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In this heartfelt episode of Know Them, Be Them, Raise Them, hosts Carmelita (Cat) Tiu and Irene Uy explore the emotional, cultural, and practical challenges of caring for aging parents while raising children—a reality many face in the “sandwich generation.” Cat opens up about her personal journey of navigating guilt, distance, and love, while Irene offers thoughtful reflections on honoring both our parents’ independence and our desire to protect them.Episode Highlights[00:00:00] Cat and Irene set the tone for this new season—showing up more vulnerably and sharing real-life experiences.[00:01:00] Cat opens up about her parents’ aging—memory issues, emotional ups and downs, and how it impacts her whole family.[00:03:00] The emotional weight of supporting elderly parents while managing a career and raising kids—the “sandwich generation.”[00:05:00] A story from The Five Types of Wealth by Sahil Bloom sparks reflection on how little time we may have left with loved ones.[00:08:00] Accepting that not every decision about family caregiving has a perfect answer—and learning to live with discomfort.[00:09:30] Irene reframes the question: What does it mean to be a good enough daughter?[00:11:00] Cultural influences on caring for parents—Cat reflects on her Filipino and Chinese heritage and how it shapes expectations.[00:14:00] Balancing guilt, love, and logistics when parents live far away.[00:18:00] When your parents resist moving closer—understanding their reasons and their autonomy.[00:20:00] Respecting that our parents still have full, meaningful lives of their own.[00:23:00] Planning ahead—Cat’s efforts with her siblings to stay connected and prepare for future care decisions.[00:27:00] Finding peace in knowing your parents are still choosing joy in their current season of life.[00:30:00] Encouraging practical steps: talking about wills, important documents, and sharing memories while you still can.[00:32:00] Cat’s emotional reflection on wanting her daughters to truly know their grandparents.[00:38:00] Acknowledging grief, love, and the feeling of lost opportunities—how emotion deepens our appreciation for family.[00:40:00] Letting go of worry and control—learning to trust life’s timing.[00:43:00] Choosing joy over anxiety and embracing presence over preparation.[00:46:00] Redefining connection—quality over quantity in relationships with our parents.[00:47:00] Closing reflections: Modeling healthy family relationships and holding gratitude for the time we have.Help us grow the conversation:👍 Follow the show📝 Leave a review📤 Share this episode with a parent or leader who’d appreciate a thoughtful take on modern role models🌐 Resources & Mentions Five Types of Wealth: By. Sahil Bloomhttps://amzn.to/47CBCgMSandwich Generation By: Leonel Guerrerohttps://amzn.to/47xzAyB🤝 Connect With UsFollow us on Instagram: @thecoachisinpodcastLearn more or get in touch: www.thecoachisinpodcast.com🎧 The Coach Is In – Honest conversations, practical tools, and fresh perspectives for parent leaders. Because balance might be a myth—but intention is everything.

In this episode hosts Carmelita (Cat) Tiu and Irene Uy open up about the hard truths of friendships that end. From cultural differences and peer pressure to setting boundaries and recognizing when a relationship has run its course, they explore how to let go with integrity while staying true to yourself.[00:00:00] Warm welcome & intention for the episode – Irene and Cat talk about showing up more authentically and personally.[00:02:00] Irene’s wedding celebration in the Philippines sparks a reflection on adult friendships and how relationships evolve over time.[00:03:00] Reconnecting with childhood friends and the unique purity of those bonds.[00:05:00] Cultural differences in making friends—platonic friendships with men in the Philippines vs. assumptions in the U.S.[00:09:00] Transactional relationships and learning when to step back, even with family.[00:12:00] Trust, time, and deciding whether relationships are worth salvaging.[00:14:00] Boundaries—what they mean, why they matter, and the discomfort of setting them for the first time.[00:16:00] Respecting others’ boundaries with the same grace you’d want for yourself.[00:17:00] Peer pressure—distinguishing between unhealthy pressure vs. loving nudges that help you grow.[00:21:00] Recognizing who shows up for you in hard times, and who disappears when accountability is needed.[00:23:00] Navigating lies, betrayals, and deciding when a friendship has reached its limit.[00:27:00] The emotional weight of female friendships and learning not to carry others’ problems as your own.[00:29:00] When “support” feels one-sided—friendships that resemble unpaid coaching sessions.[00:33:00] Differentiating between those who are lost but trying vs. those who choose dishonesty or manipulation.[00:36:00] Irene’s powerful reminder: you can be kind without being weak, and you can protect your integrity while still leading with compassion.[00:38:00] Closing reflections—the most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself.If this episode resonated with you, here are a few things to reflect on or try:Reflect on your own friendships: Are they bringing you joy, growth, and peace—or are they draining and one-sided?Practice setting boundaries, even if it feels messy at first.Remember to prioritize the relationship you have with yourself above all else.Help us grow the conversation:👍 Follow the show📝 Leave a review📤 Share this episode with a parent or leader who’d appreciate a thoughtful take on modern role models🤝 Connect With UsFollow us on Instagram: @thecoachisinpodcastLearn more or get in touch: www.thecoachisinpodcast.com🎧 The Coach Is In – Honest conversations, practical tools, and fresh perspectives for parent leaders. Because balance might be a myth—but intention is everything.

