The Joevelocity Show

On the 17th episode of the Joevelocity Show, we delve into the chaotic and often absurd experiences shared on Reddit, highlighting the wild interactions between individuals that showcase the range of human behavior and our reactions to it.As we enter 2026, Hubba and I reflect on our subdued New Year's celebrations, humorously recounting our experiences and observations about socializing in a post-pandemic world where staying in often holds more appeal than going out.We kick off our discussion with an outrageous tale of an encounter with a man asking for a burger at McDonald's, who reacted poorly to receiving a meal he didn't specifically order, leading to a comical exchange. The humor around this story showcases how people often misinterpret kindness and the social norms surrounding gratitude or expectations of generosity. We explore the responses on Reddit, where commenters hilariously critique both the harmed and the harmers in this situation, questioning the absurdity of the demands placed on those offering help.Moving on, we unveil another Reddit saga involving a party gone wrong, where a guest accidentally soiled the host's couch and bed. This leads us to question shared responsibilities and etiquette when visiting someone else's home. The mishap escalates as a messy group dynamic unfolds, showcasing the aftermath efforts for reimbursement and the emotional fallout from friends who feel unjustly accused. We share our thoughts on the nature of friendship and accountability, reinforced by reactions from the Reddit community that oscillate between sympathy for the host and disbelief at the guest's behavior.The show proceeds with a perplexing workplace narrative where a server confronts accusations of drinking on the job. The story spirals as the server attempts to clear their name by calling the police, only to face more significant consequences in the form of insubordination charges from management. This amplifies our discussion on workplace politics and the complexities of establishing trust and competence within a work environment. The precarious balance between authority and employee treatment comes to the forefront, compelling us to ponder the ethical implications of management decisions.Finally, we explore a truly chaotic workplace scenario involving a conflict between coworkers, which escalates into physical altercations driven by personal grievances and a lack of leadership. The aftermath not only results in multiple firings but also reveals a toxic work culture that neglects to address issues cohesively. Our reflections on this situation lead us to consider the importance of conflict resolution and effective management in maintaining a healthy work environment.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

In this holiday episode of the Joevelocity Show, I welcome two very special guests: my mother, Sharon, and my best friend, Hubba. With this being our festive edition, we delve into some personal stories while reflecting on our unique experiences during the holiday season, punctuated by a delightful mix of nostalgia and humor.We kick things off with some amusing anecdotes about our festive preparations. I share my recent foray into creating retro Christmas cards using a Commodore 128 and a laser printer, which led to some technical difficulties and unexpected challenges with cardstock. As my mom and Hubba chime in, we chat about the trials of crafting holiday greetings and the year’s various ups and downs, including the joys of family gatherings juxtaposed with the frustration of technical mishaps typical of any DIY endeavor.• AITA for sharing what I thought was a funny Christmas memory and royally ticking off my Grandma?The story revolves around a family Christmas where a thoughtful gift of encyclopedias turned unexpectedly bittersweet due to a joking remark they made, illustrating the delicate nature of familial love and how humor can sometimes misfire. Mom and Hubba weigh in on the importance of being mindful when recounting past experiences, especially when they involve cherished family members, leading to a spirited discussion about intention vs. perception in holiday stories.• WIBTA if I skipped Christmas over the movie “A Christmas Story”Next, we dive into some comically distressing situations involving family traditions—the recurring theme of “A Christmas Story” movie marathons that leave some family members feeling overstimulated and drained. I recount the struggle of feeling trapped in a holiday routine that fails to respect personal preferences, prompting a greater discussion about the importance of considering others’ feelings during holiday gatherings. The conversation highlights the often-overlooked nuances of family traditions and personal boundaries that can lead to holiday pressures.• AITA for just giving everyone money for Christmas?We address the scenarios that highlight the complexities of holiday interactions—from appraising gifts in terms of monetary value to navigating intense familial expectations around Christmas traditions.• Guy I'm seeing legitimately thinks Santa Claus is realFinally, we wrap up with a haunting and peculiar story about a Christmas celebration that takes a bizarre turn when faced with an ominously intense family belief in St. Nick. This narrative steers us into deeper territory as we discuss the often surreal disconnect between traditions and realities within family dynamics—serving as a reminder that not all holiday experiences are filled with laughter and warmth.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the 15th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba, and we discuss r/AITA food-related stories from Reddit.• IntroBefore we get started with the stories, we discuss Hubba's recent eye injury from a bungee cord mishap, and Joe’s retro computing winter project.• AITA for being mad my boyfriend won't make noodles the way I like?The first story revolves around a couple navigating the complexities of food preferences and communication in their relationship. A woman confronts her boyfriend about his unconventional approach to preparing her spaghetti, revealing deeper trust issues and misunderstandings. • AITA for dropping our dinner on the ground and walking out when my boyfriend asked me "What's for dinner tonight, b*tch?"During the second story, a woman gets mad when her significant other repeats a crude Tiktok trend, causing her to get mad and leave the house. As we dissect the reactions of both parties, it becomes clear that communication can often become muddled, leading to unnecessary conflict over something as simple as dinner.