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The Writing Mom Podcast
by Josee Smith
A cozy podcast for moms who dream of writing a novel but feel pulled in a hundred directions.Hosted by certified book coach and working mom Josee Smith, this show is your gentle nudge to make space for your story, 20 minutes at a time.You’ll find honest conversations about writing in the middle of motherhood, practical tips for building a sustainable routine, and encouragement to call yourself a writer now, not someday.Subscribe for weekly episodes and visit www.joseesmithbookcoach.com to book a free consult and start writing your novel—for real this time.
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Ep 48: What to Expect on a Consultation Call (And Why It Might Be the Turning Point for Your Novel)
If you’ve ever thought about booking a consultation call with me, but hesitated because you’re not sure what will happen, or whether you’re “ready," this episode is for you.Today, I’m taking you behind the scenes of what actually happens on a consultation call, why it’s so valuable (even though it’s free), and how it can be the moment things finally start to click with your writing. Most moms I talk to aren’t lacking motivation - they’re stuck in overwhelm, indecision, or trying to figure it all out on their own. And what this call offers isn’t pressure, it’s clarity.You’ll hear how we start the call to get you comfortable, how we unpack what’s really been keeping you stuck, and the kind of shifts that happen when your writing finally has a clear path forward. I’m also sharing a real example of a client who went from spinning on a trilogy idea for years… to feeling immediate relief and focus in a single conversation.You don’t need to have everything figured out before you ask for help. You just need a space to think clearly, make a decision, and take your next step.If you’ve been sitting in “someday” with your novel, this might be the moment things change. Book your free consultation here: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 47: Why I Stopped Writing During My First Pregnancy (And Why I Didn’t This Time)
When I was pregnant with my first baby, I stopped writing for months. This time, I didn’t. Not because I have more time, energy, or a simpler life, but because something deeper changed.In this episode, I’m sharing a personal look at what shifted between my first pregnancy and this one when it comes to my writing. From the moment I felt like I had lost myself in early motherhood, to the realization that I still wanted to be a writer, to rebuilding a writing practice that actually fit my life... this is the full story behind how I found my way back. And why, this time around, continuing to write isn’t even a question.We’ll talk about the real reasons I stopped the first time, the identity shift that brought me back, and the self-trust that now carries me through exhaustion, uncertainty, and a completely different season of life. If you’ve ever wondered whether writing is still possible for you as a mom - or how to hold onto that part of yourself - this episode will meet you there.Because your writing doesn’t disappear when your life changes. It just needs a new way to exist.If you’re trying to figure out how writing fits into your life now, you don’t have to do it alone. Book a free consultation to build a writing rhythm that works for your real life: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 46: What Oil Painting Taught My Client About Finishing Her Novel
What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t your writing ability… but how you think the process is supposed to work?In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful breakthrough from one of my clients, who realized that writing a novel is a lot like oil painting. Instead of trying to perfect each scene as you go, you have to build the full composition first, layer by layer. That shift helped her finally let go of perfectionism and move forward with her draft.We’ll talk about why polishing too early keeps so many writers stuck, how to think about your novel in layers (from rough draft to final polish), and why getting to the end of your story is what actually makes the beginning stronger. If you’ve been rewriting chapter one over and over or feeling like your draft isn’t “good enough,” this episode will help you see your writing process in a completely new way.Because your first draft isn’t meant to be beautiful; it’s meant to exist.If you want support staying in the draft and finishing your novel instead of getting stuck in perfectionism, book a consultation here: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 45: What Actually Happens in a Book Coaching Session (And How It Gets Writers Unstuck)
If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens inside a book coaching session (or whether it could help you), you’re going to love this episode.Today, I’m giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how I work with new clients and what we focus on first when they feel stuck with their novel. Most writers come in thinking they need more time, more motivation, or a better outline… but what they really need is clarity. In this episode, I walk you through how we uncover the real problem (not just the surface-level one), simplify the path forward, and turn overwhelm into clear, manageable action steps.Because getting unstuck isn’t about doing more... it’s about knowing exactly what to do next.If you’re feeling stuck or unsure where to go next with your novel, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Book a consultation to get clear on your next step: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 44: Why You’re Still Not Writing (Even When You Have Time)
You finally have a pocket of time… and still don’t write. Sound familiar?In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of one of the biggest breakthroughs I help my clients have: realizing that the block isn’t always time, it’s often fear. We’ll talk about the emotional resistance that shows up when you sit down to write, why it’s completely normal, and how it can disguise itself as “being busy” or “needing more clarity.”I’ll walk you through the common fears that keep writers stuck, how to recognize avoidance patterns without judging yourself, and what actually helps you move forward, even when writing feels vulnerable. Because confidence doesn’t come from waiting to feel ready. It comes from taking small, safe steps and building trust in yourself over time.If this resonated and you want support working through resistance so you can finally make progress on your novel, book a consultation here: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 43: Evaluating as You Go (Instead of Starting Over)
