Too Stubborn to Quit - The Pam and Linda Show

Sometimes the best way to understand where you're going is to look back at where you've been.In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda take a walk down memory lane, revisiting the moments, misadventures, and turning points that helped shape the women they are today. From the stories that still make them laugh to the lessons that only make sense years later, this episode is all about perspective.Life doesn’t always unfold the way we planned, but the journey leaves us with stories worth telling. And sometimes those stories remind us that every setback, wrong turn, and unexpected detour helped build the resilience we carry today.So grab a cup of coffee and join the conversation as Pam and Linda reminisce about the past, celebrate the present, and keep moving forward… because quitting was never really an option.

Death by a Thousand PapercutsSometimes life doesn’t fall apart in one dramatic moment. More often it’s the small things — the constant pressures, expectations, disappointments, and responsibilities — that slowly wear us down. Death by a thousand papercuts.In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam talks with Dr. Richard Kane — composer, elementary music teacher, musician, band director, church choir director, Tournament of Bands judge, father, and playwright — about what it means to keep going when the hits just keep coming.Turning 40 often brings a moment of reflection about purpose, burnout, and the next phase of life. Many people find themselves surrounded by coworkers, students, or colleagues, yet feeling strangely alone because the excitement they once had for their work has faded.Richard shares his perspective on creativity, teaching, and perseverance — and how sometimes the only choice you have is to do it anyway, even when you’re tired, discouraged, or questioning what comes next.The conversation also touches on the importance of self-determination theory: autonomy, connection with like-minded people, and the feeling of competence that allows us to grow and rediscover meaning in what we do.And perhaps the most important reminder of all:You matter. And you don’t need to apologize for taking up space in this world.

This week on Too Stubborn to Quit, Linda and her daughter Steph take us along on their unforgettable trip to Iceland — a long-awaited adventure after years of hard work and responsibility.But like many real-life vacations, not everything went according to plan.From breathtaking views and once-in-a-lifetime moments to the kind of unexpected challenges that can derail a trip, this episode is about more than travel. It’s about learning to have fun after working so hard… and choosing joy even when things don’t go your way.Because sometimes the best memories come from the moments you didn’t plan.If you’ve ever saved, sacrificed, or simply waited your turn for adventure, this episode is your reminder:You’ve earned the fun. And how you handle the bumps along the way makes all the difference.🎙️ Subscribe, share, and follow Too Stubborn to Quit for real conversations about life, second acts, and making every chapter count.

This week we talk with James Thompson, a missionary who has spent nearly 30 years living and serving in the Philippines.James shares what life has taught him about gratitude, purpose, and why life is never a punishment. With deep honesty, he discusses how to remain the light when others may not understand what you stand for and how faith and perspective can shape the way we move through the world.He also offers a thoughtful look at how Americans are viewed in other countries and what those experiences have taught him over the years.This is a conversation about living with intention, choosing gratitude, and finding meaning wherever life takes you.

In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda talk about the sandwich generation — the season of life where responsibility comes from both directions at once. Still showing up for kids, while also taking on care, concern, and decision-making for aging parents.This isn’t about age. It’s about pressure. It’s about invisible work, constant guilt, and being the one everyone depends on. We talk honestly about exhaustion, boundaries, resilience, and what it takes to keep going when quitting isn’t an option.If you’ve ever felt stretched thin, quietly overwhelmed, or unseen in this season, you’re not alone — and you’re in the right place.

Grateful for the Ones Who Show Up When the Storm HitsAs winter storms roll in and most of us are told to stay home, there are people who don’t get that option. In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda talk about gratitude for the workers who head out into the snow, ice, and dangerous conditions so the rest of us can stay safe.We reflect on the plow drivers, utility crews, first responders, line workers, and road crews who keep the lights on, the roads moving, and communities functioning when the weather turns brutal. This isn’t surface-level gratitude — it’s appreciation rooted in resilience, responsibility, and showing up when it’s hard.If you’ve ever benefited from someone else’s willingness to brave the storm, this episode is a reminder to pause and say thank you.🛒 Check out our new merch at 2stubborn2quit.printify.me🎙️ Interested in being a guest on the show? Email us at [email protected]

Don’t Quit When the Body Betrays You — Lisa Stamm’s StoryIn this powerful episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda sit down with Lisa Stamm, whose life changed forever when she suffered her first stroke at just 39 years old. Years later, a severe blood clot left her paralyzed — and facing a future doctors couldn’t predict.Lisa lives with Antiphospholipid Syndrome, a rare blood disorder that reshaped her body, her independence, and her path forward. But her story isn’t defined by what she lost. It’s defined by what she fought for.Ten years later, Lisa is walking, living a full life, and proving that resilience isn’t about returning to who you were — it’s about rebuilding who you become.This episode is a reminder that healing isn’t linear, strength takes time, and quitting is never the answer.#Antiphospholipidsyndrome #StrokeSurvivor #Resilience #TooStubbornToQuit #HealingJourney #NeverGiveUp