• AITA for refusing to pay for my boyfriend's vodka after smashing it?Next, we tackle the plight of a recovering alcoholic whose emotional turmoil leads her to confront her boyfriend over a vodka bottle he uses in cooking. The discussion unveils underlying themes about respect and understanding in romantic relationships, especially when one partner is dealing with personal struggles.• AITA by confronting my boyfriend who kept secretly bringing sticks of butter into the bathroom?Finally, we explore an absolutely eye-catching story involving a boyfriend's curious habits with butter. As the plot thickens, it humorously morphs into a narrative about personal boundaries and the importance of transparency in a partnership. This outlandish revelation raises eyebrows and chuckles alike, leading us to reflect on the oddities of human behavior.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the 14h episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba, and we discuss r/AITA stories from Reddit.• AITA that my dog came with me to pick up take out?As we unpack the first story, we examine both sides of the argument, discussing the entitled feelings of the dog owner versus the irritation of the other patrons. The discussion highlights social etiquette and personal responsibility, leading to moments of reflection on the complexities of shared public spaces.• AITA for helping my daughter in law clean her studio space?The second story evolves around a well-meaning mother-in-law who took it upon herself to clean her daughter-in-law's chaotic art studio. We discuss the miscommunication and lack of boundaries that led to an explosive reaction from the daughter-in-law, emphasizing the importance of respecting personal spaces and the dynamics that come with family relationships. Both comedic and poignant, this situation stirs a conversation about the unintended consequences of trying to help when boundaries are crossed.---Savorista Coffee offers premium craft decaf and half caf blends with bold flavors, ethically sourced beans, and natural decaffeination. Small-batch roasted for exceptional taste. Enjoy an exclusive 25% discount with the promo code JOEVELOCITY at SAVORISTA.COM.---• AITA for making my son quit his part time job to go on our family vacation?As we ease into the third story, we confront the dilemma of parental authority versus a teenager's independence. A family grapples with the decision to force their son to prioritize a family vacation over his part-time job, leading to conflict and lasting resentment. We ponder the implications of family values and individual responsibilities, drawing parallels to the broader expectations society places on young adults today.• AITA for being a drug dealer to my son's cat?The episode wraps up with a humorous yet thought-provoking tale of a grandmother who defiantly gives her son's cat a daily dose of catnip, despite his explicit instructions against it. This lighthearted story provides an opportunity to reflect on the relatable and often absurd nature of familial bonds—how the relationships are filled with both love and a touch of rebellion. We share our laughs while contemplating the deeper questions of trust and boundaries in family dynamics.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the 13th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba, and we discuss r/AIO (Am I Overreacting) stories from Reddit.•AIO for secretly recording my boyfriend because I thought he was gaslighting me?We kick things off with a rather tense situation involving a secret recording. A woman feels she's being gaslighted by her boyfriend and resorts to recording their conversations to prove her point. This leads to a heated debate about privacy and trust in relationships. While some argue that her actions were a violation, others sympathize with her plight. Joe reflects on his own experiences, drawing parallels and emphasizing the delicate balance between validating one’s feelings and respecting personal boundaries.•AIO Aunt harvested my garden and mom let her do it.Next, we shift gears to a more familial issue as we discuss a woman enraged by her aunt harvesting her homegrown garden without permission. This story prompts us to contemplate respect for personal property and the deeper familial dynamics at play. We share our outrage over the aunt’s entitlement, and encourage listeners to consider the emotional investment tied to one’s hard work, especially when family crosses the line.---Savorista Coffee offers premium craft decaf and half caf blends with bold flavors, ethically sourced beans, and natural decaffeination. Small-batch roasted for exceptional taste. Enjoy an exclusive 25% discount with the promo code JOEVELOCITY at SAVORISTA.COM.---•AIO for calling off my wedding after finding out my fiancé had a "breakup box" of his exes?We then dive into a heart-wrenching story about a woman who calls off her wedding after discovering a box full of her fiancé's mementos from past relationships. This prompts a candid discussion on nostalgia and how we carry our pasts into new relationships. While we initially empathize with her hurt feelings,we ultimately agree that holding on to past relationships can be a healthy part of one’s growth, as long as it doesn’t interfere with the present partnership.•AIO I lost my best friend of 7 years?Lastly, we explore a complicated and tragic tale involving a friendship that turns sour after an intimate encounter under the influence of alcohol. As we unpack the layers of consent and emotional fallout, We point out the ambiguity that often exists in relationships involving intoxication, and the importance of clear communication. The intricate feelings of guilt, shame, and confusion that arise from the incident lead us to question accountability and the impact of societal pressures on personal identity.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the 12th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba, and we discuss r/AITA stories from Reddit.• My girlfriend and I have a puppy but cannot be there for her 100% of the time. AITA? We start off with a discussion about the responsibilities of pet ownership, particularly when it comes to managing time and care for a young puppy. We tackle a dilemma involving a couple who are struggling to care for their new puppy while balancing their college commitments. The puppy's care falls on the girlfriend's younger brother, leading to an incident where the puppy chews a bottle of urine cleaner, raising concerns about her health. We explore the parents' frustration over the situation and their threat to put the puppy up for adoption due to the couple's absence. As we unpack the scenario, we debate whether it's fair to hold a 13-year-old responsible and highlight the importance of understanding the responsibilities of having a pet. The overarching theme is about learning to juggle priorities and responsibilities while ensuring the safety and well-being of a beloved pet.