The Relationship Talker (T.R.T)

Is Sexual Intimacy really dangerous while unmarried? Find out in this podcast by using the link.

This is a common saying every year right? But, what do you need to do differently? Ask yourself, but first, listen to this short podcast for a guide.

Happy New Year, everyone! As we step into this new year, I just want to say thank you. Thank you for listening, for sharing the show, for sending messages, and for being part of this community. Every download, comment, and moment you spent with the podcast truly means more than you know.This past year has been full of growth, learning, and amazing conversations, and none of it would matter without you. In the new year, I’m excited to bring you even more episodes, new ideas, and content that inspires, challenges, and connects us.Whether you’ve been here since the first episode or you just found the podcast recently, I’m grateful you’re here. Here’s to a new year of growth, creativity, and showing up for the things that matter.Thank you for being part of the journey. Let’s make this year an amazing one together. And I pray that your relationship life becomes more glorious in Jesus name. #TheRelationshipTalker

Do you even know that your relationship will always rise or fall to the level of the reality you believe in.In this episode, I’m breaking down why the stories you tell yourself shape the love you experience and how shifting your inner reality can transform your marriage or relationship from the inside out. (Proverbs 4:23).Are you ready to rewrite your relationship reality?Click the link to listen to the full episode!

Ever catch yourself shutting down during an argument, holding back an apology you know you should give, or pretending you’re “fine” when you’re really hurting? Yeah… that’s pride quietly running your relationships from the background.In this episode, we’re breaking down how pride shows up in everyday moments, why it’s so hard to see in ourselves, and how it creates distance with the people we love. If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, disconnected, or stuck in repeating cycles with your partner, family, or friends, this conversation will hit home.Ready to hear the truth about how pride may be shaping your relationships more than you realize?Click to listen now!#Relationships #PrideInRelationships #HealingJourney #EmotionalGrowth #SelfAwareness #RelationshipAdvice #PodcastEpisode #PersonalGrowth

Have you ever caught yourself scrolling through someone’s life and suddenly felt smaller? Or maybe you’ve whispered, ‘Why not me?’ That’s the silent grip of jealousy and comparison. In today’s episode, we’re breaking free from those joy-thieves and learning how to shine confidently in our own lane. Trust me, this is a conversation you don’t want to miss.Click on the link below to listen!

Do you know that the voices around you can shape your choices. Good friends encourage and guide you, while others may distract or discourage you. Do want to know how the right friends will help you grow and become better NOT OTHERWISE?Then click on the link attached to this podcast to find out now.#GoodFriends #Growth #Vision #Encouragement #Podcast #Episode #ThRelationshipTalker

Do you even know that every word, every joke, every comment, every action leaves a mark? In this episode, the relationship talker’s podcast has uncovered how people hurt with words and actions without even knowing it and how you can choose to speak life instead.  Click to listen now#PodcastLife #SpeakLife #WordsHavePower #KindnessMatters #PositiveEnergy #MindfulLiving #DailyInspiration #ChooseLove #Podcast #WordsMatter #ChooseKindness #SpeakLife #EmotionalWellness #PositiveVibes #HealingWords #MentalHealthAwareness #KindnessCounts #InspirationDaily #TheRelationshipTalker

Many times, in life, we stand between what God wants for us (His perfect will), what He simply allows (His permissive will) and what He opposes (Outside God’s will). One leads to peace and fulfillment, the other often comes with struggles and lessons. In my latest podcast, I have broken down the difference between these wills with real-life examples you can relateto, whether in your career, marriage, and daily choices. Don’t just settle for what God permits or what He opposes; learn how to walk in His perfect plan for your life. Now, click below to listen and learn.  

I have gone through a phase in my life where my constant thought was ‘I am not good enough.’ Maybe based on the fact that I was body shamed in my teenage years, so it really affected my self-worth, morale and self-esteem.It became a mindset for me, which was starting to affect my career, academics, relationship and ministry. But you know what? I had to challenge the thought; I had to break free from such negative mindset.There were some things I engaged myself in, which I have shared in this podcast. If you have ever been here, oryou are here or you know someone going through this as well and you want to also break free from such negative thought about yourself, do well to visit the podcast through the link below.  If you also want to order my e-Book 'Single by Choice; Ready for Romance,' as talked about in the podcast, do well to click the link below.https://selar.com/1r11w6Your healing and transformation are here!#InspireOthers #KeepGrowing #PersonalGrowthJourney#MotivationForYou #SpeakLife #GrowthMindset #YouAreGoodEnough #YouAreComplete #TheRelationshipTalker