In this powerful episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, we sit down with Mark Morningstar, a man whose life was forever changed by receiving a live liver donation.Mark shares what it’s like to live on both sides of the word waiting—waiting for answers, waiting for hope, and waiting for a second chance. His story isn’t just about survival; it’s about gratitude, resilience, and the quiet strength it takes to keep going when life rewrites the plan.This conversation sheds light on the realities of organ donation, the courage of living donors, and why education and advocacy matter more than ever.If you’ve ever wondered how far human kindness can go, this episode is for you.Learn more and get involved:C.O.R.E. – Center for Organ Recovery & Educationhttps://www.core.orgLiver Education Advocateshttps://www.livereducationadvocates.org👉 Follow, subscribe, and share this episode. You never know who might need to hear Mark’s story today.

Don’t Just Boost Your Confidence — Nurture ItConfidence doesn’t always arrive all at once — sometimes it’s built quietly, through real-life experiences and showing up when things feel uncertain. In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda sit down with Jill White, co-owner of Precious Pets Transport, to talk about how confidence grows when you stretch yourself, take risks, and learn by doing.Jill shares her journey as a naturalized citizen from England, how stepping into new roles shaped her self-belief, and why confidence isn’t something you fake — it’s something you nurture over time. This conversation is about trusting yourself, gaining strength through experience, and realizing you’re capable of more than you think.If you’ve ever questioned your abilities but kept going anyway, this episode is for you.

Unusual Christmases — The Ones We Never Planned (But Never Forgot)Christmas doesn’t always follow the script. In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda talk about the Christmases that looked nothing like we expected — and stayed with us forever. Pam shares the story of a Christmas morning 41 years ago that changed her life forever, when her first baby was born at 2:16 a.m. on December 25.This episode is about the holidays shaped by hospitals, surprises, heartbreak, joy, and moments that divided life into before and after. It’s a reminder that some of the most meaningful Christmases aren’t picture-perfect — they’re real.If you’ve ever had a Christmas that didn’t go as planned, this one’s for you.

For years, many of us have carried Christmas on our shoulders — the planning, the cooking, the decorating, the expectations. In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda talk about what happens when you finally loosen your grip on the holiday and choose peace over perfection.This conversation is about releasing guilt, redefining traditions, and giving yourself permission to enjoy Christmas instead of managing it. Because letting go isn’t giving up — it’s growing into the version of the holiday that actually fits this season of life.Less pressure. More presence. And a Christmas that feels good again.

Episode 9: Moving Forward in the Face of Adversity — with J.T. PogrebaIn this inspiring episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda sit down with J.T. Pogreba — a survivor of California’s devastating Dixie Fire whose story is a masterclass in resilience. After losing nearly everything, J.T. packed up her two dogs, rebuilt her life in Indiana, moved again to Florida, and now has her eyes on a brand-new adventure: moving to France.Through all the chaos, one simple mantra kept her going:“No matter what’s falling apart around you… you still have to get up and feed the dogs.”This episode is about courage, reinvention, and the small daily acts of responsibility that keep us grounded when life feels impossible.If you’re facing your own fire — literal or otherwise — this conversation is the reminder that movement, hope, and stubborn determination are always possible.🚨 WHEN EVERYTHING FALLS APART — WHERE TO TURN📞 Suicide & Crisis Support988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineCall or text 988 for immediate emotional support, 24/7, anywhere in the U.S.Text HOME to 741741 for free, confidential crisis support via SMS.Provides emergency shelter, crisis response, recovery assistance, and help after fires or natural disasters.📞 1-800-RED-CROSS🌐 redcross.orgHelp for disaster recovery, temporary housing, financial aid, and rebuilding resources.🌐 disasterassistance.govProvides immediate shelter, meals, clothing, and cleanup assistance.🌐 disaster.salvationarmyusa.orgDial 211 to connect with local food banks, housing support, financial aid, transportation, and senior services.Free, confidential, 24/7.Find local food banks anywhere in the U.S.🌐 feedingamerica.orgCall 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788Emergency help for pet boarding, veterinary care, and crisis support.🌐 redrover.orgMany offer temporary pet housing or emergency food assistance.❤️ A Reminder from J.T.’s Story:“Even when everything is burning down around you… you still have to get up and feed the dogs.”Sometimes the smallest responsibility is the anchor that keeps you moving forward.