• AITA for not supporting my friend's "AI music career"?Next, we explore the role of AI in creative industries, questioning its impact on authenticity and the value of human skill. We discuss how AI-generated content, such as music and movies, is gaining traction, sometimes at the expense of genuine human creativity. Concerns about AI replacing real artists and creating virtual personas for commercial gain are raised, alongside humorous yet unsettling examples of AI-generated media featuring iconic figures like Bob Ross, Fred Rogers, and Michael Jackson. Throughout, we stress the importance of using AI as a tool rather than a replacement for human input, emphasizing honesty and transparency with audiences about AI's involvement in creative processes.• AITA for asking my girlfriend to pay me back after she broke my gaming headset?The conversation shifts to a personal story about the responsibility and fairness involved when accidents happen, specifically when asking a girlfriend to pay for a broken gaming headset. • My husband has informed me he intends to go on a "gaycation" with his BIL in Ibiza. How do I handle this?Finally,  we tackle an unusual and complex relationship dilemma, as we explore the concept of a "gaycation," where a husband plans a trip to Ibiza with his brother-in-law under the guise of experiencing gay life without identifying as gay or bisexual. I discuss the wife's confusion and concern as she navigates this surreal situation, trying to understand her husband's motivations and whether his desire to participate in such a trip is indicative of a deeper truth about his sexuality. We also touch on the emotional strain this revelation has placed on their marriage, the husband's defensive stance, and the wife's fear of their marriage potentially ending if he proceeds with the trip. Through humor and disbelief, we reflect on the challenges of communication and trust within a relationship when confronted with such unexpected desires.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

(00:00:00) We read Reddit Stories: Booger Sugar and Nose Pints (00:06:42) AITA for not stocking the fridge for my husband after his business trip? (00:12:22) AITA for calling out my parents for being greedy landlords? (00:21:01) AITA if I told my niece she needs to move out? (00:27:04) AITA for asking my sister what she expected to happen at her excuse of a bachelorette party? On the 11th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba, and we discuss some r/AITA stories from Reddit.• AITA for not stocking the fridge for my husband after his business trip?In the first story, Joe and Hubba examine the evolving dynamics of marriage and family expectations, particularly focusing on traditional gender roles and their impact on relationships. We explore how some men may view marriage as a final destination, leading to an imbalance in shared responsibilities at home. Anecdotes about family experiences highlight these themes, such as the story of a father who expected his wife to make him a sandwich while she was in labor. The conversation shifts to generational differences in relationships, with older couples often enduring hardships longer than younger ones today.• AITA for calling out my parents for being greedy landlords?Next, we examine the ethical responsibilities of landlords, with a focus on a personal story of confronting parents about their treatment of tenants during tough economic times. These discussions highlight issues of fairness, empathy, and evolving societal norms.• AITA if I told my niece she needs to move out?In the third story, we explore a challenging family dynamic where a listener is faced with the decision of asking their niece to move out after living with them rent-free for three years. The niece, who originally stayed behind to pursue college while her parents moved out of state, has not enrolled in school and has developed poor living habits. We discuss the listener's perspective, who feels the niece is taking advantage of the situation, and consider the fairness of expecting her to adhere to the original agreement or contribute more responsibly to the household. • AITA for asking my sister what she expected to happen at her excuse of a bachelorette party?Finally, Joe and Hubba explore the chaotic aftermath of a joint bachelorette party gone awry, leading to multiple breakups, a divorce, and even an arrest. We discuss the questionable decisions of celebrating with heavy drinking and drug use, and the inevitable consequences that followed. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes related to cocaine use, with reflections on its impact on relationships and behavior. The broader implications of indulging in substances and the importance of personal boundaries are also examined, shedding light on the repercussions of attempting to escape reality without considering the fallout.Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss an episode! For access to all of our websites, visit us at joevelocity.com---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

(00:00:00) I read Reddit Stories: Crashing Plates and the Pee-Pee Tapes (00:01:18) AITA for paying for my dog’s surgery instead of helping my girlfriend’s sister with her rent? (00:04:40) AITA for saying I will move out of my parents house? (00:11:56) AITA for being in love with two men at the same time? (00:16:50) AITA for not following an autistic ritual resulting in property being damaged? (00:20:55) AITA for not taking in my BIL who peed on my stuff and blamed my cat? On the 10th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is solo this time, and he reads some more r/AITA stories from Reddit.• AITA for paying for my dog’s surgery instead of helping my girlfriend’s sister with her rent?The first r/AITA story is about a man who chose to pay for his dog's $8,500 surgery instead of helping his girlfriend's sister with her rent. I discuss the ethical and personal dilemmas involved, examining whether he is in the wrong for prioritizing his pet's health over his girlfriend's family issues. The story highlights different perspectives, with some commenters siding with the man's right to spend his money as he sees fit, while others emphasize the importance of compassion. I suggest potential solutions, such as offering a loan or finding a roommate, to navigate the tension between financial responsibility and empathy.