If you’ve ever felt like your writing “isn’t working” and immediately wanted to scrap everything and start over, you’re not alone. In this episode, I’m taking you inside another key part of my coaching process: how to evaluate your writing as you go so you can keep moving forward - without falling into the stop-and-restart cycle.We’ll talk about why so many writers assume something is wrong when progress feels messy, how small adjustments are often more powerful than complete overhauls, and why treating your writing like an experiment helps you build momentum instead of losing it. I’ll also share real client examples of what happens when you keep going - even when things feel unclear - and how that’s often where the clarity actually comes from.Because finishing your novel isn’t about finding the perfect system. It’s about learning how to adjust as you go.If you’re tired of constantly starting over, coaching can help you build a writing process that grows with you. Book a consultation to find your path forward: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 42: Writing Within Your Real Life (Instead of Against It)
A lot of writing advice assumes you have long stretches of quiet time and a perfectly consistent routine. But for moms, life rarely works that way. In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my coaching process to share how we build writing plans that actually work within your real life, not some imaginary future where everything is calm and predictable.We’ll talk about why traditional writing systems often fall apart for busy moms, how to identify pockets of time that already exist in your schedule, and why flexibility - not perfection - is what keeps your writing alive through changing seasons of life. When your writing fits inside your real schedule, it becomes much easier to keep showing up and making progress.If you’ve been trying to follow writing advice that doesn’t match your life, coaching can help you design a plan that does. Book a consultation to explore what that could look like: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 41: The Secret to Writing Consistently as a Busy Mom
Many writers believe their problem is motivation or discipline, but more often, the real issue is not knowing what to do next. In this episode, I’m giving you another behind-the-scenes look at my coaching process and how I help writers move from vague goals like “finish my book” to small, clear steps that actually fit into real life.We’ll talk about why big writing goals can keep you stuck, how turning your focus to one specific step each week can unlock momentum, and why progress builds when your writing targets are grounded in the story - not in pressure or unrealistic expectations. I’ll also share how evaluating and adjusting each week helps writers keep moving forward instead of falling into guilt or perfectionism.Because consistency doesn’t come from having more time, it comes from knowing exactly what your next step is.If your writing goal feels overwhelming or undefined, this is exactly the kind of work we do together in coaching. Book a consultation to start turning your novel into clear, doable steps: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 40: How to Finally Make Progress on Your Novel (Without Overwhelm)
If you’ve ever told yourself, “I just don’t have time to write,” this episode is for you.Today, I’m giving you a peek behind the curtain into my coaching process and sharing what I’ve learned from working with busy moms who want to write, but feel stuck. Often, it’s not actually a time problem. It’s an overwhelm problem. Writing a novel feels huge and undefined, so your brain doesn’t know where to start… and nothing happens.In this episode, I walk you through how we turn “write a book” into small, concrete steps that actually fit into real life, and how finding tiny pockets of time that already exist can make steady progress possible. Finishing a novel isn’t about having more hours. It’s about knowing what your next brick is.If this resonated, this is exactly the kind of work I do with my clients. Book a free consultation to find your next small step: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 39: Writing the Book You Want to Write (Not the One You Think You “Should”)
So many writers—especially moms—feel pressure to write something practical, marketable, or “worth the time.” In this episode, we’re talking about what happens when you stop writing the book you think you should write… and start writing the one you actually want to.I’m sharing how stepping away from a planned series after becoming a mom helped me reconnect with my creativity—and ultimately return to that story with more joy and clarity. We’ll explore why writing from obligation drains momentum, how to recognize whether you’re following fear or genuine curiosity, and why creative pivots aren’t flaky—they’re often exactly what helps you stay committed long enough to finish.Because the truth is: the book that lights you up is often the one that readers will feel most connected to, too.If you’re unsure which story to pursue next, a consultation call can help you find clarity and a path forward: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 38: How to Build a Writing Habit When You Have No Willpower Left
If you feel like you should be more disciplined with your writing—but by the end of the day you have nothing left to give—this episode is for you.Today we’re talking about why willpower isn’t the real issue for moms who want to write. Between decision fatigue, emotional labor, and the mental load of daily life, your brain is already working overtime. Instead of relying on motivation, I’ll walk you through how to make writing the default through simple systems, identity-based habits, and tiny environmental shifts that lower the barrier to showing up.You’ll learn how anchoring writing to existing routines, removing emotional pressure, and redefining consistency can help you stay connected to your novel—even in your most exhausted seasons.Want help building writing habits that actually fit your life? Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 37: Behind the Scenes of Writing With a Toddler: What Actually Made My Seventh Book Possible
In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of what it really looked like to write and publish my seventh book while parenting a two-year-old, working a day job, and building my coaching business. A lot of moms assume that writing has to wait until kids are older, but I share why it isn’t easy to write with a toddler… and how it is absolutely possible when your expectations, rhythm, and mindset shift with your season of life.You’ll hear how motherhood changed my creative process, why letting go of deadlines became a gift rather than a loss, and how “slow and steady” — not perfect or fast — carried this book across the finish line. I also get practical about the logistics that actually made the book happen: micro-writing sessions, messy drafts, simple creative rituals, and the support that mattered most. If you’ve ever wondered whether you can finish a book in the chaos of early motherhood, this is an honest, hopeful look at how it can be done, at your own pace.If you’d like support building a writing routine that fits your real life and helps you finish your novel, I’d love to talk. Book a free consultation to learn more about my coaching program: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 36: The Real Reason You’re Not Writing (It’s Not Time… It’s Fear)
