The Life Of A Multifacet

In part two of My Wild NYC Apartment Hunting Experience, I get into the real chaos of trying to find my own apartment in New York City with only a couple weeks left before I had to move.I’m talking StreetEasy, Zillow, messaging 30 to 40 realtors, running to showings in between work calls, taking trains, bikes, Ubers I barely had the money for, standing in lines with 60 people, getting denied from spots I thought were mine, and still refusing to give up.This episode is about more than apartment hunting. It’s about survival mode, pride, family support, betting on yourself, saying no to a bad deal, trusting your gut, and finally locking in my first apartment on my own in New York City two days before I had to move.And once I got that apartment, it became bigger than just a place to live. It became proof that I could get out of my comfort zone, push through the pressure, and build a life that my younger self would be proud of

In this episode of The Life of a Multifacet, I’m getting into part one of my wild New York City apartment hunting experience.From leaving Kentucky, getting into tech sales, moving during the pandemic era, figuring out how to survive in one of the most competitive cities in the world, and finally landing my first apartment in Brooklyn, this episode is really about the risk, pressure, and faith it takes to chase a bigger life.I talk about wanting more for myself, needing my own space, taking a chance on New York, dealing with the craziness of NYC rent, brokers, income requirements, roommates, and the reality of trying to build a life in a city where everybody is fighting for a spot.This is part one of the story, before things got even more wild. Because moving to New York is one thing, but actually finding a place and keeping your footing here is a whole different game.

Moving to New York didn’t just change my life… it exposed me to myself.From a small-town mindset to navigating one of the biggest cities in the world, I had to learn everything the hard way. From spending money just to feel comfortable… to hopping on the train every day with damn near nothing. From rooftop events to rock-bottom moments… this city made me tighten the fuck up.I went through layoffs, rejection, betrayal, and one of the toughest seasons of my life. Over 5,000 applications. Getting ghosted after final rounds. Sitting there like… damn, what now? Questioning everything. Losing patience. Losing sleep. Still having to wake up and act like I’m good.But at the same time… I was building myself up. More disciplined. Dropped weight. Creating more. Healing in real time. Becoming somebody I ain’t even recognize at first.New York ain’t hand me shit… it demanded I evolve.It taught me how to stand on my own. How to move when nothing lined up. How to cut off people and energy I outgrew without second guessing it. How to keep going when shit don’t make sense and your faith getting tested every single day… talking to God constantly and feeling like no answer is even in sight.And now I’m on the other side of it… new job, momentum back, life moving different… and I get it now.That dawg in me had to get unlocked. No way around it.This ain’t even about New York.It’s about having the courage to leave what’s comfortable… to sit in that pressure cooker and not fold… to go through hell and not run… and really become who you said you was gonna be when nobody’s there to guide you.Because this version? It was waiting on that old DeMarcus to turn the corner.

This episode is about the mindset that helped me break beyond a small-town environment and start seeing life on a bigger scale. I reflect on growing up in Richmond, Kentucky, and how even in a place that could feel limited at times, there were still early signs that something bigger was possible for my life. From academic programs and debate clubs to scholarships, leadership opportunities, and my first time visiting an HBCU, I talk about the moments that stretched my thinking long before I ever made a major move. I also speak on Black excellence, exposure, discomfort, and how my college experience at the University of Louisville helped prepare me to want more, see more, and believe in more for myself. This is a real conversation about ambition, environment, identity, and the early experiences that pushed me toward becoming the version of myself I was always meant to grow into.

On April 14th, my 30th birthday, I spent time by myself at Coney Island Beach, sitting with life, listening to the sounds of nature, feeling the peace of the water, and reflecting on everything this season has been teaching me. This episode is a raw birthday reflection on growth, self-sabotage, faith, discomfort, solitude, and learning how to just be.I speak on finding peace in my own presence, taking up more space in my own life, trusting my process, and realizing that some of the biggest growth comes from continuing to show up for yourself even when life doesn’t move the way you thought it would.