• AITA for saying I will move out of my parents house?Next, Joe addresses a challenging family situation where a 24-year-old single mother, living with her parents to complete her sonography program, faces the dilemma of making room for her grandmother, whose health is rapidly declining. With the family's three-bedroom home already full, the proposed solution involves moving her teenage brother to the living room, prompting her to suggest moving out to ease the cramped living conditions. This suggestion leads to tension with her mother, who feels overwhelmed and accuses her of being ungrateful. Through thoughtful commentary, I explore the importance of balancing short-term sacrifices for long-term goals, the complexities of family obligations, and the need for understanding and support during difficult times. Emphasizing the value of completing her education for a better future, I highlight the temporary nature of the discomfort and encourage communication and compassion among family members.• AITA for being in love with two men at the same time?The next story addresses the complexities of navigating love triangles and the importance of making decisive choices for personal growth and relationship clarity. I explore the notion that true love is selfless and contrast it with the often self-centered nature of lust. The chapter highlights the potential fallout of choosing between two partners and reflects on personal experiences of being single after choosing poorly. Additionally, I discuss the necessity of ensuring that relationships add value rather than detract from one's life.• AITA for not following an autistic ritual resulting in property being damaged?I touch on an awkward social situation involving a friend's autistic child and an unexpected dinner ritual, emphasizing the importance of communication and setting expectations in social gatherings to avoid misunderstandings and conflict.• AITA for not taking in my BIL who peed on my stuff and blamed my cat?In the Moment of Conclusion, I examine the story where the poster and her husband once lived with his brother while her husband finished college. She brought her toilet-trained male cat, with everyone’s approval. Not long after moving in, she started finding her clothes, shoes, and other belongings soaked in urine that smelled human, not like cat pee. The brother blamed the cat, but after weeks of frustration, the poster set up a hidden camera — and caught her husband’s brother himself sneaking into their room and urinating on her things.She immediately moved out, left her husband to handle it, and never really spoke to his brother again. Years later, after the pandemic left the brother unemployed and homeless, he asked to move in with them. She refused, saying she could never live with someone who had literally peed on her belongings. Joe voted her as not an asshole. Her brother-in-law’s behavior was egregious and violating and refusing to let him move in is a reasonable boundary, not a grudge.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

(00:00:00) We read Reddit Stories: Laughter, Limits, and Lessons in Pranking (00:00:46) Intro (00:06:30) AITA for laughing when my wife fell and pooped her pants because I thought it was a prank? (00:09:40) AITA for ruining the banana prank? (00:18:17) AITA for going to the police over a 'prank' (00:27:08) AITA for wearing a white dress to my friend’s wedding? On the 9th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his mother Sharon, and we discuss some r/AITA stories from Reddit.• AITA for laughing when my wife fell and pooped her pants because I thought it was a prank?We start off with the story of a 33-year-old man laughed when his 31-year-old wife fell and said she had pooped her pants, because he assumed it was another one of her toilet-humor pranks. She’s known for pulling stunts like that, so he thought it was intentional comedy. When he realized it wasn’t a joke, he tried to help, but she was upset, sarcastically called him “husband of the year,” and argued he should have known it was real since she doesn’t repeat pranks. He wonders if he’s the asshole for laughing at her accident.• AITA for ruining the banana prank?Next, we venture into the humorous yet complex world of pranks within relationships. We explore a story where a husband and wife navigate the repercussions of frequent pranking, questioning when jokes stop being funny and start causing friction. We also examine a listener's story involving a woman who has a strong dislike for bananas and her boyfriend's persistence in using them as a prank. Despite her general love for pranks, the banana jokes push boundaries, sparking a discussion on respect and understanding personal boundaries within relationships. The chapter humorously critiques these situations while emphasizing the importance of recognizing when a joke is no longer a joke but an act of insensitivity.• AITA for going to the police over a 'prank'Next, we explore a troubling incident where a vegan individual, intoxicated at a party, was tricked into eating chicken nuggets by friends who claimed they were vegan-friendly. The story highlights the importance of respecting dietary choices, as these choices often extend beyond mere preference to encompass lifestyle and health concerns. We reflect on how such pranks can have severe physical and emotional consequences, especially for those with strict diets like vegetarians and vegans. We also consider personal experiences with dietary changes and the societal lack of understanding that sometimes surrounds them. By sharing stories from both the podcast hosts and cultural references like a "Seinfeld" episode, we emphasize that respecting others' dietary preferences is crucial and not a matter for humor.• AITA for wearing a white dress to my friend’s wedding?Finally, we’re taken through a perplexing and emotional story of friendship and betrayal, revolving around the age-old faux pas of wearing a white dress to a wedding. A woman recounts how she wore a white dress to her friend Charlotte's wedding, a decision she made after Charlotte specifically chose the dress for her, despite her own reservations. The story takes an unexpected turn when Charlotte reveals that this was a loyalty test, leading to an explosive confrontation. We explore the bewildering nature of this "friendship test" and question the motives behind such a move, particularly after the support and financial help given by the narrator. We discuss the unrealistic expectations set by Charlotte, the extravagant nature of the wedding, and how a potential moment of laughter turned into a public fallout. We question the essence of true friendship and the absurdity of testing loyalty in such a dramatic fashion.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

