The Stacking Benjamins Show

Thirty years ago Beth Kobliner wrote the book that a generation of financial planners handed to their clients' kids. The core advice still holds. But the world around it has changed dramatically -- frictionless spending, gambling apps disguised as investment platforms, and a housing market where the average first-time buyer is now 40. Beth comes back to the basement with an updated edition of Get a Financial Life and a clear-eyed take on what's harder now, what's easier, and what was always just common sense.What You'll Walk Away WithWhy the shift to invisible, frictionless money has made spending harder to track -- and the two-week experiment that fixes it without turning into a second jobThe yours, mine, and ours account system for couples where one person saves and one person spends -- and why autonomy is the key to avoiding money resentmentWhy putting a price tag on your goals changes your spending behavior more than any budget ever willThe biggest mistake first-time home buyers make right now -- and the math on why a 10% down payment often beats waiting for 20%Used versus new car: the $20,000 gap that makes the decision simple -- and the negotiation script that puts you in control at the dealershipStudent loan reality check for 2026 -- what's changing by July, where to run the numbers, and who qualifies for public service loan forgiveness now that it's actually workingWhy paying off a 22% credit card is mathematically equivalent to earning 22% guaranteed -- and what that means for how you prioritize your moneyThe gambling platform statistic that should alarm every parent of a 20-something: 25% of Gen Z and millennials consider online gambling an investmentThe annuity conversation most advisors won't have honestly -- what they're actually selling, what the fees really cover, and the two use cases where they might actually make senseWhy an annuity inside an IRA is, in OG's words, an abomination -- and the three questions to ask before signing anythingWhy This Matters NowWhether you're in your 40s and wishing you'd read this at 22, or you're handing it to someone who just graduated, the fundamentals Beth laid out three decades ago are still the fastest path to financial stability. What's changed is the noise around them -- and the sophistication of the products and platforms designed to get in the way.From the BasementBeth Kobliner joins Joe and OG to walk through the 30th anniversary edition of Get a Financial Life -- covering homes, cars, student loans, debt, and the new financial traps that didn't exist in 1996. The headline segment digs into a CNBC piece on why retirees are thinking about annuities wrong, which turns into one of the more honest annuity conversations the basement has had. Doug arrives with Spice Girls trivia that everyone over 35 finds embarrassingly easy. The meatloaf debate breaks out at the end and resolves nothing.Resources MentionedGet a Financial Life by Beth Kobliner -- 30th anniversary edition available wherever books are soldBeth Kobliner -- bethkobliner.comstudentaid.gov -- loan simulator and repayment plan optionsEdmunds and Kelley Blue Book -- invoice price research before car negotiations; edmunds.com, kbb.comCARFAX -- used car history reports; carfax.comCarvana, Autotrader, CarGurus -- used car shopping platformsCNBC annuities article by Greg Iacurci -- linked at stackingbenjamins.comJP Morgan Guide to the Markets -- referenced in discussion; search "JP Morgan Guide to the Markets"Stacking Benjamins Newsletter (The 201) -- stackingbenjamins.com/201Stacking Benjamins Vault -- stackingbenjamins.com/vaultStacking Benjamins Meetups -- stackingbenjamins.com/meetupStacking Benjamins Community -- stackingbenjamins.com/basementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if the reason your investment decisions feel so hard isn't the market -- it's how you're wired to think about outcomes? Annie Duke spent years as a professional poker player winning over $4 million in tournaments, then devoted the next chapter of her career to understanding why smart people consistently make bad decisions. The answer has nothing to do with intelligence and everything to do with how we confuse results with quality. She brings the full framework down to the basement today.What You'll Walk Away WithWhy certainty is the enemy of good decision making -- and the mindset shift that makes uncertainty feel like an advantage instead of a threatThe Pete Carroll problem: how tying the outcome of a decision to the quality of the decision is quietly wrecking how you evaluate your investmentsWhy being smarter actually makes this bias worse -- and how intelligent people spin data to confirm what they already believe more effectively than anyone elseThe difference between wanting to be right and wanting to be accurate -- and why