This episode isn’t about content. It’s about life.I talk about learning your life target audience. The people who genuinely vibe with you, grow with you, and understand your character across different seasons. Not just when you’re polished, disciplined, or doing what looks good on the outside.I get into how telling your story and showing up authentically is what reveals who’s really meant to be around you. Whether it’s faith, weight, habits, language, or lifestyle, I talk about how people love to reduce others to one trait or one moment, while ignoring the full picture.Just because you curse doesn’t mean you’re not spiritually grounded. Just because someone goes to church doesn’t mean they’re more aligned. Just because someone slips up doesn’t mean they’re lost. Life isn’t that simple.The people who truly rock with you don’t need you to perform or explain yourself constantly. They may disagree with you, but they won’t try to shrink you, control you, or make you feel out of character for being human. They allow you to show up as you are.This episode is about recognizing who really sees you, and letting the rest fall where it falls.

This episode is blunt because it needs to be.I talk about how much I hate feeling limited and how I really don’t tolerate people trying to project their limits onto me. I’ve always been someone who can show up for other people, support their ideas, respect their vision, and let them expand however they want. No judgment. No box.But for some reason, that energy isn’t always returned.I get into how people will quietly try to shrink you, redirect you, or make you feel like you’re doing too much when really you’re just moving outside the range of what they’re comfortable with. A lot of the time, it’s not about you at all. It’s about their own ceilings.This episode is about protecting your sense of expansion. About recognizing when someone’s advice, concern, or perspective is really just a limitation in disguise. And about standing firm in the fact that you don’t owe anyone a smaller version of yourself to make them feel safe.If you’ve ever felt boxed in by other people’s comfort levels, this one’s for you.

This marks 50 episodes, and this one felt like the right moment to pause and actually look back.I talk about starting this podcast over a year ago with no blueprint, just a need to speak honestly and grow in public. A lot of what I share comes from my own life, my mistakes, my patterns, and the things I’ve learned by actually putting myself out there.One thing I’ve realized is how often people advise on situations they’ve never tried. They’ll take one life experience and try to apply it to everything, but when you really break it down, a lot of it doesn’t add up. Especially when that advice comes from people who’ve stopped challenging themselves.There comes a point where age, titles, or opinions don’t automatically mean wisdom. Not if someone isn’t still stepping outside their comfort zone.I also get into the pressure we put on ourselves to always feel like we’re doing enough. How slipping up in one area doesn’t erase progress in another. Using examples like diet, discipline, and consistency, I talk about how falling back doesn’t mean falling off. For me, every reset usually leads to a higher level than before.This episode is less about motivation and more about perspective. What growth actually looks like when you stay in the game long enough to learn yourself.

In Part 2, I talk about evolution and how relationships naturally change over time. I reflect on running into a high school classmate every few years and still feeling genuine love, even without constant proximity. This episode is about understanding that you do not have to be around people all the time to receive real love.I also speak about a close friend in my life who is on a different path, moving at a slower pace, but who shows up with real, genuine love every time. I talk about other close friends as well, and even a recent friend who passed. This was someone I grew up with in my hometown. We were not best friends, but there was always respect, care, and love present whenever our paths crossed. That experience reminded me that how you treat people and the love you show carries much further than titles or closeness.Friendships shift, responsibilities change, and not everyone is meant to hold the same role forever. I talk about how close friendships come with deeper responsibility, how alignment reveals itself through action, and how the level up in this season has been undeniable.

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to feel the love in the room and cherish the people around you. I reflect on how connection is not about where someone is in life on paper, but about the heart they bring and the way they show up. You can be ahead in every visible way and still miss genuine love. This conversation is about recognizing real energy, embracing the right people, and valuing presence over performance. Not everyone is meant to walk with you, but the ones who do should feel aligned and sincere.

