-conviction bets at the pre-seed and seed stages, and helping early teams build durable companies. Before nvp, he held operating and investing roles across finance and tech, giving him a sharp eye for both product-market fit and founder grit.But Dan’s most demanding portfolio companies might be his two young kids. He and his wife, Abby, a real estate investor, are raising their family in Manhattan’s West Village, just blocks from where he grew up. Whether he’s sprinting to catch the school bus, navigating dual-career logistics, or caddying for his daughter in junior golf tournaments, Daniel brings the same thoughtful, systems-driven mindset to parenting as he does to investing. We discussed:Why mornings are sacred: How Daniel and his wife start every day as a family, despite their busy careers.Balancing careers and family: From nannies to grandparent backup, Dan shares how they manage the scheduling puzzle.Letting kids fail on the golf course: Dan reflects on caddying for his daughter and learning to let go of control.Raising kids in New York City: Why Dan believes the city is one of the best places for kids to grow up.The importance of practice at work and home: Lessons from sports that translate into career and parenting growth.Why he tracks family time like OKRs: Dan shares the analog system he uses to ensure he’s prioritizing what matters most.Where to find Daniel BorokLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dborok/ X: https://x.com/danielborokWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Daniel Borok, Managing Partner at nvp capital(02:10) Balancing two careers in a dual-working household(04:35) How the family manages childcare and travel schedules(07:10) Starting a family later in life(08:45) Raising kids in Manhattan vs. the suburbs(14:40) The family’s big sports focus and weekend logistics(17:34) Dan’s experience as his daughter’s golf caddy(20:12) Most surprising parts of parenting(23:43) How Dan thinks about tech exposure for his kids(26:26) Using a weekly checklist like OKRs for parenting(30:35) How he uses AI to reflect on weekly habits(35:01) How he uses AI tools with his kids(37:39) Helping kids discover their passions(39:31) Applying sports practice frameworks to venture investing(42:03) Lightning round: walkie-talkies, golf tees, dishwasher chaosResources From This Episode:nvp capital: https://nvpcap.com/ The Disengaged Teen (Book by Jenny Anderson and Rebecca Winthrop): https://www.thedisengagedteen.com/ Training a Tiger (Book by Earl Woods): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/546636.Training_a_Tiger Atomic Habits (Book by James Clear): https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits Scooby Doo, Where Are You! (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0063950/ Bunk’d (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4591680/ The Goonies (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/ iPad: https://www.apple.com/ph/ipad/ —Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Oji Udezue is an AI Product Expert at ProductMind, and a veteran product leader with more than 25 years of experience across Typeform, Twitter, Calendly, Atlassian, Bridgewater, and Microsoft. He’s known for his deep thinking on product craft, leadership, and the future of work. He’s also the co-author (with his wife, Ezinne Udezue)  of Building Rocket Ships, a guide for builders and operators navigating high-stakes decision-making in fast-moving environments.In this episode, we explore Oji’s philosophy on parenting through the lens of resilience, how it’s shaped, why it matters, and the role adversity plays in preparing kids for the real world. Oji shares a perspective informed by his multicultural upbringing, his frameworks for fostering independence, and the intentional choices he and his wife have made while raising two teenagers in a dual-career household. We discussed:Building resilience: What resilience means to Oji and why discomfort and challenge are essential for kids.Independence through decisions: How his 10,000-hour framework helps kids practice choice-making and responsibility.Learning through mistakes: Why micro-failures matter and how parents can stop rescuing children from small consequences.Kids as expanders: How children rise to expectations and adapt when treated as capable from an early age.Shepherding, not owning: Why parents should guide their kids’ path rather than shape them as extensions of themselves.Balancing careers and family: How he and his wife navigate dual careers and maintain steady routines and connections.Where to find Oji UdezueLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ojiudezue/ X: https://x.com/ojiudezueWebsite: https://www.productmind.co/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Oji Udezue(03:12) Starting a family while holding high-pressure, fast-growing careers(05:26) Early parenting years: maintaining identity and bringing kids into adult life(07:16) Defining resilience and why modern parenting often gets it wrong(10:45) The 10,000 hours of independent decisions framework(13:16) Lessons from Nigerian boarding school and developing early autonomy(17:15) Letting kids fail safely: micro-failures, consequences, and growth(19:51) Evaluating resilience through reactions under pressure(22:31) Kids and career visibility: why children don’t care what you do for work(24:27) Individuation: why Oji’s teens want their own paths, not his(26:21) Rituals, routines, and staying connected in a dual-career household(28:13) Advice for new parents: clarity of purpose, instinct, and overcoming fear(31:17) Core parenting frameworks: oxygen mask, expanders, and shepherds(43:10) AI, technology, and raising creative lateral thinkers in a changing world(50:19) Lightning round: humor, parenting quirks, and closing reflectionsResources From This Episode:Building Rocket Ships (Book by Oji Udezue & Ezinne Udezue): https://a.co/d/0nMe2WM  ProductMind (Substack Newsletter): https://productmind.substack.com/ ProductMind.co (Website): https://productmind.co/ Lenny’s Podcast (Episode featuring Oji & Ezinne): https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/how-ai-is-reshaping-the-product-roleThe Time Machine (Book by H.G. Wells): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2493.The_Time_MachineTypeform: https://www.typeform.com/Calendly: https://calendly.com/Atlassian: https://www.atlassian.com/Bridgewater Associates: https://www.bridgewater.com/Microsoft: https://www.microsoft.com/Amazon Echo: https://www.amazon.com/echo Big Hero 6 (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2245084/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Allison Daminger is an Assistant Professor of Sociology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where she specializes in gender, family dynamics, and social inequality. She’s also the author of What’s on Her Mind: The Mental Workload of Family Life, which explores the often invisible cognitive labor that drives the daily operations of households.In this episode, we talk about the concept of cognitive labor, how it’s defined, why it’s disproportionately placed on women in heterosexual partnerships, and the emotional and mental toll it takes. Allison shares insights from her years of research, including interviews with over 170 individuals in diverse family structures, shedding light on how cognitive labor impacts both professional and personal lives. We discussed:What is Mental Load and Cognitive Labor: Defining and explaining these concepts and her research.Understanding cognitive labor: How the mental work of anticipating needs, making decisions, and following through often falls disproportionately on women.Real-world examples: The everyday household tasks where cognitive labor shows up and how couples can divide this invisible work more equally.The Superhuman and The Bumbler: How gendered expectations shape household dynamics, with women often taking on the “Superhuman” role and men the “Bumbler” role.Breaking the mental load myth: Why cognitive labor isn’t about personality traits but about societal pressures and norms that influence how responsibilities are shared at home.Strategies for rebalancing: Practical ways couples can collaborate on household responsibilities, including setting up routines, improving communication, and managing expectations.Where to find Allison DamingerLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/allisondaminger/ Website: https://www.allisondaminger.com/Substack: https://allisondaminger.substack.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Allison Daminger, assistant professor of sociology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison(02:44) Defining cognitive labor in the home and workplace(04:27) Real-life examples of cognitive labor(07:56) The invisible mental load: What it means for parents(13:42) Research on cognitive labor and family dynamics(19:53) Household dynamics and gender roles in domestic labor(26:01) Rationalizing the imbalance in cognitive labor at home(46:56) Exploring gender roles in household leadership(48:11) Motherhood and cognitive labor: The unseen work(48:43) Ideologies vs realities of balanced households(49:15) Career dynamics and household roles: The juggling act(49:54) Challenges in achieving cognitive labor equality(55:04) Balanced households: Structures for satisfaction(01:15:36) Personal insights and reflections on cognitive labor(01:27:47) Lightning Round: Final Thoughts and Quick TipsResources From This Episode:What's On Her Mind (Book by Allison Daminger): https://www.amazon.com/Whats-Her-Mind-Mental-Workload/dp/069124538X The Daminger Dispatch (Newsletter): https://allisondaminger.substack.com/ The Second Shift (Book by Arlie Hochschild): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/51848.The_Second_Shift Fair Play (Book by Eve Rodsky): https://www.amazon.com/Fair-Play-Game-Changing-Solution-When/dp/0525541942 Love To Dream Swaddle: https://lovetodream.com/ The Little Mermaid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097757/ University of Wisconsin, Madison: https://www.wisc.edu/NYT Wirecutter: https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/gifts/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jamie Nacht is the co-founder and CEO of Havium, a company he built from the ground up with his wife and co-founder, Cristin. Together, they’re raising two young kids while juggling the nonstop realities of startup life, marriage, and modern parenting, all as a fully integrated team.In this episode, Jamie shares his honest and often hilarious take on building a company with your spouse, creating parenting systems that actually work, and why sometimes the best way to help your kid process big emotions is to scream right along with them. We discussed: The value of routines and structure: How simple systems like Pizza Friday and bedtime rituals help reduce friction and create predictability for young kids.Why “screaming it out” works: Jamie shares how he defuses tantrums by yelling alongside his kids, helping them process their emotions without shame.Teaching negotiation and responsibility: From chore taxes to bedtime story debates, Jamie’s approach helps his kids understand how the world really works.Practicing perspective as a parenting superpower: Whether it’s a hard week at work or spilled art projects, Jamie explains how he reframes moments to build resilience.“Anything is possible” parenting: How Jamie’s confidence borders on delusional (his wife’s words), and why he’s intentionally passing that belief on to his kids.Where to find Jamie NachtLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamienacht/ Website: https://havium.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jamie Nacht, co-founder and CEO of Havium(01:56) Building a startup with your spouse while raising kids(06:58) Parenting frameworks that actually work(07:05) Why perspective is Jamie’s superpower(09:32) How much of your kid’s personality is already baked in(15:06) Pretending to be a mermaid changed my parenting(27:51) Teaching negotiation and real-world responsibility(33:34) Your kids hear everything (even when you think they don’t)(35:57) The rule we use for yelling in our house(37:25) Giving kids tech that’s just annoying enough(40:04) Using AI to make custom coloring books for your kids(42:51) Why my in-laws moved 5 minutes away(48:09) The bond with your kid doesn’t always start right away(51:58) What I hope my kids learn from me(56:35) Lightning Round: Must-haves, Laughs, and Dad hacksResources From This Episode:Havium: https://havium.com/Do Not Ring Doorbell Sign: https://a.co/d/4AK9A3j Amazon Fire 7 Kids Tablet: https://a.co/d/glUlvO5 Bluey (TV Show): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7678620/ Sword In The Stone (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0057546/ Ferris Bueller’s Day Off (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091042/ The Little Mermaid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5971474/Migration: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6495056/?ref_=fn_t_1Kia EV: https://www.kia.com/us/en/ev—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Dave Simnick is the founder and CEO of Soapbox, a company with a mission to provide personal care products while donating soap to those in need. He's also a husband and the father of a one-year-old son, Noah.Listen to the whole episode for an amazing discount code at Soapbox! In this episode, Dave shares insights about the changes he faced when becoming a parent and how he’s adjusted his role as a CEO to manage his new responsibilities at home. We talked about the systems he and his wife have in place, the challenges of balancing work and parenting, and his personal frameworks for being a present and intentional Dad. We discussed:Parenting adjustments: How becoming a dad led Dave to shift his focus and say no to professional commitments to be more present with his son.Family support systems: The importance of clear communication and shared responsibilities with his wife to manage their dual-working household.Time management lessons: How being a parent has made Dave more intentional with his time, balancing professional and personal priorities.Parenting frameworks: The trifecta of clear communication, consistent boundaries, and overflowing affection, all modeled after his experience in education.Leadership lessons from fatherhood: How watching Noah learn to walk has taught Dave about perseverance and leadership.Where to find Dave SimnickLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidsimnick/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidsimnick/Soapbox: https://www.soapboxsoaps.