(00:00:00) We read Reddit Stories: Unexpected News and the Pet Love Paradox (00:00:49) Intro (00:04:10) AITA for snapping at my husband that he needs to get over his ADHD quirk? (00:11:42) AITA for not wanting my daughter’s party turned into a pregnancy announcement? (00:19:23) AITA for accepting an $800 reward for a lost cat? (00:26:07) AITA for expecting my girlfriend to help with our flights home for a funeral? On the 8th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his mother Sharon, and we discuss some r/AITA parties stories from Reddit.• AITA for snapping at my husband that he needs to get over his ADHD quirk?Starting off, we explore a fascinating scenario where a listener shares a story about her husband's sensitivity to the sound of her blinking, potentially linked to his ADHD or misophonia. We unpack the complexities of living with ADHD and how it can affect relationships, especially when unusual sensitivities arise. While the husband's sensitivity seems extreme, it's acknowledged as a real issue, possibly exacerbated by stress or the cessation of medication. We also discuss potential solutions, such as therapy, medication, and practical measures like earplugs, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in managing such challenges. Throughout, we reflect on personal experiences with similar sensitivities, such as noisy chewing, and highlight the need for mutual empathy and coping strategies.• AITA for not wanting my daughter’s party turned into a pregnancy announcement?Next, we explore a family dilemma where a woman is concerned about her brother-in-law's plan to announce his girlfriend's pregnancy at her daughter's second birthday party. She fears the announcement will overshadow her daughter's special day and worries about the potential reaction from her father-in-law, known for his explosive temper. We discuss whether it's fair for the brother-in-law to use this occasion for his announcement and her anxiety about her father-in-law's unpredictable behavior. Suggestions include confronting the brother-in-law to disclose the news beforehand or possibly not inviting the father-in-law to maintain peace. The consensus leans toward prioritizing the daughter's birthday and addressing the family's communication issues to avoid further conflicts.• AITA for accepting an $800 reward for a lost cat?We explore the ethical dilemma of accepting a monetary reward for returning a lost pet. We consider the differing opinions of friends who believe it might be in poor taste to accept the money, especially given the family's financial situation. We reflect on the value of pets as family members and discuss the importance of setting realistic reward amounts for lost animals. Joe shares anecdotes about his own pet expenses, highlighting how people are often willing to spend significant sums on their pets' well-being. Additionally, it’s examined how the promise of a reward can motivate people to help locate lost pets, ultimately justifying the acceptance of such rewards.• AITA for expecting my girlfriend to help with our flights home for a funeral?Finally, we examine the situation where a man is accompanying his girlfriend to her family member’s funeral across the country is taking four days off work and spending $500 on his own ticket. Her parents gave her money that fully covers her flight plus an extra $100. She insists that money is entirely hers, refuses to share it, and even plans to return the extra $100 to her parents rather than help him. He feels entitled to some of the money since he’s making sacrifices to support her and believes it’s selfish for her not to contribute. He asks if he’s the asshole for expecting financial help from her under these circumstances. We determine that she is in the wrong and should help her significant other.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

(00:00:00) We read Reddit Stories: Hidden College Letters and Canine Capers (00:00:40) Intro (00:02:34) AITA for refusing to ground my daughter? (00:08:29) AITA for an escaped pet? (00:20:33) AITA for going to another graphic designer after not getting mates rates from my friend? (00:27:41) AITA for expecting friends to do things in their field for free? On the 7th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his mother Sharon, and we discuss some r/AITA stories from Reddit.• AITA for refusing to ground my daughter?In the first story, a 34-year-old mother questions whether she's in the wrong for not punishing her daughter, Kylie, after she hid her boyfriend Wes's college acceptance letters. Sharon and Joe explore the ethical implications of Kylie's actions, discussing how she may have intercepted the mail and the serious consequences it might have for Wes's future. Sharon passionately argues that the mother should discipline Kylie to teach her about accountability and empathy, stressing that a heartfelt apology to Wes and his family is necessary. They also consider the potential financial impact if scholarship offers were involved, and Sharon suggests that Kylie might benefit from counseling to understand her motivations. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing wrongful behavior and ensuring young people learn from their mistakes.• AITA for an escaped pet?Next, we addresses the relatable challenges of pet ownership, highlighting a specific incident where a friend's dog escaped, leading to tensions between friends. We explore how escape-prone pets can cause stress, as well as the responsibilities of pet owners in securing their animals. Stories of past pet escapades are shared, including a massive neighbor's dog that was a handful to manage and the antics of adventurous cats and dogs testing boundaries. We touch on the joys and headaches of having indoor pets and the risks and surprises that come with allowing them outside. The discussion underscores the importance of vigilance, patience, and understanding when it comes to our furry companions, as well as the unexpected bonds and humorous situations they bring into our lives.• AITA for going to another graphic designer after not getting mates rates from my friend?Continuing on, we address the complexities of mixing friendships with business transactions. In this story a friend in graphic design doesn't offer a discounted rate, leading to feelings of betrayal when a friend seeks a better deal elsewhere. The discussion highlights the challenges of balancing friendship with professional obligations, emphasizing that businesses should be treated professionally even when friends are involved. • AITA for expecting friends to do things in their field for free?Finally, a tech professional often helps friends for free but is surprised when a lawyer friend charges for legal advice. This situation raises questions about the expectations of free services among friends and the value of professional work. Both stories highlight the need for clear boundaries and mutual respect in friendships when professional services are involved---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