In Part 2, I get more specific about how I’ve been approaching investing over time. I talk about starting small, learning margins and options at a basic level, and understanding that you don’t have to pour a lot of money into getting started. I’m honest about what I know and what I don’t. Crypto isn’t something I’m deep into, but I may put a few dollars in here and there while continuing to focus on the stock market.This episode is really about slowing down. I reflect on how other people’s limitations and insecurities were projected onto me, and how that affected my pace early on. Over time, I’ve learned that investing isn’t about rushing or trying to impress anyone. It’s about consistency, patience, and protecting your future. I talk about why focusing on the long term matters more than chasing short-term wins, and why putting money into the markets with a five to ten-year mindset can change everything.

In this episode, I discuss how I first began thinking about investing and ownership. Not from a place of having money, but from wanting more and realizing there had to be a better way. I share how my mindset around Black ownership evolved over time, how I utilized YouTube to begin learning the basics of investing, and why starting small mattered more than trying to be perfect.I reflect on working in college, doing manufacturing one summer, and earning commissions at Sprint. I talk about how taxes, withdrawals, and having to pay things back taught me discipline and forced me to save. Those experiences changed how I looked at money and pushed me toward the stock market in a more intentional way. This episode is about learning through experience, starting where you are, and building a foundation instead of chasing quick wins.

In Part 2, I go deeper into how stepping back from sex and relationships at different points in my life changed the way I viewed women, dating, and myself. I talk about periods where I chose not to be involved, not out of fear or lack of options, but because it wasn’t aligned with who I was becoming. That space allowed me to focus on myself, my discipline, and the things that actually mattered. I also speak honestly about intention, being clear whether something is just physical or something more, and recognizing that both men and women are not always honest about what they want. This episode is about self-control, clarity, and choosing growth over impulse.

In Part 1, I talk about the pressure men can feel having to show up in certain ways because of women’s past experiences. I reflect on how the way I move, treat women, and show up has often been different from what they were used to, and how that difference can create new expectations I didn’t ask for. From dating experiences to conversations with friends who questioned how certain situations even happened, I break down how being intentional, respectful, and consistent can sometimes feel like both a blessing and a burden. This episode isn’t about blame. It’s about explaining the reality of navigating expectations you didn’t create, and what it feels like when your character shifts the dynamic.

In this episode, I reflect on a question that hit home: what’s something you’ve been able to do recently that once felt impossible? For me, it’s the discipline and consistency I’ve built with my weight loss this year. I talk about how locking in mentally changed everything and how structure replaced motivation, and consistency became my baseline. This one’s about recognizing growth in real time and understanding that sometimes the biggest wins don’t look flashy, they just feel different.

In this episode, I talk about how getting laid off forced me to slow down, reflect, and realign. That moment made me start leaning into the things I actually enjoy, my food brand, vendor events, and creative hobbies that had been sitting on the back burner. What started as a setback turned into a chance to rebuild on my own terms.I share how security work became more than a side gig. It opened my mind to new ways of thinking about business, freedom, and ownership. It made me start thinking broader about 1099 work, entrepreneurship, and the power of having multiple lanes that align with who I am. This season taught me that sometimes you lose something so you can create something that’s yours.I talk about how I’ve been working on structuring everything I do from my tech goals to my food brands in a way that builds long-term stability and independence. This episode is about turning redirection into growth, embracing new lanes, and taking pride in becoming the kind of person who can create opportunities instead of waiting for them.

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to love the alone season. There’s a difference between being alone and being lonely, but even in that space, those small moments of loneliness still hit. I share how I’ve learned to appreciate that season instead of running from it and how being alone helped me dive deeper into myself, expand creatively, and start connecting with people who are aligned with the same wavelength and purpose.I share my transitions, my growth, and how learning myself has opened doors I never expected. From moments in isolation to working security, I’ve found new outlets and new clarity in who I’m becoming. This one’s about embracing the quiet, trusting the process, and realizing that being alone can be one of the most powerful chapters in your evolution.

