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Becoming Whole — 388 episodes

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1

Anger: The Fuel of Sexual Addiction

2

You’re Seeking the One Seeking You

3

She caught me looking: When a Walk in the Park Is No Walk in the Park

4

Relational Skills for Overcoming Sexual Addiction with Chris Coursey of Thrive Today

5

When Porn Feels Like The Only Option In Marriage

6

Church Culture and Sexuality Part 2

7

Church Culture and Sexuality

8

There’s No Such Thing As Heterosexuality

9

Navigating Romance & Fantasy

10

Isolation

11

From Shame To Realignment

12

Sexual Integrity Requires Confidence

13

I know why I’m triggered & what my fantasy is about, now what?

14

Given for You: Having Sex vs. Loving Your Spouse Sexually

15

Should I Confess to My Spouse if they don’t want to hear it? Part 2

16

Should I Confess to My Spouse if they don’t want to hear it?

17

10 Challenges to parenting sexuality & how the Incarnation solves them - part 2

18

10 Challenges to parenting sexuality & How the Incarnation solves them - Part 1

19

Advent: Why The Incarnation Heals Sexual Shame

20

How Jesus’ Embodied Life Confronts Gender Ideology, AI Temptations, And The Epidemic Of Loneliness

21

Known & Named

22

Outgrowing Porn

23

Establishing Healthy Check-Ins

24

Tough Questions for Marriage

25

BATTLE: An acrostic that will change how you approach your struggles

26

Two Snares Keeping You Stuck

27

The Intersection of Manhood & Recovery

28

Glorifying God in our bodies with Christopher West

29

Advanced Training in Emotions for Recovery

30

Learn to Listen to your Emotions so they don’t Control You

31

Sexual Wholeness for the Family

32

7 Forms of Rest: Spiritual, Social, Sensory, Creative

33

7 Forms of Rest: Physical, Mental, Emotional

34

Recovery Fatigue

35

Acting In

36

Physical Disciplines Part 2

37

Physical Disciplines Part 1

38

The Man Within

39

You Need a Rule of Life Part 2

40

You Need a Rule of Life Part 1

41

Same Sex Attraction Part 3 with Elizabeth Woning

42

What Your Sexual Temptations Are Actually Telling You with Marco Cassanova

43

Beyond Same-Sex Attraction: Finding Wholeness in Christ

44

Facing the Storms in Our Sexual Brokenness Like a Buffalo

45

Seeing through the eyes of Jesus Part 3

46

Seeing through the eyes of Jesus Part 2

47

Seeing Through the Eyes of Jesus

48

Reclaiming God's Design for Sexuality in a Pornified World

49

Marriage Recovery Part 2 with The Raabsmiths

50

Marriage Recovery: How Full Therapeutic Disclosure Heals Relationships

51

Singleness Part 2: with Connally Gilliam

52

Embracing Singleness

53

Remember the body of Jesus

54

Remember: God's Blueprint to Wholeness

55

Remember: You are what you Forget

56

Remember 2 - Stones in the River

57

The Power of Remember

58

Exposing Idolatry

59

Navigating a World Not Conducive to Walking with God

60

Pursuing Goodness : Godly Self-care

61

Pursuing Goodness : Reclaiming the senses

62

Pursuing Goodness: Grief & Lament part 2

63

Pursuing Goodness: Grief & Lament part 1

64

Faith and Body: The Power of the Incarnation

65

Finding Hope in Connection

66

How can this be? - Advent Series

67

Healing Anger: Insights into Spiritual and Emotional Well-Being

68

The Psychology of Anger

69

Anger and Unwanted Sexual Behavior

70

You're Not the Only One - Pressing through the Power of Shame

71

3 Essentials for a Sexually Whole Community

72

God's Presence is Greater than Your Sexual Struggles

73

Jesus Sees Beneath Sexy. You Can Too

74

Revisiting: "Is it okay to fantasize about your spouse"

75

Giving Your Body to God

76

Embracing Joy and Connection: The Path to Wholeness

77

Meeting Jesus in our wounds

78

Connecting Your Struggle to Your Story and Your Story to Jesus

79

Unpacking the Unique Approach of Curiosity

80

Holiness or Love - What's More Important to God?