If you’ve ever told yourself, “I just don’t have time to write,” this episode gently pushes back on that story. In today’s conversation, I unpack why time is usually the excuse, and fear is often the real barrier. I talk about the common fears that keep mom-writers stuck, how those fears get disguised as “being busy,” and what that can look like in real life (like avoiding your manuscript, over-planning, or feeling anxious just opening your document).Then I share three simple tools that actually helped me get unstuck with my own writing this year. When you can name the fear and take even the tiniest step anyway, resistance loosens — and real momentum becomes possible. You don’t need bravery or a perfect plan to begin; you just need one small action.If fear is getting in the way of your novel, let’s talk. Book a free consultation here: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 35: Writing Through Busy Seasons: How to Stay Creative When Life Won’t Slow Down
If you’ve been waiting for life to calm down before you fully commit to your writing… this episode is your gentle reality check: busy seasons aren’t the exception — they’re the norm, especially for moms. Work, family responsibilities, childcare hiccups, and the mental load don’t magically disappear. But your writing life doesn’t have to disappear either.In this episode, I’m sharing how to stay creatively connected even when your schedule feels overwhelming. You’ll learn why maintaining a simple “writing pulse” matters more than sticking to a perfect routine, how micro-moments can keep your story alive, and the mindset shift that allows writing to coexist with your real, full life. Because the truth is — you don’t need wide-open days to finish a novel. You just need a way to keep coming back.If you’re navigating a busy season and struggling to prioritize your writing, coaching can help you build a sustainable path forward — one that works within your life, not some ideal future version of it. Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 34: Self-Publishing as a Mom: What’s Hard, What’s Worth It, and What I Loved
Self-publishing while raising kids isn’t simple—and it isn’t always easy—but it has been deeply worth it for me. In this episode, I’m sharing an honest reflection on what self-publishing has really looked like as a mom: the steep learning curve, the overwhelm, and the moments where I wondered how I’d juggle all the roles involved… alongside the freedom, confidence, and connection that made it all worthwhile.We’ll talk about why self-publishing gave me control over my creative life, how it helped me take myself seriously as a writer, and what it’s felt like to watch readers fall in love with characters and worlds I created on my own terms. If you’ve ever wondered whether publishing your book is possible alongside motherhood, this episode offers a grounded, real look at what that journey can look like.Want support as you work toward your own finished book? Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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What If 20 Minutes a Day of Writing Was Enough? (Re-Release)
Josee here. We're halfway through January, and I haven't gotten back into my writing routine. Rather than beat myself up about it, I'm revisiting the first episode of this podcast and lowering my expectations back to 20 minutes of writing a day. If you're also struggling to get back to writing in the new year, maybe this episode will help you out, too. Enjoy!Ready to create a writing routine that fits your real life? Book a free consultation call where we’ll talk about your story, your writing time, and how I can help you finish your novel, without needing a perfect plan or perfect draft. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 33: Why Following Your Creative Dreams Helps Your Kids Too
Following your creative dreams doesn’t pull you away from your kids, it teaches them what it looks like to live a meaningful, courageous life. In this episode, we’re talking about why pursuing your writing matters not just for you, but for your children too. When kids see their parents go after something they love, it shapes what they believe is possible for themselves.I’m sharing personal reflections on writing as a mom, how creativity helped me reconnect with myself after becoming a parent, and why modeling passion and commitment is a powerful part of motherhood. If you’ve ever felt torn between caring for your family and honoring your creative dreams, this episode is a gentle reminder that the two can coexist... and even strengthen each other.Want support making writing part of your real life as a mom? Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 32: The Secret to Becoming a Consistent Writer
As we step into a new year, this episode is your invitation to start fresh without the pressure of having everything perfectly planned. If you’ve been waiting for the “right time” to begin writing again, or hoping for more time, more energy, or a more organized life before you commit to your novel, this conversation is for you. The truth is, most moms never get ideal conditions—but writing is still possible in the middle of real life.In this episode, I’m sharing why momentum comes from starting small, how to reset your writing life with compassion instead of pressure, and simple, doable ways to reconnect with your story in this season. You’ll hear reminders that you’re not behind, that your dream is still valid, and that your next step doesn’t have to be big to matter. Let this episode be your reset button for 2026.Want accountability and a plan that works with your real life? Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCheck out my new novel! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G2L9XCS6
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Ep 31: Reflecting on Your Writing Year
