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What happens when a man realizes… he’s the problem?"You don’t fix your marriage by fixing your partner.You fix it by becoming the man the relationship requires."In this raw and powerful conversation, I sit down with G. Vidal—father, husband, and creator of Alpha Dad Consulting—to unpack the moment his marriage nearly fell apart… and the decision that changed everything.After discovering betrayal early in his marriage, G spiraled into control, insecurity, and desperation—trying to fix everything around him. But it wasn’t until a mentor told him a hard truth—“You can’t control her. You can only control yourself.”—that his life began to transform.What followed wasn’t quick. It took years.Years of rebuilding trust.Years of changing behavior.Years of becoming a different man.And on the other side?A 15-year marriage.Four kids.A brotherhood of men.And a rediscovered creative fire—now expressed through music, leadership, and fatherhood.🔥 In this episode, we explore:-Why most men misunderstand leadership in marriage-The difference between control and responsibility-How attraction and trust are rebuilt (not demanded)-What it actually takes to recover from betrayal-The hidden cost of putting your wife at the center of your identity-Why men need purpose and creative expression—not just responsibility-How your children learn more from what you do than what you say🧠 This conversation is for you if:-You feel stuck or disconnected in your marriage-You want to become a more intentional husband and father-You’re navigating trust, conflict, or rebuilding-You know you’re capable of more—but haven’t acted on it yet-You’re ready to take ownership of your life, your leadership, and your future🔗 Connect with G. Vidal:Instagram: G. Vidal Musichttps://www.instagram.com/gvidalmusic/Music (Spotify / Apple): G. Vidalhttps://open.spotify.com/artist/4XPLpKJfEvfRkfpaUUKxH9?si=gzAdYbooQ_-Ll3-efq-olQYouTube: Alpha Dad Consultinghttps://www.youtube.com/@alphadadconsultingCheck out G's latest single: https://open.spotify.com/album/6BCuSt8CSpEFLA2GPMAGfp?si=tHl48TD1S5WmABrWf2TA8A📢 If this episode resonates:Share it with a dad, a husband, or a man who needs to hear it.And don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations on leadership, fatherhood, and raising legends.Onward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com#WhoaDadGoDad #RaisingLegends #IntentionalFatherhood #DadLeadership #LeadershipAtHome #ModernFatherhood #PresentDad #FatherhoodJourney #FamilyLeadership #MarriageLeadership #OwnYourShit #PersonalResponsibility #RebuildTrust #LeadYourMarriage #MarriageTransformation #EmotionalOwnership#MasculineLeadership #MenOfCharacter #PurposeDrivenMen #SovereignMen #ModernMasculinity #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipAdviceForMen #SelfImprovementDaily #GrowthMindset

In this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!, I sit down with Dan Smith, founder of Voyage Rites, to explore one of the most important—and overlooked—responsibilities of fatherhood: guiding boys into manhood.Listen in to learn the 5 Things Fathers Must Do Before the Rite of Passage, and then how to construct bona fide rites of passage that signfy and invite manhood.This convo is so important to me. I see an impending lack of good men in the world, and simultaneously a rising tide of intentional fathers. In this pod we unpack what’s missing in modern culture when it comes to raising strong, grounded, and sovereign men—and why so many boys today are left searching for identity, purpose, and direction.Dan shares his personal journey from law enforcement and the FBI to building a movement focused on rites of passage for young men, along with the deeper realization that changed everything for him as a father of three boys.We dive into:-Why boys don’t automatically become men—and what’s been lost over the last 100+ years-The hidden impact of the Industrial Revolution on fatherhood and masculine development-How modern culture encourages passivity—and what it means to raise a sovereign young man-The psychological need for rites of passage (and how boys try to replace them in unhealthy ways)-What fathers can do today—at every stage of childhood—to prepare their sons for manhood-The difference between being a “good dad” and being an intentional fatherWe also break down Dan’s framework for guiding boys through a structured journey—from early childhood, to preparation, to initiation, and ultimately into adulthood.This is a conversation about responsibility, clarity, and stepping fully into the role of a father—not just as a provider, but as a true guide in their leadership journey.If you’re a father—or plan to be—this episode will challenge how you think about raising your sons and daughters.🔗 Connect with Dan Smith & Voyage Rites:Linedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-smith-307469322/Website: https://voyagerites.comExplore events, programs, and resources for fathers and sons🔔 Subscribe for more conversations on fatherhood, leadership, and raising legends.Onward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and Brand New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com#WhoaDadGoDad #RaisingLegends #IntentionalFatherhood #DadLeadership #LeadershipAtHome #ModernFatherhood #PresentDad #FatherhoodJourney #MarriageAndFamily#RiteOfPassage #RaisingMen #MasculineLeadership #StrongFathers #BoysToMen #PurposeDrivenMen #MenOfCharacter #SovereignMen #LegacyBuilding#ParentingBoys #FathersAndSons #NextGenerationLeaders #FamilyLeadership #LeadYourFamily

In this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!, I sit back down with Mark Guay—my very first guest and now my first repeat guest—as he stands on the edge of a major family transition: welcoming his second child (a baby girl) literally any day now. We talk in real time—before the birth—about what changes when you’re no longer stepping into fatherhood for the first time: the mix of excitement and pressure, the honest fear that comes from knowing how intense the first months can be, and the way parenting forces you to confront your own patterns as they get mirrored back through your child. Mark opens up about the realities that don’t make it into highlight reels: past postpartum and health scares, the mental load of protecting a marriage while raising kids, and the responsibility of “expanding your container” as a man and father. We also get into deeper territory—rites of passage for boys, loneliness and resilience in young men, and why so many modern conversations about masculinity stop short of solutions. Two quotes that really caught my attention: “Every new child demands a bigger container. The work is becoming the man who can hold it.”“Protecting your marriage while raising children isn’t automatic—it’s leadership.”If you’re a dad in growth mode—or you’re preparing to become one—this conversation is a grounded look at what it means to lead your home with presence, emotional ownership, and real support for the mother of your children. Connect with Mark on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markwguay/Tap into Mark's "7 Dimensional Breathing" course:https://markwguay.me/7dbreathingOnward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and Brand New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #RaisingLegends #IntentionalFatherhood #DadLeadership #LeadershipAtHome #ModernFatherhood #PresentDad #DadLife #GirlDad #SecondChild #SecondBaby #BabyNumberTwo #NewbornLife #GrowingOurFamily #TwoUnderTwo #ParentingJourney #FatherhoodJourney #MarriageAndFamily

In this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!, I sit down with author and parent to three badass men, Jeff Nelligan, to talk about a hard truth: the clock on fatherhood starts earlier than we think—and resilience doesn’t magically appear at 18. Jeff shares how raising three sons (now all military officers, including one who pursued a waiver for professional rugby) shaped his latest short, punchy book: Four Lessons for My Three Sons: How You Can Raise a Resilient Kid.We also get into why so many young adults are struggling right now—and Jeff brings stats that should stop every parent in their tracks:-Gen Z is roughly 71 million people-45% of 18–32-year-olds still live at home-40% have a chronic condition before age 30-Roughly 1 out of 3 report feeling hopeless/depressed/“despairing”-56% are overweight or obese-48% say they’re online almost constantly-Kids ages 10–18 average 8 hours 47 minutes/day on a device (not including homework)-Kids ages 3–5 average ~110 minutes/day of screen time-And when it comes to early work-life readiness (surveys Jeff cites): 6 out of 10 Gen Z hires are fired within the first year, 40% within the first two months, and about 1 out of 3 bring a parent to meet the hiring managerFrom there, our conversation moves into what fathers can actually do: micro-tests of independence, controlled discomfort, real accountability, and a repeatable way to build kids who can handle pressure and responsibility. What you’ll hear in this episode:-Why Jeff believes 75% of the time you’ll ever spend with your kids is gone by age 12-How to build “acclimation to responsibility” through small reps-The leadership mantra Jeff learned in infantry training: assess, adapt, advance-The four pillars Jeff used to shape his sons: courtesy & conduct, confidence, resilience, and ambition-Three practical actions you can implement immediately: device control, nightly walks, and reading rituals-A powerful closing reflection: what Jeff hopes his sons say about him someday—humor, guidance, and gritIf you’re raising young kids and you feel the stakes of the modern world—distraction, softness, anxiety, and confusion—this episode is a direct, practical reminder:Resilience is trained, not wished for. Grab Jeff's Book- "Four Lessons From My Three Sons: How You Can Raise A Resilient Kid:"(https://a.co/d/0ej5vTxi)Connect with Jeff on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeff-nelligan-8277654/Onward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and Brand New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #LeadershipForFathers #RaisingLegends #IntentionalFatherhood #FathersWhoLead #DadLeadership #ModernFatherhood #PresentDad #RaiseResilientKids #ResilientParenting #RaisingStrongKids #BuildCharacter #ParentWithPurpose #FutureReadyKids #ConfidenceBuilding #AccountabilityMatters #HardThings #GenZ #ParentingInTheDigitalAge #ScreenTime #DigitalDiscipline #YouthMentalHealth #StrongFamilies #LeadershipAtHome #CharacterOverComfort #DisciplineEqualsFreedom #AssessAdaptAdvance #MenOfCharacter #LegacyThinking #BuildTheFuture

Welcome to Episode 38 with Eric Wilson (Eric’s Dad Stats: Two sons, two daughters, age range early 20s to early 30s)In this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!, I sit down with Eric Wilson—a father of four, a business builder, an elk hunter, and a man of deep conviction. Eric’s journey is nothing short of a masterclass in fatherhood, leadership, and personal transformation.We talk about the evolution of partnership—Eric and his wife built multiple successful businesses together—and what it means to raise kids who are not just self-sufficient, but principled, resilient, and deeply thoughtful. Eric opens up about hard parenting seasons, where consequences were real, and what it took to maintain connection through it all.This conversation is an invitation to all fathers to embrace the hard things, lead from integrity, and prepare our kids to thrive in a world that won’t always be easy. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to raise capable, thinking, grounded adults—you’ll find answers in Eric’s hard-earned wisdom.Key Themes:-Teaching your kids how to struggle well-Building businesses with your spouse-Modeling principled decision-making-The long view of fatherhood (and why it never really ends)-Raising kids to become deep thinkers, not just rule followersQuote That Stuck With Me: “Every choice you make has a consequence. And your life is a series of consequences that came from your choices.”Connect with Eric:https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericwilsonvision/https://www.ericwilsoncoaching.com/Onward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and Brand New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com #Fatherhood #MensWork #IntentionalParenting #RaisingLegends #ModernFatherhood #PresenceOverPerfection #DadLife #ParentingPodcast #LeadershipAndFatherhood #EmpoweredFathers #SoftTalkAwareness #HolisticPerformance #MindsetMatters #WHOADADGODAD

