Unrehearsed with Able Moms

In this engaging conversation, Amanda Florczykowski and Evin Weir welcome bestselling children's book author Emily Assell, who shares her journey of faith, motherhood, and the inspiration behind her new book 'Wherever You Are.' Emily discusses the challenges of being a mom, the importance of God's word, and how her personal experiences shaped her writing. The conversation emphasizes the significance of seeking God in the midst of motherhood and offers encouragement to moms everywhere.TakeawaysEmily Assell emphasizes the importance of God's word in parenting.Moms often feel overwhelmed and need God's presence the most.Emily's book 'Wherever You Are' is a devotional for mothers.The story of the widow's offering illustrates that God values our efforts, no matter how small.Emily shares her personal struggles and how faith helped her overcome them.The importance of intimacy with God in daily life is highlighted.Emily's testimony includes a journey from financial struggle to faith-driven success.Moms are encouraged to seek God, regardless of their circumstances.Emily believes that God wants to meet moms wherever they are.The conversation reinforces the idea that God is always faithful and present. Chapters03:14 The Inspiration Behind 'Wherever You Are'06:12 God's Promises to Moms09:17 The Heart of Motherhood and Devotion12:12 Emily's Personal Journey and Testimony15:22 The Transformative Power of God's Word18:07 The Call to Write and Publish21:21 Encouragement for Moms and Closing Thoughts

In this episode, Amanda Florczykowski and Evin Weir discuss with Regan Long the concept of gentle parenting, its definition, and the controversies surrounding it. Regan emphasizes the importance of balancing discipline and love in parenting, arguing that children need boundaries to feel safe. The conversation also explores the infiltration of gentle parenting ideologies into the education system and the potential consequences for children. Reagan encourages parents to take back their authority and instill a strong foundation of truth in their children to prepare them for the challenges of the world.TakeawaysDiscipline is essential for children's development and safety.Extreme gentle parenting can lead to entitlement in children.Parents must balance being a friend and a disciplinarian.Children thrive with boundaries and structure.The education system is increasingly adopting gentle parenting principles.Parents need to be aware of the ideologies taught in schools.Instilling a strong foundation in truth is crucial for children.Parents should push back against indoctrination in education.Love and discipline must coexist in parenting.Chapters02:05 Defining Gentle Parenting08:08 The Controversy of Gentle Parenting11:52 Discipline and Love in Parenting15:45 Gentle Parenting in Education19:09 Creating a Safe Learning Environment21:37 Understanding Student Dynamics23:14 The Role of Parents in Education26:24 The Impact of Gentle Parenting29:34 Empowering Parents to Stand Up32:32 The Importance of Boundaries in Parenting@probablyreganlong/www.reganlong.com

In this episode of Unrehearsed, Amanda Florczykowski, Evin Weir, and Heather Koch discuss the journey to cleaner living, focusing on the impact of toxins in our food and environment. Heather shares her personal story of infertility, loss, and the transformative power of clean eating. The conversation delves into practical steps for reducing toxins in daily life, including food choices, household products, and even clothing. Heather emphasizes the importance of gradual changes and provides valuable product recommendations for those looking to embrace a healthier lifestyle.TakeawaysHeather Koch's journey began with personal health struggles and a desire for cleaner living.Clean eating played a crucial role in Heather's fertility journey after years of trying to conceive.The concept of 'food as medicine' was introduced to Heather after her loss, leading to significant lifestyle changes.Toxins in everyday products can disrupt hormones and contribute to health issues.Making small, gradual changes is key to transitioning to a cleaner lifestyle.Avoiding plastics in food storage and preparation can reduce exposure to harmful chemicals.Organic foods can help minimize exposure to pesticides like glyphosate, which is harmful to health.Choosing natural fabrics over synthetic ones can positively impact overall health.Moms often control the products that enter the home, making them key players in family health.There are many cleaner product options available for household cleaning, personal care, and food.01:42 Heather's Journey to Cleaner Living05:25 The Impact of Diet on Health09:25 Pregnancy Challenges and Loss12:27 Finding Hope and Healing15:46 Understanding Toxins in Everyday Life17:51 Understanding Xenoestrogens and Hormonal Imbalance20:25 The Impact of Food on Hormonal Health23:45 The Role of Fabrics and Toxins in Health28:09 Practical Steps for Cleaner Living32:25 Recommended Products for a Healthier [email protected]