Thanksgiving Traditions — What We’re Keeping and What We’re Kicking OutIn this Thanksgiving episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda dig into the traditions we’ve loved for decades… and the ones we’re finally giving ourselves permission to let go of. From the dishes that absolutely belong on the table to the old habits that only added stress, we talk about how Thanksgiving evolves in the second act — and how to make it joyful, not exhausting.Whether you're hosting, traveling, or keeping it simple this year, this conversation is a reminder that traditions should feed your soul, not drain it.Stay strong, set your boundaries, and stay Too Stubborn to Quit.#Thanksgiving #WomenOver50 #TooStubbornToQuit

As we head into Thanksgiving, Pam shares a heartfelt reminder about gratitude in the second act of life — the things we appreciate now that we were too busy, too stressed, or too young to notice before. From simple comforts to unexpected blessings, this episode celebrates the quiet moments, the resilience we’ve earned, and the little joys that carry us through the chaos.If you're feeling thankful, overwhelmed, or somewhere in between, this conversation is your invitation to pause, breathe, and remember what truly matters.Stay strong, stay curious, and stay grateful.#TooStubbornToQuit #BeGrateful

📝 SHOW NOTES — “What Our Parents Knew: Canning, Freezing & Feeding Yourself Smart”This episode is all about the old-school kitchen skills that kept our parents and grandparents fed — and why these skills matter just as much today. Canning, freezing, stretching meals, smart shopping… these weren’t hobbies for them. They were survival skills.Below are the simple, beginner-friendly recipes mentioned in this episode, plus instructions for canning tomatoes and making peach jelly. And now — by request — easy homemade bread and rolls.If you or someone you know is facing food insecurity, please remember: you are not alone.📞 Dial 211 for free, confidential help connecting to food and senior support services in your area.Ingredients:4 cups peach juice (fresh or bottled)1 box powdered pectin (1.75 oz)5 cups sugar1 tbsp lemon juicePeach Juice (if fresh):Slice 10–12 peaches (no need to peel).Cover with water; simmer 15 minutes.Strain through cheesecloth — don’t squeeze.Measure 4 cups juice.Make Jelly:Combine juice, lemon juice, and pectin; bring to rolling boil.Add sugar all at once.Boil hard for 1 minute; remove from heat.Skim foam if needed.To Can:Ladle into hot jars (¼-inch headspace).Add lids; tighten finger-tight.Water-bath 10 minutes.Cool 12–24 hours; check seals.Shelf life: 1 year.You Need:Fresh tomatoesBottled lemon juiceSalt (optional)Clean jars & lidsLarge potPrep Tomatoes:Dip in boiling water 30–60 sec.Transfer to ice water; skins slide off.Cut into chunks.Pack Jars:Add lemon juice:1 tbsp per pint2 tbsp per quartAdd tomatoes + optional salt (½ tsp per pint).Leave ½ inch headspace.Clean rims; add lids.Water Bath:Pints: 40 minutesQuarts: 45 minutesCool 12–24 hours, check seals. Stores 1 year.Makes 1 loafIngredients:1 cup warm water2 tbsp sugar1 packet active dry yeast2 tbsp melted butter1 tsp salt2 ¾–3 cups all-purpose flourInstructions:Mix warm water + sugar; sprinkle yeast; let foam 5–10 minutes.Add butter, salt, and 2 cups flour.Add remaining flour as needed until soft dough forms.Knead 6–8 minutes.Rise 1 hour.Shape into loaf; rise 30 minutes.Bake at 350°F for 30–35 minutes.Cool 20 minutes before slicing.Tip: Brush top with butter for a soft crust.Ingredients:1 cup warm water2 tbsp sugar1 packet active dry yeast2 tbsp melted butter1 tsp salt2 ½–3 cups all-purpose flourInstructions:Mix warm water + sugar; add yeast; let foam 5–10 minutes.Add butter, salt, and 2 cups flour.Add remaining flour until dough is soft and slightly sticky.Knead 5–7 minutes.Rise 1 hour.Divide into 12 balls; place in greased pan.Rise 30 minutes.Bake at 375°F for 15–18 minutes.Brush with butter while hot.Freezer tip: Freeze individually; microwave 20–30 seconds to reheat.🍑 PEACH JELLY (Beginner-Friendly)🍅 HOW TO CAN TOMATOES (Water Bath Method)🍞 EASY HOMEMADE WHITE BREAD (Beginner-Friendly)🥖 SOFT DINNER ROLLS (12 Rolls)

In this heartfelt episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda talk about a reality that too many older adults face — being too proud or too private to ask for help when the cupboard’s bare. Food insecurity among seniors is growing, but it often stays hidden behind quiet pride and independence.We talk about why so many struggle in silence, what “asking for help” really means, and how small acts of kindness — checking on a neighbor, sharing a meal, donating to a local food bank — can make a huge difference.💬 If you or someone you know is hungry, you are not alone. Help is available through feedingamerica.org, mealsonwheelsamerica.org, or by calling 211 in the U.S.Because no one should ever be too stubborn to ask — or go hungry.#TooStubbornToQuit #PamAndLindaShow #SeniorHunger #FoodInsecurity #WomenOver50 #AgingWithDignity #CommunityMatters Also check out #dollartreedinners on Facebook

It’s our Halloween special! 👻 Pam and Linda swap road trips for ghost stories and share how being “too stubborn to be spooked” keeps life fun after 50. From haunted inns to campfire laughs, this episode proves that curiosity, courage, and a good scare never get old.