Welcome to Episode 37 with Tyson AdamsIn this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!, I sit down with Tyson Adams—men’s coach, therapist, and founder of the Life Force men’s group—to have one of the most sobering, essential, and profound conversations we've ever had on this podcast. Topic: PORNPorn and a hypersexualized culture hve put our country in a precarious position. Porn impacts our personal agency by hijacking the nervous system and creating compulsive habits that weaken focus, confidence, and self-control. It damages intimacy, teaching us to prioritize performance and consumption over connection and presence. It steals childhood innocence, exposing kids to distorted content before they’re ready, often without guidance. It weakens our culture by producing low-energy, distracted men who struggle to lead with purpose. It leaves young people disembodied and dysregulated, normalizing overstimulation and confusion around identity and boundaries. And perhaps most dangerously, it disconnects us from the sacred, reducing sex to entertainment and stripping it of its spiritual power. This isn’t just a moral issue. It’s a generational one.Tyson brings a warrior’s heart to one of the most taboo and urgent issues facing fathers and families today: the devastating impact of pornography on our bodies, minds, relationships, and, most importantly, our children. Together, we unpack the cultural conditions that have hypersexualized society, the mechanics of addiction through a nervous system lens, and what it means to reclaim our agency—not just for ourselves, but for the generations to come.Tyson shares his personal journey from 20 years of addiction to becoming a global voice for sexual integrity, masculine wholeness, and fatherhood done right. We explore:-Why porn is not just a private issue—it’s a systemic one, affecting everything from our focus to our finances.-How to talk to your kids about sex, porn, and self-worth without shame or fear.-The science and sacredness of semen retention—and why energy, presence, and intention in our sexuality matter.-How slowing down in intimacy can open up cosmic-level connection with your partner.-Why doing your own shadow work is the most protective thing you can do for your kids.-As Tyson put it: “Outgrowing porn is not a moral issue—it’s a nervous system issue. It’s the most efficient biohack to becoming a powerful, present father.”This episode will challenge you. It will likely stir discomfort. And it should. Because fatherhood isn’t about staying safe—it’s about stepping up.🎧 Listen in and pass this one along. Our sons and daughters are counting on us.Connect with Tyson:https://www.thriive.life/lifeforcehttps://www.instagram.com/tysonadams__Onward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and Brand New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com #Fatherhood #MensWork #IntentionalParenting #RaisingLegends #ModernFatherhood #PresenceOverPerfection #DadLife #ParentingPodcast #LeadershipAndFatherhood #EmpoweredFathers #SoftTalkAwareness #HolisticPerformance #MindsetMatters #RaisingLegends #MasculineLeadership #PornRecovery #SemenRetention #ConsciousParenting #MenDoingTheWork #DigitalIntegrity #ModernManhood #ProtectOurKids #IntentionalFatherhood #SacredMasculine #WHOADADGODAD

Welcome to Episode 36 with Mike Salemi"The Language That Builds Legends: How Dads Shape Identity"(Mike’s Dad Stats: One son, age 2)In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Mike Salemi, an elite strength coach turned holistic performance guide, and we dive deep into the evolving role of fatherhood, vitality, and the literal narratives that shape how we lead as men.Mike opens up about his early years competing on the world stage in powerlifting and the physical and emotional burnout that followed. What emerged from that breakdown was a new approach to "men’s work” – one that doesn’t aim to break men down, but to build them up through presence, vitality, and integration. From Qigong and sweat lodges to breathwork and storywork, Mike’s work is about reawakening the father, the partner, and the leader within the man who has lost touch with his full self.We unpack the true power of our words, how language literally sculpts identity, and how "soft talk" can keep men—and their kids—stuck in a loop of vague, disempowering narratives. We also discuss how to guide our children’s voice from an early age through modeling, intentional structure, and love-filled correction, not control.This one’s for the fathers holding a lot. For the dads walking the tightrope of provider, protector, partner, and man. For the men who want to raise legends, without losing themselves in the process.🔑 KEY THEMES:-Vitality as the cornerstone of modern manhood-Language as a tool for self-definition and transformation-Parenting through presence, not perfection-Teaching kids empowered speech (without being controlling)-The quiet weight men carry—and how to share it without shame🎧 A standout moment:“The currency of fatherhood is presence. That is the currency that a child understands.”I can’t wait for you all to listen in! (And pass it on to a father you admire..)Connect with Mike:https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikesalemi111/https://coaching.mikesalemi.io/Onward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and Brand New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com #Fatherhood #MensWork #IntentionalParenting #RaisingLegends #ModernFatherhood #PresenceOverPerfection #DadLife #ParentingPodcast #LeadershipAndFatherhood #EmpoweredFathers #SoftTalkAwareness #HolisticPerformance #MindsetMatters #WHOADADGODAD

In this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!, I sit down with Steve Sundberg—father, entrepreneur, Aurora, Co city councilman, and a man whose story stretches from the plains of Wisconsin to the heart of Africa, and right back home to the Rockies.We unpack Steve’s extraordinary life journey: his love story born in a war-torn refugee zone, the rollercoaster of fatherhood through highs and heartbreaks, and what he’s learned while raising two kids into young adulthood. With humility and humor, Steve shares candid reflections on the challenges of parenting, the importance of presence, and why supportive, fun, and present are the three traits he hopes his children remember most.From sledgehammering a PlayStation to serving on city council "in self-defense," Steve is proof that fatherhood and leadership require the same muscle: showing up when it matters most. One of the best moments? When Steve says:"Some lessons just have to be learned the hard way—and we, as fathers, have to stand there with them in that fire, not pull them out of it too soon."Key Themes:-The courage to fight for family (and freedom)-Raising teens who make mistakes—and come back stronger-The silent power of presence-Fatherhood as the frontline of youth development and community safety-Learning the hard way, and passing down wisdom with grace🎧 Whether you're raising toddlers or guiding young adults, this episode offers timely wisdom for every stage of the journey.#Fatherhood #Leadership #AuroraColorado #RaisingLegends #WHOADADGODAD #FamilyFirst #ParentingWisdom #DadLife #StrongFathers #BePresent #ServeAndLead #IntentionalParenting #AmericanDad #YouthMentorship #LegacyBuilding #FatherhoodPodcast

In this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!, I sit down with Hampton Roads Police Lieutenant David Smith to explore what it takes to be a protector both on the beat and at home. We dive into the challenges of transitioning from “badge‐mode” to “dad‐mode,” and David shares the simple yet powerful rituals he uses—like dropping his duty gear, taking a deep breath, and immediately giving his kids a hug—to leave work stress at the precinct and show up fully for his family.You’ll hear how David’s experience on SWAT and as a precinct leader exposed him to trauma and hypervigilance—and why, over time, he intentionally shifted roles to safeguard his mental health. We talk about peer support, breaking the stigma around vulnerability, and why acknowledging traumatic incidents with fellow officers accelerates healing. Dads who have ever felt the tension between high‐pressure jobs and home life will relate to his honest insights about carrying the weight of critical incidents and still finding the energy to play catch or teach water safety.David also breaks down his “Provide, Protect, Be Present” philosophy:-Provide by creating a “plan B” for his family’s future and teaching his kids financial and survival skills.-Protect through peak physical fitness, jiujitsu training, and a nutrition regimen that keeps him ready for anything.-Be Present by carving out intentional father‐child adventures, setting up a home gym for family workouts, and enforcing “no‐floaties off” rules at the pool to stay 100% focused.Whether you’re a first responder, a high‐stress professional, or simply a dad striving to be more intentional, this conversation offers actionable strategies to reset your mind, fortify your body, and cultivate an open growth mindset in your kids. Tune in and discover how to build your own “alter ego” that seamlessly switches you from work mode to fully engaged fatherhood every single day.👇 Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this with a dad you admire.#DadLife #ModernDad #IntentionalFatherhood #FirstResponderDad, #PoliceLieutenant, #MentalHealthMatters, #DadModeActivated, #ProvideProtectPresent, #AlterEgoDad, #FatherhoodPodcast, #RaisingLegends, #LeadershipForDads, #AdventureDad, #DadLeadership, #ParentingWithPurpose #Fatherhood #Leadership #WHOADADGODAD

In this episode of WHOA DAD! GO DAD! I sit down with my friend Ben Willson, a man with an admirable level of positivity and with what seems to be a bottomless well of intentionality. Ben’s journey into fatherhood—and back again, through loss and healing—is one of those rare stories that grabs your heart and offers real wisdom in return.We unpack his three guiding words—limitless, playful, present—and explore how those values shape not just his parenting but his life philosophy. Ben reflects on what it means to live with intentionality, how humor is one of his superpowers as a dad, and how personal growth and self-awareness are part of the deal if we want to raise kids who thrive.This conversation goes deep:-Into personal healing, including a powerful moment of regression therapy with a shaman.-Into the raw grief of miscarriage and how he and his wife are navigating those losses as a couple and as parents.-Into the modern dangers of digital overexposure and how restraint and presence may be the new flex in a world of performative parenting.What I loved most was this gem from Ben:“You either are trying to be a great dad—or you’re not.”This one is real. It’s vulnerable. It’s funny and soulful and packed with life wisdom. If you’re a father seeking to be more intentional, present, and equipped to handle adversity—you’ll feel seen here.🎧 Tune in to hear us riff on:-The importance of emotional regulation as a father-How presence creates memories-Why failure and trying again is key to being limitless-Why being kind, not perfect, is the goal-The dangers of oversharing your kids online—and how privacy might be the next parental superpower👇 Don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this with a dad you admire.#DadLife #ModernDad #IntentionalFatherhood #PresentFathers #FatherhoodMatters #DadWisdom #RaisingLegends #DadGoals #FathersWhoLead #GirlDad #BoyDad #ParentingPodcast #FatherhoodCommunity #LimitlessParenting #PlayfulParenting #BeingPresent #EmotionalRegulation #SelfAwareDad #HealingAsAFather #MiscarriageAwareness #GrievingTogether #DadPhilosophy #DigitalParenting #LegacyBuilding #ParentingWithIntention #Fatherhood #Leadership l #WHOADADGODAD

Welcome to a new year of "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" and Episode 32, where I delve into the intricacies of fatherhood and elite athletic pursuits with Cory Heitz. Cory brings a rich tapestry of experiences, from his upbringing in a family steeped in a rich basketball legacy to his formative years at the Air Force Academy and subsequent military service. These layers of his life profoundly shape his approach to parenting, coaching, and his business endeavors.In this episode, we explore:Cory's Unique Background: Raised in a family where basketball and military service were prevalent, Cory discusses how this environment fostered a mindset of discipline and excellence.Transition from Military to Mentorship: Learn how Cory's military experience enhances his ability to prepare young athletes for the rigors of competitive sports and academics through specialized prep school programs (this is Cory’s professional forte: prepathletics.com).Developing Future Leaders: Cory shares his professional journey as a consultant, helping families navigate the path to college basketball, emphasizing the importance of mental toughness and resilience.Deep Dive into Fatherhood: Reflecting on his role as a father, Cory reveals how his experiences inform his parenting style, aiming to instill similar values of hard work and integrity in his children.Cory shares a powerful reflection: "The discipline and dedication required in the military and sports are the same qualities I strive to pass on to my children."Join us for this insightful discussion that bridges elite athletics, personal growth, and the transformative journey of fatherhood.#EliteAthletics #Fatherhood #SportsParenting #MilitaryDiscipline #Leadership #CollegeBasketball #WHOADADGODAD