As we close out 2025, this episode is your gentle invitation to pause and look back on your writing year with honesty, compassion, and celebration. So many writers skip the part where they acknowledge what did go well, but that reflection is essential. Today, I’m guiding you through simple questions to help you notice your progress, understand what supported your creativity, and set grounded intentions for the year ahead.You’ll hear why even the smallest wins matter, how to evaluate what worked (and what didn’t), and why your next step for 2026 doesn’t need to be a giant goal—it just needs to be doable. I’m also sharing how focusing on consistent action, not perfect plans, helped me publish my seventh novel this year. No matter how your 2025 unfolded, there’s something here to celebrate… and so much possibility waiting for you in 2026.Want accountability and a clear plan to finish your book next year? Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCheck out my new novel! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G2L9XCS6
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Ep 30: A Permission Slip for the Holidays
This week’s episode is a short, cozy reminder that you’re allowed to slow down. The holidays are full and emotional—especially for moms—and if your writing has taken a back seat, you haven’t failed. In this episode, I’m offering you a permission slip: it’s okay to rest, it’s okay to prioritize family and celebration, and it’s okay if your creativity looks quieter this season.You’ll hear encouragement for navigating guilt, tiny ways to stay connected to your book if you want to, and why stepping away for a week (or even a month) won’t undo your momentum. Your writing will be there in January—and you’re still a writer, no matter how much you did or didn’t get done this month.If you want 2026 to be the year you finally finish your novel, let’s talk. Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCheck out my new novel! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G2L9XCS6
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Ep 29: Behind The Scenes Of Writing My 7th Book!
This week I’m giving you a peek behind the curtain of my brand-new cozy mystery — not just what the book is about, but what it meant to write a novel across early motherhood, step away from it for years, and finally return to finish it.I’m sharing how this story began, why becoming a mom shifted my creative direction, how I rediscovered the pull of these characters, and what it was really like to refine a book I drafted before my son was born. You’ll hear about letting go of deadlines, trusting slow progress, and following your creativity even when it takes unexpected detours.If you’re a mom who worries that stepping away means you’ll never finish your book, I hope this episode shows you what’s possible when you listen to your creative instincts — and come back when you’re ready.Ready for support finishing your novel? Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCheck out my new book! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G2L9XCS6
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Ep 28: Lessons from Publishing My Seventh Book (Three Years and One Baby Later)
Publishing my seventh book this week felt completely different from every book before it—and in the best way. In this episode, I’m sharing what I learned about creativity, persistence, and identity after writing and publishing my first book as a mom. We’ll talk about following your true creative pull (even when it means taking a big detour), why letting go of deadlines actually helped me finish, and how publishing feels steadier and more joyful now that I trust myself and the long game of indie publishing.If you’re writing through a full, messy, beautiful season of life—or trying to find your way back to your book—you’ll hear why your creative dreams are still very much possible, even if your timeline looks different than it used to.Ready for support as you work toward your next finished book? Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCheck out my new book! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0G2L9XCS6
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Ep 27: Identity Shifts: From “Wannabe” to “Writer” to “Author”
Every writer goes through identity shifts: the quiet dreaming stage, the moment you finally call yourself a writer, and the leap to sharing your words as an author. In this episode, I’m breaking down what each stage looks like, why the transitions can feel so uncomfortable, and how to know which one you’re in right now.I’ll share how fear and doubt kept me stuck in the “wannabe” stage for years, what changed when I started writing my cozy mystery series, and how publishing my first book transformed the way I saw myself. Whether you’re still writing in secret or ready to own your voice publicly, this conversation will help you see that every stage counts, and that you’re closer than you think to stepping into your next one.Ready to step into your writer identity with confidence? Book a free consultation to get support: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 26: Building a “Good Enough” Writing Routine That Sticks
Perfect writing routines look great on paper, but they rarely survive real life. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to create a "good enough" writing routine that actually lasts: one that bends with you through busy seasons, shifting nap schedules, and energy slumps. I’ll share how my own routine evolved from pre-mom life to now, why flexibility is the secret to consistency, and what makes a routine sustainable long-term.You’ll learn how to anchor your writing to everyday rhythms, reset after a break without shame, and design a process that keeps you coming back to the page. Because a “good enough” routine isn’t settling—it’s what makes writing possible.Ready to build a routine that feels doable (and doesn’t collapse when life gets busy)? Book a free consultation to design yours: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 25: How Writing a Series Taught Me Persistence (and How You Can Borrow That Persistence)
Finishing six cozy mysteries didn’t happen because I had endless time or perfect motivation; it happened because writing a series forced me to build real, steady persistence. In this episode, I’m sharing the behind-the-scenes truth about what it took to keep going from Book 1 all the way to Book 6: navigating new challenges with each story, moving through the murky middle when doubt crept in, and learning to trust myself even when a draft felt messy or confusing.You’ll hear what helped me push through the hard parts, why persistence is a skill (not a personality trait), and how finishing even one book can change your confidence as a writer. If you’ve ever wondered whether you have what it takes to stick with your novel, this episode will help you see what’s possible for you too.If you want persistence but keep stalling out, let’s talk. Book a free consultation to create your writing momentum: https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookAnd if you like cozy mysteries, check out the series on Amazon!