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Dave Simnick, founder and CEO at Soapbox, and Dad of one(02:12) Preparing for fatherhood as a CEO(05:47) Adjusting time management after becoming a parent(07:07) Saying no to professional commitments for family time(09:05) Balancing work and parenting responsibilities(11:12) Family systems for a dual-working household(13:39) Learning from being a parent: the surprising aspects(15:36) Time management hacks post-parenthood(17:04) Parenting frameworks: communication, boundaries, and affection(19:36) Embracing imperfection in parenting(22:39) Leadership lessons from fatherhood(25:09) Advice for younger self about parenting(30:53) Parenting disagreements and challenges(33:00) Soapbox’s mission and global impact(37:10) Parenting superpower: joy(41:00) Lightning Round: Parenting hacks and travel tipsResources From This Episode:Soapbox: https://www.soapboxsoaps.com/ Teach for America: https://www.teachforamerica.org/ Bum Brush (Poop Spatula): https://a.co/d/2ONUFid Bluey: https://www.bbc.co.uk/cbeebies/shows/bluey Mulan: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1856101/ The Sandlot: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108037/Kia Carnival: https://www.kia.com/us/en/carnivalKia Telluride: https://www.kia.com/us/en/telluride Mike Malloy’s episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJ9K0oR1nt4Discount code: startupdad15Baby Brezza: https://babybrezza.com/Tulum: https://www.tulum.com/Little Blue Truck: https://www.littlebluetruckbooks.com/books/—Support Startup DadFor sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Chet Kittleson, serial founder and co-founder of Tin Can, an analog phone for kids that helps families stay connected without screens. He’s also a dad of three, building a hardware company from his kitchen table while raising a young family in Seattle.Chet opens up about the inspiration behind Tin Can, how his childhood landline shaped the idea, and why he believes kids need more analog connections in a digital world. He talks candidly about the challenge of being “distracted dad” while building something he’s intensely passionate about, how he and his wife run their household like a startup, and why learning to unplug is still a daily work in progress. We discussed: Creating balance at home: The systems, boundaries, and frameworks that help Chet stay grounded as a founder and father.Lessons from failure and obsession: What Chet’s learned about being present when work and family both demand everything.The art of analog parenting: How Chet and his wife teach their kids healthy relationships with technology and boredom.Raising kids is like running a business: From household “OKRs” to making space for unstructured family time.Hope for the next generation: Why Chet believes we’re entering an analog revival and what it means for parents raising digital natives.Where to find Chet Kittleson:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ckittleson/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tincan.kids/Tin Can: https://tincan.kids/  Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Chet Kittleson(02:31) The childhood inspiration that sparked the idea for Tin Can(11:13) Finding balance between family life and startup life(13:38) Lessons learned from building, failing, and trying again(16:21) Partnering in parenting and business with his wife(21:34) Building Tin Can from an idea to a real product(35:22) How parenting priorities shift as kids grow(36:16) What team dynamics look like inside a family-led startup(37:14) Early prototypes and how the family helped shape Tin Can(38:50) Seeing kids’ real reactions to the analog phone(40:02) Teaching kids to balance tech time and real-world connection(46:38) Finding optimism and practical solutions for modern parenting challenges(50:11) How to support Tin Can’s mission to connect families(53:10) Lightning round: paper calendars, dad hacks, and dishwasher rulesResources From This Episode:Tin Can: https://tincan.kids/ Paper calendar: https://a.co/d/dbPXEsG Brooks: https://www.brooksrunning.com/ The Anxious Generation (book): https://www.anxiousgeneration.com/ Brick (app): https://getbrick.app/ The Hundred-Foot Journey: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2980648/ Chef: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2883512/ Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/ The Mighty Ducks: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104868/ Honey, I Shrunk the Kids: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0097523/ Freaky Friday: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0322330/ Freakier Friday: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31956415/ The Parent Trap: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120783/ Little Big League: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110363/ Rookie of the Year: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0107985/ The Green Mile: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120689/ Rewind & Play: ABC The Millennial Way (book): https://a.co/d/6GI6tdC Tween Magazine: https://tweenmag.com/ —For sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Colin Anawaty, technologist and founder of Flying A Capital. He’s also a single dad of two boys, navigating the challenges of fatherhood and entrepreneurship after divorce.Colin opens up about how his kids have become his greatest teachers, why he believes accountability and independence should start young, and how joining a men’s group helped him prioritize relationships, including the one with himself. From Montessori principles to Mario Kart lessons, Colin shares how parenting frameworks and founder mindsets overlap in surprising ways. We discussed: Parenting through divorce: What it’s like to reset life as a single dad and how his kids’ resilience has inspired him.Learning from mistakes: How modeling vulnerability and apologizing to his kids has built trust and maturity.Resilience vs fragility: Why Colin believes kids are more robust than we give them credit for.Why no dad has it all figured out: Colin’s honest take on navigating career, parenting, and personal growth.The role of technology and AI: From skepticism to playful experiments, turning kids’ crayon drawings into Pixar-style characters.Where to find Colin Anawaty:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/colinanawaty/ X: https://x.com/colinInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/colinanawaty/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Colin Anawaty(02:13) Adjusting to life as a single dad of two young boys(05:37) Why Colin joined a men’s group and what he learned(09:43) Taking stock of good and bad parenting lessons from past generations(11:49) Kids as teachers and the power of apologizing as a dad(14:31) Why kids are more resilient than we think(16:29) Teaching accountability at an early age(20:22) Montessori principles at home: independence, structure, fewer toys(23:50) Parenting lessons from Mario Kart and screen time boundaries(28:22) Bonding through haircut sessions with his boys(31:27) Helping his 6-year-old overcome fear of surfing(33:51) Social media dangers for kids and for parents(37:43) What relationship Colin wants his kids to have with technology(40:54) Using AI for parenting frameworks and creative projects(46:17) Why no dad has it all figured out(49:10) Lightning round: Parenting gear, funniest moments, and dad quirksResources From This Episode:5 Types of Wealth by Sahil Bloom: https://a.co/d/0H7Evju The Big Book of Silly Jokes for Kids: https://a.co/d/12730G0 The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be: https://a.co/d/ji8u48g The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year: https://a.co/d/chjTYyA Montessori Method: https://montessori.org/ Dad Jokes Instagram (Logan Lisle): https://www.instagram.com/loganlisle/ Potty Training Seat: https://a.co/d/54kwn6oLEGO: https://www.lego.com/ The Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/ Endless Summer: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0060371/ Swiss Family Robinson: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0054357/ Cars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/ The Grinch: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2709692/ Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/ Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087469/ Nintendo Switch: https://www.nintendo.com/switch/ Duke Nukem: https://2k.com/games/duke-nukem/20th-anniversary/ Super Mario Bros: https://mario.nintendo.com/characters/ Mario Kart: https://mariokart8.nintendo.com/ Milo and Chip: https://www.youtube.com/@miloandchip/videos Athena Health: https://www.athenahealth.com/Alex’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OOa9mS-CIuQJosh Jones-Dilworth & Culturati: https://culturati.info/—For sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Chad Pytel is the founder and CEO of thoughtbot, a product development consultancy, and co-founder of 12 Sided Studios, a gaming and production company. He’s also the longtime host of the Giant Robots Smashing Into Other Giant Robots podcast, a husband, and the father of two teenagers.In this episode, Chad and I talk about raising kids while running companies, blending family life with creative projects, and the importance of designing systems at home, just as you would at work. He shares stories about parenting teenagers, shaping company culture around sustainable pace, and why even the smallest rituals matter when time with your kids feels fleeting. We discussed:Building systems at home: How collaborating with his kids on routines turned daily battles into shared ownership.Parenting teenagers with balance: Why being relaxed, supportive, and flexible helped his kids thrive through responsibility and independence.Dinner as a cornerstone: The daily ritual that kept his family connected through the busiest startup years.Redefining company culture: How Thoughtbot built practices like sustainable pace and four-day client weeks to make room for life outside of work.Embracing differences: The importance of parenting each child as an individual, not a template, and adjusting expectations along the way.Where to find Chad PytelLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cpytel/ X: https://x.com/cpytelWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Chad Pytel, founder and CEO at thoughtbot and dad of two(04:37) Exploring the aging space with AI(06:06) Starting a gaming and production company(08:43) Navigating teenage years(18:33) Balancing work and family life(19:23) Sustainable pace and company culture(23:48) Parenting realizations(24:56) Frameworks for parenting(25:21) Daily routines and systems(27:17) Sunday date concept(29:50) Parenting styles and screen time(35:34) Halloween traditions(37:37) Keeping up with the Joneses(41:19) Lightning Round: Being a relaxed and reasonable dadResources From This Episode:Giant Robots Smashing Into Other Giant Robots (Podcast): https://podcast.thoughtbot.com/thoughtbot: https://thoughtbot.com/12 Sided Studios: https://12sidedstudios.com/ Critical Role (Actual Play Series): https://critrole.com/ Dimension 20 (Actual Play Series): https://www.dropout.tv/dimension-20 American Society on Aging: https://www.asaging.org/ Wall-E (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0910970/Monty Python and the Holy Grail (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0071853/Kia Rondo (Car Model): https://www.edmunds.com/kia/rondo/ thoughtbot: https://thoughtbot.com/ 12 Sided Studios: https://12sidedstudios.com/ —For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jonathan Jamil, founder and CEO of Springboard, shares his story of growing up in a two-bedroom apartment with six family members, building a business powered by stay-at-home moms, and raising two daughters while redefining what success means.In this episode, Jonathan opens up about his entrepreneurial journey, the lessons he has carried from his upbringing, and the realities of being a dad and founder at the same time. We discussed:Why work-life balance doesn’t exist: Jonathan explains why he believes balance is a myth, and instead focuses on being fully presentRedefining success as a father and founder: He shares how his definition of success shifted from chasing cars and houses to prioritizing comfort, family health, and presence.Breaking generational patterns with love: From hugs to family vacations, Jonathan reflects on how intentional affection and kindness help him parent differently than he was raised.Partnership and parenting: He talks about how he and his wife share the load, why he ignores outdated cultural norms around gender roles in parenting, and the promise he kept to support her becoming a stay-at-home mom.Why nice guys don’t finish last: Jonathan describes how leading with empathy and kindness has shaped Springboard’s culture, strengthened client trust, and fueled growth.Where to find Jonathan JamilLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jjthatcxguy/ Springboard: https://www.springboardhq.