What do you do when fitting in or trying to belong due to pressure starts costing you your peace? We all crave belonging, but sometimes the pressure to fit in can weigh us down, drain our joy, and even damage our relationships. In this episode, I unpack how to recognize when belonging is becoming toxic, and how to choose peace of mind over pressure. If you’ve ever felt torn between being yourself and being accepted, this one’s for you.   Click the link to listen now because your peace matters more than pressure. #PodcastAlert #PeerPressure #MentalWellness #Authenticity #PeaceOverPressure #StayTrue #SelfWorth #TheRelationshipTalker

We all have that moment when we wonder: Should I stay or should I walk away? 🚪✨This episode will help you recognize when a relationship has become too toxic, one-sided, or draining to continue.🎧Click to listen 👉 #Podcast #LifeLessons #Relationships #FriendshipGoals #ToxicRelationships #HealingJourney #SelfGrowth #LoveAndLife #LettingGo #TheRelationshipTalker#FolarinOlakunle

Still haunted by something you did or didn’t do? In this week’s episode of The Relationship Talker, I am sharing with you why your past mistakes feel so heavy and why it’s so hard for you to move on. I will also break down how regret messes with your self-worth, what happens when you don’t let go, and how to actually start forgiving yourself. This one’s for anyone still holding on to the version of them they wish they could forget.  Let’s talk healing. #pastmistakes #selfgrowth #mentalhealth #TheRelationshipTalker

Let’s be real, unhealed trauma doesn’t just stay in the past. It shows up in your love life, your trust issues, your fear of being seen, or always needing to be in control.In this episode of The RelationshipTalker, I’m breaking down the 5 types of traumas that exist and how they quietly shape the way you connect with people.If your relationships keep feeling heavy or stuck,this one’s for you. Click the link to listen now!#Healing #Trauma #ChildhoodTrauma #HealingJourney #relationships #TheRelationshipTalker

Have you ever wondered why some people always walk away from you? Maybe it’s time to flip the mirror, and in all honesty not everyone leaves your life without a reason.Do you want to find out why they leave? Then click the link below to listen to our latest episode on The Relationship Talker.#ToxicTraits #HardTruths #SelfAwareness #CheckYourself #GrowthMindset #PersonalDevelopment #RealTalk #PodcastAlert #LetThatSinkIn #HealingJourney #NewEpisode #TheRelationshipTalker #FolarinOlakunle #StayFocused

What if your biggest ‘attachment’ is the reason they’re pulling away? In this episode, I break down how getting too emotionally attached too fast can backfire, making you feel empty, anxious, or even invisible when they don’t give the same energy back. It's deep, it’s real, and it’s something no one really talks about. If you've ever felt like you're giving too much or losing yourself in someone else, this podcast is your wake-up call. So, hit that link now, because you need to hear this.

I once watched a movie where a teenager who just got into the junior secondary school on her first day started experiencing discomfort in her body that she thought she had peed on herself.After the break session, she didn’t go back to class with her classmates instead, she dashed to the toilet to  clean up herself, at the end of the day, it was discovered that it was her first period (menstruation) and she didn’t even know what that was, thank God for her other female classmates who had passed through that stage, they were the ones that helped her.In my head, I was like, is there no female figure to explain this thing to her? How about the teachers in her primary school? At least, when a child gets to basic 6, they should begin to chip in the orientation of Puberty to them. So, this is what led me to talk about some of the physical and emotional changes a teenager will experience as they grow into an adult in this week’s podcast.Click the link below to listen 

Are you in pain? Have you wasted many years? Are you at the point of giving up everything? Then this message is for you.