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to embrace independence and find appreciation in isolation. I share how learning to enjoy my own company has been one of the most freeing parts of my journey and not from a place of loneliness, but from peace. A lot of people fear being by themselves because they’ve never slowed down long enough to actually hear their own thoughts. For me, that isolation became where I found clarity, creativity, and direction.This isn’t about being anti-social or shutting people out, but it’s about learning to stand on your own, make decisions from your own mind, and be solid within yourself. I open up about how this season of independence has made me stronger, more grounded, and more intentional about who and what I let in.

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to invest in yourself and not just with money, but with time, energy, and intention. I break down how, in my 20s, I’ve learned to take pride in giving myself the space to grow, rest, and recharge instead of constantly moving in survival mode. Investing in yourself might look like taking a day off, learning something new, trying different facets of your creativity, or just giving yourself grace. I share my own experiences, the lessons I’ve learned about balance, and how I’m unlearning that nonstop hustle mentality to finally start hustling for me.

In this episode, I talk about what it really means to invest in yourself, not just with money, but with time, energy, and intention. Money comes and goes, but you it's something you can get it back. Time is equal. You lose the time you don't invest in yourself, so why not make it count today!I break down how, in my 20s, I’ve learned to take pride in giving myself the space to grow, rest, and recharge instead of constantly moving in survival mode. Investing in yourself might look like taking a day off, learning something new, trying different facets of your creativity, or just giving yourself grace. I share my own experiences, the lessons I’ve learned about balance, and how I’m unlearning that nonstop hustle mentality to finally start hustling for me.

In this episode, I break down my full weight loss journey and not just the numbers, but the mindset, discipline, and real-life shifts that came with it. People always ask how I did it, so I give the full spiel: the ups, the downs, the plateaus, and the moments where I had to push through when nobody was watching. This isn’t a highlight reel; it’s the process that shaped me mentally, spiritually, and physically. I talk about what helped me stay consistent, what nearly broke my focus, and how I’ve grown into a version of myself that’s still grinding, still evolving, and still learning to give myself grace through it all.Have you endured a personal weight loss journey? How has your experience been, and what did you learn from it? Losing weight isn't always easy, nor is keeping it off. The experience is one you have to learn to embrace and one where loving every version matters.

In Part 3, I talk about unlocking newer versions of myself and the changes I had to make to get there. From muting stories and distancing myself from certain people, to accepting that some relationships have to fade for you to grow. This part is about releasing what no longer fits the person I’m becoming. It’s the season of pruning, protecting peace, and stepping fully into the next version of me.

I continue the conversation on the growing pains of my late 20s! Here, I dive deeper into how I’ve had to adjust, stay grounded, and keep faith while evolving through uncomfortable transitions.

In this episode, I talk about what my late 20s have really looked like, uncomfortable but hella fruitful. I share how the experiences I’ve had since college, working, learning, and just figuring life out, have sharpened me into who I’m becoming. From relationships that had to change, to financial challenges, to building discipline and finding peace in chaos, I break down what it means to grow through discomfort. Living in New York has tested me, but it’s also shown me that every season, even the hard ones, is shaping me for something bigger. This episode is all about learning to be comfortable with the uncomfortable and realizing that growth doesn’t always feel good, but it’s always worth it.

In this episode, I talk about the power of speaking positively to yourself even in moments where life or people try to test you. I share how I’ve learned to lean into self-love, affirmation, and intuition, especially when I know I’ve been showing up the right way. I touch on a letter I received recently from someone I once had a deep connection with, and how it reminded me that when you move with genuine intention and character, respect always comes back around. I also discuss the 29 things I wrote to myself, which were reminders of who I am, what I stand for, and how I want to continue growing. This one’s about self-talk, accountability, and knowing you’re dope even when others forget to acknowledge it.