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejonathanjamil/ X: https://x.com/jjthatcxguyWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Welcome Jonathan Jamil(03:55) Starting Springboard and working with stay-at-home moms(06:41) Why Springboard never posts job listings(08:33) Building a business while raising a newborn(10:19) Why work-life balance doesn’t exist(13:27) Redefining success as a dad(14:46) Why you can’t parent alone without community(16:06) Advice to his younger self before becoming a dad(18:23) Never stop dating your wife(20:35) The power of vacation and taking breaks(24:14) His simple fatherhood framework: Show up, listen, love(26:22) Espresso-fueled speeding ticket during the colic phase(28:54) Parenting disagreements: Screen time and sugar(30:56) Tech boundaries and raising daughters in a digital world(32:55) Using AI to plan family vacations(34:39) Why “nice guys finish last” is a myth(37:14) Lightning round: Parenting wins and toy assembly failsResources from this episode:Jambys: https://www.jambys.com/Disney Store: https://www.disneystore.com/toys-plush/toys/ Lime Green Bed Sheets: https://www.amazon.com/Lime-Green-Bedding/s?k=Lime+Green+BeddingCocomelon: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbCmjCuTUZos6Inko4u57UQWreck-It Ralph: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1772341/Ratatouille: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0382932/Home Alone: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099785/ The Santa Clause: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111070/Play-Doh: https://shop.hasbro.com/en-ca/play-dohToyota Sienna: https://www.toyota.com/sienna/Siqi Chen’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2Nm5Mkj0s0Cape May: https://www.capemay.com/Ocean City: https://www.ocnj.us/Rehoboth Beach: https://www.rehobothbeachde.gov/Disney World: https://disneyworld.disney.go.com/UPPAbaby: https://uppababy.com/Boppy: https://www.boppy.com/Jamby’s: https://www.jambys.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, I sit  down with Adam Lieb, the founder and CEO of Gamesight, a marketing technology company that helps video game studios connect with players and launch their biggest titles. Adam started his first gaming business at just 11 years old and has spent his entire career building in the industry ever since.As a dad of 11-year-old twins and husband to Camille, a lawyer who now leads the legal team at Gamesight, Adam shares what it’s like to grow a company and a family at the same time. From the challenges of raising twins to why he doesn’t believe in separating work mode from dad mode, Adam offers an honest look at the overlap of parenting and entrepreneurship. We discussed: Raising twins while building a company: Why he compares it to running three startups at once.The sleep training strategy: How it became the most important defensive move for survival with twins.Work mode vs dad mode: Why Adam believes in being the same person everywhere.AI at home: Creative ways his kids use AI for learning, projects, and fun.The mantra “show up and try”: Why presence is the foundation for leadership and parenting.Where to find Adam Lieb:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamslieb/ X: https://x.com/adamslieb Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Adam Lieb(02:16) What Gamesight does and how Adam started in gaming(05:32) Raising 11-year-old twins with his wife, Camille(07:38) Running “three startups” at once: company and twins(09:34) Working with his wife inside the business(10:01) What’s unique about having twins, and why sleep training mattered(16:05) Why doesn’t Adam separate dad mode and work mode(18:30) Cheering from the baseball field while sending emails(20:13) The mantra that guides parenting and leadership: show up and try(24:30) Lessons learned since becoming a dad and mistakes along the way(26:17) The balance between coaching your kids and supporting them(29:16) Aligning with his wife on parenting philosophy(31:29) Setting limits on video games and tech at home(39:46) Raising kids with AI and creative projects they’ve built(47:16) Lightning round: indispensable products, useless gear, quirks, and dad superpowersResources From This Episode:Gamesight: https://gamesight.io/ Collapsible Wagon: a.co/d/dmFVnSI Table For Two: https://buytablefortwo.com/ Alexa: https://alexa.amazon.com/ Happy Gilmore: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116483/Happy Gilmore 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31868189/ The Lord Of The Rings: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120737/ —For sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Rishabh Jain, the CEO of FERMÀT Commerce, a company he launched when his oldest daughter was just a few weeks old. He’s also a husband and father of two kids under the age of four.In this conversation, Rishabh shares why he believes parenthood actually makes entrepreneurship easier, how he manages family life alongside scaling startups, and the frameworks that help him stay focused and balanced. We discussed:Starting a company as a parent: Why Rishabh believes kids force you to prioritize what really matters.Advice to colleagues: Why he seriously tells stressed-out founders to “have kids” and how it improves their work.Family as an anchor: How a strong marriage allows him to take big risks in his professional life.Balance through kids: How playing, creating, and connecting at home helps him show up sharper at work.Technology in parenting: Using AI and voice assistants to answer kids’ questions and prepare them for a tech-driven world.Where to find Rishabh JainLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rishabhmjain/ X: https://x.com/rishabhmjain The Intelligent Marketer: https://www.intelligentmarketerpod.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Rishabh Jain(02:10) Why starting a company as a parent is easier(05:14) Advice to stressed-out colleagues: “Have kids”(07:18) Traveling internationally with toddlers(09:44) Hacks for surviving long flights with young kids(12:40) Starting FERMÀT Commerce with a newborn at home(16:56) Why kids should see parents doing what they love(18:21) Raising expectations of adults and patience with kids(21:02) Morning routines for balance and presence(25:56) How time with kids makes work more energizing(33:25) Technology and AI as parenting tools(41:35) Lightning Round: Dad superpowers, minivans, and moreResources From This Episode:FERMÀT Commerce: https://www.fermatcommerce.com/ The Bum Brush:  https://www.amazon.com/Bumco-Diaper-Cream-Spatula-Mom-Invented/dp/B00LYQ53JW What to Expect When You’re Expecting: ​​https://www.amazon.com/What-Expect-When-Youre-Expecting/dp/0761187480 Twitter: @rishabhmjainRishabh’s Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-rishabh-jain-show-marketing-podcast-for/id1656571291Rishabh’s Website: https://www.therishabhjain.com/Zootopia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2948356/ Lion King: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0110357/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1 Iron Man: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0371746/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1 VW Electric Bus: https://www.vw.com/en/models/id-buzz.html —For sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Zach Teutsch is the founder of Values Added Financial, and a former leader at the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. He’s also a husband, father of two, and a master of weaving big-picture life principles into day-to-day parenting.In this episode, Zach and I talk about building independence in kids, creating household shortcuts to reduce decision fatigue, and why boredom is one of the best gifts you can give your children. He shares his unique frameworks for parenting, money, relationships, and emotional resilience. We discussed:Parenting with the end in mind: Zach shares how picturing his kids as independent, kind 18-year-olds shapes his daily parenting choices and guides when to step back versus step in.Fostering independence and confidence: Why letting kids take on age-appropriate challenges, from solo store trips to handling money, builds resilience and reduces anxiety.Teaching money through experience: Zach’s allowance and charitable giving system helps kids make “safe” mistakes and understand value, trade-offs, and generosity.You can’t change feelings: The science behind why emotions can’t be reasoned away in the moment, and how validating kids’ experiences builds trust and emotional maturity.Boredom as a virtue: How slowing down, resisting screens, and embracing quiet moments leads to more creativity, mindfulness, and deeper connections.Where to find Zach TeutschLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/zach-teutsch/ Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/zteutsch.bsky.social Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Zach Teutsch, founder at Values Added and dad of two(02:58) Parenting with the end in mind(04:25) Raising confident, independent kids(12:02) Teaching kids about money early(17:48) Why you can’t change feelings(26:52) Advice Zach wishes he had(31:22) Being your kids’ emotional go-to(32:38) Simple rules for parenting(33:43) The power of showing up(36:25) Boredom as a parenting superpower(38:45) Being a kid is hard(42:44) Relationship principles that work(49:09) Talking AI with your kids(53:10) Lightning round: parenting wins, fails, and quirksResources From This Episode:How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1451663889 Bluey (TV Series): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7678620/ My Cousin Vinny (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104952/ Claude AI: https://claude.ai/ Values Added Financial: https://valuesaddedfinancial.com/ Consumer Financial Protection Bureau: https://www.consumerfinance.gov/complaint/Carla’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcrzFhbeIVsLaw & Order SVU: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0203259/George Kinder: https://www.georgekinder.com/Duolingo: https://www.duolingo.com/ @[email protected]: https://www.mayoclinic.org/drugs-supplements-melatonin/art-20363071 —For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jeremy King, co-founder and CEO of Ocean Orchestra and former CEO of Attest, shares his journey as a founder, ocean advocate, and father of two daughters.In this episode, Jeremy opens up about building systems for both his family and his startups, why ocean conservation is personal to him, and how parenting has informed his leadership style. We discussed:Blending startup leadership with family life: Jeremy reveals how he and his wife, both busy professionals, use calendar “parenting time” to protect family routines. He explains why blocking time for his daughters on the calendar is non-negotiable.Parenting by design, not default: From food to sleep schedules, Jeremy shares how he applies science and structure to family life. He talks about the influence of the book Save Our Sleep and the “no choices on food” philosophy that’s helped his kids develop adventurous tastes.Impact at home and beyond: Jeremy discusses his role as chair and board member at Reach Two, a UK nonprofit transforming primary schools. He reflects on how improving outcomes for kids at scale has changed his perspective on equity, systems, and the basics that matter at home and in education.Adventures, travel, and core memories: The Kings’ family travels stretch from London to Melbourne, and Jeremy shares practical advice for surviving epic flights with little kids. He also highlights the moments that matter most like standing up for your child in the big moments, and creating core memories that build trust and resilience.Technology, ocean advocacy, and looking ahead: As a founder working at the intersection of tech and conservation, Jeremy discusses how he wants to introduce his daughters to technology, why he’s bullish on AI for ocean impact, and how parenting is shaping his approach to building solutions for the planet.Where to find Jeremy KingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremykingjk/ Website: https://www.askattest.com/ Ocean Orchestra: https://www.oceanorchestra.ai Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jeremy King(01:33) From business to marine life(03:24) Nature's lessons for business(06:28) Parenting strategies for busy professionals(09:35) Improving UK education(16:04) Long flights tips for traveling with kids(19:53) Unique accents and vocabulary(22:51) Parenting principles: no food choices(24:49) Favorite foods and cultural influences(26:11) Parenting principles: standing up for your kids(27:05) Birthday party drama(29:56) Technology and kids(34:51) AI in parenting(37:05) Playground adventures(39:28) Sea otter presentation(42:34) Lightning Round: Groclocks and Magic Misties Magical Crystal BallResources from this episode:Groclock: https://www.tommeetippee.com/en-gb/product/groclock-sleep-trainer-clockDog Man: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10954718/The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/Flight of the Navigator: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0091059/Magic Mixies Magical Crystal Ball: https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Mixies-S2-Crystal-Ball/dp/B09Q4B7CZH?th=1Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0357413/ Attest: https://www.askattest.com/ Reach Two: https://www.reach2.org/ Ben William’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p5ex9UczN5w Harvard: http://harvard.edu/ MIT: https://www.mit.edu/Kindle: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNVCQZG1?ref_=MARS_NAVSTRIPE_desktop_kindle_kindle&th=1 Finding Dory: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2277860/ Mckinsey: https://www.mckinsey.com/Tizzie Hall, Save Our Sleep: https://www.saveoursleep.com/baby-whisperer/Church of England: https://www.churchofengland.org/ Angler Fish: https://www.mbari.org/animal/deep-sea-anglerfish/Henry VIII: https://www.royal.uk/henry-viiiMulti Academy Trust: https://alumnismat.org/multi-academy-trusts/NFL: https://www.nfl.com/Peppa Pig: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAOtE1V7Ots4DjM8JLlrYggClaude.ai—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