Welcome to Episode Thirty One with Cody Clickner(Cody’s Dad Stats:  Three sons, ages 8, 6, and 1, and a 3-year-old daughter)Welcome to episode 31 of "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" with Cody Clickner. After decades in the energy sector as a production engineer, Cody founded “Well Information Technologies” which is a modern job reporting tool for the Oil & Gas industry. Beyond being an energy entrepreneur, Cody is adventure seeker, husband, and father of four.In this episode, Cody delves into his personal journey from having his career define his identity to re-centering his life around fatherhood. His story is a powerful reminder for new dads of the importance of making intentional choices that align with the kind of father you want to be. Cody openly discusses the struggles and revelations he faced while adjusting his priorities, providing practical advice for those navigating the early stages of fatherhood. Whether you're just entering this phase or are finding your footing, Cody's insights will help you understand the significant impact of your role and encourage you to shape it actively.Cody shares the magic of building both a successful business and raising a family with his wife, and here are five topics that really caught my attention: Identity and Career vs. Fatherhood: Cody discusses his transformation from identifying primarily through his career to prioritizing fatherhood. He shares the profound impact this shift has had on his personal happiness and family dynamics, encouraging fathers to evaluate and realign their priorities to foster better relationships at home. The Importance of Patience and Presence: Throughout the conversation, Cody emphasizes the need for patience and being present as fundamental aspects of effective parenting. He talks about learning to adjust expectations and embrace the small, everyday moments with his children as opportunities for bonding and personal growth. Leading by Example: Cody highlights the significance of leading by example rather than directive parenting. By reflecting on his own changes in behavior and what he models for his children, he illustrates how parental actions directly influence children's behavior and values. Balancing Family and Entrepreneurial Endeavors: He shares his journey from a demanding oil and gas career to starting his own company, discussing how entrepreneurship allowed him to create a more family-oriented lifestyle. Cody’s story provides insights into the challenges and rewards of balancing professional aspirations with a commitment to family. Development and Adaptation Over Time: Cody reflects on how his parenting style has evolved with the growth of his family from one child to four. He notes the differences in parenting each child, adapting to their individual needs, and the continuous learning process that parenting entails, underscoring the dynamic nature of fatherhood as children grow and change.I can’t wait for you all to listen in!Connect with Cody: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cody-clickner/Onward!-Dave MomperLeadership Coach and Brand New Dadwww.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Thirty with Scott Bain (Scott’s Dad Stats: Two sons - ages 26 and 31) Welcome to episode 30 of "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" with my confidant, Scott Bain. Scott was once my client when I ran business development for a video production company, and as the decades have piled up, it’s a treat to call him my friend and contemporary. As you’ll hear in this episode, Scott is a bonafide student of life, and we get the good fortune of some of the deep wisdom he serves up from his thoughtful look in the rearview mirror. Scott shares some truly candid anecdotes about becoming a great husband, becoming the best father he can be, becoming a strategic creative, and taking the most difficult leaps to become a victor of his own life. Gosh, this was fun to re-listen to as I prepared it for publication! Scott drops his knowledge on many great topics, and here are five that really caught me attention: Adjusting to Different Parenting Styles: Scott found it challenging but necessary to adapt his parenting approach to meet the different personalities and needs of his two sons, particularly with his younger son who displayed a more creative and free-spirited nature. Becoming a Spiritual Leader: Scott shares how he navigated stepping up to the expectations of being the spiritual leader in his family, an expectation set by his wife. This is a role he grew into over time, and he notes the importance of being actively involved in guiding the spiritual direction of his family. Navigating Mental Health Awareness: Scott's younger son had friends who experienced severe mental health issues, including suicide. Scott found it challenging to address mental health adequately for himself and others, and shares the times where there was a gap in his ability to nurture and support his sons emotionally in this area. Being Raised by His Grand Parents: Scott shares the nature of his upbringing, and we wander through how parental figures, the environment, the community, and even the times, all have a potential impact on how we perceive ourselves and the role of fatherhood. Learning from Parenting Mistakes: Reflecting on his journey, Scott acknowledges the challenge of recognizing and learning from his parenting mistakes, striving to adapt and respond better to his children’s needs over time.These challenges highlight Scott’s journey through the complexities of fatherhood, showcasing his commitment to growth and better understanding within his family dynamics. I can’t wait for you all to listen in! Connect with Scott: https://www.linkedin.com/in/scottbain/ Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

This is Episode Twenty-Nine with Ryan Darilek (Ryan’s Dad Stats: Seven sons - ages 7, 8, 17, 20, 20, 28 & 32) Welcome to an intense and moving episode of "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" with my friend Ryan Darilek. Amongst several career endeavors, Ryan is the Chairman of EmBrave, an organization out of Colorado Springs that facilitates transformational improvement in the lives of people faced with homelessness, mental health difficulties, and justice-related issues. The organization is focused on bringing light to those in their darkest hour, and in a poetic set of events, Ryan was once a client of the organization. The story Ryan shares is nothing short of surreal, and you’ll see how it had a massive impact on his perspective of life, and the ripple effect across hundreds if not thousands of lives. On November 27, 2015, Ryan and his then-girlfriend Karen, experienced a harrowing ordeal at a Planned Parenthood clinic, a pivotal day that became a key turning point in in their lives, and a massive transformation for Ryan as a father, a partner, and a man. They arrived at the clinic for a scheduled abortion, unaware that it would coincide with a violent attack. As you’ll hear, at one point, Ryan stepped out to the parking lot after getting a coffee at the nearby King Soopers, and encountered the shooter face to face. The shooter opened fire, targeting him directly and shooting at him seven times. Miraculously, Ryan was unharmed despite the close range and immediate danger. Later on, inside the clinic, Karen was among those held hostage as the situation escalated into a full-blown standoff. The attack led to a tense and prolonged crisis, lasting about five hours, during which the couple tried desperately to maintain contact through texts and calls, piecing together fragmented updates about each other's safety. Their communication was fraught with uncertainty and fear, as they could not fully know or understand the ongoing events around them. This critical incident not only marked a traumatic climax in their lives but also ignited Ryan's profound transformation and reaffirmation of his priorities and values. Here are five key takeaways from Ryan powerful story and our discussion: 1. Resilience Through Personal Challenges: Ryan’s journey illustrates profound resilience, highlighting his ability to overcome severe personal crises, including alcoholism and legal troubles, and emerge with a renewed focus on contributing positively to society and his family. 2. The Importance of Personal Accountability: Ryan emphasizes taking responsibility for one's actions as a crucial step towards recovery and personal growth. His story is a testament to the transformative power of owning one’s past and making intentional efforts to change. 3. The Role of Support Systems: Throughout his narrative, the significance of support systems, whether through family, community organizations, or professional networks, is evident. Ryan’s turnaround was significantly aided by these supports, underscoring their value in successful rehabilitation. 4. Vulnerability and Open Communication: Ryan’s experiences underline the strength found in vulnerability and the importance of open communication. Sharing his struggles and triumphs has not only helped him heal but also inspired others to confront their challenges and seek help. 5. Impact of Fatherhood on Personal Growth: Ryan discusses how fatherhood has been a driving force for betterment in his life. His role as a father to seven boys has shaped his actions and motivations, focusing him on legacy, the values he imparts, and the example he sets. These insights from the podcast provide valuable lessons for fathers and all listeners, emphasizing growth, responsibility, and the profound impact of our actions on ourselves and others, and I hope you enjoy! Connect with Ryan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryandarilek/ Onward!-Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad

Welcome to Episode Twenty-Eight with Ken Lewis (Ken’s Dad Stats:  Two daughters, ages 8 and 6)  Welcome to another profoundly moving episode of "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" Today, we're joined by Ken Lewis, a former Air Force explosive ordinance disposal technician turned high-performance business coach and trainer. In this episode, Ken opens up with rare vulnerability about his transition from the high-stakes world of bomb disposal to the adventures and challenges of fatherhood. For New Dads: Ken shares invaluable lessons on the art of high-performance under pressure, essential for new dads navigating the early days with their little ones. Learn how meticulous training and preparation in calm moments can prepare you for the chaos of parenting, emphasizing the importance of building trust and effective communication within your family unit. Ken’s heartfelt story is a testament to the strength it takes to switch roles from military to fatherhood, providing new dads strategies to manage stress and unpredictable situations with patience and grace. For All Dads: Ken's journey resonates with fathers at any stage, highlighting the universal need for adaptability and situational awareness. His personal revelations about coming close to ending his own life, and how thinking of his daughters pulled him back, underscore a powerful message about the impact of mental health and the importance of seeking support. This episode not only covers how the disciplines from Ken’s military career can help in parenting but also how embracing vulnerability and shifting focus towards what truly matters—like family—can transform challenges into strength and leadership at home. Ken’s story is not just about surviving fatherhood but about embracing it with courage, leading your family with heart, and building a legacy of resilience and emotional connection. Tune in to hear how you can apply lessons from high-stakes environments to everyday life, ensuring you’re always prepared, no matter what fatherhood throws your way. Join us for this touching and educational episode on "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!", where we delve into the explosive yet enriching world of fatherhood with Ken Lewis. Connect with Ken: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kenllewis2/ Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twenty-Seven with Michael Collins (Michael’s Dad Stats:  11-year-old  son, five-year-old daughter.)  Hey, new dads and dad-veterans! Presenting you with another fantastic dive into the deep end of fatherhood on "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" This week, I’m thrilled to bring you an episode with Michael Collins, with a forte for storytelling and communications, who’s turned the art of improv into a phenomenal parenting tool.   For the fledgling fathers like myself: Imagine fatherhood as a never-ending improv show where your tiny tots are the unpredictable co-stars. Michael teaches us the power of "yes, and" – the improv technique that transforms rigid parenting scripts into dynamic, playful engagements. You’ll learn how to roll with the punches, whether it's dealing with midnight meltdowns or the great vegetable standoff at dinner. Michael’s strategies aren't just about keeping the peace; they're about enriching your interactions with your children, making every day a bit more like play and a lot less like work. For dads at all stages: Beyond the basics, Michael delves into how his background in storytelling and presentation has shaped his parenting approach, emphasizing that our kids and even our partners are our scene partners in the grand performance of life. Every interaction is a scene where cooperation, creativity, and sometimes a bit of comedic timing can turn daily challenges into memorable moments. Whether you’re navigating toddler temper tantrums or the delicate diplomacy of teenage dialogue, Michael’s insights will equip you to lead with love and laughter. This episode is packed with laughs, learning, and a little bit of lunacy, as we explore how to make fatherhood the best kind of improv game where everyone—kids, dads, even moms—gets to shine. Tune in as we discover that the script for the perfect dad doesn’t exist, but with a bit of improv, every day can be a candid masterpiece of fatherhood! Connect with Michael: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emichaelcollins/ Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twenty-Six with Josh Bonacci (Josh’s Dad Stats: Two sons, seven and five-and-a-half years old, and a three year old daughter.) Fathers and dad-fans, jump into this episode of "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" where I riff with the remarkable Josh Bonacci, a dad who's mastered the art of balancing a demanding career with the joys and challenges of fatherhood. Josh and I met in our college years where we bonded over Fight Club, lifting weights, and gin and tonics. It’s fun to look back and see how much more life and interests we have to bond over these days. As you’ll see, Josh has a very thoughtful approach to life and fatherhood. It was a treat to hear his take on the role! For new fathers, Josh's journey offers invaluable insights into navigating life changes while maintaining a strong family bond. You'll learn about managing career transitions across states, ensuring quality time with your kids amidst busy schedules, and the importance of being present and connected with your family even when you're miles away. For all dads, this episode serves as a reminder of the profound impact our careers and decisions have on our families. Josh discusses the strategic moves and personal sacrifices involved in relocating his family for a better job opportunity, emphasizing the importance of weighing personal ambitions against family happiness. He also shares practical advice on preparing children for big changes and maintaining closeness through frequent communication. This isn't just an episode about the logistics of a family move; it's a deep dive into making tough choices, fostering resilience, and nurturing a family environment that thrives on love, understanding, and patience. Whether you're a new dad or have been on this journey for a while, there's something in this episode for you. Join us to hear how one dad embraces the complexities of fatherhood while steering his family through life's big transitions. Connect with Josh: https://www.linkedin.com/in/josh-bonacci-334b685/ Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twenty-Five with Yours Truly (My Dad Stats: 13 Month-Old Son)  In honor of one year as a father and hitting 25 episodes, here are 20 questions and my candid answers as I reflect on the past year being a new dad, as well as the wisdom I've gathered from 24 podcast conversations with other dads. This was a fun exercise for me to reflect and think deeply about what I've learned and what the experience has been stepping into fatherhood.  Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatter

Welcome to Episode Twenty Four with Kipp Adler (Kipp’s Dad Stats: 2-Year-Old Daughter, 4-Month-Old Son)  Hey Dads, and dad-fans, Get ready for another episode of "Whoa Dad! Go Dad!" where I sit down with the ever-adventurous Kipp Adler, a seasoned journalist and documentarian whose tales from around the globe shed light on the extraordinary challenge and joy of fatherhood. This episode is a goldmine for new dads seeking to deepen their understanding of what it takes to raise the next generation. Kipp brings his unique experiences, from navigating cultural complexities in the Middle East to honing the fine art of listening—a skill every dad can benefit from. Kipp's journey is about embracing the hero's journey in fatherhood, loaded with lessons on fostering deep connections, building resilience, and finding fulfillment in the chaos of daily dad life. He shares candid anecdotes from his own family experiences, including the rollercoaster ride of his daughter’s early feeding challenges, offering up not just stories but strategies that resonate with any dad aiming to bolster their parenting game. This episode is a beacon for dads everywhere, whether you're navigating the newborn stage or steering through the teenage years. Kipp’s insights provide a robust framework for engaging with your kids at every turn, ensuring you grow as they do. Whether you’re a rookie or a veteran in the world of fatherhood, tune in to get inspired, get practical, and get ready to transform the way you dad. Connect with Kipp on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kippadler/ Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twenty Three with Jeremiah Reddick (Jeremiah’s Dad Stats: Step daughter, daughter, 2.5 year-old angeled-son) Hey Dads, and dad-fans, Welcome back to another episode of "WHOA DAD! GO DAD!" I'm your host, Dave Momper, and today we're diving deep - and I mean DEEP - into a fatherhood story that’s both heart-wrenching and inspiring. Our guest, Jeremiah Reddick, reveals a raw journey of love, loss, and resilience. In 2018, due to a rare genetic mutation, Jeremiah’s two and half-year-old son, Torin passed away, in his arms. My friend Jeremiah boldly shares his experience with this unimaginable scenario, and how it’s impacted his life, and towards the end of our exchange we honor Torin with a mighty howl! For New Fathers: If you're a new dad or about to step into this incredible role, this episode is a must. You'll hear how Jeremiah balanced the joys of fatherhood with profound challenges. He opens up about the complexities of being a new parent, managing work-life balance, and the emotional rollercoaster that fatherhood can be. His story is a powerful reminder of the unconditional love and commitment that being a father demands. For All Fathers: This discussion is not just for new dads. Fathers at any stage can glean wisdom from Jeremiah’s experiences. From dealing with unexpected life changes to facing the deepest of sorrows, his insights on navigating fatherhood under extraordinary circumstances are invaluable. You'll learn about the importance of being present, the power of community support, and the unbreakable bonds of family. So tune in, as we share stories, challenges, and celebrate the journey of fatherhood. This episode is a profound reminder of what it takes to be a great dad—through all of life's ups and downs. Remember, whether you're a new dad, a seasoned pro, or somewhere in between, you're not alone on this journey. Let's keep learning and growing together. Catch this powerful episode now and join the conversation about the ultimate role—fatherhood. Support Torin’s Legacy and Gould’s Syndrome Awareness https://www.bonfire.com/gould-syndrome-awareness-day-fundraiser/ Connect with Jeremiah on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremiahreddick/ Learn more about Gould’s Syndrome: https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2024/02/427141/ucsf-opens-worlds-first-center-excellence-gould-syndrome Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twenty Two with Frank O’Halloran (Frank’s Dad Stats: 20 Year-old Daughter) Back in 2019 I sat across a dinner table with Frank, at a new colleague’s home, sipping damn good wine, and getting to know some new teammates who all happened to be in Denver. Frank and I hit it off, and despite being 5,386 miles apart more often than not, we’ve found ourselves on a number of client projects around the country and catch up often to talk shop about the world, fatherhood, and leadership. One of my favorite quotes from Frank: "Creating memories for them, that's a great job for dad to create memories. And order room service. It gets there cold and probably not that good. They'll love it." Here are the core themes we explore in this fatherhood convo: 1. Fatherhood at Forty: Exploring the unique challenges and insights that come For New Fathers: 2. Embrace Patience and Presence: Frank's experiences underscore the importance of being present and patient, particularly during the challenging moments of fatherhood. He highlights how children's reactions can be intense but are often brief, encouraging new fathers to stay calm and supportive. 3. Flexibility in Parenting Styles: Frank discusses how adapting to a child’s needs, rather than strictly adhering to predetermined rules, can lead to a more harmonious and responsive parenting experience. 4. Creating Joyful Memories: He emphasizes the joy of creating lasting memories with children, suggesting simple pleasures like room service in a hotel as cherished experiences. For All Fathers: 5. Long-term Perspective in Parenting: Frank’s career in leadership and communications offers insights into the long-term aspects of parenting, paralleling professional mentorship, emphasizing consistent guidance and the development of trust over time. 6. Adapting and Learning: His narrative about moving internationally and adjusting to different cultural expectations in parenting offers a metaphor for the continual learning and adapting process that all fathers undergo. 7. Emotional Intelligence: Frank points out the importance of emotional intelligence in parenting, suggesting that understanding and managing one’s emotions and those of the child are crucial skills for effective fatherhood. Hope you enjoy the pod! Connect with Frank on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/frank-o-halloran-47b3aa/ Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twenty One with Charles Lim (Charles’ Dad Stats: 2.5 month-old son)  Since the day I  met Charles, I’ve been struck by his thought process and how explores an idea. He’s simply a light-hearted, gentle, wizard in the making.  This podcast is nothing short of Charles doing what he does best and pondering life’s greatest questions, life’s greatest roles, and life’s greatest experiences, and making some sense of the grand adventure. Whether you are a brand new dad in his 40s, like both Charles and me, or a twenty-something already taking on the duty, you can probably appreciate how almost nothing can fully prepare you on becoming a dad. As Charles puts it, “"I always thought I'm going to wait until I'm ready to be a dad, right? But one thing that I learned is certain things… you become them by being it or by doing it." Here are 10 themes we explore in this fatherhood convo: Fatherhood at Forty: Exploring the unique challenges and insights that come with becoming a father later in life. Commitment Revisited: How fatherhood reshapes one's perspective on commitment and permanence. Unconditional Love: Emphasizing the importance of offering unconditional love and support to one's children. Emotional Learning: Learning from a child’s straightforward emotional responses to better handle one’s own emotions. Freedom to Explore: Encouraging children to pursue their own interests and passions without parental imposition. Physical Demands of Parenting: The unexpected physical challenges involved in daily parenting tasks like handling a car seat. Communication and Openness: Fostering an environment where children feel comfortable discussing anything with their parents. Continuous Personal Growth: Viewing fatherhood as an ongoing journey of personal development and adaptation. Cultural Reflections: Reflecting on how cultural backgrounds influence parenting styles and expectations. Support Systems: The importance of having a support network for new parents to manage the intensive early days of parenting. Hope you enjoy the pod! Connect with Charles on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuckdizzle78/ Onward! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twenty with Shane Stowell (Shane’s Dad Stats: Twin daughters age 18, and a 20 year old son)  Along with being a husband and a recent empty nester to three young-adult aged kiddos, Shane is an Executive Leadership Advisor for a number of Fortune 50 organizations, an entrepreneur, and a clinical psychologist. I met Shane in 2013 as he facilitated the Leadership Development program I was enrolled in with the Downtown Denver Partnership. Over the years since, Shane has been a sounding board of mine and a mentor, and it’s incredible to sit down with him and tap into his fatherhood mindset.  We get right into the heart of parenting as he shares what it’s like to send his two twin daughters off to college and for he and his wife to officially be empty nesters. He notes that, “How bad did we really mess this up?... Did we do enough?... [and] we're so proud of who they are and what they're doing and where they're going” are amongst the sea of emotions and sentiments held by him and his wife, as they bask in this pivotal moment of their lives. Shane would humbly deny it, but he’s loaded with thoughtful wisdom about leadership and fatherhood - which to me are one in the same - and how we can set our kiddos up for success. Throughout our convo, I get Shane’s take on what is involved to equip the next generation with the skills to thrive. Here are the key attributes we discuss:  Kindness: Emphasizing the importance of being kind to others as a fundamental trait. Grit: Encouraging persistence and resilience in facing life’s challenges. Love and Support: Ensuring their children always felt loved and supported regardless of the situation. Education and Learning: Valuing education highly and encouraging a lifelong love of learning. Communication Skills: Developing strong communication skills to effectively express themselves and engage with others. Relationship Building: Teaching the importance of building and maintaining meaningful relationships. Inquisitiveness: Encouraging curiosity about the world and a desire to explore and understand more about their environment and beyond. Independence and Self-Sufficiency: Promoting the ability to think and act independently while being resourceful. Responsibility: Instilling a sense of responsibility and accountability for their actions. Adaptability: Encouraging flexibility and the ability to adapt to changing situations and challenges. Connect with Shane on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/stowellshane/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Nineteen with Colin Dow (Colin’s Dad Stats: Two daughters, four and two years old)  Like anything in life, fatherhood is a game of sorts. Fortunately, my guest Colin Dow played college football for University of Montana and had a short stint with the Cincinnati Bengals, so he has a knack for the hustle and mettle that fatherhood takes. It’s because of Episode One of WHOA DAD! GO DAD! and a mutual friend that Colin and I now have the good fortune of being pals. In my short time knowing Colin I’ve come to admire his fire for being a great father and husband, his commitment to family and what that means for making critical career decisions, and his absolutely playful (and oftentimes self-deprecating) demeanor as a man with a clear mission.  One of my favorite moments is Colin sharing the value of grit in his daughter’s lives, "I want my girls to know that they can do hard things. Because let's face it, the world is not always an easy place. There are going to be hard things that they encounter, probably harder than, than maybe you and I did, right?" Here are five fatherhood themes that Colin and I cover on Episode Nineteen of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: Cultural Exposure and Travel: Colin expresses a strong desire to expose his children to various cultures and experiences around the world. He talks about the benefits of traveling and experiencing different ways of life, which he believes will help his daughters become more well-rounded and open-minded individuals. Health and Wellness: The discussion touches on the importance of health, particularly Colin's reflection on his father's health issues and how they impacted his family. This theme is woven into the conversation about how personal health can affect parenting and the overall family dynamic. Athleticism and Sports: Sports play a significant role in the discussion, not just as a part of Colin's background but also in how he views sports as a metaphor for life lessons like teamwork, perseverance, and resilience. He talks about his hopes for his daughters to learn these values through their own experiences in sports or physical activities. Professional Development and Career Changes: Colin shares his and his wife's career journeys, including significant changes and decisions that were influenced by their family goals and personal values. This theme highlights the challenges and considerations that come with aligning professional aspirations with parental responsibilities. Spiritual and Moral Values: The conversation delves into the spiritual and moral values that Colin hopes to instill in his children. He discusses the importance of building a strong moral foundation and how his own values influence his approach to fatherhood and life. Connect with Colin on LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/dowcolin/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Eighteen with Anthony Albanese (Anthony’s  Dad Stats: a 12-year-old, a 10-year-old, and four-and-half-year-old twins)  It’s an honor and a privilege to share this conversation with my friend Anthony and to publish it on a “bow-tie Tuesday!”  Anthony is a commercial real estate professional based in Denver, with extensive experience serving clients both nationally and internationally. He has a broad perspective on the commercial real estate landscape, influenced by trends such as remote work and corporate culture evolution. Additionally, Anthony has held significant roles in community development, including serving on the Denver Urban Renewal Authority board, where he was appointed by the mayor and served as chair for two years. This convo with Anthony goes deep. Not only do we share stories about fatherhood and everything that it entails, but he shares a deeply personal and challenging experience when his wife was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 32. The diagnosis came at a time when they had a four-year-old and a one-and-a-half-year-old, placing immense strain on their family. It’s a telling story of the challenges life can entail, and how we adapt and overcome. Imagine what this experience will one day teach their children about adversity, love, and perseverance. Gosh, it gives me shivers to think about. I’m eager to know what this episode reveals to those who take the time to listen! Here are 10 themes that Anthony and I discuss on Episode Eighteen of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: Fatherhood and Career Integration: Anthony discusses balancing a demanding 60-hour work week in commercial real estate with being a father to four children. This highlights the challenges and strategies of integrating professional and personal life. Impact of Philosophy on Parenting: Discussions on philosophy, specifically references to Socrates, Plato, and Ayn Rand, indicate the role philosophical principles play in both of our approaches to life and parenting. Community and Networking: Early interactions in a leadership program and ongoing social interactions shaped your relationship, emphasizing the importance of community and networking in personal and professional development. Evolution of Commercial Real Estate: Anthony shares insights into the changing landscape of commercial real estate, especially in response to the pandemic, discussing trends like remote work and its impact on corporate culture and real estate needs. Mentoring and Influence: The conversation covers how past mentors and philosophical figures have influenced parenting styles and life choices, underlining the significance of mentorship. Challenges of Modern Workplaces: There is a detailed examination of modern work dynamics, including hybrid work models and the cultural shifts within workplaces due to technological advancements and pandemic influences. Philosophy of Leadership: We discuss leadership philosophies, particularly how executive roles parallel parenting, focusing on motivation, safety, and creating nurturing environments. Personal Growth Through Adversity: Anthony discusses personal anecdotes about growth through challenging times, particularly relating to personal health crises within his family, which shaped his perspectives on life and fatherhood. Educational and Developmental Expectations for Children: There is a dialogue about setting realistic expectations for children's education and development, including adapting to each child's unique pace and needs. Long-term Vision and Daily Management: Anthony and I explore the importance of having a long-term vision for personal and professional life while managing daily responsibilities effectively. Connect with Anthony on LinkedIn Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #NewDadChronicles #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals

Welcome to Episode Seventeen with Joe Valenti (Joe’s Dad Stats: Three kids, ages 14, 8, and 4) Meet Joe Valenti. Having known Joe since 8th grade, and gone through a similar coming of age story as suburban highschools growing up in the 90s, it’s quite the honor to talk shop explore the juxtaposition of fatherhood. In my conversation with Joe, I was struck by his adeptness at balancing a demanding career in the energy sector with the even more challenging role of fatherhood. He approaches parenting with a refreshing simplicity, always emphasizing the importance of just being there for his children, snacks in hand, amid the chaos of TikTok and teenage angst. What I truly admire about Joe's approach is his commitment to continuous learning and adaptability, values he champions as crucial for both personal growth and effective parenting. He reminds us that it’s not about having all the answers, something as relatable as occasionally misplacing his car keys underscores his approachable, human side. I'm also impressed by his focus on resilience, teaching his kids to face life's challenges head-on and learn from each experience. Here are five fatherhood values that Joe espouses on Episode Seventeen of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: Continuous Learning: Emphasizing the importance of ongoing education and personal growth for both himself and his children. Presence and Simplicity: Valuing being physically and emotionally present with his children, and keeping the parenting approach straightforward and uncomplicated. Support and Guidance: Aiming to be a supportive guide for his children, helping them navigate life’s challenges with understanding and wisdom. Building Trust: Fostering a deep sense of trust with his children, ensuring they feel secure in coming to him with their problems and thoughts. Resilience and Adaptability: Encouraging resilience in his children to face life’s challenges and adapt to changing circumstances, underpinned by a recognition of the importance of learning from failures. Connect with Joe Valenti on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joevalenti009/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Sixteen with Donny Dust (Donny’s  Dad Stats: Sons - 15 and 18 Years Old)  If Donny Dust wants you to know one thing, it’s that when you properly tap in to your wild side, you can access everything you actually need. Take a moment and just think about that…  You might know Donny from the TV show “Alone” or maybe his survival YouTube channel with some of the best self reliance advice on the inter-webs. Donny’s story as a professional survivalist, after a career in the marines, and then pursuing a life and career in the outdoors, is a rich and at times intense one. I love how much Donny poured out his fatherly heart in this convo, especially knowing how he battled back from an actual heart attack in recent years. It is so powerful to hear how the wild natural environment can be the greatest teacher and healer.  In this episode, Donny speaks of the key role of providing our children with “ground truths,” which are first hand real life experiences that then afford key outcomes and attributes of resilience, adaptability, autonomy, confidence, curiosity, and creativity.  You gotta sit down and slow-sip a couple cups of coffee or a tall whiskey for this one. “Mother nature provides all. When we walk into the woods with nothing, we can walk out with everything we need.” - Donny Dust Here are 10 big themes discussed: Fatherhood as a Lifelong Journey: Fatherhood is discussed as an evolving role that changes as children grow. Emphasis is placed on adapting parenting styles to meet the unique needs of each child, underscoring the dynamic nature of fatherhood. Nature as a Classroom for Fatherhood: Donny shares how survival skills and a deep connection with nature not only teach resilience but also serve as foundational lessons for children, directly imparted through shared experiences in the wild. Leading by Example in Fatherhood: The importance of fathers leading by example is a central theme. Donny talks about how his personal choices and approach to life's challenges serve as direct lessons for his sons on handling adversity. Resilience and Adaptation as Fatherhood Virtues: The theme of resilience is crucial in fatherhood. Donny’s discussions about overcoming personal health challenges illustrate the importance of teaching children to be resilient and adaptable. Intentionality in Parenting: We both stress the need for intentional parenting—being actively present and engaged, making conscious choices about parenting styles and the values you wish to impart to your children. Personal Growth and Fostering Independence: The theme of personal growth is tied to fatherhood, with a focus on fostering self-reliance and independence in children, teaching them to carve their own paths based on their passions and interests. Global Perspectives on Fatherhood: Donny provides insights into fatherhood from different cultures, emphasizing the universal pride and responsibility fathers feel toward ensuring their children's future success. Connecting with Nature to Teach and Heal: The conversation often returns to the importance of nature in fatherhood, using it as a tool to teach children about life and provide them with a healing and grounding experience. Legacy and Preparing Children for the Future: This theme revolves around the responsibilities of fatherhood in preparing children to face the world confidently and competently, focusing on the legacy fathers leave through the lessons they impart. The Father’s Role in Navigating Life's Challenges: The theme of surviving and thriving is framed around fatherhood, showcasing how fathers can teach their children not just to survive life's challenges but to thrive amidst them through creativity and resilience. For epic life lessons check out Donny’s Youtube channel on survival, bushcraft and primitive skills: https://www.youtube.com/@DonnyDustsPaleoTracks And go buy Donny’s newest book “Wild Wisdom.” Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com

Welcome to Episode Fifteen with Ryan Bramwell. (Ryan’s  Dad Stats: Son - 8 Years Old)  "My son gets to see this, and I communicate to him, you know, sometimes our children sometimes think that daddy is the greatest, and he can do no wrong. But I tell him, no, there's a lot of hard work. I don't know what I'm doing. I'm learning." Over a decade ago, Ryan and I were both in the  bustling creative community in the RiNo Arts District of Denver.  Ryan’s creative agency and my team at Postmodern shared some real estate, so we’d see each other often. Ryan also hosted The Sauce Society with our fellow Denver creative Julie Morrandez , which brought the creative community together for happy hours.  I watched Ryan build a successful agency over the years and then one day realized he’d moved to Steamboat Springs with his family, to reset, to be close to nature, and to uncover his next endeavors. This was coupled with the passing of his brother, and prompted a massive healing and growth journey for Ryan.  I’m honored he sat down to share his story with us. As a new father myself, hearing Ryan’s story just has me wondering how much courage and conviction it must take to start a new life, and to be very intentional with the one life we have. My friend Ryan now is building various brands and products, with one of his recent endeavors being MilkXWhiskey, which is an outdoor family brand. Ryan has developed this rad, rugged and sleek adventure diaper bag and sun protective clothing for both the kiddos and the parents. If you are new to dadding, give it all a look.  Here are 10 big themes that we explore on Episode Fifteen of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: Outdoor Adventures and Lifestyle: Dave and Ryan celebrated their shared passion for outdoor activities like mountain biking and camping as key family bonding experiences. Leadership and Career Transitions: Ryan detailed his shift from the creative services industry to founding Milk and Whiskey, focusing on high-end outdoor gear for families. Fatherhood Challenges and Rewards: Ryan discussed the unique challenges and joys of raising his eight-year-old son with patience and intentional parenting. Balancing Work and Family Life: They explored the difficulty of balancing a demanding career with fatherhood responsibilities and the importance of being present. Teaching Life Skills Through Outdoor Activities: Ryan highlighted how outdoor activities teach his son valuable life skills like resilience, problem-solving, and hard work. Emotional and Mental Well-being: They emphasized the importance of mental health, dealing with emotions, and maintaining a positive outlook, especially after personal losses. Building and Reinventing Identity: Ryan reflected on reevaluating and reinventing his identity following major life events and career changes. Quality and Craftsmanship in Parenting Tools: Ryan stressed creating high-quality, durable products for families, like an adventure backpack with a diaper-changing add-on. The Role of Faith and Letting Go: Both discussed the importance of having faith in the parenting process and letting go of the need for control. Legacy and Values: They touched on the legacy Ryan wants to leave for his son, including honesty, hard work, respect, and supporting others. Connect with Ryan on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryan-bramwell/ And go get yourself some adventure gear from the family from Milk X Whiskey! Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com