In this thoughtful episode of The Coach Is In, Irene and Cat explore how we form our ideas of role models—what shapes them, how they evolve, and why it’s essential to remain mindful of who and what we admire. Through personal stories, parenting insights, and cultural commentary, they examine how values, struggle, and visibility intersect to influence both adults and the next generation.⏱️ Content Highlights & Timestamps00:00 – Welcome & Why This Conversation Matters– Irene and Cat reconnect and frame the discussion around the importance of role models in leadership and parenting.03:12 – Unintentional Role Models: Who Shapes Us Before We Know It– Irene shares stories from her upbringing in a rural town and how books and biographies shaped her worldview.– Notable mention: Sirin Phathanothai as a formative influence.08:45 – The Power of Biographies & Exposure– Cat reflects on how reading about ballerinas influenced her discipline and appreciation for hard work.– Discussion on how interests shape identity, even when they differ.12:30 – Struggle vs. Joy in Identity Formation– Irene reflects on how Southeast Asian narratives often center on struggle and the shift toward valuing joy and lightness.– Cat opens up about questioning if her lack of dramatic hardship invalidates her story.18:01 – Money & Morals: A Complex Relationship– Irene discusses Warren Buffett and how reading The Snowball helped her see that wealth and values don’t have to be at odds.– Cat shares concerns about media narratives that portray wealth as inherently corrupting.24:50 – Visibility Bias: Why Do We See Certain Leaders?– A discussion on Musk, Trump, and how attention is given to controversial figures.– The absence of quieter, values-driven leaders in the spotlight.29:35 – Power, Integrity & Role Models in Parenting– Cat highlights the importance of helping kids think critically about public figures.– Strategies for media literacy and value alignment.34:30 – Speaking Out vs. Staying Silent: What’s the Right Move?– Irene challenges the idea that silence always equals complicity.– Nuanced take on how and when to speak out, especially around power and vulnerability.41:10 – Admiration Without Pedestals: Holding Leaders Accountable– A powerful distinction between the person and the position they hold.– Leaders can be flawed humans—and still be worth learning from, so long as we stay critical and connected.📌 Calls to Action & TakeawaysIf this episode resonated with you, here are a few things to reflect on or try:Think about your current role models. Do they align with your values?Talk to your kids about the media they consume—who they admire and why.Share a biography that shaped you with someone younger (or ask them to share one with you).When admiring a public figure, ask: "Do I admire their values—or just their visibility?"Practice media literacy at home: Question what’s shown and what’s not.Help us grow the conversation:👍 Follow the show📝 Leave a review📤 Share this episode with a parent or leader who’d appreciate a thoughtful take on modern role models🌐 Resources & MentionsThe Dragon's Pearl: https://amzn.to/3G6SPEpThe Snowball: Warren Buffet https://amzn.to/4nrNzMyRethinking Narcissism: https://amzn.to/4loaMgqPerry Mason: https://amzn.to/4ljSFch🤝 Connect With UsFollow us on Instagram: @thecoachisinpodcastLearn more or get in touch: www.thecoachisinpodcast.com🎧 The Coach Is In – Honest...

