The Intersections by Talaya Podcast

Disrupting the "nice" surface-level talk of leadership."I am what many consider a quiet person. However, today, I’m going to say some things out loud."Welcome back to the Intersections. In this reflection, I’m addressing the elephant in the room. Since being named a 2025 Bush Fellow, I’ve noticed a shift. Doors that were triple-bolted for years are suddenly swinging open. My inbox is fuller. But here is the reality: I am the same Talaya I was 8 months ago. My mission for health equity hasn't changed. So, we have to ask: Why does the system wait for a "stamp of approval" to acknowledge a leader's worth?Inside this reflection, you will find:01:16 – The Validation Trap: Why we ignore "in-the-trenches" work until it has a prestigious title attached to it.03:08 – Grandma’s Recipe: My grandmother taught me that you can’t rush the pot. When your "Gumbo of Emotions" is boiling, the "slow cook" of integrity is your greatest strategy.04:25 – Purse vs. Partnership: Addressing the assumption that a Bush fellowship is a community sponsorship fund. Why protecting your growth isn't selfish, it’s stewardship.05:47 – The Leadership Audit: Two questions to help you recognize a leader by their footprints, not just their bio."Leaders come a dime a dozen. But leaders who show up with their whole heart when no one is clapping? Those are the stewards of change. Because they didn't 'buy' their way in, they don't owe the system their silence."The Audit: Two Questions for Your WeekI want to leave you with a challenge to audit your own perspective:For the Overlooked: If the prestigious title never comes, is your "why" still enough to sustain you?For the Overlooker: Who are you ignoring right now simply because they don't have the "right" stamp of approval? Do you have the audacity to recognize a leader by the integrity of their footprints, rather than their popularity?Connect & ReflectI’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments: Have you ever felt the sting of the Validation Trap? How did you keep your ingredients pure while the pot was boiling?Continue the journey: https://www.talayadendy.proSupport the mission: https://www.ontheotherside.life Get full access to The Intersections by Talaya at talayadendy.substack.com/subscribe

“The Bush Fellowship isn't just a grant; it’s a mirror. It forces you to ask: Who do I need to become to lead the change I'm calling for?”In this episode, Talaya Dendy pulls back the curtain on the rigorous, multi-year journey of becoming a 2025 Bush Fellow. Moving beyond the prestige of the title, she describes the fellowship as a "working laboratory" for leadership, sustainability, and deep internal work.Talaya shares the raw reality of the application process, from a 2019 rejection to navigating high-stakes interviews shortly after battling a 100-degree fever. This episode is a masterclass in professional persistence, illustrating how the same grit required to navigate a cancer diagnosis is the foundation for systemic advocacy.In This Episode, We Explore:Defining the Fellowship: Understanding the Bush Fellowship as a self-designed leadership program focused on an individual's potential and well-being rather than just a professional "trophy".The Power of "No": Why Talaya’s 2019 rejection was a "blessing in disguise" that allowed for necessary personal and professional growth.The Leadership Audit: The shift from focusing on "what I do" to "who I am," sparked by the challenging interview question: "What do you need... for you?"Persistence in Advocacy: Drawing parallels between the "holding space" required in the healthcare system and a cancer diagnosis, and the waiting periods of elite leadership processes.Sustainability and Rest: Moving away from the "2:00 AM" work culture to prioritize the rest required to lead for the long haul.Key Takeaway"Leadership and advocacy aren't just about the work we do. It's about the person we become while doing it."The 15-Minute Leadership AuditTalaya challenges every listener to take 15 minutes this week to reflect on these two core questions:1. The Capacity Question: If I am to lead the change I want to see in the next five years, what part of my current leadership style must evolve or be left behind?2. The Sustainability Question: Am I building the capacity to honor my vision and to stay in this work for the long run?Connect with TalayaSubstack: https://substack.com/@cancerdoulahttps://talayadendy.substack.comProfessional Portfolio: https://www.talayadendy.proWebsite: https://www.ontheotherside.life Get full access to The Intersections by Talaya at talayadendy.substack.com/subscribe

Episode 1: The Foundation of the Intersection“Leadership and advocacy aren't just about the work that we do. It's about the person we become while doing it.”Welcome to the inaugural episode of The Intersections by Talaya. Today is a beginning, a raw, unscripted "audio documentation" of what it means to lead, advocate, and grow in real-time. Host Talaya Dendy, a 14-year cancer thriver and 2025 Bush Fellow, pulls back the curtain on why this space exists and the "gumbo" of topics we are set to explore.In this introduction, Talaya discusses moving beyond just "sharing a story" to addressing the systemic inequities that make the cancer journey harder for some than others. She also introduces her journey as a Bush Fellow, framing this podcast as a "working laboratory" for leadership development and systemic change.In This Episode, We Explore:The Mission of The Intersections: Where health, leadership, equity, and education meet to address medical and systemic challenges.The Bush Fellowship Journey: An inside look at an investment in a leader’s potential, well-being, and capacity for long-term impact.Leading with Audacity: A personal tribute to Talaya’s grandmother, Anna Berry, and how the "gumbo" of Louisiana summers instilled the fearless faith required to do this work.Documenting the Journey: Why this podcast will remain unstructured, honest, and sometimes "out of order" as Talaya learns her lessons in real-time.Key Takeaway"I don't look like a lot of people that are doing the work in the cancer space. I don't sound like a lot of the people... but gumbo brings people together. That is my goal as well."Connect with TalayaSubstack: Join the conversation and read the latest reflections at https://substack.com/@cancerdoulaProfessional Portfolio: https://www.talayadendy.proWebsite: https://www.ontheotherside.life Get full access to The Intersections by Talaya at talayadendy.substack.com/subscribe