In this episode of Startup Dad, Adam Fishman sits down with Jeff Selingo, a bestselling author, journalist and education expert, to discuss the complexities of college admissions and how parents can help their kids find their "Dream School." Jeff has spent over two decades researching higher education and is the author of Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You, Who Gets in and Why: A Year Inside College Admissions, There Is Life After College: What Parents and Students Should Know About Navigating School to Prepare for the Jobs of Tomorrow, and College Unbound:  The Future of Higher Education and What it Means for Students.  As a dad of two nearly college-bound kids, Jeff offers a unique perspective on navigating the college decision-making process from the lens of a parent and expert. We discussed:Breaking down the college admissions process: Why it’s important to look beyond the Ivy League schools and focus on the best fit for your child.The concept of "Dream Schools": What makes a school the right fit and how to identify it.Parents' influence on the process: How societal pressures and the desire for prestige can shape college decisions.Finding value in education: The importance of ROI, Merit Aid, and balancing prestige with affordability.Tools for parents: Resources like the College Scorecard and how to use them to make informed decisions.Where to find Jeff SelingoLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffselingo/ X: https://x.com/jselingoInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jselingoWebsite: https://jeffselingo.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ X: https://x.com/fishmanafInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jeff Selingo(02:22) Inspiration behind Dream School(06:45) The college application boom(08:59) The role of colleges in the application frenzy(14:20) The Moneyball approach to college selection(18:49) Early decision and early action explained(23:17) Parents' role in college admissions(25:16) Research insights from 'Dream School'(28:54) Skipping over rankings(29:19) The value of college prestige(30:04) Choosing a major for the right reasons(31:51) Defining your dream school(33:14) Underappreciated factors in college fit(35:15) Addressing neurodiversity in college admissions(37:16) Examples of lesser-known dream schools(42:43) Future outlook on college education(50:55) Lightning Round: Quick takes on college myths and advice for parentsResources From This Episode:Dream School: Finding the College That's Right for You: https://jeffselingo.com/books/dreamschool/ College Confidential: https://collegeconfidential.com/ Reddit Threads on College Admissions: https://www.reddit.com/r/ApplyingToCollege/ Next Newsletter by Jeff Selingo: https://jeffselingo.com/next-newsletter/ Future U Podcast: https://www.futureupodcast.com/ Dickinson College: https://www.dickinson.edu/ St. Olaf College: https://wp.stolaf.edu/ Denison University: https://denison.edu/ Furman University: https://www.furman.edu/ Michigan State University: https://msu.edu/ Barrett Honors College at Arizona State University: https://barretthonors.asu.edu/ SEC: https://www.sec.gov/ Arizona State University: https://www.asu.edu/ Gordian Knot: https://www.britannica.com/topic/Gordian-knot Who Gets In and Why: https://jeffselingo.com/books/who-gets-in-and-why/Common App: https://www.commonapp.org/Us News and World Report: https://www.usnews.com/Bill Royall: https://news.vcu.edu/article/Bill_Royall_former_vice_rector_of_the_VCU_Board_of_Visitors_andMoneyball Book: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1301.MoneyballMoneyball Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1210166/New York Yankees: https://www.mlb.com/yankeesCollege Scorecard: https://collegescorecard.ed.gov/UCLA: https://www.ucla.edu/Harvard: https://www.harvard.edu/ Yale: https://www.yale.edu/ Princeton: https://www.princeton.edu/ Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/Ithaca College: https://www.ithaca.edu/Toy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/ —For sponsorship inquiries, email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Peter Kazanjy is the best-selling author of Founding Sales and co-founder of Atrium. He’s also a dad to a seven-year-old son, Michael, and husband to Tracy, a designer and entrepreneur.In this episode, Pete reflects on building companies, building capabilities, and building a family. He talks about the grit and perseverance behind their seven-round IVF journey, delivery room chaos, and how he now teaches his son to embrace responsibility, reduce entropy, and take pride in doing things well. We talked about: The road to parenthood: Pete shares his seven-round IVF journey, what he wishes he’d known sooner, and why he champions fertility education.Making time on purpose: Pete breaks down his calendar philosophy and how he builds in quality time, from Muni rides to museum visits.Raising with purpose: He talks about teaching values like grit and responsibility—whether it’s cleaning up after others or training for soccer.Tiger Light parenting: Pete models excellence without pressure, helping his son stick with hard things and celebrate progress.Why sound matters: He reflects on recording audio memories—and how a child’s voice can bring back moments photos can’t.Where to find Peter KazanjyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kazanjy/ X:  https://x.com/kazanjy   Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Pete Kazanjy(02:13) Pete’s family and personal life(06:20) The IVF journey to parenthood(13:00) Michael’s birth story(17:38) Balancing fatherhood and entrepreneurship(23:53) Instilling values and duty in children(27:02) The importance of grit and a growth mindset(34:53) Capturing memories: the power of audio(37:00) Balancing professional and personal life(41:52) Technology and parenting(55:05) Lightning round: silly stories and smart solutionsShow references:Founding Sales (book by Pete!): https://www.foundingsales.com/Atrium: https://www.atriumhq.com/ UCSF Center for Reproductive Health: https://fertility.ucsf.edu/ Modern Fertility: https://modernfertility.com/ 23andMe: https://www.23andme.com/ Exploratorium: https://www.exploratorium.edu/ California Academy of Sciences: https://www.calacademy.org/ The Goal by Eliyahu M. Goldratt: https://www.amazon.com/Goal-Process-Ongoing-Improvement/dp/0884271951/ The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni: https://www.tablegroup.com/product/the-five-dysfunctions-of-a-team/ The Phoenix Project: https://itrevolution.com/product/the-phoenix-project/ Use of Knowledge in Society by Friedrich Hayek: https://fee.org/articles/the-use-of-knowledge-in-society/ Brain Flakes: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00N8GWZ4M Lego: https://www.lego.com/ Blippi: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5PYHgAzJ1wLEidB58SK6Xw Avatar: The Last Airbender: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0417299/ Ghostbusters: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087332/ —For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

James Currier is a serial entrepreneur, founding partner at NFX, and a father of 4 boys. Known for his sharp insights into human behavior and startup dynamics, James brings that same clarity and intention to his parenting. He’s not just raising kids, he’s cultivating creators, adventurers, and independent thinkers.In this episode, James shares how he designed his family life with the same care and foresight as he would a startup. From helping his son sail solo across the Atlantic at 16, to building secret passageways in their home, James offers a deeply personal and practical look into parenting with purpose. We discussed:Parenting with realism and intention: James explains why he doesn’t take too much credit as a parent, and how genetics, not just parenting techniques, shape a child’s destiny. Parenting inevitably includes heartbreak, so embrace the ride without trying to control every outcome.Fostering entrepreneurship and self-reliance: James never gave allowances. Instead, he paid his kids a dollar for every new business idea and had them pitch startup concepts at the dinner table. Adventure and risk as tools for growth: Rather than shielding his kids from danger, James leaned into it. He saw risk as a necessary ingredient for confidence. His boys climbed 80-foot trees, explored Burning Man, and one even became the youngest person to sail solo across the Atlantic. The goal? Face the wild and learn who you are.The seven-to-one rule for feedback: James shares a powerful framework for encouraging positive behavior. For every one piece of correction, offer seven moments of genuine, specific positive reinforcement. It works for parenting and leadership.On technology, phones, and the limits of control: Despite thoughtful efforts, James admits that his kids were guinea pigs for the smartphone era. He reflects honestly on what worked, what didn’t, and why he believes delaying access to tech, and encouraging real-world adventure is more important than ever.Where to find James CurrierLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamescurrier/ X: https://x.com/jamescurrier Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing James Currier, general partner at NFX and dad of four(02:52) Fostering entrepreneurship in kids(05:19) The neuro camp initiative(06:47) Teaching kids about money and avoiding entitlement(14:12) The importance of a strong marriage(27:39) The importance of wilderness experiences(28:15) Learning new skills with your kids(29:50) Prioritizing individual time with each child(31:44) Building projects and secret layers(34:25) Focusing on who your kids hang out with(36:05) Positive reinforcement over reprimanding(38:59) Talking to kids like adults(42:03) The role of a dog in the family(43:20) Managing technology in the household(47:12) Lightning Round: Parenting insights and embarrassing momentsResources From This Episode:300 (Graphic Novel): https://www.amazon.com/300-Frank-Miller/dp/1569714029 300 (Film): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0416449/ White Noise Machine: https://a.co/d/6YqDwMMBaby Einstein: https://www.kids2.com/pages/baby-einsteinMadagascar: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0351283/Star Wars Episode IV: A New Hope: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0351283/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Mike Malloy is the founder of Malloy Industries, a firm that connects scaling entrepreneurs with vetted fractional executives. He's also a Georgetown professor, a husband, and the father of Max, the company's self-declared Chief Cuteness Officer. Mike’s life is an intersection of serious business systems and silly dad jokes, all woven together by an intentional approach to work-life integration.In this episode, Mike shares how building a business around his family values helped him show up better both as a parent and as a professional. We discussed:Parenting in public: From potty training during a client call to his son interrupting meetings to demand frisbee time, Mike embraces the chaos of parenting while working from home, and sometimes those interruptions help close deals.The transition to camp and growing independence: Mike opens up about the emotional milestone of sending his son to camp for the first time after three years of full-time care. Designing a business with family in mind: Mike started Malloy Industries not just to serve founders, but to reclaim his own time. After losing his mom and learning he was about to become a dad, he redesigned his business to run without relying solely on him, and has since built a network of 400+ fractional executives.Time-blocking and nightly maps: Mike walks us through his framework for managing energy and focus throughout the week, including why he blocks off Wednesday mornings for uninterrupted dad adventures.Dad jokes, magnet tiles, and parenting hacks: Whether he’s swapping jokes at the library or bringing a second monitor to Panera for a “crush-it day,” Mike brings levity and intentionality to every corner of life as a founder and a father.Where to find Mike MalloyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mwmalloy/ X: https://x.com/mwmalloyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mwmalloy/Website: https://malloyindustries.