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Ep 24: What to Do When Mom Guilt Creeps In With Your Writing
That pang of guilt when you sit down to write? You’re not alone.In this episode, I’m sharing how to handle the guilt that can show up when you make time for your writing: why it’s normal, what it really means, and how to reframe it so it doesn’t stop you from writing your novel. You’ll learn simple strategies for quieting guilt in the moment, longer-term mindset shifts to keep you aligned with your “why,” and real examples from my life and clients who’ve learned to write without the guilt winning.Because writing isn’t taking away from your family -- it’s helping you show up as your full self.If guilt is stealing your joy in writing, let’s talk. Book a free consultation to find your rhythm again: calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 23: What Actually Makes You a Writer (Hint: It’s Not Publishing or Perfection)
You don’t need a book deal, an agent, or a bestseller list to call yourself a writer.In this episode, we’re talking about what really makes you a writer, and why waiting for external validation keeps you stuck. I’ll share how self-publishing helped me stop waiting for permission, why perfectionism is just another form of fear, and how claiming your writer identity right now changes everything about how you show up for your creative work.Because writers don’t become writers when they’re published—they become writers when they write.Ready to stop waiting for “someday”? Join my November 8 workshop: Finally Write Your Novel: Build a Creative Practice That Sticks (Even as a Busy Mom!)And if you’re ready for personalized support, book your free consultation here: calendly.com/joseesmith/book
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Ep 22: The 3 Most Common Time Traps for Moms Who Want to Write (and How to Escape Them)
Think you don’t have time to write? You’re probably falling into one of these traps.In this episode, I’m sharing the three biggest time traps that keep moms from writing, and what to do instead.You’ll hear real examples from my own writing life and learn how to create consistent time for your novel (even with kids, chores, and chaos).Don’t miss my November 8 workshop: Finally Write Your Novel: Build a Creative Practice That Sticks (Even as a Busy Mom!)And if you’re tired of feeling “too busy” to write, coaching can help you find your flow again. Book a free consultation at https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book.
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Ep 21: The Biggest Mistakes I Made Writing My First Series (and What I’d Do Differently)
I’ve written and published six cozy mysteries... but I didn’t get everything right the first time.In this episode, I share the biggest mistakes I made while writing my first series (and what I’d do differently now). From not planning the series arc clearly enough, to doubting my messy drafts, to relying too much on other people’s advice -- I’m breaking down what I learned and how you can avoid the same pitfalls.If you’re scared of “messing up” your novel, this one will help you see mistakes as experiments, not failures.Join my November 8 workshop: Finally Write Your Novel: Build a Creative Practice That Sticks (Even as a Busy Mom!)And if you want guidance and accountability to finish your book with more confidence, then book a free consultation at https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book.
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Ep 20: How to Write Without Feeling Selfish
If you’ve ever felt guilty for taking time to write, this episode is for you.We’re unpacking why writing can feel “selfish” for moms, and why it’s actually one of the most generous things you can do -- for yourself & your family. I’ll share what happened when I felt mom guilt during a writing retreat, how I reframed writing as care instead of indulgence, and simple ways to start writing again without the guilt overpowering you.Your stories matter, and making time for them isn’t taking away from your family. It’s showing up more fully for them.Join my November 8 workshop: Finally Write Your Novel: Build a Creative Practice That Sticks (Even as a Busy Mom!)And if you want help building a writing practice that fits your life, book a free consultation at https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book.
