The Real Relationship Rapport

Reasons You Gotta Get Up Outta There...We got a full house:KeysJay- host of RRRHaydee- Host of Ladies Pitch PodcastGlo- Konversations with Glo podcastFaisalIf you stopped feeling safeYour goals are just different and sooner than later yall will part ways because of itOne person is putting in more effort than the otherNo dick or pussy controlAre you comfortable staying? Easier to be with em than to know what alone feels like?The emotional connection is just not thereThere is no quality time spentThe responsibilities are not balanced, that becomes stressful on youwhere can they find us? On Twitter. IG or call in: 7702848175Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Next ep4 will be: It’s Not About Being A Winner ( being heard and respected)

When do you get out the rotation?Where are your limits?How do you know if you've done enough?We are talking about allllahhhdat...Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

You knew when the door should have stayed closed. Why did You reopen it?We should be accountable to the ways in our personality that doesn't work for others. Some people you're with will call you out on ya ish and some won't. Learn to work with the ones who will.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Conflict Resolutions

We don't have time to believe you will get better. We tryna meet better now.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Happy Holidays and enjoy your New Year !!This is the end of season 4 !!!!

Do they come back better? Do women believe them?We talking about it.A lot of women may say they want a man who is healing, with boundaries and no toxic behavior... but do they really know how to love that man? Appreciate that man? Show up as his lady?Most women today enjoy a project... someone they can say I made him better, I fixed his life... All to resent it later.Welcome to #rrrChan & PodsEnjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549For Merchhttps://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin Visit chanbepoddin.com 

In todays times, depends on who your asking unfortunately.We have a panel show:DungeonChanGloFasial SamanthaWhat is cheating in a relationship:If you wouldn't want to tell your partner about it, because they would see an issue with it...its kind of cheating...girls try to say "Isntt really cheating" are all bad!Flirting is cheating!Texting your ex-boyfriend is cheatingThank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

Its Chans pick, we did it on Stereo...Short answer: No... it won't last unless they strictly out the closet and for the other team. A linger of hope will always be there if Life was living enough and neither of you had no one else. Stop lying to yourself.Long answer: Press play.#RRR #exs #pastloverfriendsThank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Enjoy Chan on the mic and supporting sponsors: TableTopics.com click herehttps://www.tabletopics.com/CHANTAL85549https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/~~~Follow us for more information:IG & X: @chanbepoddin .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

We got 2 guest today and 4 different experiences to explain.It's Chan & Jay we discuss relationship things for the betterment of you.Thank you to Faisal & Christina for coming on.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/

Whats goodie, its a solo Show...We will be doing a panel later this month for a show. I felt like doing something cute this episode.It's fall, you don't need to be cozy'd up with a person who doesn't want you. 10 Signs They Don't Want You, because you need to know.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/https://www.chanbepoddin.com/Call In:7702848175chanbepoddin.com

In The Dark... with Joose from Chillin with Joose podcast & myself.It's a goodie, good laugh and gems to get you understanding the why.Sparks are temporary.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow  #rrr #thespark.Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Find Joose Here:X: @ichillncrocsIG:@chillinwithjoosepodTT:@imchiilin

On this episode, we think you should... Just correct it, we all got things with us that the next person wouldn't deal with. If you found someone to stick with you good or bad for 7 years... work on that. Dungeon and Chan discuss it all..Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on #Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in #Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! follow us on YouTube: Chan& Pods

We had Sam, Glo from Konversations with Glo podcast, Dungeon and Josh. We had a great time discussing this topic..Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/

We have to be honest with our selves, if it ain't working... stop trying to fix it. If you keep thinking back to when it was just you and things made more sense, you probably doing something against your better judgement. Lets talk about it tonight on #RRR #episode10.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/

Apologies and apologizing what y'all picking?Tell the truth and be honest with yourself.If you aren't sorry do not waste a persons time.Have integrity and be accountableIf the apology won't be accepted don't ask for one.That's it.#rrr #apology.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/

It's common to wish for our partners to perceive love as we do. However, if the affection you give isn’t fully received, or if your Lover Girl perceives love differently, there are ways to bridge that gap. The Five Love Languages: Learn yoursReprogramming isn’t just about altering behaviors; it’s about shifting how love is viewed.Plan Meaningful Dates: places that actually allow you to know each otherConsistency is key to ensuring your efforts to reshape her perception of love are successful.We talked about:Encourage Her to Explore InterestsHealthy ConvoEvaluating Progress and Adapting New HabitsCheck-In ConversationsBeing Open to ChangeReprogramming your Lover Girl for love without limits involves fostering a supportive and loving environment. By understanding her love language, promoting open communication, and engaging in meaningful activities, you can enrich your bond. #RRR #dating