(00:00:00) Intro (00:03:55) AITJ for emergency braking? (00:12:20) AITJ for how I handled a frustrating situation at the pharmacy? (00:21:08) AITJ for not wanting to pursue my dream job because my wife sacrificed hers? (00:28:34) AITJ for not being mad at my daughter and thinking she's actually pretty funny? (00:37:31) Ending On the 6th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his mother Sharon, and we discuss some r/AITJ stories from Reddit.• AITJ for emergency braking?We start with a situation involving an emergency stop to avoid hitting a cat, which led to a minor disagreement. We debate whether the driver's actions were justified, considering the safety concerns and the instinctive nature of the reaction. It's a blend of lighthearted banter and thoughtful discussion on responsibility and reflexes in tricky situations.• AITJ for how I handled a frustrating situation at the pharmacy?Next, we explore a situation at a pharmacy where a customer, who prefers privacy regarding her medications, encountered an issue when a pharmacy clerk insisted on having her state her first name aloud, despite her handing over her ID. We discuss the discomfort and potential privacy concerns, touching on the possibility of HIPAA violations when pharmacy staff are not discreet about personal information. Suggestions for handling such situations, including asking for a supervisor or pharmacist, are considered. Additionally, we reflect on the lack of privacy in pharmacies generally, with anecdotes about how medication details are sometimes spoken aloud, prompting some individuals to opt for mail-order prescriptions to maintain their privacy.• AITJ for not wanting to pursue my dream job because my wife sacrificed hers?This chapter explores a complex situation faced by a man who is torn between pursuing his dream job at a game studio and staying with his wife, Emily, who has put her own dreams on hold to support her family. We reflect on the man's internal struggle and the sacrifices both partners have made, questioning whether he is being fair to himself or if he might end up resenting his decision to stay. We discuss the dynamics of their relationship, the need for open communication, and the potential benefits of seeking counseling to address their conflicting aspirations. Ultimately, we ponder the importance of balancing personal dreams with relationship commitments, highlighting the need for a shared vision for the future.AITJ for not being mad at my daughter and thinking she's actually pretty funny?In our Moment of Conclusion, we explore a situation where a 12-year-old daughter repeatedly uses a word her parents disapprove of, leading to disagreements between her mother and father on how to handle the behavior. While the mother insists on punishment to deter attention-seeking behavior, the father believes ignoring it will make the daughter lose interest. The conversation highlights the importance of parental unity in setting boundaries and addresses the awkwardness parents feel when their children use language associated with growing up and sexuality. It also touches on the potential differences in parental reactions based on the child's gender---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

(00:00:00) We read Reddit Stories: Toxic Partners & Hidden Phones (00:00:15) Intro/General Discussion (00:08:18) My FWB no longer wants to have sex with me but wants to remain friends (00:15:11) AITA for considering ending a 5 year long relationship over how my GF treated me on my birthday? (00:22:26) I found out my husband had a second phone and now I don’t trust anything (00:26:05) My husband told me I am lucky he hasn’t cheated On episode 5 of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba and we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• General DiscussionOur conversation begins with lighthearted remarks about in-studio guest audio quality improvements and the challenges of recording in hot weather. Hubba shares their experience with  training in Pittsburgh's Strip District, highlighting the area's vibrant community and the growth of the local filmmaking industry. The discussion transitions to personal anecdotes about career paths, including a shift from video to audio work and hands-on carpentry training. Workplace dynamics are explored through stories of supportive training environments and past experiences with challenging colleagues. The narrative also touches on the Joe's decade-long tenure at their current company, their decision to avoid managerial roles, and the balance between professional and personal pursuits. Themes of authenticity, self-identity, and the importance of staying true to oneself are emphasized as keys to success and fulfillment. • My FWB no longer wants to have sex with me but wants to remain friends.In the Reddit AITA stories, we begin with a scenario where the poster's FWB decides to cease sexual relations while trying to maintain a friends-without-benefits arrangement, leading to hurt feelings and the eventual dissolution of the friendship. This raises questions about the transactional nature of their bond and the cultural trend of ghosting as a way to end relationships. The discussion expands to the emotional impact of silent treatment and ghosting, highlighting their severity and the importance of respectful communication when ending relationships.• AITA for considering ending a 5 year long relationship over how my GF treated me on my birthday?We examine a relationship scenario where one partner's repeated self-centered actions, including dismissive behavior on the other's birthday, reveal a pattern of manipulation and disregard for emotional well-being. Examples such as mishandling a partner's phobia further illustrate the strain caused by a lack of empathy and consideration, emphasizing the need for individuals to prioritize their emotional health and establish boundaries to avoid future heartache in relationships with self-centered partners.