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Ep 19: Why It’s Scary to Call Yourself a Writer (and Why That Fear Matters)
Why is it so hard to say the words, “I’m a writer”? Because labels shape identity - and once you say it out loud, you’re accountable to it.In this episode, I dig into why claiming the title feels so vulnerable, especially for moms. From cultural narratives that minimize creative work to the risk of judgment when you’re unpublished, fear is normal. But fear also means you care.I’ll share the story of my own hesitation to call myself a writer, and how finally saying it out loud shifted everything. Plus, you’ll hear encouragement to practice claiming the identity in low-stakes ways so you can start believing it for yourself.Join my upcoming workshop: Finally Write Your Novel: Build a Creative Practice That Sticks (Even as a Busy Mom!). Register here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/SQB7g75-Sa2TYHgEAo5IJgIf calling yourself a writer feels scary but you know it’s the truth, coaching can help you step into that identity with confidence. Book a free consultation at https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book.
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Ep 18: How to Write When You’re Exhausted
Most moms are writing tired. If you wait until you’re well-rested, your novel will never get written.In this episode, I share practical ways to keep writing even when your energy is low. From micro-commitments (like one sentence or five minutes) to reframing what progress really looks like, you’ll hear how small, messy steps still build momentum. I’ll also talk about how I drafted a novel in three months by starting with short, doable sessions and slowly building up consistency.If you’ve ever thought, “My brain doesn’t work when I’m tired,” I’ll help you see that tired writing still counts, and that it’s proof of resilience, not failure.Join my upcoming workshop on November 8, Finally Write Your Novel: Build a Creative Practice That Sticks (Even as a Busy Mom!). Register here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/SQB7g75-Sa2TYHgEAo5IJgIf you’re exhausted but still want to see your novel take shape, coaching can help you find the simplest path forward. Book a free consultation at https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book.
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Ep 17: Calling Yourself a Writer Changes Everything
The words you use to describe yourself matter. Saying “I’m trying to write” feels very different from saying, “I’m a writer.”In this episode, I dive into why claiming your writer identity changes how you show up for your work, and for yourself. I’ll share the moment I finally said the words “I’m a writer,” how finishing my cozy mystery series helped solidify that belief, and why identity builds resilience through doubt, distractions, and breaks.You’ll also hear encouragement if you feel like calling yourself a writer would be fake because you haven’t finished anything yet. (Spoiler: being a writer isn’t about what you’ve already produced—it’s about what you’re committed to.)Ready to start calling yourself a writer and acting like one? Let’s build that identity together. Book a free consultation at calendly.com/joseesmith/book.
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Ep 16: Why You Need to Start Writing Now
Waiting for the perfect time to write your novel? Here’s the truth: it’s not coming. Life will always be full, and if not now, when?In this episode, I share why starting now matters more than waiting for the stars to align. From my own pandemic writing journey to the power of small, consistent steps (like 10 minutes a day), you’ll hear how action builds confidence faster than any pep talk ever could.We’ll also talk about what to do if you’re in a hard season, because starting doesn’t have to mean sprinting. Sometimes it’s as simple as writing for 5 minutes a day.If you’re tired of waiting for the “right time” to write, I’d love to help you take that first step. Book a free consultation at calendly.com/joseesmith/book.