In this episode, Christy Boulware shares  with Amanda and Evin her transformative journey from suffering a nervous breakdown due to severe anxiety to finding purpose through faith. She discusses her mission to help others overcome fear and anxiety, emphasizing the importance of surrendering to Jesus and acknowledging one's struggles. Christy provides practical advice on recognizing emotional 'smoke alarms' and the ongoing process of healing, while also highlighting the significance of community support. Her story is a testament to the power of faith in navigating life's challenges and finding peace amidst chaos.TakeawaysFinding freedom from fear and anxiety is a journey.Surrendering to Jesus is essential for healing.Acknowledging struggles is the first step to surrender.Community support is crucial in the healing process.Recognizing emotional 'smoke alarms' can prevent breakdowns.Healing is often a long and ongoing process.Faith can transform pain into purpose.Peace in Christ is possible even in chaos.It's important to be patient with your healing journey.You can't do this alone; you need Jesus.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Christy's Journey01:34 Finding Freedom from Fear and Anxiety03:07 The Transition to Faith06:48 Walking Through the Healing Process09:42 Practical Steps and Memorable Moments14:24 Surrendering Thoughts to Christ17:48 The Ongoing Process of Surrender23:08 Life Transformation Through Jesus25:04 Claiming Peace in ChristWEB: www.christyboulware.comIG:@christymboulwareEmail: [email protected]

In this episode, Kristen Hallinan shares her journey of healing from a chaotic upbringing and the importance of addressing personal pain to impact future generations positively. She discusses the significance of boundaries, the role of community, and the church's responsibility in acknowledging pain. Kristen emphasizes that everyone experiences pain and that healing is possible through understanding and grace. She provides insights on how to create a nurturing environment for families and the importance of recognizing and addressing childhood experiences.TakeawaysHealing is essential for impacting future generations.Everyone experiences pain; it's part of being human.Setting boundaries is crucial for personal and family safety.Community support is vital in the healing journey.The church needs to improve in addressing pain and grief.Unmet childhood needs can have lasting effects on adults.Grace from the Lord allows for change and growth.Curiosity about personal pain can lead to healing.Families can be characterized by positive habits and communication.Chapters03:34 The Journey of Healing from Trauma06:17 The Importance of Community in Healing09:01 Setting Boundaries for Healthy Relationships11:58 The Role of the Church in Addressing Pain14:55 Understanding Unmet Childhood Needs17:41 Finding Hope and Grace in Healing

In this episode, Evin Weir, Felicia Sivells, are joined by Hannah Lugibihl to discuss the importance of instilling a strong sense of identity in children, rooted in their faith in Christ. They explore the challenges us moms face in understanding our own identities and how that affects our ability to teach our children. The conversation emphasizes the need to counter societal pressures and negative self-perceptions with biblical truths, encouraging moms to praise character over achievements and to reinforce their children's identities through practical tips and affirmations.Takeaways Understanding our own identity is crucial for teaching our children. Moms often struggle with behavior modification instead of focusing on identity. Children's worth should not be tied to their performance or others' opinions. God's character and promises are unchanging, providing a stable foundation for identity. Encouraging children to express their feelings while grounding them in truth is essential. Praising character traits reflects God's nature and reinforces identity. Teaching children to differentiate between feelings and truth helps them navigate struggles. Practical tips like writing scripture can reinforce identity in daily life. Using positive language in discipline helps shape children's self-perception. Identity in Christ is a powerful tool for overcoming societal pressures. Chapters02:13 Understanding Identity Challenges for Parents05:00 The Influence of Society on Identity06:10 God's Unchanging Nature and Our Identity08:15 Balancing Humility and Achievement09:46 Praising Character Over Accomplishments12:24 Practical Tips for Speaking Identity14:52 Teaching Stability in God's Promises17:39 Navigating Feelings vs. Truth18:53 Practical Ways to Reinforce Identity25:21 Conclusion and Connection with HannahIG: @hannahhomegrown WEB: www.hannahhomegrown.com

