Things You Can't Ask Your Mother

We've all been through painful situations both physically and emotionally. Times where we feel so far from God. How can this be a constructive process and what good can come from the experience? There is so much that God can show us through our pain and we can emerge better and stronger.

There are some places in the world where there are the highest concentrations of centenarians. We explore the science and culture behind these regions and discover what they have in common. Also, how can we live like these people?

We love our convenience but at what cost? Processed foods may be an easy way to a quick meal or snack but the damage they are inflicting on our bodies may not be worth the ease!

Your microbiome is a complex part of your body and as we learn more about how it affects health we share some things you can do to support it's productivity. We learned a lot through this research and we are excited to share what we learned with you!

We're excited for the advent of Spring even though it doesn't seem like it will be here for awhile! We'd love to hear what has you excited for the new season.

We've all experienced rebellion in our lives but what does it mean to truly submit to God's will for our lives? The word submission is hard for many but in a biblical perspective it can offer freedom!

We've all done it, we criticize. But what does God's word say about being critical toward others? How do we replace an attitude of critical thinking- with love of course! Hopefully this lifts you up today and gets you thinking differently about being critical.

You know you've done it, you have coveted something someone else has or has achieved. It's human to want what we cannot have but can we learn to be content with what are blessed with? We think so. Listen and learn what God has to say on these topics and learn to live a life of contentment.

How often have you found yourself or someone close to you getting caught up in constant complaining? It's so easy to get dragged down and negative. We have found through this Bible study that by replacing a complaining attitude with one of gratitude, it is easy to change our point of view. We hope you find this useful!

We are back to talk about the direction our podcast will be taking this year. Join us as we share what we are excited about.

We are taking a hiatus to reboot and reevaluate the podcast, we love you all for listening!

The holidays are getting stressful but the stories! Avoid the stress and enjoy the good times with us.

It is right around the corner and we know you want to be prepared for the holiday. Make your lists and check them twice and learn from our mistakes and our successes. It's going to be a great season!

Marriage is a tricky thing to navigate but what does the Bible say about our roles? Listen as we discuss the book Love and Respect and give our perspective on how this very basic command from God can give your marriage a whole new outlook.

The holidays are going to be here sooner than you think and we have already started to plan. We hope this episode will get you thinking about all the wonderful things this season has to offer.

Hurricane Helene was devastating to Western NC. We wanted to share some personal stories about the people who were so greatly affected and ask you to pray for them.

Goal setting is an art and a practice. It makes all the difference in the outcome if you go into it with the right mindset. We love goal setting and by the end of this episode we hope you will too!

This fall we've been feeling the urge to do some DIY and make some changes! We're sure that at some time in your life you have felt the urge to shake it up a little as well so listen as we share some fun things that we have undertaken lately.

The bible tells us that we must be armed against attacks from the enemy. We specifically unpack what it means to put on the full armor of God from Ephesians. This is a great way to learn more about how God provides us with His word as His protection and how to use it daily.

We're back! We missed you and we are chatting all things fall starting with a visit to our regional farmers market and all the fun things we found :)

Why is there so much bad in the world if we were created by such a benevolent God? This is a question that many have had for a very long time. We offer our perspective and hope you gain some clarity for dealing with this age old question.

Eating well and doing what is nutritionally beneficial for your health can be a challenge. We discuss how nutrition plays a huge role in your day to day wellness-maintaining it and repairing it as well. Not to mention the forces that are actively working against our goals to be healthier. Make sure to follow our podcast for more great episodes!

There is a very real battle happening all around us between good and evil. It's not always visible but it's absolutely a part of our lives. We talk about our experiences, things to be aware of and how to use prayer and the word of God to help in your journey through this life we are given.

I'm sure you know the feeling, your day isn't going it's best, you woke up on the wrong side of the house, everything is grating on your last nerve. Well, welcome to our day! We just happened to both be having one at the same time :) Don't worry, we work it out!

When it comes to prayer there is no right or wrong way to participate. God wants to hear from you however you choose to speak to Him. We share how our prayer lives have evolved and also how important it is to look to scripture and not take it out of context.

Prayer is such an important part of our lives and we want to share where it all started and how it's going. Give it a listen even if it's not something you think may be of interest to you. Who knows, you may hear something you like!

The opportunity to travel is a wonderful gift but sometimes things don't go as planned. When you plan a vacation do you also plan for the not so great parts? How about the lapse in service? Staying positive is always a great idea when on vacation but remember things do happen!

With the abundance of fresh vegetables coming out of our gardens and at the farmers market, there is always something to experiment with in new recipes. We hope you are inspired to try something new!

When you have struggled with your weight for your entire life you know how hard it gets as you get older. We have travelled the road of every diet, weight loss program and specialty eating regimen and we're happy to let you know you're not alone! We're still in the battle but facing it with a different approach, we hope you find some of our discussion helpful if you too are in the same boat!

Friends come and go over the years. Some friendships dissolve amicably, some remain forever and some are just for a season. We've all experienced changes in our lives that cause friendships to end, we're sure you can relate!

We love to travel and before we head off again we chat about some of our favorite adventures. You just may get some ideas and laugh at the same time :)

What's working and what isn't in our gardens? Updates about how we're growing this summer and what we love about gardening.