In this heartfelt episode, Cat and Irene unpack what it really means to be "consistent" as parent leaders juggling work, family, and everything in between. They explore how flexibility, alignment with personal values, and redefining success can free us from guilt and pressure when life doesn’t follow the plan.00:00 - Welcome Back + Real-Life InterruptionsCat and Irene check in after a few weeks away, setting the stage for a conversation about the realities of showing up inconsistently.03:50 - Redefining Performance and ConsistencyCat shares how her definition of consistency has evolved from rigid performance to values-based alignment.08:22 - Life Gets in the Way (and That’s Okay)Cat recounts a whirlwind of family events and how they shifted her focus, raising questions around guilt and presence.13:05 - Values-Based Consistency vs. Habit TrackingDiscussion around showing up for your values rather than checking boxes. Consistency isn't frequency—it's alignment.18:40 - The Generational Pressure on Modern WomenIrene reflects on the expectations placed on women to be high achievers while being primary caregivers.21:58 - Embracing Flexibility Without Feeling FlakyWhy adaptability should be celebrated—not seen as failure—and how being flexible helps navigate real life.28:45 - Every “No” is a “Yes” to Something ElseCat shares a mindset shift that changed how she sees boundaries and declining commitments.35:55 - Living for Yourself vs. Living for OthersA deep dive into how guilt and productivity are often tied to internalized expectations, especially from childhood.42:30 - Celebrate the Comeback, Not the AbsenceWhy returning to something after a break is a success in itself—and how guilt often masks misaligned priorities.47:50 - Gentle Parenting, Accountability & BoundariesCat discusses parenting from a millennial lens, balancing empathy and expectations with kids.56:20 - Generational Shifts in Parenting and Self-WorthReflections on how modern parenting prioritizes connection while still holding space for structure and standards.01:04:15 - Final Takeaway: Alignment > FrequencyCat wraps with a powerful reminder: it’s not about how often you show up, but whether your actions align with who you want to be.Reflect on where your guilt around inconsistency comes from—is it truly yours, or inherited expectations?Reframe success from "how often" to "how aligned" you are with your values.Celebrate flexibility as a strength, not a weakness.Consider what you're saying yes to every time you say no.Share this episode with a friend who might be stuck in the “I have to do it all” mindset.🔗 Resources & LinksFollow us on Instagram: @thecoachisinpodcastLearn more or get in touch: www.thecoachisinpodcast.comLeave a review on Apple Podcasts or SpotifySubscribe and follow to never miss an episode!Thanks for listening to The Coach Is In. Remember: the coach is in, and this space is for you. 💛

In this episode, Carmelita Tiu dives into how parents can use current events to spark meaningful, age-appropriate conversations with their kids. From political turmoil to celebrity scandals, she offers guidance on turning the headlines into teachable moments that encourage empathy, critical thinking, and resilience. This episode reminds us that while the world’s news can be overwhelming, it’s also a powerful tool for connection and growth with our children.[00:01:10] Why Talk to Kids About the News?Carmelita opens with the importance of helping kids make sense of what they hear—from conversations at school to snippets from the radio or TV.[00:03:30] What Are “Teachable Moments” in the News?Everyday headlines can be springboards for value-based discussions. Carmelita explains how to spot these opportunities.[00:05:20] Start with Questions, Not AnswersInstead of launching into a lecture, ask your child what they’ve heard or how they feel. This fosters trust and curiosity.[00:08:00] You Don’t Need to Know EverythingIt's okay to admit you’re still figuring things out. Modeling humility and curiosity teaches kids how to seek answers, too.[00:10:00] Tailor Your Talk to Their AgeDifferent ages call for different levels of detail. Carmelita shares guidance for keeping the conversation age-appropriate while still meaningful.[00:12:10] Finding Lessons in Scary StoriesFrom political unrest to celebrity scandals, news can be frightening. Learn how to reframe stories to emphasize hope, resilience, and positive action.[00:14:45] The News as a Mirror or a WindowStories can reflect kids’ own lives (mirrors) or show them different perspectives (windows). Either way, they’re tools for building empathy.[00:17:00] When Not to Talk About ItSome news isn’t developmentally appropriate—or may overwhelm kids. Carmelita talks about respecting your child’s emotional boundaries.[00:19:20] Encouraging Critical ThinkingTeach your kids to ask: Is this source credible? What are the facts? These tools are essential for navigating the media landscape.[00:21:10] Recap: 3 Simple TipsCarmelita ends with three actionable takeaways: start with questions, tailor the message, and stay curious together.Think of one current news story and how you might turn it into a conversation with your child this week.Reflect on what values matter most in your home—and how current events can help reinforce them.Share this episode with a fellow parent who’s feeling overwhelmed by the news cycle.