In this conversation, with Brittany Poppe, Amanda, and Evin, Brittany shares her personal journey of healing after an abortion, emphasizing the importance of support from the church and community. She discusses her podcast, 'Does God Forgive Abortion?', which aims to help women find healing and wholeness through Christ. The conversation highlights the need for churches to address the topic of abortion openly and provide resources for women facing unplanned pregnancies. Brittany also offers practical advice for supporting abortion-minded women and those recovering from abortion, stressing the significance of compassion, understanding, and community involvement.TakeawaysThe church often lacks open discussions about abortion and its consequences.Support from friends and community is crucial for healing post-abortion.Churches should create safe spaces for women to share their stories.Practical support can help abortion-minded women choose life.Healing from abortion requires both personal and communal efforts.Brittany's podcast serves as a resource for women seeking healing.Compassionate responses are essential when someone shares their abortion story.The importance of addressing the financial concerns of pregnant women.Community involvement can significantly impact women's choices regarding pregnancy.Chapters03:31 Brittany's Journey: From Pain to Purpose06:24 The Role of the Church in Supporting Women08:54 Creating Safe Spaces for Healing11:32 Practical Support for Abortion-Minded Women14:22 Community and Connection in Healing17:09 Brittany's Mission and Resources for Support19:48 Conclusion and Call to ActionEmail: [email protected]: @brittanypoppe

In this episode, Greta Eskridge discusses her book 'It's Time to Talk to Your Kids About Porn,' sharing her personal journey and the importance of open conversations about pornography within families. She emphasizes the need for parents, especially mothers, to engage in these discussions to foster a culture of openness and understanding. The conversation covers the prevalence of pornography, its impact on families, and practical tips for parents to address the topic with their children.TakeawaysThe importance of discussing pornography openly with children.Parents often lack the tools to talk about pornography.Pornography affects both men and women, including teens and children.The average age of first exposure to pornography is decreasing.Parents need to prepare their children for accidental exposure to pornography.Moms play a crucial role in discussing pornography with their kids.Creating a culture of openness in the home is essential.Parenting should be guided by hope, not fear.It's important to address exposure to pornography with compassion.Parents should provide practical tools and scripts for these conversations.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Conversation01:05 The Backstory Behind the Book03:31 The Impact of Pornography on Families05:27 Understanding the Prevalence of Pornography08:03 The Importance of Open Conversations09:54 Moms' Role in Discussing Pornography14:05 Starting the Conversation with Kids17:09 Addressing Exposure to Pornography23:33 Parenting Out of Hope, Not Fear27:38 Conclusion and ResourcesEmail: [email protected]: @maandpamodern

SummaryIn this episode, Rachel Adams shares her journey as a mother and author, discussing the theme of insignificance in everyday life. She emphasizes that even the smallest actions can have great meaning and impact, drawing inspiration from her faith and the teachings of Jesus. The conversation explores how to find purpose in mundane tasks, the importance of prayer, and the value of every contribution, no matter how small. Rachel encourages us moms to embrace our roles so we can recognize that our efforts matter in the grand scheme of God's plan.TakeawaysInsignificance is a common struggle for many mothers.Everyday tasks may seem ordinary but hold great value.Rachel's book 'A Little Goes a Long Way' addresses feelings of inadequacy.God cares about small beginnings and the heart behind our actions.Faithfulness in little things builds our character and faith.Comparison can rob us of joy and purpose.Jesus lived a life of significance in ordinary moments.Prayer and hidden work are vital to our spiritual growth.We are called to be love offerings to the world.Every encounter and conversation can have a divine purpose.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Rachel Adams01:42 The Struggle with Insignificance03:16 The Inspiration Behind 'A Little Goes a Long Way'05:59 Finding Significance in Everyday Life08:23 Jesus as Our Model for Significance10:36 God's Care for Small Beginnings15:04 Faithfulness in the Little Things18:02 The Abundance of God20:47 Heart Motivation in Our ActionsWB [email protected] @rachaeladamsauthor

Every mom can relate to struggling with body issues. In this episode, Felicia Sivells and author, speaker, and professor, Rachel Gilbert discuss the journey of redeeming body image through personal stories, spiritual insights, and therapeutic approaches. Rachel shares her experiences with body image struggles and the impact of "injuries to her faith". The gospel proved to be the only "approach" that provided a framework for restoration. If you feel you need to restore the view of yourself, listen in. The conversation will help you reclaim our identity and confidence as a woman of God.