• I found out my husband had a second phone and now I don’t trust anything.Next is the story of a woman who discovers her husband's hidden second phone, leading to trust issues and speculation about infidelity. The husband's defensive behavior and lack of transparency raise concerns about the foundation of their marriage. Commenters emphasize the difficulty of rebuilding trust after deception and speculate on the implications of the husband's actions. • And in the Moment of Conclusion, my husband told me I am lucky he hasn’t cheated.Finally, we discuss another scenario where a woman struggles with intimacy after childbirth, facing her husband's frustration and hurtful comments. This highlights societal pressures on body image and the importance of emotional support in relationships. Efforts to rekindle romance through compliments and flirty behavior are met with mixed responses, underscoring the need for mutual appreciation and understanding. he chapter concludes by reinforcing that fidelity and love should be based on deeper qualities beyond physical appearance, and warns against the consequences of negative behavior in relationships.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the 4th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba and we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• AITA for telling my friend to stop policing my language?We start off with a Reddit story where we explore the dilemma of whether it's right to allow a friend to police one's language, particularly when it comes to using mild curse words or expressions like "oh my God." We share personal experiences with similar situations, highlighting the importance of allowing friends to express themselves freely without unwarranted corrections, while balancing respect for each other's boundaries. Through this discussion, we examine the dynamics of friendship and the nuances of respecting individual language preferences.• AITA for drinking a 6 pack of O'Doul's every morning?Next, the conversation shifts to a story about a recovering alcoholic who brings non-alcoholic beer to work as part of his sobriety routine, sparking complaints from colleagues and a meeting with HR. The debate highlights differing perceptions of non-alcoholic beer in a professional setting and raises questions about fairness and workplace norms.• AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?We explore the tale of a college student who took his girlfriend's entire tray of homemade lasagna home to his family, only to discover she had planned to eat it throughout the week due to her tight food budget. Listeners weigh in on the ethical implications and offer their judgments, largely siding against the student's actions and labeling him as inconsiderate. The narrative highlights the importance of communication and consideration in relationships. • And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for clearing out my ex-boyfriend’s childhood room in the home where he grew up?Finally, we examine a more intricate scenario involving a woman who moved in with her ex-boyfriend's father, who is now her significant other. The story promises a complex dynamic, teasing us with the potential drama and ethical considerations of cleaning out the childhood room of her ex-boyfriend. This chapter engages with themes of responsibility, respect, and the unexpected twists of personal relationships---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the 3rd episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his guest Hakeem as we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• AITA for demanding my friend pay back the money I loaned her for her trip because she's now posting about a luxury vacation?We start off with a lively discussion about the complexities of lending money to friends, featuring a story where someone is struggling to get back $2,000 loaned to a friend for an emergency. We explore the frustrations and challenges of seeing that friend post about a luxury vacation without paying back the loan. Joe and Hakeem debate whether asking for repayment makes someone an "asshole" and share insights on handling loans among friends, including the wisdom of treating such loans as gifts to avoid disappointment. There's a consensus that setting clear expectations and having written agreements can prevent misunderstandings. We also touch on personal experiences with family loans and the importance of managing expectations when lending money.• AITA for laughing at what my co-worker said when I thought it was a joke?Next, we examine a workplace incident where a manager, Joe, insists on employees responding with "yes" instead of "sure" to demonstrate compliance with orders. We explore the dynamics between Joe, another manager, and their employee, Ryan, questioning if Joe's approach is unnecessarily rigid. The conversation touches on the nuances of workplace communication and authority, suggesting that Joe might be overreacting and should perhaps lighten up. We also discuss broader issues of micromanagement, with anecdotes highlighting absurd management practices, such as excessive logging of bathroom breaks. These stories underscore the importance of fostering a respectful and understanding work environment rather than one that imposes unnecessary control, suggesting that micromanagement can lead to dissatisfaction and a desire to seek employment elsewhere.• AITA because I stopped answering the phone?We explore the complexities of managing friendships where one person may be overly dependent emotionally. We discuss the challenges of being seen as an emotional support object and the importance of setting boundaries to maintain personal well-being. We also reflect on how life events, such as job loss, can lead to emotional unraveling and how therapy can serve as a beneficial tool for self-care. Sharing personal experiences, Hakeem highlight the value of finding the right therapist and how engaging in therapy can offer valuable insights and support. Ultimately, the chapter underscores the importance of recognizing when professional help is needed and the difficulties in taking the first step toward seeking therapy.