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Mike Malloy(02:35) Max the deal-closer and executive artist(04:50) First day of camp and emotional milestones(07:17) Starting Malloy Industries and the fractional future(10:07) Grieving his mom and preparing for fatherhood(14:28) The "who not how" mindset shift(15:35) Be where your feet are and present parenting(19:35) The great cheese stick negotiation(23:28) Pro dad hacks for books and lullabies(24:36) Time blocking and scheduling around energy(29:16) Monthly “crush it” days and managing flow(30:54) Nightly maps and intentional daily planning(34:37) The wooden box and tech boundaries(38:08) Chef Jacques and using AI to plan meals(41:18) Modeling tech habits and setting rules(43:56) Advice to his pre-dad self during nap traps(46:23) Lightning round: parenting quirks and dad jokesResources From This Episode:Daddy and Me: https://www.amazon.com/Daddy-Me-Tiya-Hall/dp/1680524526Never Touch a Porcupine: https://www.amazon.com/Never-Touch-Porcupine-Believe-Ideas/dp/1788439856A Crack in the Track (Thomas and Friends): https://www.amazon.com/Crack-Track-Thomas-Friends/dp/0375827552Fox is Coming!: https://www.amazon.com/Fox-Coming-James-Patterson/dp/0316572837Like a Boss Play Kit: https://shopping.mattel.com/en-gb/products/fisher-price-2-in-1-like-a-boss-activity-center-hbm26-en-gbLewis Library Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/lewisulibrary/Zootopia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2948356/Mickey Mouse Clubhouse: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0784896/Cars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/Blank Check: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0109287/Empire Records: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0112950/Santa Clause: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0111070/ Cal Newport: https://calnewport.com/Georgetown U: https://www.georgetown.edu/Who Not How: The Formula to Achieve Bigger Goals Through Accelerating Teamworkby Dan Sullivan, Benjamin Hardy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/who-not-how-dan-sullivan/1136703973The Daily Dad: 366 Meditations on Parenting, Love, and Raising Great Kidsby Ryan Holiday: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-daily-dad-ryan-holiday/1141941652Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Beby Becky Kennedy: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/good-inside-becky-kennedy/1140501121Nir Eyal’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GqogSRDhzeUNotion: https://www.notion.com/Door knob safety cover: https://www.amazon.com/Door-Knob-Covers-Child-Safety/dp/B071GWJX4DMuppet Babies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0086764/Super Wings: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3600266/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0_tt_8_nm_0_in_0_q_suoper%2520wingsToy Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114709/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_1_tt_7_nm_0_in_0_q_toy%2520storyGoofy Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0113198/?ref_=fn_all_ttl_1Mini Magnatiles: https://magnatiles.com/products/micromags-travel-set?srsltid=AfmBOopwJyPjVfhLblqNFq2f1QIUtupBKjvD0tqIrY8kydu8LlX00XYH—Help Support Startup Dad:For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch:

Michael Leibovich is the Head of Growth at Adobe, but at home, he’s dad to a curious two-and-a-half-year-old and husband to a full-time working partner. With a previous career as a touring musician and a current career in creative tech leadership at companies like Vimeo and Abstract, Michael brings an emotionally grounded, inventive lens to fatherhood.In this episode, Michael shares how parenting has reshaped his worldview from his leadership style at work to his daily routines at home. Patience in parenting and work: Michael reflects on the contrast between startup urgency and toddler-paced mornings. Learning to slow down and “trust the process” has become a guiding principle both at home and professionally.Changing the channel: One of Michael’s favorite frameworks for toddler meltdowns is simple: change the channel. Whether it’s bath-time resistance or cereal drama, he shares how quick pivots can shift the energy and restore peace.Tech meets parenting: Michael talks about building a custom AI-powered meal-planning app called Picky Eater to handle his daughter’s shifting food preferences, and how it's just one example of tech meeting real-life parenting.Parenting without Google: Instead of doomscrolling for answers, Michael and his wife formed a text thread with parents they admire. It’s a real-time advisory board filled with insight, lived experience, and calm advice.Music, creativity, and messy art: A former touring musician, Michael is intentional about nurturing creativity at home. From drum time to digitizing toddler scribbles, he shares how he’s creating space for curiosity.Where to find Mike LeibovichLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelleibovich/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Michael Leibovich(02:02) The patience of parenting a toddler(03:41) Balancing work and family life(05:13) Navigating toddler tantrums(07:44) Caring for aging parents(11:09) Nurturing creativity in children(14:41) The torrent of preschool artwork(16:38) Michael's musical journey(19:47) Transition from music to tech(20:38) Unique parenting advice approach(28:43) Emergency c-section and complications(31:55) First moments with daughter(34:40) Advice for expecting parents(42:23) Balancing parenting approaches(46:03) Technology and parenting(48:07) AI Solution for picky eaters(51:26) Advice to younger self(54:43) Lightning Round: Parenting products and hacksResources From This Episode:Fidget Spinner Suction Cup: https://www.amazon.com/Suction-Spinner-Sensory-Popping-Auditory/dp/B0BVGZGN3QNoseFrida: https://frida.com/products/nosefrida The Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/Back to the Future: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088763/Adobe: https://www.adobe.com/Behance: https://www.behance.net/AppFolio: https://www.appfolio.com/Vimeo: https://vimeo.com/Abstract: https://www.abstract.us/Ben Erez Episode: youtube.com/watch?v=st2qxaybgw8Severance: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11280740/Adobe Fresco: https://www.adobe.com/products/fresco.htmlPure Volume: https://www.purevolume.com/Napster: https://www.napster.com/us/Limewire: https://limewire.com/Cal Poly: https://www.calpoly.edu/Myspace Records: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MySpace_RecordsHanson: https://hanson.net/homeGin Blossoms: https://www.ginblossoms.net/Jimmy Eat World: https://www.jimmyeatworld.com/The Curious Case of Benjamin Button: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0421715/The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-giving-tree-shel-silverstein/1100830900Lovable: https://lovable.dev/Bolt: https://bolt.new/https://open.spotify.com/Crocs: https://www.crocs.com/—Support this podcast:For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Lauren Dugan and Neil Vidyarthi are the husband-and-wife co-founders of Feel Good Games, creators of Little Magic Stories, an AI storytelling platform designed to spark creativity and independence in kids. They’re also parents of two boys (ages 3 and 8), longtime partners in both life and work, and startup veterans bringing a playful, grounded perspective to the founder-parent journey.In this episode, Neil and Lauren talk about how parenting fuels their creativity, how they’ve evolved their marriage while running a company together, and why their son insists he’s the real CEO. We discussed:From bedtime stories to startup idea: How their son’s early-morning storytelling sessions inspired the vision for Little Magic Stories, and why they included him as “co-creators” from day one.Building a company with your spouse: What Neil and Lauren have learned about navigating startup stress, creative tension, and parenting chaos as co-founders and partners and the systems they use to stay grounded.Parenting with freedom and play: Why they embrace a “gardener not engineer” model of parenting, how they balance screen time and independence, and the moments that made them rethink control and creativity.The case for structured chaos: From timeboxing and project boards to flexible rituals and tag-team parenting, Neil and Lauren share the habits that help them stay focused while juggling business, marriage, and raising two kids.Redefining success as parent-founders: Why they believe having children has made them more ambitious, not less, and how they’ve reshaped their values around creativity, joy, and freedom.Where to find Lauren DuganLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurendugan/ X: https://x.com/lauren_dugan?lang=enhttps://www.instagram.com/laurencdugan/Where to find Neil VidyarthiLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilv/X: https://x.com/neilvidyarthiInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilv9999/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Neil Vidyarthi and Lauren Dugan(02:56) The dynamics of working with family(05:29) Balancing work and family life(13:52) Inspiration behind Feel Good Games(18:30) Advice for founders and parents(33:30) Parenting challenges and social media(34:20) Ash's CEO video(36:09) Parenting philosophies and boundaries(39:20) Kids and technology(43:12) Creative uses of AI in parenting(44:50) Parenting mistakes and lessons(47:59) Connecting with Feel Good Games(49:43) Lightning round: routines, quirks, and family timeShow references:Yoto: https://eu.yotoplay.com/Wipes Warmer: https://urbanessentials.com.ph/products/prince-lionheart-ultimate-wipes-warmer-dispenserGreat Wolf Lodge: https://www.greatwolf.com/Super Mario Brothers: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6718170/My Neighbor Totoro: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096283/The Karate Kid: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087538/Beetlejuice: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094721/Todoist: https://www.todoist.com/Polygon: https://www.polygon.com/Avail: https://www.avail.co/landlords/featuresFeel Good Games: https://www.feelgoodgames.xyz/Little Magic Stories: https://www.littlemagicstories.com/Robert Wolfe’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bsi-iOjodMPokemon: https://www.pokemon.com/usPomodoro: https://pomofocus.io/Time Boxing: https://clockify.me/timeboxingThe Freedom App: https://freedom.to/Jay Vidyarthi - Reclaim Your Mind: https://www.jayvidyarthi.com/Game of Thrones: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0944947/Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/Reed Hastings: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reed_HastingsArachnaphobia: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099052/The Tao of Parenting The Ageless Wisdom of Taoism and the Art of Raising Children By Greta K. Nagel: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/331083/the-tao-of-parenting-by-greta-k-nagel/Cry Babies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11067738/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Aaron White, founder of six companies including Appy People, Profitwell, Boundless and Blissfully discusses the intersection of startup life and fatherhood. In this episode, he shares how the challenges of becoming a parent have reshaped his approach to leadership, the unexpected lessons he's learned, and his evolving perspective on success. We discussed:The unpredictable journey of parenthood: Aaron talks about the trauma of his son’s premature birth, the shock of an emergency C-section, and the mental toll of navigating the NICU. Through it all, Aaron reflects on how he and his wife adapted, growing through the challenges and celebrating their son’s healthy arrival.The realities of modern parenting: With no extended family nearby, Aaron describes the strain of modern, nuclear family dynamics. He discusses the unnatural pressure on parents to "do it all" and the importance of asking for help, especially in those exhausting first few months. His mantra: don’t feel guilty about getting help.Learning new strengths as a parent: Parenting has brought out a new side of Aaron that he didn’t expect. He shares how he’s surprised himself with his patience, endurance, and the emotional connection he has developed with his son. Parenting has tested him in ways far beyond his previous experiences with endurance sports.Just say yes: Whether it’s career, parenthood, or life, Aaron advocates saying yes to opportunities. From taking on new projects to engaging with his son, he believes saying yes to difficult things leads to growth.Your child becomes who you believe them to be: Aaron explains how a positive perspective and belief in his son’s potential have shaped their relationship and how he approaches fatherhood.Where to find Aaron WhiteLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronmwhite/ X: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronmwhite/ Website: www.appy.aiWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Aaron White(01:50) Diving into API AI and