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Ep 15: There’s No “Right” Way to Write a Novel
Ever feel like you’re doing it wrong because your writing process doesn’t look like someone else’s? You’re not.In this episode, I’m breaking down why there’s no single “right” way to write a novel, and how comparison can actually kill your momentum. I’ll share what happened when I tried to force myself into someone else’s method (spoiler: it backfired), and how I eventually learned to trust my own rhythm.You’ll learn:Why following someone else’s process can stall your progressHow my writing approach shifted between my first and sixth bookWhy experimenting with your own rhythm is the only way to find what worksIf you’re feeling stuck because you’re not writing the “right” way, let’s find the path that actually fits you. Book a free consultation and we’ll map out your best next step—no rigid rules required:https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 14: Why Your Story Matters, Especially as a Mom
Your voice, your perspective, and your lived experience matter—especially in your writing.In this episode, I’m sharing why moms have powerful stories the world needs, how to stop worrying about being “too similar” to other writers, and why your exact voice is what will connect with readers.You’ll learn:Why your perspective as a mom is valuable in storytellingHow to embrace your unique lens—even in a crowded genreHow writing can be an act of reclaiming your voice and identityIf you’ve been telling yourself your story doesn’t matter or now’s not the time, I’d love to talk. Book a free consultation and let’s build a plan for getting your story onto the page, without guilt or perfectionism:https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 13: Why Motivation in Your Writing Fades (and What to Do About It)
Every writer starts with excitement, but what happens when that motivation fades?In this episode, I’m talking about why it’s normal to lose steam, what the “murky middle” really means, and how to reconnect with your story when doubt creeps in.You’ll learn:Why motivation fades after the initial sparkThe difference between losing motivation and losing connectionPractical ways to stay on track when the middle gets messyIf your motivation is fading and you don’t want to lose steam, book a free consultation with me. We’ll figure out exactly what’s making it hard to keep going, and how to get you writing again with confidence and clarity:https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 12: What My Writing Process Actually Looks Like (and How It’s Changed Over Time)
Your writing process will evolve with each season of life—and that’s not a bad thing.In this episode, I’m sharing how my process has shifted from pre-motherhood to now, the “shoulds” I had to let go of, and why flexibility has made my writing sustainable.You’ll learn:Why your process can (and should) adapt over timeHow to make writing work with the time and energy you actually haveWhy breaks don’t mean you’ve failed—and how to restart with confidenceIf your writing process needs a reset, or you’re feeling stuck in a season of change, let’s talk. Book a free consultation and we’ll create a plan that works with your life, not against it:https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 11: You Don’t Need Inspiration to Write—But You Do Need a Process
You don’t need to wait for a lightning bolt of inspiration to write—you need something simpler and more sustainable: a process that works for you.In this episode, I’m sharing how to write even when you don’t feel like it, why inspiration isn’t a reliable strategy, and how building a simple, repeatable process is what actually leads to finished books.You’ll learn:Why “showing up” is often more important than feeling inspiredHow a repeatable writing routine reduces resistanceWhat my process looks like—and how to create your ownNeed help building a writing process that fits your real life? Book a free consultation call and we’ll map out how to get your words flowing—without waiting for perfect inspiration. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 10: Common Writing Myths That Hold You Back (and What to Believe Instead)
Think you need hours of time, a fancy degree, or a perfect plan to start your novel? Think again.In this episode, I’m busting three of the most common writing myths I see hold moms back from getting started—and offering beliefs that will actually move you forward.You’ll learn:Why writing doesn’t have to happen every day to countHow you can be a “real writer” without a publishing deal or MFA What to do when you don’t have it all figured out yetIf you're stuck because you're waiting to feel ready or “good enough,” I’d love to help. Book a free consultation and we’ll talk through what’s getting in your way—and how to get you writing again with confidence. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 9: What Writing a Series Taught Me About the Creative Process and Persistence
Writing a novel is hard. Writing six? That taught me I can do just about anything.In this episode, I’m reflecting on what I learned from writing a six-book cozy mystery series, and how that experience shaped my creative process, built my confidence, and helped me trust the messy middle.You’ll hear:Why I focused on one book at a time instead of overplanning the series arcHow I kept going even when my first drafts felt chaoticWhat changed in me once I realized I could finish hard thingsIf you want to build a writing practice that gives you momentum—and helps you actually finish—coaching can give you the support and strategy you need. Book a free consultation to see if we’re a good fit. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 8: How Publishing My Books Helped Me Claim My Writer Identity
Want to feel like a “real” writer? Here’s what worked for me.In this episode, I’m diving into how publishing my books—on my own terms—helped me finally claim my writer identity. I share why self-publishing felt like the right fit, the confidence that came from reader feedback, and how this journey gave me the courage to build a coaching business, too.You’ll hear:Why I chose self-publishing (and how it empowered me)How publishing multiple books helped me believe in myselfWhy claiming your identity is just as powerful as hitting “publish”Want help stepping into your writer identity—without waiting for a book deal? Let’s talk. Book a free consultation call and we’ll map out your next steps and how coaching can help you finish your novel and own your voice. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 7: How I Wrote and Published Six Cozy Mysteries Before Becoming a Mom
What could you create in two years with a little consistency—and a lot of heart?In this episode, I’m sharing how I wrote and published six cozy mystery novels before becoming a mom. I talk about starting my first book as a creative escape during the early days of the pandemic, how I let go of perfection, and the mindset shift that made me believe, “Why not me?”You’ll hear:Why writing for joy was the spark I needed to finally beginHow self-publishing helped me take my dream seriouslyWhat I learned about consistency, confidence, and commitment before motherhoodIf you're ready to stop waiting for the “perfect time” to write your novel, I’d love to support you. Book a free consultation call and we’ll make a plan to help you finish your book—on your terms, with real accountability. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/book Come say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 6: What Happens If You Don’t Make Time to Write Your Novel?