• And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for exposing the fact that my homophobic uncle uses Grindr during Thanksgiving dinner?Finally, we navigate a compelling dilemma faced by an 18-year-old who discovers his homophobic uncle on Grindr, a gay hookup app, and the subsequent fallout during a tense Thanksgiving dinner. The story highlights themes of hypocrisy, family dynamics, and the complex choices we face when confronting prejudice. We discuss whether the young man was justified in exposing his uncle's secret, considering the persistent homophobic abuse he endured. The conversation also touches on the implications for the uncle's marriage and the wider family, raising questions about morality and the appropriate ways to handle such situations. Ultimately, we ponder if the act of exposing the uncle was warranted or if it might have been better to handle it privately---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the 2nd episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his guest Hubba and we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• AITA for asking my brother to stop doing magic tricks at every family event?We kick off the show with a story about a woman questioning if she's in the wrong for asking her brother to tone down his magic tricks at family events. We explore the brother's constant need to perform, especially highlighted at their father's retirement dinner, and the family dynamics that ensue. We touch on the importance of reading the room and the delicate balance between passion and overstepping boundaries. We consider potential constructive outlets for his enthusiasm, such as volunteering at elder homes or performing for children, while sharing some personal insights into working with kids and their unpredictable yet genuine reactions.• AITA for refusing to go to my friend’s "no-phones dinner" after what happened last time?Next, Joe and Hubba explore the complexities of attending social events where phones are restricted, specifically focusing on a listener's dilemma about a friend's "no phones" dinner party. After missing an urgent call during a previous event, the listener feels conflicted about attending without a phone, especially when emergencies could arise. We weigh both sides, considering the host's desire for undistracted interaction against the necessity of being reachable. Additionally, we touch on the broader implications of phone use in social settings, including how constant phone use can disrupt meaningful interactions, illustrated by anecdotes from dating and concert experiences. The conversation underscores the balance between enjoying the present moment and the practicality of staying connected.• AITA if I ask my wife to stop doing this weird roleplay?Next, we explore a listener's dilemma about discovering their wife's intricate online role-playing hobby, which involves managing multiple fictional Facebook profiles. We unpack the husband's concerns about the strange yet harmless nature of her activity, debating whether he should ask her to stop. Through reading listener comments, we gain insight into the world of character creation, comparing it to the work of authors who develop elaborate backgrounds for their characters. We consider the creative aspect of this role-play and suggest approaching the wife with understanding and openness, acknowledging the importance of creative outlets for personal expression.• And in the Moment of Conclusion, my fiance has been selling my panties behind my back…In the Moment of Conclusion, we embark on a wild journey as we uncover the shocking discovery of a woman whose fiancé has been secretly selling her used panties on Craigslist to make extra money. Initially thinking her missing underwear was misplaced, she learns the unsettling truth when her fiancé admits his actions, claiming he intended to use the money to buy her a customized wedding band. However, things take a darker turn when she finds out he's also been posting semi-nude pictures of her without her consent to facilitate these sales. Feeling betrayed and exploited, she decides to end the engagement and seek support from her sister. The conversation touches on issues of trust, consent, and boundaries, emphasizing the emotional impact of such a violation.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!

On the first episode of The Joevelocity Show, listeners are taken on a journey through the intricate and often puzzling aspects of modern life. From the delicate balance of friendship to the challenges of setting personal boundaries, Joe and his guest, Hakeem, dive deep into issues that resonate with many.• AITA for being tired of my friend always requiring my attention?Friendship is a fundamental part of life, yet it can become unexpectedly complex, especially when personal circumstances change. Joe and Hakeem delve into a story from the "Am I the Asshole?" subreddit, examining a situation where one friend feels overwhelmed by another's emotional needs. This chapter explores the importance of communication and the necessity of setting boundaries, emphasizing that it's okay to prioritize one's own well-being, even if it means stepping back from a needy friend. The conversation sheds light on the guilt that can accompany such decisions and the importance of understanding when a friendship becomes too demanding. • AITA for being a dick to a door-to-door salesman?Switching gears, we tackle a common annoyance: door-to-door salespeople. Despite clear "no soliciting" signs, these salespeople often intrude on personal space, leading to frustration and disruption, especially for those with young children and pets. Joe and Hakeem share personal anecdotes and listener experiences, highlighting the struggle between earning a living and respecting homeowners' privacy. They offer strategies for dealing with these unwelcome visits, underscoring the importance of maintaining a peaceful home environment.• AITA for refusing to travel an hour to feed my friend’s cat?Switching gears, we tackle a common annoyance: door-to-door salespeople. Despite clear "no soliciting" signs, these salespeople often intrude on personal space, leading to frustration and disruption, especially for those with young children and pets. Joe and Hakeem share personal anecdotes and listener experiences, highlighting the struggle between earning a living and respecting homeowners' privacy. They offer strategies for dealing with these unwelcome visits, underscoring the importance of maintaining a peaceful home environment.• And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go to gay pride?Finally, we venture into the realm of relationships and sexual identity, focusing on the experiences of individuals who identify as bisexual. Joe and Hakeem discuss the challenges that can arise in heterosexual relationships when one partner is bisexual, particularly the misunderstandings and misconceptions that can occur. They stress the importance of acceptance and support within partnerships, suggesting that attending Pride events together can foster greater understanding and solidarity. This conversation is a call for open communication and acceptance, encouraging listeners to embrace diverse identities within their relationships.---For access to all our special deals, visit:https://joego.to/deals---Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode! Visit us at https://joevelocityshow.com!