Welcome to Episode Fourten with Shawn Michael Walker. (Shawn’s  Dad Stats: 17-year-old, a 15-year-old, and a 9-year-old)  If you sat down with my friend Shawn Michael Walker and he could only give you one piece of advice, it would  be “don’t burn the day away.” It’s this mantra that he truly lives out as an individual, as a father to three and a husband, and one that has come to define his family’s ways. It’s fun to see and fun to hear about.  Shawn and I were young bucks in high school together, so it’s fun to walk down memory lane and contrast that against his fatherhood insights. There’s an aspect of our discussion that I think everyone can relate to - during the COVID years, how did you spend your time? Did you make it useful and productive, or did you waste it away binge watching your tenth mini-series on NETFLIX? The approach Shawn and his family took led to family guitar jam sessions, and the story is just the perfect example of what Shawn revealed to me: That we as parents are memory makers for our young ones.  Perfectly timed drops on this one, as we head into Memorial Day weekend.  Here are 10 themes that we explore on Episode Fourteen of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: Starting Young as a Father - Challenges of early fatherhood. Creating Family Memories - Importance of shared experiences. Value of Good Influences - Impact of positive friendships. Adventurous Parenting - Embracing fun, adventurous activities. Life Lessons for Children - Teaching resilience and independence. Personal Growth Through Fatherhood - Evolving perspectives, enhanced maturity. Preparing Kids for the Future - Equipping children with essential skills. Parental Responsibilities and Pressure - Navigating pressures of guidance. Philosophy of Intentional Fatherhood - Understanding self to guide others. Legacy of Fatherhood - Leaving a lasting family impact. Connect with Shawn on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shawnmwalker1980/ And check out Shawn on his podcast “Insurance, You Indemnify Me.” where he nerds out on all things insurance, and shares wisdom from his seat running Premier Group Insurance. Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Thirteen with Justin LeVett (Justin’s Dad Stats: Daughter - 4 Years Old)  Justin is a professional photographer, an avid biker, and a former youth pastor which had him running two full time careers! I’ve had the good fortune to know Justin for almost a decade as he generously donated his photography skills to CreativeMornings/Denver while I was the host of the chapter and on the team.  Justin’s vantage as a father is so special and unique. He and his wife adopted their daughter four years ago in the midst of the pandemic and their experience with the process of adoption, and stepping into the role of new parents brings a special perspective on the journey parents get to take on.  Here are 9 big themes that we explore on Episode Thirteen of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: Navigating Interracial Adoption - Justin is conscious of the differences in skin color between him and his daughter, and he's thoughtful about how to address and discuss these differences as she grows up. Teaching and Exploration - Justin finds joy in teaching his daughter new skills, like biking, and watching her explore and learn about the world around her. Handling Difficult Questions - Justin is preparing for and sometimes challenged by the tough questions his daughter asks, especially regarding adoption and racial identity. Witnessing Developmental Milestones - He is excited to see his daughter reach new developmental milestones and enjoys experiencing these growth moments together. Balancing Work and Family Time - Justin is aware of the challenges of balancing a demanding professional life with the need to be present and available for his daughter. Impact of Faith and Values - Justin is enthusiastic about imparting his faith and values to his daughter, guiding her to grow into a compassionate and thoughtful person. Developing Strong Family Bonds - He looks forward to continuing to build a strong, loving relationship with his daughter and experiencing life's many adventures together. Maintaining Patience and Understanding - Justin knows the importance of maintaining patience and understanding as his daughter grows, especially as she tests boundaries and learns about the world. Legacy of Love and Leadership - Justin is excited about the opportunity to leave a legacy of love and leadership, hoping his daughter will remember him as a consistent and loving leader in her life. Connect with Justin on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justinlevett/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Twelve with David Delgado (David’s Dad Stats: Son - 4 weeks old)  David and I have shared a few hours together every other Saturday morning since early this year, being a part of a father’s circle that meets virtually. Five or six of us come together to share tales and trials of fatherhood, to lend each other an ear and an open heart, and to bask in the good fortune of our roles as dads. This conversation is rich with deep insights from my friend David. As a brand new dad myself,  it’s so fun (and relatable) to hear his take on the journey into fatherhood, how he felt leading up to the big day, and his impressions in the first four weeks of his experience.  You’ll hear and see right off the bat the thoughtfulness that David brings to the role and to our exchange. David has a way with words and I’ve been in awe of his tempered nature, his deliberate way of tapping into his true wisdom and the depth of his senses. He pours his heart and soul into this conversation, baring the details of his childhood familial experiences, his personal journey of self discovery, and his amazing love with partner Jing.  I can’t wait for you to enjoy this one! Here are 10 big themes that we explore on Episode Twelve of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. Adjusting to New Roles: David discusses his anxiety and excitement about adapting to the role of a father and the changes it brings to his life and identity. 2. Health and Well-being of His Child: He is concerned about the health and well-being of his child, influenced by his own experiences with health issues and how they shaped his approach to wellness. 3. Maintaining a Strong Partnership: David emphasizes the importance of maintaining a strong and supportive partnership with his spouse amidst the demands of parenting. He worries about the potential stress that parenting can put on their relationship. 4. Balancing Career and Fatherhood: With a career in UX design and coaching, David is concerned about balancing his professional responsibilities with his new role as a father. 5. Emotional Development of His Child: He is particularly focused on the emotional development of his child, stressing the importance of creating an environment that encourages emotional expression and resilience. 6. Social Pressures and Expectations: David expresses worries about the social pressures and expectations placed on parents and children, particularly around traditional gender roles and societal norms. 7. Digital Age Challenges: He is concerned about raising a child in the digital age, particularly the impacts of technology on children's development and the risks associated with digital addiction. 8. Transmitting Values: David hopes to effectively transmit his values and beliefs to his child, worrying about how to do this effectively while allowing his child the freedom to develop their own identity. 9. Dealing with Past Traumas: He talks about his own childhood experiences and traumas, and he worries about how these might affect his ability to parent effectively and impartially. 10. Preparing for the Unknown: Lastly, David shares a general concern for the unknown aspects of fatherhood and the future, emphasizing the unpredictable nature of raising a child and the challenges associated with it. Connect with David on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daviddelgadoshanghai/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Eleven with George Pietrogallo (George’s Dad Stats: Son - 33, Daughter - 31) My first interaction with George was the night before a client workshop in Detroit, Michigan, last year. We found a sports bar near the hotel and bellied up to the bar for some dinner and then engaged with a few locals in small talk about local sports, family, politics, business, and life. It was as though we were on the set of Cheers just making friends with everyone, and yapping with the bartender. I was amazed at the gift of gab that George possessed and his ability to connect with everyone there. And it’s no surprise George could weave a tale, as he’s had a multifaceted career that spanned several decades and industries. He began his professional journey in the media, working as a journalist for about 27 years, primarily in television. During his tenure in journalism, George was recognized as an award-winning journalist and enjoyed the dynamic nature of covering various stories and topics, which provided him with a broad and enriching perspective on different aspects of life and society. After his career in media, George transitioned to public and government affairs where he worked for a large energy company in a role that utilized his skills in communication and public engagement. His work in this sector allowed him to continue influencing and interacting with a wide range of issues and people, albeit from a different standpoint than his journalistic days. This combination of experiences in fast-paced environments honed his abilities in leadership and communication, skills he later applied to his roles as a coach and facilitator in these areas. George is a great mentor and friend and you will enjoy his guiding principles on fatherhood! Here are 10 big themes that we explore on Episode Ten of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. Challenges of Fatherhood: What does it truly take to be a father and how does this role evolve until the end of one's life? 2. Career and Life Transitions: How can transitions in careers from journalism to public affairs shape one's skills in communication and leadership? 3. Importance of Communication: Why is mastering effective communication crucial not only in professional settings but also in personal relationships and parenting? 4. Role of Media and Social Media: What challenges do new forms of media, especially social media, present to family dynamics and child development? 5. Values and Parenting Philosophy: How can intentional, relentless love and being a role model instill the right values in children? 6. Interpersonal Relationships: How does the quality of personal relationships, especially with one's own parents, influence parenting style and effectiveness? 7. Personal Development: In what ways do continuous learning and personal growth impact one's effectiveness as a parent and leader? 8. Support Systems and Community: What is the role of community and support networks in enhancing personal and professional life? 9. Dealing with Life’s Challenges: How should one navigate life's adversities including maintaining work-life balance and dealing with personal setbacks? 10. Legacy and Long-term Impact: What legacy do parents leave for their children, and why is setting a good example crucial for future generations? Connect with George on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-pietrogallo-jr-7b467733/ Enjoy!-Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Ten with Andrew Schremp (Andrew’s Dad Stats: Two Boys, 2.5 years and 8 months.)  Andrew is the kind of man you want shoulder-to-shoulder when you are doing anything of importance; throwing a frisbee, building a deck, growing a business, figuring out life, listening to Randy Rogers Band at the Troubador in West Hollywood, or piloting a rocket to Mars. You know, stuff like that. Most of which we have done together, or will do together. Andrew and I became fast friends in the trenches of the insurance business back in 2006. I had the good fortune of being in the early stages of the firm's leadership path and serving as the Collegiate Unit Director. I recruited interns, trained and coached them, and did ride-alongs with them to meetings.  Thinking back, I was just as much a newbie to the game as he was for all intents and purposes, I just had learned to enjoy the taste of rejection more than he might have. Andrew was tenacious and we made the game fun, together.  That summer set the stage for a life long friendship, one where we both now channel our personal and professional tenacity in pursuit of raising healthy, happy babies into playful and productive grown ups. We’ve both struck gold in our life with amazing partners, and are on the early side of dad-hood. It will be fun to share our parenting experiences as life unfolds. Listening to Andrew’s take on fatherhood has me so fired up to be a solid dad… Here are 10 big themes that we explore on Episode Ten of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: Is Fatherhood the Ultimate Transformational Journey? Can Mentorship Forge Lifelong Bonds Beyond Professional Realms? How Do You Strike the Perfect Balance Between Career Ambitions and Family Obligations? Do the Values Instilled by Our Parents Determine Our Success in Fatherhood? Is the Digital Age a Threat to Traditional Parenting? Are Family Traditions the Backbone of a Strong Family Culture? Does Fatherhood Necessitate a Reevaluation of Life's Priorities? How Will the Rapid Pace of Technological Advancement Impact Future Generations? What Does It Truly Mean to Be Present and Engaged as a Parent? Can Fathers Shape the Future of Society Through Parenting? Connect with Andrew on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewschremp/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com  #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Nine with Mike Faulhaber (Mike’s Dad Stats: Two Boys, Three Girls, ages 15 to 29, two biological and three step children.) My friendship with Mike has spanned nearly 20 years, beginning with us both joining the same recruiting class for the financial services firm called Northwestern Mutual. The nature of the industry and the role as a financial representative had us in the trenches of cold calling, sales, advisory, business building, constant rejection, and a daily grind that was needed to deliver on the high expectations of clients and supervisors. It was in that arena, which was at times very rewarding, at times overwhelming, and undoubtedly a formidable experience for us both, that we developed a great friendship. Shared misery and shared visions of profound success will do that to a few young bucks. What I’ve loved about Mike is that nearly every time we see each other or talk on the phone, he has this funny little saying, which he declares with a smile on his face, “Dave Momper, you are my hero!” This is obviously very generous of Mike to say to me, and a playful habit we developed early on, but it dawned on me that it represents exactly who Mike is; Mike is rooting everyone on, and doing so all the time. Mike is an extractor of greatness and potential, and he doesn’t hesitate to showcase what he sees in you so you can see it too. If you are lucky enough to work with him, have him as your financial advisor, or just be acquainted, it comes with the territory that Mike truly thinks you are unstoppable, that you can achieve great heights, and that he has your back in that very pursuit. You’ll learn in our conversation all the different skill sets, credentials, and the ethos that Mike has obtained over the years to be a champion for his family, for himself, for his clients and for the community around him. Here are 10 big themes that we explore on Episode Eight of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. Fatherhood Journey: How does embracing the challenges of fatherhood transform a man's perspective on life and himself? 2. Professional Growth and Development: In what ways can a career in the financial services industry serve as a platform for profound personal and professional growth? 3. Mindset and Personal Development: How does shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset catalyze success and fulfillment in both professional life and parenting? 4. Impact of Early Experiences: What role do early career choices and military service play in shaping one's resilience and approach to challenges later in life? 5. Value of Lifelong Learning: Why is the commitment to lifelong learning and self-improvement critical for navigating the complexities of modern life and work? 6. Coaching and Leadership: How does taking on a coaching role, whether in a professional setting or within the family, redefine leadership and influence? 7. Navigating Change and Adversity: What lessons do personal adversities and professional challenges teach about growth, resilience, and the human spirit? 8. Family Dynamics and Blended Families: How do the dynamics of divorce, remarriage, and blending families contribute to a richer, though more complex, understanding of love and relationships? 9. Intentionality in Life and Parenting: How does living and parenting with intentionality shape the legacy one leaves behind? 10. Legacy and Impact: What does it mean to build a legacy through actions and values, and how can one ensure their impact resonates with future generations? Connect with Mike on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikefaulhaber/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals

Welcome to Episode Eight with Dan Gomer (Dan’s Dad Stats: Two Kiddos, Ages 13 and 10 ) Dan once cooked me and a friend a gourmet breakfast in the middle of central Colorado, with a massive camping griddle, at the foot these magical granite hills which perched up to the east of us, and which provided a westerly gaze out towards Hartzel, Co. Later that eve, that very vantage point proved to be one of the most memorable sunset experiences we could ask for. As the evening approached, the skies to the north dropped down a slow lumbering lightning storm that moved in the opposite direction of the sun’s trajectory. The sky was aglow in sunset and lightning and vivid colors changed from moment to movement. It was an absolute stunner. See, Dan Gomer did that. He didn’t control the skies so much, but he brought together the right ingredients - a gathering, of people, in an epic spot - and then that happened. That’s my sense of Dan. He’s a collector of visionaries and business builders. He brings people together, in the right ways, and then amazing things can happen. That’s one of Dan’s gifts as a coach, and mentor, and a successful team leader in the real estate industry. You’ll find some amazing insight in Dan’s experience as an eighth grade teacher, and how he parlayed that role into some dos and don'ts when he embarked on fatherhood. Dan is a true contemporary of mine, and we’ve sat down and shared our philosophies on business, brand building, leadership, coaching, elk hunting, and now fatherhood.Here are 10 big themes that we explore on Episode Eight of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. Is Fatherhood the Ultimate Journey in Personal Growth? 2. How Can a Career Change Forge a Better Father? 3. What Role Does a Teacher's Philosophy Play in Shaping Future Generations? 4. What Makes a Dad Legendary? Are You Equipping Your Child for the Real World? 5. Can Your Parenting Style Determine Your Child's Future Success? 6. Are You Teaching Your Child to Navigate Life's Challenges or Sheltering Them Too Much? 7. Is Your Communication Building or Breaking Your Relationship With Your Child? 8. How Do You Turn Everyday Parenting Challenges Into Teachable Moments? 9. Does Adventure Hold the Key to Uniting Your Family? 10. What Legacy Will You Leave as a Father? Are You Living Authentically for Your Children? Connect with Dan on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dan-gomer/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Seven with Wylie Nelson (Wylie’s Dad Stats: Two Kiddos, Ages Seven and Five ) I’ve known Wylie and his wife since the early days of being “grown ups” in our twenties when weekends in Denver were spent running around Wash Park, or racing up to the then-mostly-uncrowded slopes of the mountains. On any weeknight, you might find us riding bikes to neighborhood bars despite our next-day-full-time-job obligations. We’ve traveled to Mexico together to watch friends get married, and we’ve been able to watch each other grow up and take on great careers. In the mid-2000s, Wylie and I, along with a few others, produced an annual charity fundraiser for breast cancer called Slide-for-a-Cure, which involved a couple hundred of us enjoying an adult-size slip-n’-slide, and piles of catering from Qdoba. #youngphilanthropists Wylie studied mechanical engineering in his undergrad, and then doubled down to get a law degree and an MBA, which led him into telecom. He now finds himself on a team focused on reinventing infrastructure to support the country’s energy transition and the digital demands of our modern world. If you ever get the chance to catch a few runs with him, Wylie will tell you he’s the best skier on the mountain, and he may be, but he for sure is a wonderfully humble dad to his kids and you’ll see that show up on this interview. Here are 10 big questions that we explore on Episode Seven of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. How does engaging children in active and adventurous activities contribute to their development? 2. In what ways can sports, such as skiing, teach children valuable lessons in resilience? 3. How can parents find the right balance between being firm and supportive to ensure their children are resilient but not overly sheltered? 4. What role do positive male figures play in shaping approaches to fatherhood? 5. How can parents aim to raise their children to be kind, courteous, and capable of making a positive impact in the world? 6. How can children be taught to navigate social dynamics and deal with bullying effectively? 7. Why is encouraging children to solve their own problems and be independent important for their growth? 8. What strategies can couples employ to maintain a strong marital relationship after having children? 9. How does becoming a parent reshape one's identity and perspective on life? 10. What aspirations do parents have for their children's future, particularly in leading lives filled with adventure and resilience? Connect with Wylie on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wylienelson/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode Six with RJ Owen (RJ’s Dad Stats: Four kids, elementary school-aged through high school) RJ Owen is a UX Designer, a coffee nut, a Physics major, and a modest CrossFitter. He wouldn’t admit it, but he’s one of the funniest people I know. After 10 years of working together with RJ to build the Denver chapter of CreativeMornings, and serving the Denver creative community, it’s fair to say that I’ve had hundreds and hundreds of hours of heart-to-hearts with this good man. RJ and I served as each other’s co-hosts for an aggregate of six+ years out of the 10, and in that time we learned to dance, and riff, and be playful characters as we set the stage for brilliant speakers. It’s RJ’s stable of wisdom, his thoughtfulness, his critical and creative thinking, and his generosity that have had me in deep admiration for a decade. On fatherhood: “I think the small things are the hardest -- I am always trying to be more patient, interruptible, calm, welcoming, and joyful with my kids. I think most of what it takes, maybe all of it, is being a steady source of present, calm, and supporting love for your children.” Here are six key questions that we explore on Episode Six of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. What’s the value of being “interruptible” as a father? 2. How does parenthood bring up and accelerate our own personal growth opportunities? (and how to make time for that growth) 3. What’s the shift in the parenting mindset required when our kids go from middle childhood, into the teenage years? 4. How does our own upbringing and childhood experience shape our parenting style? 5. Where and how can we “throw our kids into the mix” of life, to teach them critical life and leadership lessons? 6. How do we teach our kids to know and then fight for what they believe in, and in turn make the choice to take on agency and responsibility in their life? Undoubtedly, you’ll see why I admire RJ and how much he adores his role as a father and a husband. Connect with RJ on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rjowen4/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode 5 with Ben Seymour (Ben’s Dad Stats: Two boys - age 13, age 7) "I don't want to be legendary. We are not doing this for glory." - Says the most humble man I know, aka: burday burd, aka: Ben Seymour. My history with Ben Seymour is rich. For two years around 2012 we spearheaded business growth, with him as our Executive Producer and me as the head of Business Development, for a creative content agency in Denver called Postmodern. We roamed the RINO neighborhood north of downtown before the cool kids conquered it. We’ve won awards together, we’ve lost business pitches, we been in the woods camping, we’ve shared many a whiskey drink, many a coffee, and we’ve shared the stories of our lives with each other for over a decade. Clearly Ben is a man of depth and wisdom to me, and after you hear this podcast you will be struck by the same (and an epic mustache just adds gravitas to his insights). It’s such good fortune to find a friend like Ben, to watch him grow up as a father, to watch him raise two amazing children, and to watch him build not only a life but also a business with his wife, Trista. Ben is Montana born, lived and worked in LA for his early career, and found his way to the Mile High City to build a life and raise a family. Here are five key questions we explore on Episode Five of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. What is the difference between the role of father and the role of dad, and why does it matter? 2. How does one balance personal identity and growth with the responsibilities of fatherhood? 3. What role does leadership play in fatherhood, and how can it be cultivated in children? 4. How can parents navigate the challenges of technology and screen time with their children? 5. What strategies can fathers use to maintain a strong partnership and co-parenting relationship in the face of parenting challenges? It’s fun to hear Ben talk about his dad, his stepdad, and his cousin as key mentors and guides along the path of fatherhood. For more information about Ben Seymour, connect with him on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-seymour-2359452/ And check out Postmodern Co: https://postmodernco.com/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Welcome to Episode 4 with Dan Fortune (Dan's Dad stats: Two kids - A daughter age 7, and a son age 4) This is a special interview, being that just a few days prior to our recording, Dan lost a dear friend and family member who notably helped shape Dan’s fatherhood style. We dedicate this podcast conversation to Tony, Dan’s brother-in-law, the husband of Dan’s sister, and a man who raised his own children to be adventurous, loving, and passionate humans. It is a bold move for Dan to share his take on fatherhood with me, with Tony’s passing being so recent, and in a beautiful way it’s the perfect time to ponder the importance of fatherhood and the impact we have on peoples’ lives. Dan Fortune is real estate advisor and investor, a business owner, a leader and coach to many people, and a truly committed husband and father. He attended the Air Force Academy in his early days, he's traveled the world with his wife and first kid, and now he’s focused on building the largest lending company in all of Colorado. Here are 10 things worth listening for on Episode Four of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. Importance of Friendship and Connections: Both Dave and Dan talked about the significance of their mutual connections, particularly Thaddeus Anderson, emphasizing the role of friendship in their lives and how these relationships support and enrich their personal and professional growth. 2. Balancing Family and Career: Dan shared his experiences juggling responsibilities as a family man adoring his wife and kids, and as an entrepreneur striving to make a significant impact in the real estate and lending industry, as well as running a coaching business. 3. Parental Play and Fun: Both highlighted the importance of play in parenting, discussing how engaging in playful activities with children is not only crucial for the kids' development but also a learned skill and a way to reconnect with one's playful side. 4. Dealing with Loss and Grief: Dan opened up about the recent loss of his brother-in-law, Tony, discussing how he navigated explaining grief to his children and the impact of loss on family dynamics. 5. Fatherhood Insights and Aspirations: Dan expressed his desire to be a legendary father by delving into who his children are and supporting them to become their best selves, underscoring the joy of watching their growth and evolution. 6. Importance of Apologizing and Modeling Love: A significant part of the discussion revolved around the importance of modeling love and affection, especially the power of apologizing to children when mistakes are made, thus teaching them about accountability and unconditional love. 7. Maintaining Personal Identity and Growth: The conversation touched upon the importance of parents maintaining their individuality and pursuing personal growth, alongside nurturing their children, emphasizing that personal fulfillment contributes to better parenting. 8. Learning Through Parenting Challenges: Dan shared his journey of learning and adapting his parenting style, especially in addressing challenges such as his children's behavior, highlighting the evolving nature of parenting. 9. Community and Support in Parenting: We discussed the value of community and seeking advice from other parents, illustrating how shared experiences and wisdom from others can provide invaluable support in the parenting journey. 10. Future Legacy and Reflections: Looking ahead, Dan spoke about the legacy he wishes to leave for his children, focusing on being remembered as a loving, fun, and trustworthy father, emphasizing the long-term impact of parental actions and attitudes on children's lives. For more information about Dan Fortune, connect with him on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dan-fortune-1b68981/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com