In this powerful episode, Irene and Cat explore the complexity of anger—where it comes from, how it shows up in our lives, and how to respond to it with empathy and strategy. From personal stories to insights sparked by the Netflix show Adolescents, they unpack how anger is often a mask for deeper unmet needs, and how to deescalate it in ourselves, our families, and even society at large.⏱️ Episode Highlights & Timestamps[00:01:00] Inspired by AdolescentsA discussion about the Netflix series Adolescents and how it surfaced key themes around anger, emotional regulation, and generational trauma.[00:03:00] The Father-Son DynamicJamie’s father tries to be a better parent than his own, but lacks the tools to process anger in a healthy way—leading to emotional confusion and inherited patterns.[00:06:00] Normalized DysfunctionIrene reflects on how many adults fail to recognize harmful dynamics because of cultural normalization or childhood conditioning.[00:09:00] Anger as a Protector of SafetyIrene reframes anger as a protective response to an unmet need for safety, especially when underlying pain or shame goes unspoken.[00:12:00] The Power of Emotional RegulationThe hosts praise the show’s psychologist for modeling how staying calm in the face of explosive emotion can lead to breakthroughs.[00:15:00] Exercising RestraintA conversation on how restraint isn’t weakness—it’s a practiced skill that can prevent escalation and create space for healing.[00:17:00] Irene’s Professional ExperienceIrene shares a personal story about a client’s outburst and how staying grounded helped defuse the tension.[00:20:00] Personal Reflections on Family AngerCat and Irene open up about growing up in households with temper flare-ups and the different coping strategies they developed.[00:24:00] Power in Silence and DiplomacyNot all strength is loud—sometimes strategic silence is the most powerful response.[00:30:00] Societal Anger and the Need for SolutionsThe hosts draw a connection between personal anger and social unrest, and the importance of listening before reacting.Reflect on how you’ve been taught to handle anger—do those strategies still serve you?Start noticing the unmet needs that might be hiding beneath your own or someone else’s anger.Practice staying grounded in tense moments and see what shifts.Stay tuned for Irene and Cat’s upcoming course for parent leaders on teaching life skills while building deeper connections with your kids.

In this episode, Cat and Irene dive deep into the messy, meaningful topic of authenticity—especially when it comes to how we show up in our careers, relationships, and everyday lives. They explore how our identities evolve over time, how imposter syndrome can creep in during transitions, and what it really means to "practice" becoming who you are.[00:01:00] Authenticity in FocusThe hosts reflect on showing up in multiple roles—lawyer, coach, mom—and how balance isn’t about doing it all, but knowing what matters right now.[00:03:00] The Privilege to ExploreIrene talks about the luxury of choice in today’s generation, unlike the single-track goals of past generations.[00:05:00] Surviving vs. ThrivingDiscussion on the difference between earning for survival and building a career that’s an expression of identity.[00:07:00] Aligning Actions with ValuesCat reframes how going to work or the gym can still align with values like supporting your family, even if it doesn't look traditional.[00:10:00] Undoing Generational ScriptsIrene shares how many of us are unlearning beliefs about stability, creativity, and value from older generations.[00:12:00] Taking it One Value at a TimeReal talk on the pressure to find a perfect career that hits all your values—spoiler: it’s okay to take your time.[00:14:00] Faking It vs. Practicing ItIrene and Cat discuss the discomfort of growth and how “faking it” can actually be part of the process of becoming.[00:18:00] The Power of PresenceThe importance of just being there and showing up authentically—even in imperfection—is often more powerful than polished performance.[00:20:00] Discerning Growth from DiscomfortA thoughtful reflection on knowing when you're on the verge of transformation versus just feeling off-track.[00:23:00] Doing it Your WayIrene shares her evolving identity and how she’s learning to lead and negotiate in a way that honors her femininity and authenticity.[00:26:00] Visual TakeawayIdentity is like trying on new clothes—you get to keep what fits and change when it doesn’t. It’s all part of the journey.Follow The Coach Is In wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode. Reflect on your own hierarchy of values: What matters most to you right now? Give yourself grace as you evolve—authenticity is a practice, not a fixed trait.Share this episode with a friend who’s navigating identity or imposter syndrome.