Sometimes you just need to have a good chat about everything! This is that episode, focusing on finding time to relax during incredibly busy seasons and things that make us happy. Sit back, grab a drink and enjoy!

Mike and Kit chat about empty nesting, sort of, parental challenges, family dynamics and more. Enjoy our guest host this week!

It's finally that time of year when we can visit the farmers markets! We love shopping local for fresh produce and plants and sharing some of our favorite things to do with what we find. Join us and get inspired to visit a farmers market near you!

Graduation is done and we have two of the recent graduates with us to share their dreams and fears about the future. We're sure you can relate or remember when you were launched into the world and how it felt.

We can all admit that at times we have enabled less than desirable behavior in our kids. The ultimate goal is to guide them to make smart decisions in their lives while they strive to become productive members of society. Hopefully we can share our experiences and they will help you with your decision to enable or guide!

Every day we are getting closer to that time of our lives-retirement! It can be a blessing or a curse depending on how you look at it and also how you have prepared for it. We offer a variety of different views on the topic and we are sure you have some as well. Enjoy our dive into this "interesting" looming stage of life.

It happens to all of us at one time or another, things are going along just so and then BAM! a major issue sends us careening. We have seen our share of derailments over the years and we're sure you have too! Listen as we expound on this very thing and enjoy!

Aimi's youngest and my oldest son are graduating from college soon and with this transition comes lots of emotions and challenges as moms. We share some of those and work through how we're dealing with our sons being all grown up and going out on their own. We know a lot of you can relate so join us!

After decades of screw ups in the garden we've learned some pretty valuable lessons on what not to do and of course what works best! If you are a seasoned gardener or a novice, we're sure you will enjoy some of our tips and tricks for the most productive garden this year! And of course, we'd love to hear yours as well.

Sometimes getting caught up is all you need! Updates on spring projects, new ideas and fun times. Grab a glass and put your feet up for today's episode.

This week on Things You Can’t Ask Your Mother, we delve deep into a topic that touches all our lives: dealing with disappointment caused by others. Whether it's in our personal relationships, professional environments, or even casual interactions, the sting of disappointment is a universal experience. But how do we navigate these turbulent waters? How do we manage our emotions and decide when it's time to walk away? Join us as we explore the art of handling disappointment with grace and resilience.We share insights and strategies on recognizing our emotional responses, processing our feelings, and setting healthy boundaries. We'll discuss the importance of self-reflection, the power of forgiveness, and the wisdom of knowing when to let go.

On this week’s episode, we're diving into How Not to Age, by Michael Greger MD . It’s not just any book; it’s a journey through the latest science and tips on slowing down the clock. We’ll chat about everything from cutting-edge diet hacks to lifestyle tweaks that could just be the secret sauce to staying young at heart (and body!). Think of it as a friendly heart-to-heart on all those health benefits packed in the pages, and how you can actually make them work in your day-to-day life.  So, grab your favorite drink, settle in, and let’s explore together how this book might just be the game changer in our quest against aging. Can’t wait to share and hear what you all think!

Did you ever notice how when the weather warms our desire to clean, plant, travel etc. escalates. If you've been feeling the itch, you're not alone! Listen as we share some of our desires and goals for warmer weather and maybe get inspired to tackle some of those projects that have been gathering cobwebs. Like maybe the cobwebs!

Every experience, whether a triumph or a trial, carries a lesson. But the true magic lies not just in living through these moments but in how we reflect on them and pass their wisdom on. Today, we're diving into the art of learning from our experiences and sharing these insights with empathy and understanding. We'll explore how to articulate our journeys in ways that resonate and connect, bridging gaps and touching hearts. With special guests sharing their unique perspectives, we aim to inspire, uplift, and foster a deeper connection among us all. So, if you're seeking inspiration or a sense of shared humanity, you're in the right place. Welcome to Things You Can't Ask Your Mother. Let's embark on this enlightening journey together.

Welcome to this week's episode of Thing's You Can't Ask Your Mother, where we dive deep into the pressing issues that affect our lives, both personally and professionally. Today, we're shedding light on a topic that resonates with many of us, especially women who are juggling the demands of a successful career, family responsibilities, and the unending quest for personal fulfillment: burnout. Burnout is more than just feeling tired; it's a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by excessive and prolonged stress. It occurs when you feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, and unable to meet constant demands. As the stress continues, you begin to lose the interest and motivation that led you to take on a certain role in the first place. In today's episode, we're not just discussing the problem; we're offering solutions. From recognizing the early signs of burnout, such as chronic fatigue, irritability, and a feeling of detachment from your work and personal life, to actionable steps you can take to reclaim your energy and enthusiasm. We'll explore strategies like setting boundaries, the importance of self-care, delegating tasks, and finding time for activities that rejuvenate your spirit.

Travel is one of the greatest experiences in life and boy do we love it! We share our favorites, our tips and tricks and places we hope to visit in the future. Hopefully you can gain some knowledge an avoid some pitfalls on your next adventure. We hope this inspires you to take a journey of your own soon!

This episode Kit's husband subs in while Aimi is out of town. He shares his opinions on moms, talking and life in general. A fun change of pace!

Small businesses and entrepreneurs are the backbone of our country and we do our very best to support the ones who are doing a great job and giving back. Join us in learning more about our favorites and feel free to share some of yours as well to be shared on a future episode.