If you are crushing on someone. You are normal! as a teenager, if you tend you like someone of the opposite sex at this stage of your life, there is no crime in it, in fact, you haven’t done anything bad likesome persons make you feel. It only becomes bad when you allow your emotions make you compromise instead of using wisdom. Like the scriptures says wisdom is profitable to direct. Ecclesiastes 10:10BDo you know that having a crush is not bad but if not handled properly, it can be distracting? Especially to you as a teenager.So, this topic of having a crush as a teenager really is an interesting one on its own. The strange thing that usually happen, not 100 percent anyways is that the person you are crushing on sometimes do not even know you exist, or knows you but doesn’t like you. That can be so discouraging and itcan make you think you aren’t fine enough or good enough or whatever. When you begin to feel this way as a teenager, you tend to lose yourself or worth in the process, you begin to do things that doesn’t glorify God because you want to satisfy the person you are crushing on, thereby dishonoring God, sometimes you tend to regret your actions, you look back in years’ time and you begin to pinch yourself and criticizing yourself on why you ever crushed on this person, because people evolve, they change for either the good or bad, he or she might not be attractive to you anymore.How do you then navigate this stage when you tend to crush on someone as a teen?Firstly,You need to understand what emotion isGuarding your heartsHonoring GodManaging disappointmentPraying and Seeking GuidanceAsk yourself; what do I stand to gain if I satisfy myfeelings?Get occupiedEmbrace God’s love 

Do you need a podcast platform where you can talk about romantic relationships as a teenager? Then you are at the right place. Thank you for stopping by. This is a Godly relationship platform and we are glad to have you here!

In this podcast, we explore what romantic relationships mean for teenagers from a Godly perspective. Navigating relationships can be challenging, especially at a young age, but understanding the biblical principles of love, respect, and purity can guide you in making wise choices. Whether you’re in a relationship or just thinking about it, this video will help you understand the true purpose of romantic relationships in God's plan for your life. We’ll discuss how to honor God in relationships, the importance of self-respect, building trust, setting healthy boundaries, and the significance of mutual love and respect. Learn how to approach relationships with a God-centered mindset that prioritizes emotional, spiritual, and mental well-being. Key Topics: Join us as we guide you through understanding God’s purpose for romantic relationships and how you can honor Him in your journey toward love. #GodlyRelationships #TeenLove #ChristianDating #BiblicalRelationships #GodsPlanForYou #HealthyRelationships #TeenDatingAdvice #ChristianTeens #GodlyLove #LoveAndRespect #ChristianRelationshipTips #SelfRespect #SettingBoundaries #RelationshipWisdom #GodCenteredLove

We are transitioning In two years, I have created diverse podcast episodes for singles on random subjects with the aim of making them walk in line with God’s desire for relationship. But now, it is time to move. I discovered that the younger generations are moving with no guidance when it comes to relationship and they end up doing what they like or what is trending which in return doesn’t end well sometimes. So, through the leadings of God, the relationship talker will now be centered on TEENAGERS, where we will be helping these young ones navigate their teenage phase of catching feelings, desiring a relationship, making mistakes, being judged and criticized through intentionally putting out podcast episodes in line with this through the inspiration of the HolySpirit and personal experience. Therefore, if you know any teenager that’s this podacst will be of help, do well to share the poadcst link below, let them follow and let God lead them from there. Podcast link: https://anchor.fm/folarin-olakunle They can as well join our telegram group via the link below. Telegram link: https://t.me/+hMT3n7oxZTQzNTFk Note: for TEENAGERS, aged 13-19 years. Let’s do this together! So help us God, Amen. 🙏🏽

You are not lonely, you are simply idle. I know you are battling with loneliness at the moment because you do not have a partner, or it is difficult to get into a relationship. My question for you is that; have you really sat down to ask yourself what is really causing the loneliness? Well, if you have discovered it, I have a solution for you and how to heal from it. Click the link below to listen now!

Welcome to the year 2025! I am definitely sure that your relationship life is going to be better by God’s grace. Do you believe? Then listen to this message I have for you, yes you.

Do you know what causes separation in families today can be curbed or averted during courtship? Find out why I said so in this podcast episode. Click the link to listen.

All your mates are married, and you are beginning to wallow in self pity and desperation which in turn is robbing you off your happiness. But do you know there are ways you can stay happy even while in your waiting season? Instead of staying desperate why don’t you create avenues to stay happy which in turn will help build your self confidence. The question now is, how can you stay happy? Listen to my latest podcast by using the link below, I have showed you ways on how to stay happy.

Are you worried or in doubt about your woman’s feelings towards you? Or you are in a long distance relationship and you want to find out if she genuinely loves you? Don’t worry, I have laid down some ways in which you can find out her true feelings towards you, I know love is beyond feelings but you can still get to find out by using the link below to listen.