It's a solo, Dungeon and I will have a guest for June. We cut the time too close. I got yall with this episode, hope yall enjoy....When you are confident in your desire to be in a happier relationship with this person, can help smooth over petty conflicts if you focus on the good rather than the bad... -https://eugenetherapy.com/Happiness for a woman cannot be solely on a man. He cannot be Mr. Fix it all the time.https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-chanbepoddin-spot/#RRR #happiness

Healthy Levels of PrivacyHealthy BoundariesGood ReassuranceAccept the growth challenges.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in RedCircle We appreciate it!!!! 

What is a Narcissist? Dungeon believed the guest fell under that definition... but Chan wasn't too sure. We got the answers and the stories... Lets see.This ep is available as audio and video will come soon.Thank you for supporting the pod.#RRRFollow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! Be self aware as always and if the flag is red... do not proceed.

This is how the men of past generations wanted the system to be. The issue is the system has changed, but on a society level, the mindset of women have not. Only when it's convenient. Personally I don't believe in a man paying for every single thing in a relationship just because he is a man. But most women do. I wouldn't look at being in a relationship with a man as a place for me to save money. Well, I do less for myself because I don't have to yes but financially should I lean on him 100% no. In this episode dungeon and I have a great discussion on why that should not be a thing. Welcome back to The Real Relationship Rapport.

The why behind choosing people in your life keep you in check. Let us explain. #RRRThank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow .Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

Misunderstandings and disagreements take patience and grace. You won't learn everything about who you are with overnight.We discussed the wrong is how we disagree and the way to disagree correctly for solutions.This is season 4 of the #RRRThank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

Had to squeeze the rest in right here. If you haven't played 1... play that.We talked about a lot and played messages.Thank you for another great season. Season 3 is a wrap...Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

We talked about a lot and played messages.Thank you for another great season.Season 3 is a wrap..Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

Some old things.... must stay in the past. We discussed some things that wouldn't work with people for the better dating in 2025.https://www.chanbepoddin.com/#rrr #dating #habitsyouneed

This was a great show, 6 panel person hosted.Joose - The Chillin with Joose podcastKimiko - My cuzzo, and intelligent beingTaroy- Thoughts Of An Average Joe DungeonChanAsapzoeWe talked about so many mature things that need to happen. We had a great audience too, thank you for all the comments.chanbepoddin.com#rrr #badhabits

This was a great show, 6 panel person hosted.Joose - The Chillin with Joose podcastKimiko - My cuzzo, and intelligent beingTaroy- Thoughts Of An Average Joe DungeonChanAsapzoeWe talked about so many mature things that need to happen. We had a great audience too, thank you for all the comments.chanbepoddin.com#rrr #badhabits

A lot of people don't know the difference between what's healthy and what isn't. An unhealthy attachment style is a combination of extreme behaviors and feelings in a person that inhibit a balanced connection with another.-Anxious attachment-Dismissive-avoidant attachment-Emotional dependence-Constant reassuranceWe had a small discussion about the Tyson fight set up. A few live comments.Chanbepoddin.com#RRR#unhealthyattachments

A lot of people have hope for the wrong situations. Save yourself the heartache and time... If what they say... you haven't seen... Leave it alone.Tap in Press Play#RRR #honeymoonstage

25+ years old... That's the limit. Dungeon said its decade starters 30, 40, 50, 60 etc... You don't get to hog people and their time because it's your birthday. We got Birthday No's and Birthday Yes's... We should all know better. But here we are. Press play >>>>>>>>>#birthdayhttps://www.chanbepoddin.com/

These are our confessions and some of yours. When you get older, you know better.We all had a time in our lives where we did some stupid mess for love... The lessons.#rrr

We cannot convince someone that they are going in the wrong direction, if they don't think so. If a person cannot find the value in themselves, you cannot convince them that they have value. If the house has structure issues, you cannot convince someone who does not see what structure issues are that there is a problem. So this episode is about the fact that you cannot love someone on a level that they do not recognize in themselves. You cannot tell someone that they are worthy, if they do not see their worth. There are a lot of relationships that are struggling because people do not want to do their self work. Everyone on the outside cannot be your cheerleaders if you don't think there's something to cheer for. Welcome to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk.