In this episode, I talk about a previous cycle of fasting and what it taught me about structure, flow, and self-discipline. I share how I’ve learned to build my days with more purpose and how fasting forced me to slow down, pay attention, and move with intention instead of chaos. This one’s about more than food; it’s about balance, self-control, mindset, and creating systems that keep me grounded. It’s a reflection on growth, on learning yourself through stillness, and finding power in routine when life feels unsteady.How has fasting been for you? Have you taken time to sit still with yourself and practice further self-discovery? Feel free to share with me!

In this episode, I get real about the difference between clarity and closure. For a long time, I felt like I needed closure. Like somebody had to explain themselves or tie things up for me to move forward. But what I’ve learned is that closure comes in how people treat you, in the decisions they make, and in the situations that play out. That’s all the closure you really need. What I’ve actually been chasing is clarity. Trying to understand the “why,” trying to dig deeper into the lessons and into myself. I talk about leveling up through those moments, owning my own wrongdoings, and realizing that clarity isn’t something someone else gives you, but it’s something you pull from the experience.

In this episode, I’m talking about something most people wrestle with but rarely unpack - regret.I break down the difference between short-term regret and long-term regret, and why I personally don’t carry a regretful mindset. That’s not ego - that’s clarity. When you move with intention, make peace with your decisions, and stay honest with yourself, you learn - you don’t dwell.Most people who live with heavy regrets never took control in the first place. They let life happen to them instead of stepping up and directing it. I talk about how I flipped that narrative, how I process lessons, and how I refuse to let my past define my present.And here’s the real flex - It’s knowing the difference between something you could’ve changed and something life just threw at you. Regret comes from inaction. But pain? Tragedy? That ain’t the same. Some moments hit outta nowhere, no signs, no warnings, and that’s when grace has to meet reality. You don’t grow by regretting the hard shit…You grow by processing it with intention.If you’re stuck in cycles of “what if” or “I wish I had” - this one’s for you. Regret doesn’t come from failure. It comes from staying passive when you had the chance to move.

In Part 2, I go deeper, not just into the mindset, but into the actual work that’s helped me shrink imposter syndrome down. This episode is about the actions I’ve taken - putting myself out there before I felt ready, challenging the voice in my head, and proving to myself over and over that I’m really him.This isn’t about perfection. It’s about learning how to move even when you feel unsure. I talk about how I still check myself in the middle of doubt, how I’ve built evidence to silence it, and how every step forward makes that voice quieter.This is for anybody tired of waiting to feel “ready.” At some point, you gotta decide to move, and let the confidence catch up later.

In this episode, I open up about my battle with Impostor Syndrome - not just in business, but with family, friends, and the pressure of constantly showing up. I’m not here to give you a packaged solution; I’m giving you what’s real.I talk about what it felt like when Impostor Syndrome ran 80–90% of my mind and how that number dropped over time through real action, not just mindset work. From calling myself out to releasing content before I felt "ready," I break down how I’ve shifted my confidence, even as new levels bring new doubt.This one’s not about being cured - it’s about learning how to move with it, shrink it, and show up anyway. Part Two continues the conversation on how I keep pushing myself forward in real time.

In Part 2, I get even more personal. I dive into what it was like growing up without a strong crew of people pushing me forward. No older heads putting me on game, no mentors consistently checking in. Just me, a few real ones, and my self-discipline.I talk about how that shaped me - how I was built differently because of it. The way I keep pushing myself through discomfort, challenge, and growth is when the world around me feels too stagnant or too quiet.This one’s for the people who had to lead themselves. You ain’t crazy, you’re just growing past the noise.

In this episode, I’m reflecting on what it feels like when you look around and realize — people ain’t moved. The weight, the habits, the mindset… same shit, different day.I talk about how I’ve been learning to shape my mindset and challenge myself even when I feel disconnected from the people around me. Sometimes you’re still in the mix, talking to folks from your past, and it just hits you — nothing's changed but you.This one’s for anyone trying to grow in environments that make you feel like you’re the only one who sees beyond the spectrum.