Love knows no distance! Tune in to explore the signs that prove your man’s feelings are strong, even miles apart. 🎧💖 #LongDistanceRelationships #LoveSigns #Podcast #Connection #TrueLove"

Romantic Relationships often evolve through distinct stages, each contributing to the depth and complexity of the connection. Each stage brings its own joys and challenges weaving together the rich tapestry of a lasting romantic relationship. This is why we have to put together this topic to teach you on the five stages of a romantic relationship to help you navigate each season so nothing catches you by surprise and as well, help you develop a long lasting relationship instead of a break-up. Want to listen? Click the link to listen now!

Gifting isn’t just about the objects we give, but the emotions and intentions behind them. Thoughtful gifts can act as powerful symbols of love and appreciation, making them essential to nurturing a strong and meaningful relationship but the question is; is giving really important in a romantic relationship? Find out in this podcast episode on the topic: IS GIFTING REALLY IMPORTANT IN A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP? Are you confused? There is way out, just use the link below to listen and gain knowledge for your relationship especially when it pertains to gifting.

You haven’t figured out how you communicate with people to know if you will be a good communicator in marriage and you want to get married; why are you playing? Now, it is important you find out your communication style first before telling her or him ‘I do’ and you can find out by using the link below.

This is where many persons miss it; they fail to prioritize their self-identity but spend so much energy prioritizing marriage. How then do you tend to know the areas of your life that you need to really work on before getting married. Find out why you need to prioritize your self-identify before marriage by clicking on the link below. 👍

Are you struggling with unnecessary insecurity issues or excessive jealousy in your relationship? Don’t you think it is time to correct this? If you don’t try to overcome or get rid of it then your relationship is opened to destruction. How do you then overcome this? Use the link below to listen to this podcast on how to overcome insecurities or jealousy in your relationship.

Do you even know that there are battles you need to fight before fighting your partner? Don’t waste your time and energy fighting that man or woman, whereas, what you need to fight is still fighting you stylishly. Find out the battles you need to fight instead by listening to their podcast.

Do you know as a man you can be attractive?

Many ladies do not know how to make themselves attractive; in fact, there are some secrets to making yourself attractive to all as a lady. Do you want to find out?

There are ways to practice romance in your relationship and this is me coming out here to teach you. But, what if it isn’t what you are thinking? Clear your doubt by clicking on the link to find out how you can practice romance in your relationship, because it is very very necessary you and your partner do so. So, How to practice romance in your relationship and not how you think about it.

You discovered that all of a sudden another lady or guy is showing interest in you despite you are in a committed relationship and you decided to handle it all by yourself? Tell me, can you really handle it all by yourself? Will you discard this person, or will you enjoy the attention? Find out in my latest podcast episode by clicking on the link.

People often times deliberately get on your nerves. And at some point you must have encountered such person. They might even be your spouse, parent, colleague, friend, sibling or someone around you. How then do you now handle such people? Is it by giving them the same energy or just letting peace to reign. Find out in my latest podcast episode by clicking on the link.

We have seen situations whereby people reveal all their past to their partner when dating and he/she uses it against them. I know it’s most times a hard thing to do, especially when your past is all messed up, however, it is important to spill it out baby.

Attracting a man and keeping a man are two different things. Now; find out how you can keep that Man to yourself and yourself alone.

Do this to overcome the fear of asking a lady out now.

Why You Need to Stop Being Desperate for Marriage

Don’t Build from the Scratch with this Kind of Man

Do you know that there are diverse forms of Abusive relationships? Do you want to know these forms and how to handle them? Then listen to the podcast episode

Some top ladies you admire and might want to even court, but you think are in a relationship are actually not in a relationship. But how would you know if you do not approach her to find out

This is the reason he isn’t committing to you yet.

No one has the time to waste anymore especially when they see what they want and decide to go for what they want. So please, stop wasting people’s time.

Many say it is bad luck or ill luck, whatever it is; there is something you need to do to be a blessing to the man you are about starting a relationship with. Do you know what you need to do? Now click to listen.

There are millions of reasons as to what kills love in a relationship. In fact, if I am to ask you what killed the love you had for that person you once dated, you will surely have a story to tell right? Find out the major thing that kills love in a relationship from this particular episode of the relationship talker’s podcast now.