building businesses with AI(02:52) The future of AI and its impact(05:43) Balancing startup life and parenthood(16:41) Modern parenting and embracing help(20:14) Surprising discoveries of fatherhood(29:18) Reengaging with the world as a parent(33:26) Empathy and Leadership as a Parent(40:25) The importance of partnership in parenting(44:23) Technology and parenting in the modern age(47:02) Creative uses of AI for parenting(48:40) Advice for future founders and dads(51:02) Lightning round: wipe warmers and hatch nightlightsShow references:Wipe warmers: https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Diaper-Wipe-Warmers/zgbs/baby-products/677976011Hatch Nightlights: https://www.amazon.com/Hatch-Baby-Machine-Trainer-Soother/dp/B08QVG9759?th=1Mushed Parnips: https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/239206/mashed-parsnips/What Does The Fox Say?: https://youtu.be/jofNR_WkoCE?si=Glykjvv2W3wP0OaJThe Goonies: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0089218/The Ewok Adventure: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087225/Kilimanjaro: https://education.nationalgeographic.org/resource/kilimanjaro/Suno: Suno.com—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Olav Sindre Kriken is a four-time founder, husband, and father of three who’s currently leading Tana, an AI-powered productivity startup. Originally from a small town in Norway, Olav now lives in Palo Alto, and splits his time between scaling a company and staying deeply present for his family. He believes his family is the most important startup he’ll ever build.In this episode, Olav reflects on what it means to raise resilient, independent kids in a tech-saturated world, how parenting frameworks shape his decisions as a founder, and why being a dad made him rethink everything about success and legacy. We discussed:From dad dates to startup deadlines: Why Olav sets aside sacred, tech-free time with each of his kids every week, and how that ritual strengthens their relationships, even during long stretches apart.Parenting with one voice: Olav shares how he and his wife approach disagreements as co-founders of their family, and why behind-the-scenes alignment helps create stability for their kids.Letting kids struggle: How growing up in Norway taught Olav that adversity is essential, and why he believes challenge, failure, and independence are some of the greatest gifts you can give your children.The power of modeling: From bedtime story world-building to watching their dad lead a company, Olav’s kids are already writing business plans and experimenting with entrepreneurship, all without being told to.Tech is not the enemy: Olav makes the case for embracing technology at home, from ChatGPT storytime to self-taught art via YouTube. He explains how AI can support creativity and learning when paired with values and conversation.Where to find Olav Sindre KrikenLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kriken/ X: https://x.com/OlavSindreWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Olav Sindre Kriken(00:58) Kids come through You, not from you(01:54) Parenting in Norway vs. the US(08:36) Dad Dates are quality time with kids(10:39) Balancing startup life and family time(12:38) Unified parenting approach with one voice(22:23) Parenting frameworks and philosophies(29:38) Modeling entrepreneurship for kids(32:00) Daughter's mask business(32:46) Parenting through example(33:36) Embracing technology for kids(36:57) Creative uses of AI in parenting(39:08) The story of the son and the window(41:12) Say “Yes” More(44:57) Lightning Round(49:28) Funniest and Most Embarrassing Parenting MomentsShow references:Rocking chair with vibration: https://www.amazon.com/Massage-Recliner-Vibration-Ergonomic-Overstuffed/dp/B0D41M8TRV?th=1 First Time Dad by Jason Petterson: https://www.amazon.com/First-Time-Dad-Understanding-Parenthood/dp/1088045677Salish: https://www.youtube.com/@salishmatterCars: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0317219/Star Wars: https://www.imdb.com/list/ls070150896/Tana: https://tana.inc/Magnus Hillestad: https://www.linkedin.com/in/magnushillestad/Sanity: https://www.sanity.io/The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable, 20th Anniversary Edition by Patrick M. Lencioni: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-five-dysfunctions-of-a-team-patrick-m-lencioni/1100520484The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-prophet-kahlil-gibran/1116648147Home Depot: https://www.homedepot.com/Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/ChatGPT: Chatgpt.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.com/The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-catcher-in-the-rye-j-d-salinger/1100192775Liverpool FC: https://www.liverpoolfc.com/Manchester United: https://www.manutd.com/Frozen: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2294629/Richard Branson: https://www.virgin.com/branson-family/richard-bransonBeyonce: https://beyonce.com/Capybara: https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/mammals/facts/cabybara-facts—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Roger Einstoss is the founder of Braintly, a software development company specializing in helping U.S.-based companies build and scale their engineering teams in Latin America. He's also a husband, father of two young kids, and passionate about balancing work and family while maintaining emotional intelligence in his parenting.In this episode, Roger shares his unique perspective on parenting in Argentina, how he approaches fatherhood as a team effort with his wife, and how his entrepreneurial journey allowed him the flexibility to be present for his family. We discussed:Parenting as a team: Roger and his wife approach parenting as a true partnership, where both share responsibilities equally. He discusses how their teamwork allows them to stay present in their children’s lives, even while both manage demanding careers.Parenting in Argentina vs. the U.S.: Roger compares parenting styles between Argentina and the U.S., noting key differences in how children leave home for university and how families prioritize close-knit bonds.The importance of emotional intelligence: Growing up without a focus on emotional intelligence, Roger reflects on how he learned to model it for his own children. He shares practical strategies for fostering emotional awareness and resilience in his kids.Work-life balance and quality time: With two young kids and a demanding job, Roger discusses how he maximizes quality time with his family, including how he manages travel and work commitments while staying emotionally connected.Entrepreneurship and family flexibility: Roger explains why he chose to build his own company to gain the freedom to be a present father, emphasizing the importance of flexibility in both work and family life.Where to find Roger EinstossLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rogereinstoss/ X: https://x.com/reinstossWhere to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Roger Einstoss, founder of Brantley and dad of two(02:00) Growing up in Argentina and starting coding at 15(04:30) Family inspiration and advice from Roger’s uncle(05:01) Balancing family and business life(06:33) Parenting differences between Argentina and the U.S.(08:00) The importance of living near extended family in Argentina(09:00) Shared parenting responsibilities with Karina(11:20) Both parents working from home: Balancing family and career(16:21) Economic challenges in Argentina and the impact on families(18:34) Starting Brantley and connecting Argentine talent with U.S.(21:08) Roger’s approach to teaching emotional intelligence to kids(23:48) Advice to his younger self: Relax, and embrace flexibility in parenting(25:30) Defining quality time with kids and staying present(28:30) Staying connected with family while traveling for work(32:10) Struggles and rewards of balancing business travel and family life(36:15) Parenting through the eyes of an entrepreneur(38:40) The role of emotional intelligence in shaping family dynamics(40:00) Roger’s perspective on being a present, involved dad(44:30) Lightning round: Parenting must-haves and quirksResources From This Episode:Skibidi Toilet: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt27814427/ Skibidi Toilet: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skibidi_ToiletDiana and Roma / Kids Diana Show:https://www.youtube.com/c/KidsDianaShow Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/Braintly: https://www.braintly.com/Lionel Messi: https://www.intermiamicf.com/players/lionel-messi/The Simpsons: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096697/Mercado Libre: https://mercadolibre.com/Lego: https://www.lego.com/en-usWhatsApp: https://www.whatsapp.com/ChatGPT: www.chatgpt.comBath kneeler: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09Y3YP5FTDiana and Roma: https://www.youtube.com/@KidsRomaShowMarvel Series: https://www.marvel.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Dan Fishman is a husband, a lawyer, and a relatively new parent. He’s also Adam’s brother, and the very special guest for the 100th episode of Startup Dad. By day, Dan is Associate General Counsel at Redwood Trust, but at home, he’s going through fatherhood for the first time by navigating toddler teething, sleep deprivation, and the occasional lemon tree massacre. He’s still  figuring out what kind of dad he actually wants to be.In this episode, Dan reflects on the surprises of new parenthood, what he’s borrowing from how he was raised, and why he’s still not sure he identifies as “Dad.”Letting go of the old identity: Why Dan doesn’t fully relate to the label “dad” just yet, how parenting has shifted his priorities and time management, and what it means to enjoy the ride without “going full Dad.”Channeling childhood joy: From chasing his daughter around the house with their Scottish terriers to dance parties with the Beatles, Dan shares how he’s making space for silliness and spontaneity.Fugue states and yard work: How a COVID brain fog, a teething baby, and a pair of pruning shears led to the total annihilation of the family lemon tree, and why Dan and Sophie now laugh about it.Simple frameworks for staying sane: Why Dan leans on intuitive parenting, presence over perfection, and the rule of “don’t compare workloads” to keep his household and partnership healthy.A love letter for the future: Dan shares a message for his daughter to hear when she’s 21, with the lessons he hopes to pass down, including a serious warning about law school and a reminder that her dad will always be her biggest fan.Where to find Daniel FishmanLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-f-45731916Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Daniel Fishman(02:08) Parenting reflections and surprises(04:27) The work-life balance of Dan and  “Work Dan”(05:51) Fatherhood changes and early memories(11:11) Parenting advice and decisions(20:48) Favorite books and music for kids(24:46) Parenting frameworks and challenges(28:45) The Lemon tree incident(29:22) Household strife and COVID fugue state(30:22) Parenting frameworks and humor(32:32) Anna's relationship with technology(33:52) Anna's first birthday and future skills(36:15) Dad jokes and future messages(38:51) Lightning Round: Parenting Products and HacksShow references:Redwood Trust: https://www.redwoodtrust.com/Sega Genesis: https://asia.sega.com/genesismini/Severance: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11280740/Scottish Terrier: https://www.akc.org/dog-breeds/scottish-terrier/Bruce Springsteen: https://brucespringsteen.net/The Beatles: https://www.thebeatles.com/Grateful Dead: https://www.dead.net/Stern Grove Festival: https://www.sterngrove.org/Hardly Strictly Bluegrass: https://hardlystrictlybluegrass.com/Golden Gate Park: https://sfrecpark.org/770/Golden-Gate-ParkThom York: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thom_YorkeRadiohead: https://www.radiohead.com/Jon Klassen The Hat Trilogy Series: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/series/G6I/the-hat-trilogy/Julia Donaldson: https://www.juliadonaldson.co.uk/Nose Frida: https://frida.com/Chatgpt.comTraining a Tiger: A Father's Guide to Raising a Winner in Both Golf and Life by Earl Woods: https://www.amazon.com/Training-Tiger-Fathers-Raising-Winner/dp/0062701789The Elephant and the Bad Baby: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1095518.The_Elephant_and_the_Bad_Baby Baby Shusher: https://babyshusher.com/Puffs: https://www.gerber.com/shop-by-product/snacks Terminator 2: Judgement Day: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0103064/Ratatouille: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0382932/Minecraft: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3566834/The Simpsons: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096697/Neverending Story: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088323/Larry David: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0202970/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Alex Egeler is a former engineering executive turned parent career coach. He’s also a father of four boys, a husband, and a stay-at-home dad who helps other working parents navigate meaningful careers that support, not strain their families. In this episode, Alex opens up about the unpredictable reality of parenting, the generational mental health patterns he’s determined to break, and how becoming a dad transformed how he views success. We