In this episode, I talk about the shift that happens when you stop waiting on people to show up for you and start showing up for yourself. From events to elevation, I had to realize that people's limitations have nothing to do with me. Their fear, their flakiness, their comfort zones? That’s them. But my journey? That’s me.I dive into what it really looks like to take control, stop depending on others to validate or join you, and move forward even when you gotta do it solo. It's about trusting your instincts, building with what you've got, and knowing that everything you need is already within you.

In this episode, I’m diving into a phrase I hear all the time - “God’s got me.” And while I fully believe that’s true, I also believe a lot of folks are using it the wrong way.I’m a firm believer in God. And I’d like to think the way I move, how I show up, and how I treat people reflect that. But let’s be real, saying “God got me” has become a safety net for some people to avoid dealing with hard truths or to create a false image of themselves. It becomes a way to stay comfortable, to sound deep - but never do deep.And the truth is: you can’t skip the journey. You can’t pray away the work you refuse to do — because your life will continue to reflect that. You’ll just become another voice talking without seeing changes beyond social media performance.I’m not looking to be perfect, never have been. Though people have tried placing that on me. That’s why I speak out loud, in real time, and fall in love with being misunderstood. Because that’s where the real growth happens, when you stop hiding behind faith and start aligning with it.God’s got you, yes - but DO YOU got YOURSELF?If you’ve ever used faith as a crutch instead of a compass, or you’re tired of watching people stay stuck while acting “covered,” this one’s for you. This episode is about authenticity, growth, and calling out complacency in the name of faith.

In Part 2, I dive deeper into how I discovered my own sex appeal - from early signs back in college to truly stepping into it after. I share how moving to NYC helped me elevate my look, refine my presence, and attract different types of women without trying too hard. This one’s about leveling up, self-awareness, and the quiet power that speaks for itself.

Everybody chasing attention - but sex appeal doesn’t gotta scream. In this episode, I break down the quiet power of presence, energy, and how the most slept-on quality ain’t even visual. From body language to real confidence, this is for the ones who move differently. If you know, you know… and if you don’t, you gon’ learn today.

In this one, I had to get in my bag and talk my shit.I just dropped some cold photos, and people finally woke up, but it’s wild how folks don’t see the months of work, the grind, the consistency. It took a caption that sounded like I was insecure to get y’all’s attention? That’s a slap in the face.This episode breaks down the truth behind my post, how I used it as a social media experiment to show how people stay quiet when you’re building, but pop up when they think you’re down bad.It ain’t about the views. It’s about the principle. And I’m here to let y’all know: don’t get it twisted. I’ve been working. And this is just the warm-up.

This episode isn’t about game—it’s about personal growth and how I’ve leveled up to become the man I am today. I break down how I built real confidence over time and the barriers I had to push through, especially rejection, disappointment, and the moments that made me question myself when it came to attraction and self-worth.I learned I didn’t need to chase—my presence speaks louder than words. I stepped away from spaces and people that made me feel like I had to flex or perform just to get a woman’s attention. I stopped shrinking the weight of my experiences. Now, I move with purpose, and when you carry that kind of energy, the right people feel it instantly.Fellas, women will show up for you, express themselves, and open up in ways most men may never get to experience.If you’re a man focused on growth, or a woman curious about how a grown man really moves… this one’s for you.

Adulthood can become survival mode real quick if you’re not careful. In this episode, I break down why having hobbies isn’t just a nice idea—it’s necessary. From creativity to peace of mind to emotional balance, hobbies give us space to remember who we are beyond the hustle.Whether you’re a person grinding through life, or someone stuck in a cycle of work and stress, this episode is a reminder: your joy, your outlet, your spark—it matters. Don’t let the world steal that from you.This one’s for the people building a life, not just surviving one.