Decision fatigue is real, and as parent leaders juggling work, family, and personal lives, we face countless small and big decisions daily. In this episode, Cat and Irene discuss how reducing choices, embracing "mostly fine" decisions, and delegating responsibility can make decision-making easier and more effective.Content HighlightsThe Burden of Daily DecisionsThe countless decisions parents make every day—from dinner choices to extracurriculars.How too many choices can create stress rather than freedom.The concept of decision fatigue and how it affects mental energy.The Paradox of Choice & Analysis ParalysisInsights from Barry Schwartz’s book The Paradox of Choice.How excessive choices can lead to overthinking and stress."Analysis paralysis" and how it manifests in everyday life.Normalizing Fewer ChoicesWhy limiting choices can actually bring relief.Practical parenting examples: picking out clothes, meal options, and bedtime routines.Understanding decidophobia and ways to overcome it.Making Decision-Making Fun & EfficientHow to gamify decision-making: random selection, coin flips, and delegation.The importance of knowing what’s truly important.How prioritization can help reduce decision fatigue.Delegation & Teaching Kids IndependenceHow parents can delegate decisions to children without anxiety.The long-term benefits of teaching kids to make their own choices.Irene and Cat’s personal experiences with their children and decision-making.Recap & Actionable TakeawaysIdentify low-stakes decisions and simplify them.Reduce choices to make decision-making more efficient and fun.Embrace "mostly fine" decisions to release the pressure of perfection.Start small—experiment with simplifying one area and see how it feels.Final Thoughts & Calls to ActionProgress, not perfection, is the goal.Decision-making is a skill that can be refined over time.Listeners are encouraged to try one simplification method this week.Follow The Coach Is In on your favorite podcast platform. Share this episode with a fellow parent leader who needs to hear it. Leave a review and let us know how you manage decision fatigue!

In this episode, we dive into the topic of invisible labor—the unseen emotional, mental, and logistical work that women often carry in their personal lives, friendships, and workplaces. We explore how these expectations shape our daily lives, why setting boundaries can be so challenging, and practical strategies to reclaim time and energy for what truly matters.Episode Highlights[00:02:10] – What is Invisible Labor?How women take on unspoken responsibilities at home and workCultural and generational expectations that make it hard to say no[00:08:45] – The Family Dynamic: Emotional Labor and BoundariesThe role of the "strong one" in the familyWhy setting boundaries can feel selfish (but isn’t!)[00:15:30] – Friendships & Emotional EnergyThe impact of venting and how to create positive resonanceChecking in before unloading—how to support friends while protecting your energy[00:23:15] – Invisible Labor at WorkWhy women often get assigned tasks like note-taking and emotional supportHow to push back without seeming unhelpfulUsing humor and role rotation to redistribute responsibilities[00:32:50] – Breaking the CycleSmall steps to reclaim time and energyThe importance of strategic decision-making: Say "yes" with intentionKey Takeaways✔️ Invisible labor exists in every area of life—family, friendships, and work.✔️ Setting boundaries doesn’t mean withdrawing; it means being intentional with your time.✔️ Instead of venting, focus on shifting the emotional tone of conversations.✔️ Speak up at work—use humor, call out patterns, and suggest role rotations.✔️ The power of strategic yeses: Align your efforts with your personal goals.Where in your life are you carrying invisible labor? What’s one small shift you can make today? Share: If this episode resonated with you, send it to a friend who needs to hear it! Subscribe & Review: Don’t miss future episodes—hit follow and leave a review.