SummaryMandy Johnson, writer for Able Moms and Esther Press publishing staffer, shares her journey of motherhood and how it has shaped her understanding of her identity as a daughter of the King. She discusses the importance of recognizing false identities, the role of scripture in reclaiming our true selves, and how this understanding impacts parenting. The conversation does NOT skip the need for biblical literacy and encourages mothers to embrace their identity in Christ, equipping them to raise the next generation with confidence and truth for a personal place of knowing who and whose we are. TakeawaysGod made me a mother to teach me what it means to be a daughter.The love of a parent reflects God's love for us.Identifying false identities is crucial for personal growth.Receiving forgiveness is essential for moving forward.Scripture provides the foundation for understanding our identity.Biblical literacy is at an all-time low and needs to be addressed.Knowing our identity in Christ empowers our parenting.We can parent with confidence when we know who we are in Christ.The truth of our identity can impact the next generation.Encouragement and resources are available for mothers seeking to grow.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Mandy Johnson and Able Moms04:23 The Journey of Motherhood and Identity10:12 Understanding Our Identity as Daughters of the King12:57 Reclaiming Our Identity: Practical Steps for Moms24:31 The Impact of Identity on Parenting28:00 Conclusion and Resources for Moms

Summary In this episode, Evin Weir, Felicia Sivells, and Bethany Kimsey discuss the importance of restoring peace in the home, especially as a new year begins. They explore how to foster a peaceful environment for families, emphasizing the need to connect with God and rely on scripture. The conversation highlights practical steps for creating a peaceful home, the role of the Holy Spirit, and the importance of long-term thinking in parenting. Ultimately, Bethany reminds us that true peace comes from Jesus, not from external circumstances or checklists! Chapters 00:00 Restoring Peace in the Home 05:59 Fostering a Peaceful Environment 12:27 The Role of Scripture in Peace 18:52 Being the Thermostat of the Home 27:45 Long-Term Peace vs. Short-Term Reactions Takeaways Restoring peace in the home is essential for family life. Connecting the gospel to everyday life helps moms find peace. Peace is not dependent on a checklist but on Jesus. Setting the tone in the home is crucial for fostering peace. Prayer and scripture are key to maintaining peace. We can choose to react or reflect in challenging moments. The Holy Spirit guides us in finding peace. Long-term thinking helps us navigate short-term challenges. Unwholesome talk disrupts peace in the home. Peace is a promise from God that we can rely on.

Summary: What lies do we tell ourselves or have we heard ABOUT homeschooling - lies that maybe prevent us from stepping out into responding to that tug to pull our kids from traditional schooling. Join Holly Frank, Felicia, and Amanda as they discuss the myths surrounding homeschooling as well as the myths about traditional schooling that might be deceiving you! Takeaways: Homeschooling allows for deeper connections with children. Self-sacrifice in homeschooling is a chance for growth. Socialization in schools often doesn't prepare kids for real life. Boys require physical activity to thrive in learning environments. Movement aids memory retention in boys during education. The family unit should be centered around God and His teachings. Parents should model their faith and values for their children. Homeschooling provides a unique opportunity to observe children's growth. Teaching should adapt to the individual needs of each child. The importance of creating a safe family culture for spiritual growth. Chapters: 00:00Introduction to Homeschooling Myths 03:38The Struggles of Self-Doubt in Homeschooling 06:40The Importance of Socialization in Homeschooling 17:02The Benefits of Homeschooling 18:59Understanding Boys and Girls in Education 24:18The Importance of Movement in Learning 25:10The Family Dynamic in Homeschooling 26:54God's Design for Family Education 29:52Teaching Children Through Life Experiences 34:16The Impact of Homeschooling on Family Relationships