It’s easy to say “someday”—but what happens if that someday never comes?In this episode, we’re looking at what’s really at stake when we keep putting off our writing dreams. I’m sharing my own story of feeling lost after becoming a mom, and how coming back to writing helped me feel like me again. If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this conversation is your gentle nudge to stop waiting and start now.You’ll learn:What happens emotionally and creatively when we keep delaying our writingWhy prioritizing your novel is a powerful way to reclaim your identityHow to start small and commit now—even in a full, messy season of lifeReady to stop putting your novel on the back burner? Book a free consultation call where we’ll talk about your story, your time, and how I can help you finish your novel with support and structure. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 5: Writing Isn’t Selfish—Even If It Feels That Way
Mom guilt is real—but it doesn’t mean going after your writing dream is wrong.In this episode, I’m talking honestly about the tension so many moms feel when we want to write but also want to be fully present with our families. If you’ve ever questioned whether your novel is worth the time, this is your reminder that your writing matters—and so do you.You’ll hear:Why creativity often triggers guilt in a way work doesn’t—and how to challenge thatHow grounding yourself in your why helps quiet the “selfish” narrativeWhy your family benefits when you feel creatively fulfilled and connected to yourselfReady to create a writing routine that feels good and fits your real life? Book a free consultation call where we’ll talk about your novel, your time, and how I can support you in finally finishing your book—with compassion and structure. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 4: You're Allowed to Want to Write a Novel (even as a mom!)
In this episode, we’re talking about something that weighs on so many moms: the guilt of wanting something for yourself—especially something as big and beautiful as writing a novel. If you’ve ever felt selfish for carving out writing time, this is your reminder that it’s not only okay to want this—it’s essential.You’ll hear:Why wanting time to write doesn’t mean you’re neglecting your familyHow reconnecting with your creative identity helps you feel more grounded as a momWhy investing in your writing actually helps you show up more fully for the people you loveReady to create a writing routine that nourishes you and fits your life? Book a free consultation call where we’ll talk about your story, your writing time, and how I can help you finish your novel.https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 3: How to Build the Habit of Writing Without Burning Out
If the idea of writing every day makes you break into a stress sweat, you are absolutely not alone. In this episode, I’m sharing how to build a writing routine that supports your life—not one that overwhelms it. Because real writing habits? They’re flexible, forgiving, and sustainable.You’ll learn:Why it’s totally okay to skip days and still be a “real writer”How to adjust your writing routine to fit your current season of lifeWhy comparing your routine to someone else’s is a fast track to burnoutIf you’re ready to write your novel without burning out, book a free 60-minute consultation call. I’ll share a personalized plan to help you build a flexible routine and actually finish your novel. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 2: How to Make the Most of a Short Writing Session
Got 20 minutes to write? Great—you’re already on your way. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to make the most of a short writing session, even when your time and brainpower are limited. Whether you’re sneaking in a few paragraphs before daycare pickup or writing in the car during soccer practice, this conversation is here to help you focus, get words on the page, and keep going.You’ll learn:Why having a simple, flexible plan for each session is a game-changerHow to leave yourself a breadcrumb trail so you can jump right back in tomorrowWhy letting your first draft be messy and imperfect is the smartest thing you can doReady to create a writing routine that fits your real life? Book a free consultation call where we’ll talk about your story, your writing time, and how I can help you finish your novel—without needing a perfect plan or perfect draft. https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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Ep 1: What If 20 Minutes a Day of Writing Was Enough?
Got 20 minutes to write? That might be all you need.In this first episode of The Writing Mom Podcast, I’m sharing how I rebuilt my writing routine from the ground up after becoming a mom—and how just 20 minutes a day helped me finish a novel draft in three months. If you're waiting for big blocks of time to open up, this is your permission slip to start small.You’ll learn:Why short writing sessions are often more effective than long onesHow to build momentum by writing consistently—even just 5 minutes at a timeWhy it’s more powerful to write often than to write “perfectly”Ready to create a writing routine that fits your real life? Book a free consultation call where we’ll talk about your story, your writing time, and how I can help you finish your novel—without needing a perfect plan or perfect draft.https://calendly.com/joseesmith/bookCome say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joseesmithbookcoach/Subscribe to my Substack: https://joseesmith.substack.com/
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
A cozy podcast for moms who dream of writing a novel but feel pulled in a hundred directions.Hosted by certified book coach and working mom Josee Smith, this show is your gentle nudge to make space for your story, 20 minutes at a time.You’ll find honest conversations about writing in the middle of motherhood, practical tips for building a sustainable routine, and encouragement to call yourself a writer now, not someday.Subscribe for weekly episodes and visit www.joseesmithbookcoach.com to book a free consult and start writing your novel—for real this time.
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