Join the fatherhood convo with Mayur Vyas. Mayur is a student of the stoics, he’s a father of two, and the man knows how to use humor incredibly well when building a brand online. I almost can’t believe I got to sit down with one of Linkedin’s “TOP VOICES,” and #theCFOGuy himself. Mayur is a CFO, Advisor, Investor, and Speaker, and based out of Tysons, Virginia, just outside of Washington, D.C. After years of friendship with Mayur, it’s his wit and work ethic that I admire the most. And now we can all admire his thinking on fatherhood. Here are 10 things worth listening for on Episode Three of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!: 1. Stoicism and Parenting: Emphasizing resilience, adaptability, and maintaining calm, with a stoic approach to parenting that values the lessons learned through play as a method for teaching children about facing challenges and adapting to outcomes. 2. Networking and Personal Growth: Highlighting how building relationships and networking can also extend to parenting, where the value of play is recognized as a tool for children's growth and learning, and how personal connections can enrich family life. 3. Navigating COVID-19 as Parents: Adjusting to the pandemic by finding new ways to engage in play at home, using play as a means to teach resilience and adaptability in uncertain times, and the importance of being present with family. 4. Learning from Parental Examples: Shaping approaches to fatherhood that blend fun and responsibility, using play as a way to instill values and lessons in a nurturing and engaging environment, reflecting on parental influences. 5 Balancing Work, Business, and Fatherhood: Discussing the challenge of growing a business while being an active parent, and incorporating play into the family dynamic to foster bonding and teach valuable life skills. 6. The Power of Digital Connections: Leveraging digital platforms for networking and building relationships that support parenting goals, including finding creative play ideas and sharing parenting experiences related to play and child development. 7. Embracing the Challenges of Fatherhood: Acknowledging the adjustments required to meet the needs of children, emphasizing the importance of play in developing independence, creativity, and resilience in children. 8. Promoting Independence Through Play: Highlighting the critical role of play in encouraging independence, creativity, and problem-solving skills, and how creating opportunities for independent play supports the development of self-reliance. 9. Striving for Work-Life Balance: Implementing strategies for work-life balance that include quality family time centered around play, understanding play as essential for children's emotional and cognitive development, and fostering family bonds. 10. Preparing for Future Parenting Challenges: Anticipating parenting challenges in a changing world by using play to instill adaptability, resilience, and problem-solving abilities, preparing children to navigate life's complexities with confidence. For more information about Mayur Vyas and for great business memes: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mayur-vyas/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #AdventurousParenting #MindfulDadMoments #DadsOfInstagram #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood#FatherhoodRocks #DadLife #NewDad #DadGoals #ParentingTips #ParentLife #RaisingKids #ParentingWin #ModernParenting #LeadershipGoals #InspireLeadership, #LeadershipDevelopment #BeALeader #LeadershipMatters

Episode Two is here! Allow me to introduce my once long ago part-time-supposed roommate, Austin Liberato. Austin is a professional photographer, a world traveler, and a Texan by birth but a Coloradan by heart. He is often found on surf board and bike, catching the rhythm of the elements. I adore this guy and it’s fun to see how our lives have changed since we first met, both be wandering bachelors, using the same house as a basecamp for life’s adventures and as we joke about, supposedly living together. I love how Austin describes his son as his favorite person. You’ll hear Austin describe how half way through his sons nap, he’s often eager for his son to wake up, wondering “is he up yet, or what?” just awaiting more time to be in awe of his little guy. Take note of Austin’s current vantage on the role of dad. Austin is on the brink of going from a father of a toddler son, to a father of a son and a daughter, as he and Emily anticipate their second child. It was fun to explore the difference in mindset and approach that Austin and Em are envisioning, as they grow their family. We explore the role fathers play for our partners, and how being a great dad involves being a rock for your wife as she wades deeper into her womanhood and momma instincts. Here are 10 things worth listening for on Episode Two of WHOA DAD! GO DAD! 1. Transitioning to Parenthood: Austin shared his journey from being independent and nomadic to embracing fatherhood, highlighting the significant lifestyle and mindset shift that occurs when one becomes a parent. 2. Importance of Being Present: The conversation emphasized the importance of being present and actively participating in a child's life. Being there to foster their curiosity and support them through challenges is key to being a legendary father. 3. Raising Open-Minded Children: Austin discussed his desire to raise his children with an open mind towards different cultures and experiences, promoting adventure and curiosity as fundamental values. 4. Adapting Parenting Styles: The dialogue covered how personal growth and past experiences, such as travel and living in diverse environments, influence parenting styles and priorities. 5. Building a Support System: Mention was made of the role of extended family and childcare assistance, such as nannies, in providing support to new parents, highlighting the community aspect of raising children. 6. Maintaining a Strong Partnership: The importance of a strong partnership and shared parenting responsibilities was discussed, emphasizing how mutual support between parents benefits the entire family. 7. Personal Growth Through Fatherhood: The conversation touched on how fatherhood prompts personal growth and a deeper understanding of one’s capabilities and limits. 8. Flexibility and Adaptability in Parenting: The need for flexibility and adaptability in parenting was discussed, recognizing that children's needs change and unforeseen challenges arise. 9. Prioritizing Children’s Interests: Austin talked about the importance of supporting children’s interests, even if they differ from the parents', to encourage their individuality and passions. 10. Creating a Legacy of Love and Support: Lastly, the dialogue circled back to the concept of being a legendary father, which revolves around creating a legacy of love, support, and guidance that profoundly impacts a child's life. For more information about Austin Liberato, check out his craft: https://www.liberatophoto.com/ Thanks for being here, -Dave Momper Leadership coach and brand new dad www.thrivalconcepts.com #WhoaDadGoDad #ModernFatherhood #DadLifeAdventures #ParentingJourney #LegendaryDads #FatherhoodUnplugged #RaisingLegends #DadSupportSystem #NewDadChronicles #AdventurousParenting #MindfulDadMoments #FamilyFirstAlways #DadsOfInstagram #ParentingPartners #GrowthThroughFatherhood

Jump into this discussion with me and my good friend Mark Guay. (Dad stats: One son, age 2.5) Mark is an Integral Leadership Coach & Facilitator, growth-minded father of Rowen, and absolute sage if I may say so! Mark lives in NY overlooking the Hudson Valley, by way of a beach life in San Diego, CA,. Mark often hosts gatherings for entrepreneurial- and family-minded men. He and I are cut from the same cloth in many ways and you'll enjoy the rapport we have together. This detailed narrative explores themes of fatherhood, personal growth, and the importance of being present and authentic in one's role as a parent. It delves into discussions about confronting and embracing change, the value of being true to oneself, and the impact of societal expectations on personal development. I found it particularly valuable to learn a bit more about Mark and how being adopted shaped his perspectives and mission. In this episode, we explore: Fatherhood as a Transformative Journey: Emphasizing the role of fatherhood as a life-changing experience that requires daily growth, learning, and adaptation. Personal Growth and Development: The importance of personal evolution for fathers, not just in their roles within the family but as individuals pursuing their own passions and goals. Confronting and Embracing Change: Understanding the need to face fears, embrace change, and grow from challenges, both as a parent and as an individual. Authenticity and Self-Expression: The significance of being true to oneself and modeling authenticity for one's children, encouraging them to embrace their unique identities. Impact of Societal Expectations: Discussion on how societal norms and expectations can shape and sometimes limit individual growth and the development of authentic self. Role Modeling and Legacy: The influence parents have as role models, highlighting the legacy they wish to leave for their children through their actions and teachings. Importance of Community and Support Networks: Recognizing the value of community, both for fathers and their children, in providing support, guidance, and a sense of belonging. Navigating Fatherhood Challenges: Sharing insights into the common challenges faced by new dads, offering strategies for coping and thriving in the fatherhood role. Promoting Emotional Intelligence and Resilience: Advocating for the development of emotional intelligence in children, teaching them to navigate their feelings, and fostering resilience. Creating Meaningful Family Traditions and Rituals: The role of traditions and rituals in family life, and how they can strengthen bonds, impart values, and create lasting memories. For more information about Mark Guay, check out his craft: https://markwguay.me/ Enjoy! -Dave Momper Leadership coach & brand new dad

Hello new dads and soon to be dads! I'm your host, Dave Momper. I'm a new dad myself and I wanted to introduce myself and this podcast. There are so many valuable conversations coming up that I've had with everyday great dads, and I cannot wait to share them. Join me as I discuss Leadership, Adventure, and Raising Legends, and seek out the answers to what it takes to take on the ultimate role! Enjoy.