SummaryIn this episode of Unrehearsed, Amanda, Felicia, and Holly discuss the growing trend of homeschooling as a response to the challenges faced in the public school system. They share their personal journeys into homeschooling, emphasizing the importance of education over traditional schooling. The conversation highlights the role of parents in nurturing their children's education, the impact of societal values on schooling, and the need for parents to be proactive in their children's learning. TakeawaysHomeschooling is becoming increasingly popular due to dissatisfaction with public schools.Education should focus on critical thinking and self-learning, not just rote memorization.Parents play a crucial role in their children's education and should be actively involved.The public school system is often influenced by state mandates that may not align with family values.Children need to be nurtured and protected from negative influences in society.The spirit of the age can impact what is taught in schools, making it essential for parents to be aware.Homeschooling allows for a more tailored educational experience that meets individual children's needs.There is no condemnation for parents who choose public schooling; it's about seeking God's guidance.Patience and understanding are essential qualities for parents in the homeschooling journey.Parents should not feel overwhelmed; they can take small steps towards homeschooling.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Homeschool Epidemic03:24 Personal Homeschool Journeys06:40 Understanding Education vs. Schooling09:42 The Challenges of Public Schooling12:26 The Impact of COVID on Education Choices14:54 The Role of Parents in Education17:45 The Spirit of the Age and Education20:51 The Importance of Critical Thinking23:51 Encouragement for Parents Considering Homeschooling25:47 Closing Thoughts and Future Conversations

Summary In this episode, hosts Evin Weir and Felicia Sivells, along with guest, Monica Sotolongo discuss the importance of family, faith, and setting intentions for the new year. Monica shares her journey of fostering and adopting children, emphasizing the need for healthy families in society, but the conversation primarily focuses on practical steps for setting family goals and resolutions for 2025, encouraging families to seek God's guidance and involve children in decision-making. Join us as you prepare for the turning of a page, a new year. Takeaways Monica emphasizes the importance of intimacy with the Lord as a New Year's resolution. Healthy families are central to God's restoration efforts. Setting family goals should involve everyone's input, including children. Scripture can provide practical guidance for family life. Families should create a mission statement to guide their actions. Children can hear from the Lord and contribute to family decisions. It's essential to give yourself grace in pursuing family goals. Involving children in discussions fosters their spiritual growth. Family meetings can help align everyone's hearts with God's vision. Relying on God's strength is crucial for family leadership. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Family and Faith 04:31 The Heart of Family Ministry 09:40 Setting Intentions for the New Year 12:17 Practical Steps for Family Goals 18:19 Empowering Children in Family Decisions 24:09 Cultivating Intimacy with the Lord Find Monica or Get Books and Plushies Here: [email protected] @monica_sotolongo / @abidetolove www.abidetolove.org

Summary Why Advent and what is its significance? Lynn Swank shares just how secular Christmas has become, even for Believers, while giving practical activities to bring the holiday back to its true meaning for our children. As a seasoned children's pastor, Lynn helps every able mom create memorable family moments, making Advent simple to incorporate. Join us for Part Two of this two-part series. Keywords Advent, Christmas, family traditions, children's ministry, faith, hope, joy, love, holiday season Takeaways Advent can be a meaningful family tradition. It's important to focus on the spiritual aspect of Christmas. Transitioning from secular to sacred can enhance the holiday experience. Involving children in Advent activities fosters their understanding of faith. Celebrating Christmas is about more than just gifts and decorations. Practical tips can make celebrating Advent manageable for busy families. Creating a Christ-centered Christmas can be done in simple ways. The significance of giving gifts reflects the gifts given to Jesus. Understanding the true meaning of Christmas can deepen family connections. Every family can find their unique way to celebrate Advent. Chapters 00:00 Practical Ways to Celebrate Advent with Children 01:09 The Secular Nature of Christmas Traditions 04:16 Transforming Secular Traditions into Sacred Moments 07:10 Practical Ways to Celebrate Advent 14:01 Connecting with the Community and Resources