In this episode of The Coach is In, Cat and Irene dive into the pressures of perfectionism in parenting. They explore how high expectations shape parental guilt, where these standards come from, and how embracing a "good enough" mindset can lead to more joy and fulfillment in both parenting and life.Episode Highlights & Timestamps:[00:01:30] - Defining Perfectionism in ParentingHow perfectionist tendencies amplify when kids come into the pictureThe pressure to meet unrealistic parenting standards (sleep schedules, screen time, diet, etc.)[00:06:45] - Where Do These Expectations Come From?The influence of societal norms and social mediaReflecting on personal upbringing and inherited beliefs about parentingThe "Five Whys" technique for uncovering deeper motivations[00:15:20] - The Perils of Perfectionism & Its Impact on KidsHow children absorb their parents’ perfectionist tendenciesEncouraging risk-taking and confidence in childrenThe importance of modeling a healthy relationship with failure[00:23:10] - Mindfulness & Self-Awareness as Tools for ChangeLearning to pause and assess whether a standard serves youEmbracing self-awareness as a starting point for changeThe balance between keeping kids safe and fostering independence[00:30:45] - Reframing Success: The "Good Enough" ParentMoving away from perfectionism towards a "minimum viable product" mindsetLetting go of unnecessary pressures while focusing on core valuesCreating meaningful memories rather than obsessing over minor details[00:40:20] - Practical Steps to Let Go of PerfectionismIdentifying the root of perfectionist expectationsStriving for excellence, not perfectionGiving yourself permission to release unrealistic standards[00:50:10] - Final Thoughts & Takeaways"Your kids don’t need a perfect mother. They need a happy one."The importance of self-care and prioritizing joy in parentingEncouragement for moms to embrace imperfection as part of growth🎧 Tune in for honest conversations, personal stories, and actionable insights. Because the coach is in, and this space is for you!

In this episode, Irene and Cat delve into how early experiences with authority figures influence workplace behavior, leading to fear, people-pleasing, and self-doubt. They share personal stories and strategies to recognize and reshape these patterns for healthier professional relationships.Content Highlights:[00:00:00] – Introduction to the episode's theme: authority in personal and professional contexts.[00:02:15] – Irene's realization of how her fear of authority stems from childhood experiences.[00:06:30] – Discussion on how upbringing shapes perceptions of authority and leadership.[00:12:45] – Exploration of people-pleasing behaviors at work and their origins.[00:18:20] – Irene shares strategies she employed to build confidence and set boundaries.[00:24:10] – The importance of self-awareness in identifying and altering unhelpful patterns.[00:30:05] – Coaching tips for listeners to recognize and manage their reactions to authority figuresAbout the show:The Coach is In is a podcast for parent-leaders who are carrying it all: careers, kids, family, and the invisible weight no one seems to see.Meet your hosts, Cat and Irene. Irene is an ICF certified leadership coach on a mission to break intergenerational cycles and bridge generational gaps. Cat is a coach who works with high-achieving moms and service-oriented women like her—women who are burning bright but sometimes burning out. Together, we’re diving deep into the messy, beautiful balancing act of leading your family, leaning into your work and living your life without losing yourself in the process.From calming your nervous system when the overwhelm hits, to navigating tough conversations at home or work, to finally finding boundaries that actually stick—this space is for YOU.Each episode, we’ll bring practical tools, real-life stories, and honest conversations to help you move from burned out to lit up.So, if you’ve ever wondered, “How can I show up for my family AND take care of myself?” or “When is it time to let go of old patterns that don’t serve me?”—we’ve got you.Follow the podcast and feel free to connect with us at:Email: [email protected]: @thecoachisinpodcast

In this episode, Irene and Cat shed light on:Self-Care and Achievement as seemingly conflicting valuesSelf-Care has a learning curveOpenness to unexpected outcomeWhat doing well means to *you*Book Recommendations:Ray Dalio's Principles: https://a.co/d/dvOhfvQRamit Sethi's I Will Teach You to Be Rich: https://a.co/d/8a2oGPXAbout the show:Join us, Irene Uy and Carmelita (Cat) Tiu, both certified life coaches, as we share our stories and hear from business leaders, generational pioneers and experts as we discuss the personal, relational and professional challenges we, immigrants and children of immigrants face.Get ready to break personal, cultural or generational barriers that get in the way of being the best version of yourself and living the best version of life!Follow the podcast and feel free to connect with us at:Email: [email protected]: @thecoachisinpodcast