discussed:Letting go of the career script: How Alex’s first paternity leave revealed the emptiness of his “perfect job” and led him to walk away, and how each child helped him rewrite what meaningful work really looks like.Undoing generational pressure: Why the deaths of Alex’s father and grandfather pushed him to question everything he believed about work, identity, and what it means to be a good dad.Parenting with emotional honesty: Alex shares how he learned to show all emotions and not just the “good” ones, and how that shift helped his kids build trust, empathy, and resilience.Supporting a child with bipolar disorder: Why Alex and his wife approach parenting as a tag team, how they talk openly about mental health with their 12-year-old son, and what they’ve learned about showing up differently in crisis vs. calm.Building flexible careers for parents: How Alex coaches other working parents to question old assumptions, set realistic job goals, and own their value in the job market — especially in roles that support both career and caregiving.Where to find Alex EgelerLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-egeler-empathic-egg/ Empathic Egg: https://www.empathicegg.com/Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Alex Egeler(02:10) How becoming a dad reshaped Alex’s career path(05:08) The false promise of boundaries between work and family(09:12) When Alex realized his job wasn’t meaningful anymore(12:06) Four generations of men and mental health struggles(16:15) Grieving his father through the eyes of his own son(20:20) How Alex and his wife talk about depression with their child(24:05) The invisible support team behind every successful parent(27:15) Why stepping back from work was harder emotionally than socially(31:00) Parenting four boys including surprise twins(34:30) The sibling dynamics that no one prepares you for(38:15) Teaching emotional regulation to young kids(44:30) Using Dr. Becky’s “Good Inside” framework in daily life(54:40) The power of reframing parenting as support, not punishment(01:03:00) Lightning round: must-haves, mindsets, and momentsShow references:Inside Out: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2096673/Batteries Not Included: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0092494/ ‘Alex’s LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alex-egeler-empathic-egg/Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/Fibonacci Sequence: https://www.mathsisfun.com/numbers/fibonacci-sequence.htmlGood Inside, Dr. Becky: https://www.goodinside.com/Company of Dads/Paul Sullivan: https://thecompanyofdads.com/Paul Sullivan’s Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJSbH8uydFoMidjourney: https://www.midjourney.com/homeChatGPT.comIf I Built a House by Chris Van Dusen: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/if-i-built-a-house-chris-van-dusen/1109327478Caillou: https://en.caillou.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Ben Erez is a former founder and product leader turned solopreneur and instructor. He teaches a popular Maven course for aspiring product managers, hosts the podcast Supra Insider, and is a proud girl dad living in Brooklyn. In this episode, Ben shares what it’s like raising a daughter while building a portfolio career on his own terms. We discussed:How solo parenting can feel easier: Why Ben finds weekday solo parenting less stressful than co-parenting, and how clarity in routine helps him stay grounded.Making the leap to fatherhood: The pros and cons exercise Ben used to think through becoming a parent and what ultimately pushed him to take the leap.What makes a portfolio career work: How Ben structures his time across fractional work, teaching, building an AI product, and podcasting without feeling overwhelmed.Structure as a path to freedom: Why routines have become essential for Ben and how they help him stay present, productive, and connected to his family.Handling disagreements as partners: Ben reflects on navigating different parenting styles with his wife and how they’ve built a process for staying aligned.Creating connection through community: How a local dad group gave Ben a deeper sense of belonging and why it’s made parenting feel a little less isolating.Where to find Ben ErezLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benerez/ X: https://x.com/viableben Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Ben Erez(01:12) Raising a toddler and golden retriever(04:29) Experiencing the magic of girl dad life(08:42) Building a sustainable portfolio career(14:56) Rethinking job security as a solopreneur(18:35) The pros and cons of having kids(22:36) Discovering the ease of solo parenting(27:31) Why weekends feel less flexible now(30:02) Feeling at home while traveling with kids(34:28) Bedtime routines that actually work(38:20) Handling disagreements with your partner(42:22) How a dad group changed everything(47:47) Navigating screen time and tech exposure(53:08) Lightning round: morning vs. evening routinesShow references:YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.com/iPad: https://www.apple.com/Perplexity.ai: https://www.perplexity.ai/Khan Academy: https://www.khanacademy.org/Sound Machine: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A2JBMRE?th=1Table top changing pad: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KHD615KUnspeakable: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwIWAbIeu0xI0ReKWOcw3egBlippi: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5PYHgAzJ1wLEidB58SK6XwMoana: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/Ghostbusters: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087332/Porsche: https://www.porsche.com/usa/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jamie Lee is the Founder of JME Labs, a consulting business supporting startups and small businesses. Her husband, Jeff Okita, is the VP of Product at Tilt, a leave management platform. Together, they’re raising their 14-month-old daughter while managing demanding careers and a shared vision of parenting. We talked about:Building a strong support system: How Jamie and Jeff rely on an extended team of experts, family, and tools to make daily life manageable.Creating structure through rituals and check-ins: The methods they use to stay coordinated, including weekly planning and monthly reviews.Designing life around core values: Why they prioritize individual and shared time to stay connected to who they were before becoming parents.Traveling with a baby across continents: What 15 flights and two international trips have taught them about adaptability and preparation.Reevaluating the role of work: How becoming parents led both of them to rethink what success and fulfillment mean in their careers.Connection as a two-way street: Jeff’s take on bonding as a non-birthing parent and the moments that helped him feel truly needed.Challenging traditional roles in parenting: The decisions they’ve made to balance the mental, physical, and emotional load of raising a child.Preparing for an AI-powered future: Their early thoughts on how to raise a child in a world shaped by fast-moving technology.Where to find Jamie LeeLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamieannlee/ JME Labs: https://www.jamiealee.com/ Where to find Jeff OkitaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffokita/ Tilt: https://hellotilt.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jamie and Jeff(02:20) What is the “extended team” in their household(04:35) Emergency childcare plans and calendar blow-ups(05:08) The four C’s of parenting: Coordination, Communication, Compromise, Creativity(06:06) Running, nursing, errands, and multitasking hacks(07:27) Rituals for communication and monthly check-ins(08:38) Me, Me, and We Nights(11:09) Where their parenting systems came from(13:33) Hiring a postpartum doula and learning on the fly(14:22) 15 flights with a baby and international travel strategies(17:39) Potato, plant, and puppy phases of babyhood(20:14) Blowouts on the road and travel horror stories(24:34) Not losing yourself post-baby(28:59) Rethinking the role of work after having a child(34:07) Building connection with your baby and rejecting the parenting default(54:57) Lightning Round: parenting quirks, pre-baby routines, and toddler travel winsResources from this episode:ChatGPT.comDie With Zero: Getting All You Can from Your Money and Your Life by Bill Perkins: https://bndl.co/3XlKH6eBlank Check: https://imdb.to/3Vjc3T5Planet Earth: https://imdb.to/3XlYoTo—Want to sponsor this podcast? Email [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

David Apple is the Founder of Shark Tooth Biotech, a company focused on developing treatments for CMT 1A, a rare genetic disease affecting his oldest son. Previously an executive at Typeform, Notion, and Zingtree, David stepped away from startup life to become his son’s full-time advocate. He’s also a father of two, a board member of the CMTA, and a first-time children’s book author. We talked about:Leaving tech to prioritize advocacy: Why David chose to walk away from a successful career to support his son through a difficult diagnostic journey.Facing resistance in the medical system: What it took to push past early dismissals from doctors and finally get answers through genetic testing.Shifting expectations of fatherhood: How caring for a child with CMT changed David’s perception of strength, patience, and what it means to be a parent.Building a purpose-led biotech company: What inspired David to launch Shark Tooth and how he’s working to fill a critical research gap for CMT 1A.Protecting presence over legacy: Why David believes being present with his kids outweighs any long-term pursuit of recognition or success.Frameworks for family and marriage: From structured “me time” to clear communication tools, David shares the systems that help him stay grounded.Where to find David AppleLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/appledavid/ X: https://x.com/davidcappleShark Tooth Biotech: https://www.sharktooth.bio/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing David Apple(03:58) Leaving a CRO role to advocate full-time(06:13) Getting real answers through genetic testing(11:20) Misconceptions about being a stay-at-home parent(14:27) How CMT shaped Ari’s creative side(16:39) Using AI tools and finding support(22:50) Why CMT research remains underfunded today(27:12) Creating Shark Tooth Biotech with real purpose(32:14) Advocacy matters more than expert opinions(39:55) Letting go of legacy, focusing now(44:04) Turning life’s obstacles into personal growth(46:35) Lightning roundShow references:CMT 1A: https://rarediseases.info.nih.gov/diseases/1245/charcot-marie-tooth-disease-type-1aTypeform: https://www.typeform.com/Notion: https://www.notion.com/Zing Tree: https://zingtree.com/UCSF: https://www.ucsf.edu/Stanford: https://www.stanford.edu/https://chatgpt.com/CMTA: https://www.cmtausa.org/Animal Yoga by Flowerpot Press, Brian Fitzgerald (Illustrator): https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/animal-yoga-flowerpot-press/1143842943Cystic Fibrosis: https://www.cff.org/https://www.tiktok.com/en/Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey, Neil deGrasse Tyson:  https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2395695/Paul Campillo: https://paulcampillo.com/Munchkin Warm Glow Wipe Warmer: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000CNOIQ2Momcozy Convertible Double Stroller: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DJXX76MNMarine Layer: https://www.marinelayer.com/Coco Melon: https://www.cocomelon.com/Bluey: https://www.bluey.tv/Les Visiteurs: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108500/Reach an audience at the intersection of startups and parenting - For sponsorship inquiries email [email protected] the show -  For Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Alex Medick is the Director of Marketing at TensorWave, an AI infrastructure company. Prior to this role, he served as the President and Chief Marketing Officer of Inside.com. He’s also a single dad to two kids, a son and a daughter, navigating the challenges of parenting while leading in the startup world.  We discussed:- Balancing parenting with startup demands: How Alex manages being the primary parent while navigating the challenges of working at a fast-paced startup.- Communicating with kids during a separation: The approach Alex took to talk to his young children about his separation and how it affected them.- Unexpected fulfillment from fatherhood: How becoming a dad has brought a deeper sense of fulfillment and perspective to Alex’s life.- Giving yourself grace as a parent: Why Alex’s motto is to give yourself grace, especially during the hectic and overwhelming times.- The “sucky” moments that create lasting memories: Alex shares how saying yes to the challenging moments, like chaotic travel and events, leads to some of the most memorable experiences.- Old school parenting in modern times: Alex talks about his approach to parenting, influenced by older generations, and why he believes kids need more structure and less coddling.Where to find Alex MedickLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ajmedick/  X: https://x.com/ajmedickTensorWave: https://tensorwave.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Alex Medick(02:10) Balancing parenting with startup life(03:15) Talking to kids about separation(08:15) Unexpected fulfillment from fatherhood(10:06) Giving yourself grace and embracing imperfection(16:20) Old school parenting in modern times(19:31) Hospital quarantine story and new perspective(22:28) Travel chaos, flight disasters, and survival tips(33:29) Raising kids with tech: balance needed(36:03) Empathy and life principles guiding Alex(39:50) Lightning round: must-haves and parenting quirksShow references:YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.com/iPad: https://www.apple.com/Perplexity.ai: https://www.perplexity.ai/Khan Academy: https://www.khanacademy.org/Sound Machine: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00A2JBMRE?th=1Table top changing pad: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KHD615KUnspeakable: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwIWAbIeu0xI0ReKWOcw3egBlippi: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5PYHgAzJ1wLEidB58SK6XwMoana: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/Ghostbusters: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0087332/Porsche: https://www.porsche.com/usa/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.com