Summary In this episode, the hosts discuss the significance of Advent and how to incorporate its themes into family traditions during the Christmas season. Lynn Swank shares insights on the meaning of each candle in the Advent wreath, emphasizing hope, preparation, joy, and love. The conversation highlights the importance of teaching children about the true meaning of Christmas and creating memorable family moments. Join us for Part One of a two part series. Keywords Advent, Christmas, family traditions, children's ministry, faith, hope, joy, love, holiday season Takeaways Advent is a time to remember the true meaning of Christmas. The first candle represents hope, focusing on God's promises. Preparation for the coming of Jesus is essential during Advent. Joy is a gift that comes from within, not based on circumstances. The final candle symbolizes God's love for humanity through Jesus. Celebrating Christmas can be about family and faith, not just gifts. Incorporating Advent traditions can deepen family connections. Teaching children about Advent helps them understand their faith. The joy of Christmas is rooted in the anticipation of Jesus' return. Advent is a journey of faith leading up to Christmas. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Advent and Family Traditions 05:01 Understanding Advent: The Meaning and Significance 10:47 The Four Candles of Advent: Hope, Preparation, Joy, and Love 15:19 Practical Ways to Celebrate Advent with Children 19:32 New Chapter 19:37 educational-intro-high-long.wav

Daniela Coats is an expert, author, and trainer who advocates for bio kids participating in foster or adoptive homes. With little resources for families, Daniela experienced the unintentional invisibility bio kids often experience when "new" family members are introduced at school, church, or even into family. She now helps others at withsiblings.org and can be found on Instagram @with_siblings. For her Bible teachings, visit danielacoats.com or @daniela.coats. Join us for an incredible conversation with Daniela whether you are a foster/adoptive parent or not! This episode left us all with a heart for these families and curious if God has this for each of us! Be moved today.

Just like the smorgasbord of a Thanksgiving feast, the AMI team dives head first into Ephesians 4, worthiness, prepared tables of the Old Testament, and even the table God has set before us in Psalm 23. We are so grateful you are here as you prepare your own holiday meal this week. Join us for a special Thanksgiving episode and maybe grab a pen for Evin's Biblical breakdown.

Did you know George Barna’s surveys have found that 90% of born-again Christians families do not have family devotions once a week! “Fewer than one out of ten born-again families read the Bible together during a typical week or pray together during a typical week.”Join Evin and Felicia as they sit with the amazing homeschool genius, Kristin Bowlin of @arrowsandapplesauce for unique ways to craft a memorable devotion time.

Able Moms fan-favorite and award winning author, Laine Craft, is talking on more than just our Mom Comm stages. Laine joins Amanda and Evin for a deep dive into what she wishes she would have known about technology. Set to the backdrop of her own experience, Laine is not shy about technology's perils. Find her at LaineLawsonCraft.com

Able Moms run to the polls, but how do we respond to the outcome or keep peace no matter the aftermath? Join this juicy conversation - unafraid to tackle election season. We come to bolster your faith and encourage you in this season with facts and philosophies that bring Biblical hope.

At Able Moms, we invite you to be capable in your everyday practical parenting and unshakable in your Biblical faith, but what does it mean to be memorable in your mentorship? We discuss what you can do today to look over your shoulder in the future and feel satisfied with your mothering legacy.

What is Halloween REALLY doing for our to your children? Where we used to consider this secondary celebration's roots, we now consider its current demonic influence. Discover with AMI some shocking revelations before you rush to buy candy and costumes. Consider as parents, teachers, grands, and moms what we share and then make a decision you feel solid in!

Able Moms say hard things. That’s what Unrehearsed is all about. There is no topic too big for God to tackle or us to talk about. Here, we are 100% relevant, sometimes raw, and always real. Like any local Able Moms community, some of us say ya’ll, while others ‘yous guys’, we take stages, work full time, homeschool, or homestead. But, we all desire to be capable in our everyday practical parenting, unshakable in our faith, and memorable in our mentorship. Welcome to Unrehearsed with Able Moms.