Wooooooo... A lot of people can relate to this. We all have dated, experienced a break up and hopefully spent some time alone with yourself. You been single for a year, now 4 years have passed... No real urge to date, pick someone to court or further things seriously with anyone. What is it? What is truly, keeping you happy single?Tonight Jay And I are talking about when good people give up.https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/the-top-5-reasons-why-good-people-give-up-on-relationships#RRR #goodpeople

Welcome back to Ep 13, of The RRR :We are discussing a great topic:Being with a man who possesses high emotional intelligence means encountering a partner who is empathetic, attentive, and understanding.This man requires courage and the willingness to be vulnerable, sharing your innermost thoughts and emotions authentically.In this episode we talk about what people do not want to discuss, because are they sure what they are asking for?https://www.chanbepoddin.com/post/understanding-emotional-intelligence-what-does-it-take-to-build-a-relationship-with-an-emotionally#RRR

When we project our dreams onto others, we often overlook the importance of authenticity in relationships. True fulfillment comes from connecting with others on a genuine level, rather than expecting them to fulfill our desires.Instead of relying on others to make your dreams a reality, channel that energy into nurturing your own aspirations.Letting go of the expectation that others will fulfill your dreams, you open up a world of possibilities for personal growth and fulfillment.Growth requires self work tooPeople should not control your personal happinessBy relying too heavily on others to fulfill your dreams, you diminish your self-worth and agency.Y'all will enjoy this episode, press play.Subscribe. #RRR

A lot of relationships back then were not the best but the respect never wavered. Today we are willing to go to therapy, unlearn and leave unhealthy set ups. What did you learn from what you saw growing up? vs what you do now?#evolve #bebetter

That's a personal problem stop making it about the other person.What are you doing individually without that person to improve. Another adult cannot be your life, what is it that interest you?A lot of being like substance so everyone outside of them turn into personal entertainment.Follow the show and click play #RRR

Just because a person put up with a lot from you for too long... doesn't mean they have to continue staying. People take good people for granted all the time and that entitlement sinks in..chanbepoddin.com

Which one are you?Do you balance out your relationships?A lot of people are in relationships to take and take from people.Jay & Chan discuss it all with live messages.

We had a great discussion on things to think about when you bunny hop around relationships to avoid growing up.#RRR #grassisntgreener #growup

Society talks about men being picky for all the wrong reasons, but what about women looking for the ultimate ride? Not that ride nastttyyyyy !!! The ride of no labor, no job needed, no cooking, no cleaning, no helping, no expectations from you... but that man has to make your life perfect. That's not real. What are you willing to help a man with in the relationship?https://www.chanbepoddin.com/

It's an "Us" thing, we can't be great solo for long.We require balance as human beings. In order to show love is a healthy way we need to be loved, in order to show empathy we have to show that for someone else... today Chan wants to talk about the unity of it all..https://www.chanbepoddin.com/

Yeah, everyone wants to talk about red flags... but let's talk about the men over 30 green flags for the greater good. Red flags are easy to bring up because it takes no effort to see. Healthy characteristics rarely get talked about..#greenflags #men #healthy # RRR

We had a ball with this topic... every woman doesn't want the man with values and standards...its too much pressure to stand next to..#RRR we talking !!!!Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow ..Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

A lot of being talk about the life they want, and the person they want... forgetting it comes with many nights apart...traveling... sacrificing things you may want for a later date. Is that what you want to experience?.#rrr #season3.Thank you for supporting the show Follow us on Stereo @dungeon x @chanbepoddin.Follow us on Twitter: @therealrrshow Support the show in Redcircle We appreciate it!!!! 

Love is not blind people choose to not see what isn't favorable..#RRR#loveisnotblindFollow the podFollow us on Stereo app

These days we see you. Faking the funk..chanbepoddin.com

It's a choice to ignore the red flags...it's a choice to not self reflect and have boundaries everyday. Picking temporary fun over logical sense... in ya 30's is a no go.Thank you to Breanna, Dungeon, guests that left messages....chanbepoddin.com#RRR #dumbchoices #inlove

Picking someone based on good connection is healthy and should be the foundation. Yet most people feel stuck and just pick who's around... that's called settling. You be unhappy and stressed the whole time living a lie as if you wanted that life. We know you don't.We don't want you to settle; we want y'all to choose wisely..Lets chat. #dating #settling #choices

Slow down y'all, pump y'all breaks, y'all barely know these people. We have to be better with ourselves and the spaces we give strangers too fast. You can date but why they know where ya mama stay and got a key in two weeks?#rrr

Welcome back to The Real Relationship Rapport, let's talk about why you all up in ya feelings? For all the wrong reasons.People assume everyone deserves their energy and they don't..chanbepoddin.com