They call themselves Old Ladies Against Underwater Garbage — but there’s nothing “old” about this crew’s energy or mission. In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda dive deep (pun intended) with OLAUG founder Susan Baur to talk about courage, community, and cleaning up the planet one piece of trash at a time. Hear how these women turned purpose into adventure — and why getting older just means getting braver.💬 Have a story of your own about breaking stereotypes or chasing a mission that matters? Email us — we’d love to feature you! just drop a line at [email protected]#TooStubbornToQuit #OLAUG #WomenOver50 #AdventureAtAnyAge #CleanOceans #SecondActStories

They say time softens everything — our edges, our energy, our hair color. We’re here to say: not so fast. In this episode, Pam and Linda tackle the myths about aging head-on and with plenty of laughter. From those first silver strands to the moments when society assumes you’ve lost your spark, the conversation dives into what it really means to grow older without giving in. They share personal stories of reinvention, the freedom that comes with caring less about what others think, and how humor keeps them steady when the mirror or the media tries to tell a different story. Expect a mix of real talk and joyful defiance — the kind that reminds listeners that change is inevitable, but fading is optional.Listeners will walk away feeling seen, energized, and ready to celebrate every season of life. Pam and Linda explore practical ways to keep momentum and curiosity alive: trying new things, starting long-delayed projects, or saying yes to adventures that used to feel out of reach. They talk about embracing confidence that comes from experience, finding beauty in authenticity, and remembering that midlife and beyond isn’t a slowdown — it’s a turning point. Whether you’re discovering a new hobby, hitting the road for a weekend trip, or finally giving yourself permission to shine, this episode is a nudge to keep moving, laughing, and chasing what lights you up. Because hair may fade, but purpose, passion, and stubborn determination never do.Please leave a review. Reviews really help our channel grow, and help us to understand what you'd like to hear. Drop us a line at [email protected]

They say women our age should slow down, stay quiet, and fade into the background.Not happening.Welcome to Too Stubborn to Quit — the podcast for women who are living louder, dreaming bigger, and proving that getting older doesn’t mean slowing down; it means finally doing life on your own terms.We’re Pam and Linda — two women who’ve worked hard, raised families, worn a few titles, and picked up some calluses along the way. We’ve also picked up a lot of stories — the kind you can’t keep to yourself once you realize how many women out there feel exactly the same way: capable, curious, and a little bit underestimated.This show is for every woman who’s ever looked around and thought, “Wait a minute… I’m not done yet.”Because you’re not.Not even close.Each week, we dive into the real side of life after 50 — and what it really means to live louder, bolder, and more adventurous. Some episodes are about work: staying sharp, starting over, or figuring out what comes next when the world thinks you should be winding down. Some are about travel: the road trips, the dream destinations, and the small adventures that remind you you’re still out there living it. And some are just about laughter — the kind that comes from two women who’ve seen enough to know you can either cry about it or make a great story out of it.We’ll talk about visibility — because too many women feel like they’ve faded into the background somewhere between raising families and trying to be “graceful” about aging. Spoiler: we’re not graceful, and we’re fine with that. We’re loud, we’re stubborn, and we’re here to remind you that visibility isn’t about being noticed — it’s about showing up exactly as you are.You’ll also hear about chasing the second act: learning new skills, picking up new passions, and saying yes to things that used to scare you. From camping trips and road maps to bucket lists and career pivots, we’ll remind you that “someday” is now. It’s never too late to become who you were meant to be.And yes, we’ll talk about the messy parts — the doubts, the wrinkles, the “what now?” moments — because pretending it’s all perfect doesn’t help anyone. What does help is knowing there’s a whole community of women out there doing this life thing right alongside you.If you’ve ever wanted to start something new, take a risk, or just laugh with women who get it, this podcast is your permission slip. We’ll give you stories that inspire, advice that feels real, and a nudge (or maybe a shove) to take that next step — whatever it looks like for you.Because here’s the truth: you don’t fade with age; you evolve. You don’t lose your spark; you learn how to aim it. And you don’t quit — not when there’s still so much road ahead.So whether you’re driving to work, folding laundry, or planning your next great escape, plug in and hang out with us. We’re Pam and Linda — and we’re Too Stubborn to Quit.Because fading into the background?Not us.Not now.Not ever.Like to watch your podcasts? Check out our You Tube Channel 2Stuuborn2Quit - Kane-AllisonSend us an email @[email protected] and share