Jordan Gal is the CEO of Rosie, an AI answering service for small businesses. He’s also a five-time founder, husband, and dad to three daughters. Born in Israel and raised in an immigrant entrepreneur household, Jordan shares how that upbringing shapes his parenting and how he and his wife work to combine their very different childhood experiences. We discussed:Talking to kids about money: How Jordan brings business lessons into everyday moments without oversharing or creating pressure.Being family first in a startup world: Why Jordan sees business as a tool to support his real priorities.Nudging kids toward ownership: The subtle ways he introduces the value of equity, risk, and autonomy.Managing stress without passing it on: How Jordan handles emotional spillover and what he shares with his kids.Modeling healthy conflict in marriage: Why he believes transparency and disagreement are both part of partnership.Challenging assumptions through travel: How 18 months of nomadic living reshaped what his family needed and what they didn’t.Where to find Jordan GalLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordangal  X: https://x.com/jordangal Rosie: https://heyrosie.com/ Where to find Adam FishmanFishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/startupdadpod/ In this episode, we cover:(00:00) Introducing Jordan Gal(01:59) Growing up in an immigrant entrepreneur household(04:13) Leaving investment banking for freedom and risk(05:54) Blending two very different parenting styles(08:33) What being “extremely family first” really looks like(11:49) Living nomadically with a toddler and a pack and play(17:37) Why Jordan’s family left Portland for the Chicago suburbs(23:14) Talking to kids about money in everyday situations(28:05) Gently guiding kids toward entrepreneurship(30:08) Managing startup stress without bringing it home(36:47) Being honest with your partner about startup risk and tradeoffs(48:01) Lightning round: minivans, Bee Movie, and doing the wormShow references:For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.comLinks for Jordan GalRosie: https://heyrosie.comAaron’s LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aarondfrancis/Aaron Francis’ Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SntR9LmO4oUDorit Lemel: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dorit_KemsleyUniversity of Michigan: https://umich.edu/Harvard Business School:https://online.hbs.edu/Kibbutz:https://www.britannica.com/topic/kibbutzDavid Foster Wallace, This is Water: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCbGM4mqEVwPack N Play: https://www.gracobaby.com/shop/home-and-gear/pack-n-play-playardsMarine Layer: https://www.marinelayer.com/Vuori: https://vuoriclothing.com/Bee Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0389790/The Wonder Years: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094582/Parenthood: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1416765/Schindler’s List: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0108052/

Sol Kennedyi is the founder of BestInterest which helps co-parents navigate the messiness of that complex relationship. He is a serial founder who has built and sold multiple companies and has been the head of product at Dropcam, a PM at Google and an angel investor in companies like Coinbase, Gitlab and Instacart. In addition to being a serial entrepreneur he’s also a single, half-time dad of two kids and a co-parent. We discussed:* Navigating divorce and co-parenting* Important lessons he’s learned from his co-parenting role* The adversarial system that exists in family court and treats parents like criminals* The emotional rollercoaster of half-time parenting as a single Dad* His experience taking an extended time off to be a full-time Dad when his daughter was young* Mistakes he’s made as a parent that have helped him grow into the Dad he is today.* How your kids help you heal your own relationship with your parents* The importance of patience and slowness when raising kidsWhere to find Sal Kennedy* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/solkennedy/* BestInterest App: bestinterestapp.com* Sol’s Podcast: https://podcast.coparentingbeyondconflict.com/Where to find Adam Fishman* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/* Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/_In this episode, we cover:[1:55] Welcome[2:11] Professional background[3:53] Kids & divorce[6:17] Co-parenting[10:34] Advice for those going though this/co- parenting[13:26] Being a half-time dad[17:35] Strategies for setting boundaries with kids[20:33] Decision to be a full-time dad and then back into work-force[25:49] Does his own family use Best Interest?[26:07] Most surprising things you’ve discovered as a dad?[29:04] how having kids helped heal his relationship with his own parents[32:08] Advice to younger Sol[34:10] Transition from 1 to 2 kids[36:48] Frameworks for parenting[40:22] Kid’s relationship with tech[44:48] Mistake as a dad[49:05] Follow along[49:59] Lightning round[1:00:07] Thank you—Show references:Coinbase: https://www.coinbase.com/GitLab: https://about.gitlab.com/Instacart: https://www.instacart.com/Bug catcher: https://www.amazon.com/toys-Battat-Bungalow-Insect-Catching/dp/B01M0V474YBaby sock monitor (Owlet): https://owletcare.com/products/owlet-dream-sockPixar: https://www.pixar.com/Star Wars: https://www.starwars.com/Mini Cooper: https://www.miniusa.com/—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.comProduction support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron athttp://www.armaziproductions.com/

Nikunj Kothari is a former investor with Khosla Ventures and a product and growth leader from companies like Opendoor, Shyp, and LinkedIn. He’s now out on his own advising, investing and spending time as a husband and a father of two, including a brand new son! We discussed:* The false dichotomy between ambition and parenting and the support structures needed to achieve it* The work it takes to prioritize your partner after the arrival of a new baby* How execution as a Dad is only part of the problem set* Big mistakes he’s made as a Dad* How the relationship with his own parents changed since becoming a father* Top tips for international flights with young kidsWhere to find Nikunj Kothari* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nikunjk/* X: https://x.com/nikunj* Website: https://www.nikunjk.com/Where to find Adam Fishman* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/* Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/—In this episode, we cover:[2:00] Welcome[2:17] What Nikunj is up to these days[3:08] Four generations in the home/dad feedback[3:58] Childhood[5:25] Family now[8:33] Decision to start a family[10:35] Ambition and parent dichotomy[13:22] Would you rewind the clock?[17:33] Who needs help in the newborn stage[21:36] Paying attention to invisible labor[23:45] Mistakes as a dad/prioritize making time for partner[26:39] Funny story of his daughter sleeping through the night[30:07] Traveling with young children[34:26] Relationship to own parents in fatherhood[38:20] How parenting changed from kid to kid[40:28] Go-to activity[41:46] Aligning with partner[45;05] Kid’s relationship with tech[49:34] Favorite books to read to kids[50:44] Follow along[51:37] Lightning round[58:03] Thank you—Show references:Khosla Ventures: https://www.khoslaventures.com/Opendoor: https://www.opendoor.com/SIDS: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/sudden-infant-death-syndrome/symptoms-causes/syc-20352800Children’s Creativity Museum: https://creativity.org/Ms. Rachel: https://www.youtube.com/@msrachelCoco Melon: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbCmjCuTUZos6Inko4u57UQSpring is here (Bear and Mole Series) by Will Hillenbrand: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/spring-is-here-will-hillenbrand/1103442878Baby Merlin’s Magic Sleepsuit: https://www.magicsleepsuit.com/Home Alone: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099785/Home Alone: 2: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104431/Dunston Checks In: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116151/Moana: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3521164/Kal Ho Naa Ho:Blow up flight bed: https://www.flyawaydesigns.com/products/flyaway-kids-bed—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.comProduction support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron athttp://www.armaziproductions.com/This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit startupdadpod.substack.com

Brian Holt is Staff Product Manager at Neon and has been a VP of Product and product leader at companies like SQLite Cloud, Snowflake, Stripe and Microsoft. He was also an engineer at both Netflix and Reddit where he was one of the earliest employees. He’s a husband and the father of one son and brand new daughter. We discussed:* Preparing for the arrival of your 2nd kid* The importance of being a “whole person” and why that makes you a better parent and partner* Living a nomadic lifestyle with a toddler and the importance of routine* The overwhelming amount of conflicting parenting advice* The “third person” support system* His deep and unending love for the Snoo* The magic of magnetic snap baby clothes—Where to find Brian Holt* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/btholt/* X: https://x.com/holtbtWhere to find Adam Fishman* FishmanAF Newsletter: www.FishmanAFNewsletter.com* LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adamjfishman/* Instagram: https://ww.instagram.com/startupdadpod/—In this episode, we cover:[2:05] Welcome[2:41] Brian’s Professional background[3:42] Childhood[7:08] Family now[8:05] Advice to those choosing travel or having children[9:42] Preparing older children for new siblings[15:07] Nomadic living[20:52] Most surprising things as a dad[22:49] Advice to younger Brian and what to ignore[26:55] Balance[30:49] Anything Brian gave up to have kids[33:05] Favorite book to read to his son[34:12] Partnership[37:05] Kid’s relationship with tech[41:40] Mistake as a dad[42:51] Repressed memories[45:12] Recharge batteries[49:20] Follow along[49:59] Lightning round[1:02:45] Thank you—Show references:Neon: https://neon.tech/SQLite Cloud: https://sqlitecloud.io/Snowflake: https://www.snowflake.com/en/Stripe: https://stripe.com/Microsoft: https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/Reddit: https://www.reddit.com/?rdt=54182Snoo: https://www.happiestbaby.com/products/snoo-smart-bassinetMagnetic Me: https://magneticme.com/Helena, Montana: https://www.helenamt.gov/HomeSalt Lake City, Utah: https://www.visitsaltlake.com/Disneyland: https://disneyland.disney.go.comHome Alone: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099785/Ikon Pass: https://www.ikonpass.com/Kit Fisto: https://starwars.fandom.com/wiki/Kit_FistoStar Wars Phantom Menace: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120915/ChatGPT: chatgpt.comABCs of Star Wars: https://www.amazon.com/Star-Wars-ABC-Scholastic/dp/0545227380Star Wars colors: https://www.amazon.com/Star-Wars-Colors-Board-Books/dp/05456091941 - 2 -3 - Magic: https://www.123magic.com/Gameboy:https://www.nintendo.com/en-gb/Hardware/Nintendo-History/Game-Boy/Game-Boy-627031.htmlNintendo 64: https://www.nintendo.com/us/store/products/nintendo-64-nintendo-switch-online-switch/IBM: https://www.ibm.comSacramento A’s: https://www.mlb.com/athletics/sacramentoiPad: https://www.apple.com/shop/buy-ipadUtah Jazz: https://www.nba.com/jazzKings: https://www.nba.com/kingsPaw Patrol Show: https://www.pawpatrollive.comOwlet: https://owletcare.comAirPod: https://www.apple.com/airpodsBarney: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0144701Paw Patrol: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3121722YouTube Kids: https://www.youtubekids.comSonic The Hedgehog: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3794354Super Mario: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6718170Tron Legacy: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1104001Tommy Boy: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114694Happy Gilmore: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0116483—For sponsorship inquiries email: [email protected] Startup Dad Merch: www.startupdadshop.comProduction support for Startup Dad is provided by Tommy Harron athttp://www.armaziproductions.com/This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit startupdadpod.substack.com