that single distinction changes everything about how you process new informationHow to hold your beliefs as "works in progress" rather than positions to defend -- and why that opens you up to information that actually improves your decisionsWhy the stock market's short-term volatility is almost never the signal investors treat it as -- and what a 40-year Berkshire Hathaway chart actually tells youThe poker table parallel to long-term investing -- and why you can make all the right moves and still lose, which means a bad outcome never proves a bad decisionWhat the Philly Special play reveals about how we reward boldness only when it works -- and what that tells you about how you judge your own financial choicesA listener question on market-cap weighted index funds -- why the s and p is built the way it is and what you'd actually need to do to weight it differentlyThe best personal finance and business books the crew is reading right now -- including picks from OG that go well beyond the usual recommendationsWhy This Matters NowFor Stackers in their 40s watching a volatile market and second-guessing decisions that were perfectly sound six months ago, this episode is a direct intervention. The temptation to call a good decision bad because the market moved against you -- or to abandon a long-term strategy because of a short-term result -- is exactly the bias Annie Duke has spent her career studying. The framework she brings today doesn't just apply to poker. It applies to every financial decision you'll make for the rest of your life.From the BasementAnnie Duke joins Joe and OG to walk through the decision-making framework behind her book Thinking in Bets -- including the Super Bowl story that reframes how most people evaluate every financial move they've ever made. The headline segment tackles parents spending six figures on kids' extracurriculars and what the trade-off actually looks like for retirement savings. Doug arrives with poker-themed trivia about the all-time tournament earnings leader, gets it mostly right, and declares victory anyway. Whether the basement poker tournament ended in anyone's favor is a matter of some dispute.Resources MentionedThinking in Bets by Annie Duke -- available wherever books are soldAnnie Duke's website and weekly newsletter -- annieduke.comAnnie Duke on Twitter -- @AnniedDukeThe Truth About Money by Ric Edelman -- recommended by JoeSet for Life by Scott Trench -- recommended by JoeBroke Millennial by Erin Lowry -- recommended by JoeHow to Be a Financial Grownup by Bobbi Rebell -- recommended by JoeThe Behavior Gap and The One-Page Financial Plan by Carl Richards -- recommended by OGFooling Some of the People All of the Time by David Einhorn -- recommended by OGBuilt to Sell by John Warrillow -- recommended by OGThe E-Myth by Michael Gerber -- recommended by JoeThe Goal by Eliyahu Goldratt -- recommended by JoeStacking Benjamins Community -- stackingbenjamins.com/basementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever wish you had a second chance with your money? Billy B. hoped he'd get one. After being convicted and sent to prison after the death of his friend, Billy went through some serious soul searching, and the end result of that is on display on today's show. Not taking any opportunity for granted, working hard to find solid financial (and life) footing, and the value of surrounding yourself with good friends and mentors are just three of many themes we'll talk about in this fantastic discussion with Billy (who now also blogs at WealthWellDone.com). We originally aired this show in 2018, but the lessons Billy learned are truly timeless. Read the rest of the original show notes below:In our headlines segment, a new software program means that some of your advisors may be expendable….or maybe not. We’ll discuss the hot topic of humans versus AI on today’s show. Plus, Warren Buffet just wrote his annual letter to investors. What are some of the takeaways? One publication listed their favorites and we’ll review and discuss them. As always, Mr. Buffet doesn’t fail to use the English language as a weapon while talking about investing, value, and evaluating risk.We’ll of course have more from the world of financial planning, throw out the Haven Life line to lucky listener Luke, who wonders about investing to beat inflation without taking too much risk. For a five year goal, what investment works best? Are stocks too risky? Should he use junk bonds? We’ll shine a light on that topic (and maybe one we can’t talk about here), as well. We also answer a letter from Jon, who asks about asset allocation. What is a great way to manage your money and diversify correctly? You’ll have to listen to find out!Of course, we’ll still score with some of Doug’s delightful trivia, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.