In this episode, Irene and Cat shed light on:Calibrating ExpectationsFamily as a ValueTime Audit: The realities of our dayYour Body and its Untapped WisdomBecoming Your ValuesAbout the show:Join us, Irene Uy and Carmelita (Cat) Tiu, both certified life coaches, as we share our stories and hear from business leaders, generational pioneers and experts as we discuss the personal, relational and professional challenges we, immigrants and children of immigrants face.Get ready to break personal, cultural or generational barriers that get in the way of being the best version of yourself and living the best version of life!Follow the podcast and feel free to connect with us at:Email: [email protected]: @thecoachisinpodcast

In this episode, Irene and Cat shed light on:A weddingA graduationFinding Joy in the JourneyAbout the show:Join us, Irene Uy and Carmelita (Cat) Tiu, both certified life coaches, as we share our stories and hear from business leaders, generational pioneers and experts as we discuss the personal, relational and professional challenges we, immigrants and children of immigrants face.Get ready to break personal, cultural or generational barriers that get in the way of being the best version of yourself and living the best version of life!Follow the podcast and feel free to connect with us at:Email: [email protected]: @thecoachisinpodcastBONUS Wedding Teaser: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3VobkSvzCF/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Meet Irene.She's a Holistic Leadership Coach whose current focus is helping adult children of highly successful parents cultivate their independence. Navigating one's life choices can be challenging especially when you have highly successful parents hovering over your every move; as if to project their own life choices on you. At the same time, parents never really stop being parents, even to their adult children. It is Irene's hope to bridge generational gaps through coaching: through respectful communication and openness to different perspectives.This is her story.Follow the podcast and feel free to connect with us at:Email: [email protected]: @thecoachisinpodcast

In this episode, Irene and Cat shed light on:what motivated them to start a podcastwhat coaching iswhat coaching isn'twhat you can expect from here on out! About the show:Join us, Irene Uy and Carmelita (Cat) Tiu, both certified life coaches, as we share our stories and hear from business leaders, generational pioneers and experts as we discuss the personal, relational and professional challenges we, immigrants and children of immigrants face.Get ready to break personal, cultural or generational barriers that get in the way of being the best version of yourself and living the best version of life!Follow the podcast and feel free to connect with us at:Email: [email protected]: @thecoachisinpodcast

 Welcome to The Coach is In, the podcast for parent leaders who are carrying it all. Careers, kids, family, and the invisible weight no one seems to see. If you've ever wondered, how can I show up for my family and take care of myself, or when is it time to let go of old patterns that don't serve me? We've got you.  Each episode will bring practical tools, real life stories, And honest conversations to help you move from burnt out to lit up.Hit follow, and join us as we explore how parent leaders like you can step into your full potential with clarity, connection, and courage.Visit www.thecoachisinpodcast.com and follow us @thecoachisinpodcast on Instagram.Your hosts:10 years ago, Irene Uy moved to the US on her own as an immigrant. She has a background in management engineering, earned her master's degree from Columbia University, and secured her permanent residence through work. She spent her career in real estate, and she's now a certified coach accredited with the ICF. She coaches through a cross-cultural perspective having been raised in a Chinese household in the Philippines. She's currently based in New York, and lives with her fiancé and her dog.IG: @msireneuyCat is an INFJ and a fool for dancing. She has an art degree, a law degree, and her work days are spent between being an attorney, podcaster, and personal development coach. Her parents came to the States from the Philippines in the 1960s. Her dad's Chinese, her mom's Filipino, and they landed in Milwaukee where she was born. She now lives in Chicago with her two daughters, husband, an aging snowshoe Siamese cat, and about a dozen vintage motorcycles.IG: @carmelitatiu and @knowberaisethem (podcast for moms of girls)Sign up for our newsletter here.