Growing up an only child, I didn’t always have the space to express myself. But over time, I learned how to be open - and not just for me, but for other men too. In this episode, I talk about what it took to start leading emotionally, the walls I had to break down, and how learning to trust my own emotions helped me unlock real brotherhood. It wasn’t easy… but it changed everything.

People love to say men don’t talk. That we don’t open up. That we just suppress everything and bottle it up. But in this episode, I’m setting the record straight. I break down what real, emotional, vulnerable conversations between men actually sound like, not performative, but honest. This one’s for the men who’ve been doing the work… even if nobody sees it.

Part 2 gets into the hard truth: stop draining yourself worrying about who should support you. Focus on who does. I talk about the mindset shift that changed everything - from frustration with folks who don’t show up, to gratitude for the ones who really see me. And most of all, how to make sure you’re not becoming the same energy you hate.

In this episode, I break down what moving in silence really means to me - not hiding, not being sneaky, but protecting my peace and sharing what matters with the people closest to me. It’s about valuing alignment over announcements. I’m building, I’m supporting, and I’m staying grounded - because if you’re in my circle, you’re part of the journey.

This part goes deeper into how I’ve had to shift my relationship with reciprocity. I talk about giving love, support, and insight to people, often without it being returned, and what I’ve learned about not waiting for applause. This episode is for the givers, the ones who still show up for others while elevating themselves. I speak on how I’ve been leveling up regardless, reshaping my circle, and learning how to move smarter while still keeping love at the center.

This ain’t a birthday recap — it’s a mindset checkpoint. In this episode, I dive into the mental growth and real self-talk I had to have heading into 29. From setting the tone for the year ahead to sharpening how I move in business, energy, and relationships, this is me getting grounded, focused, and fully locked in. No fluff. Just the real thoughts that came up on that day and why this next season gotta hit different.

Started with curiosity, ended up with a whole new lane. In this episode, I dive into how I got introduced to hydroponics—and yeah, I kept calling it hydroplanics at first, typical me twisting up my words fasho😂. What started as just a hobby might be a new facet of how I live, eat, and create. Tap in as I talk about growth, patience, and what it means to find peace and happiness in unexpected places.

Growth is uncomfortable but necessary. This part dives into the transition: the accountability, the mindset shifts, and standing firm in who I am despite outside noise. I am not just becoming a man, but becoming my own man—one that listens, feels, reflects, and leads with intention. Mindsets aren’t made equally—this is how mine was earned.

Before the confidence. Before the clarity. There was the learning through barbershop chairs, OG advice, parental lessons, and real love from people who never switched up. In this first part, I open up about the seeds that planted my emotional intelligence and why I started moving differently. This ain’t surface work. This is soul work.

In this special episode, I had the opportunity to recently sit down with my favorite neighbor, Precenda, a.k.a Princess P, for her birthday on February 23rd. Precenda is a woman raised in the heart of Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, with deep Southern roots that shaped her spirit. From singing in legendary spaces to stepping into her new journey as a songwriter, Princess P shares raw stories of perseverance, purpose, and pride.With memories of working alongside famous artists and wisdom sharpened by both the city hustle and Southern tradition, she reminds us what it means to not just survive, but to prevail and prosper. This is a living legacy conversation, soaked in soul, strength, and a love for life that refuses to dim.

In this special episode, I had the opportunity to recently sit down with my favorite neighbor, Precenda, a.k.a Princess P, for her birthday on February 23rd. Precenda is a woman raised in the heart of Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, with deep Southern roots that shaped her spirit. From singing in legendary spaces to stepping into her new journey as a songwriter, Princess P shares raw stories of perseverance, purpose, and pride.With memories of working alongside famous artists and wisdom sharpened by both the city hustle and Southern tradition, she reminds us what it means to not just survive, but to prevail and prosper. This is a living legacy conversation, soaked in soul, strength, and a love for life that refuses to dim.