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It's wedding season!!!!! Let's talk about attending weddings, how the bridesmaid to enemies pipeline works, unrealistic and unappreciative bridezillas, and how weddings are the only parties that adult friendships prioritize. Should you be expected to attend a destination wedding? How much do you spend on a friend's wedding? Let's go behind the dresses and glam for a realistic perspective!

It's been 5 years into our careers and we're still not feeling financially secure :( What does financial security mean, and how can we achieve it? Is it a mindset or a cold hard number? In this episode, April and Cindy dive deep into what finances mean in a relationship, how to start feeling more financially secure, and where our values lie in conjunction with money.

Join us as we write a farewell letter to our 20's, the decade of so much change. Our 20's was filled with career moves, different forms of happiness, ending relationships, new friendships, shifting financial goals, and completely new life perspectives. After living through graduation, a pandemic, and entering the job market, we've had so many learnings, reflections, and things to be grateful for. Tune in to hear what we've learnt now that we're on the other side :) This episode is a belated birthday shoutout to April! Happy birthday!!

how do you introduce yourself to new friends? how can we build identities in an age where we work 9-5? do you ever think that you need to reach a certain skill level before you're comfortable identifying as something? join april and cindy in discussion about how hobbies slowly become a central part of identity, how april is slowly accepting that she doesn't need to make money off her hobby to consider herself good at it, and how cindy makes assumptions about hobbies in our late 20's.

happy womens day to all our ladies!! let's talk about how relationships are evolving with the modern age, your expectations of your partner, the 2026 dating scene, and how being single is actually a flex. should women get married? are gender norms really changing in heteronormative relationships? does marriage really result in happier and more secure relationships? listen along to how april doesn't take out the trash, how cindy thinks having a partner is one of the most important things in life, and how we both agree that we all need to do more for women in this worldBallerina Farms article: https://www.thetimes.com/magazines/the-sunday-times-magazine/article/meet-the-queen-of-the-trad-wives-and-her-eight-children-plfr50cgk

this last tuesday was monumental, with mardi gras, ramadan, and chinese new year all happening on the same day. april and cindy discuss their chinese heritage, roots, and traditions they are vaguely familiar with. with everyone and their mothers entering a chinese time of their lives, though april and cindy share similar third culture upbringing, they differ in their opinions regarding what is appropriation and appreciation, and what they’re willing to accept. also april wanted to be a kpop idol???

Join us while we make some fun and totally-not-binding goals for 2026!! Should we give up on taking free stuff from the street?IG: https://www.instagram.com/waitwhatsthepointpod