the delusionally confident girls

Welcome back to another episode of The Delusionally Confident Girls 💌In this episode, we’re talking about something that hits way too close in your 20s — the feeling of being “behind.” Whether it’s scrolling on social media or watching people in your real life hit milestones before you, it’s so easy to start questioning your own timeline.We get into how comparison shows up online and in real life, the pressure to keep up, and how social media can both inspire and completely mess with your mindset. From comparing yourself to influencers to comparing your life path, relationships, and career to the people around you — we’ve been there.We also talk about how comparison isn’t always a bad thing, what healthy influence actually looks like, and why what you’re seeing isn’t always the full picture. This episode gets a little chaotic (martinis were involved 🍸), but it’s honest, relatable, and a reminder that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.If you’ve ever felt behind, stuck, or like everyone else is ahead of you… this one’s for you.Come hang out with us 💋 https://www.instagram.com/emily_uplegger?igsh=N3ZxaHJsaXpnbTZ4⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/jaelyndevito?igsh=ZWkzbmJyYmtqemRj&utm_source=qr

Welcome to the very first episode of The Delusionally Confident Girls 💌In this episode, we’re getting real about confidence — the kind you build, the kind you fake, and the kind that might be just a little… delusional. We talk about what “delusional confidence” actually means to us, how it’s helped (and hurt) us, and the fine line between pretending, believing, and becoming.We open up about our own journeys with insecurity, moments where we thought we were confident but weren’t, and how our mindsets have evolved over time. From fake confidence to real confidence to fully stepping into a more unapologetic, “delusionally confident” version of ourselves — nothing is off limits.If you’ve ever questioned your confidence, compared yourself to others, or wondered if you’re just “faking it till you make it”… this one’s for you.Come hang out with us 💋https://www.instagram.com/emily_uplegger?igsh=N3ZxaHJsaXpnbTZ4https://www.instagram.com/jaelyndevito?igsh=ZWkzbmJyYmtqemRj&utm_source=qr