81

Revisiting using your imagination for fantasy or faith

82

Revisiting the why behind the what

83

Streams of Healing

84

Pride, Identity, and the Higher Call

85

Go toward the Miracle

86

When Do I Disclose My Struggles to Someone I'm Dating

87

Holding onto Hope into the Journey

88

This Is Actually Pointing to That

89

When You're Afraid To Tell Your Wife the Truth, Part 3 - Healthy Check-Ins

90

When You're Afraid to Tell Your Wife the Whole Truth, Part 2 - Her Trauma

91

When You're Afraid to Tell Your Spouse the Whole Truth, Part 1 - Your Fear

92

Sexual Integrity and Healing

93

Your Sexuality is meant to be a Gift

94

We Need Apocalypse

95

Letting Jesus Touch Your Shame

96

You will be hungry

97

Your Journey to Integrity Will Hurt

98

Why Plucking Bad Fruit Doesn't Work

99

Story Work - Part 2

100

Story Work - Part 1

101

3 Legs of the Journey to Sexual Integrity

102

Does the Enemy Really Want You to Have Fun?

103

Down the Rabbit Hole: Navigating the Joys and Pitfalls of the Internet Era

104

Understanding the Root Issues Behind our Behaviors

105

Examining the Theological Implications of Pornography

106

Theology of the Body: Discovering How Pornography Distorts God's Sacred Design

107

The Spell of Cultural Language: Navigating the Confusion of Our Sexually Dark Age

108

Unlocking Sexual Integrity Through the Power of Your Words

109

Becoming Someone More: We Are More Than Our Sexual Addictions

110

Seeing Through Porn’s Illusions

111

Battling Cultural Expectations: The Challenge of Vulnerability for Men in Society

112

Navigating the Intersection of Spiritual Needs and Human Desires

113

Beyond the Label: Exploring the Pros and Cons of Identifying as a Sex Addict

114

Jesus' Sacred Perception of Sexuality

115

Help! My Same-Sex Attraction Is Hurting My Friendships!

116

Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity: A Journey Towards Integrity and Wholeness

117

Facing Temptation: Fostering Sexual Wholeness and Growth

118

The Connection Between Confidence and Sexual Integrity

119

A Journey to Understanding the Roots of Attraction

120

The Fantasy Framework - From Fantasy to Intimacy: A Journey of Self-Discovery

121

The Fantasy Framework - Divine Restoration and the Secrets of Our Desires

122

The Fantasy Framework - Unraveling Unwanted Sexual Fantasies: Healing and Understanding with Drew Boa

123

Understanding and Overcoming Temptation

124

Walking through the Minefield of Modern Conversations on Sexuality and Marriage

125

From Lustful Gaze to Awe and Reverence

126

Christ's Compassion in the Transgender Conversation

127

Embracing Imperfections & Deepening Connections in Marriage

128

Do I Need to Look at My Past?

129

When You Lack Desire for Your Spouse

130

Your Imagination Is Better Than Porn

131

Let Christ Smash Your Ceilings

132

Sometimes You Gotta Fight

133

Behold the Man

134

Searching for God in the Good of Sex

135

3 Quick and Easy Mental Shifts to Help You Grow

136

Stop Trying to Stop Lusting

137

Exposing the Online God

138

Walk Don’t Run When Sexually Aroused

139

Is It Okay to Fantasize About Your Spouse?

140

Can I Really Change!?!

141

Using Your Imagination for Fantasy or Faith

142

Accountability and Integrity

143

The Why Behind the What

144

Why It’s Not a Good Idea to Talk About Sex in Church

145

Break the Allure of Sexual Temptation

146

My Relationship With God and My Sexual Sins

147

When Your Wife Asks "Do You Think I'm Pretty?"

148

Promises to Stop Are Part of the Problem

149

Lust Has a Cure

150

Your Next Step toward Sexual Integrity

151

Why Sexual Temptation Hits at Christmas (and What You Can Do About It!)

152

Is Your View of God Blocking Your Healing?

153

You Aren’t Chronically Unique

154

You Are Made for Greatness

155

When Temptation Comes Knocking

156

Sex: Back to Basics

157

Encountering His Kindness

158

Fantasy to Flesh Pt 2

159

Fantasy to Flesh Pt 1

160

Don’t Fight Porn Alone

161

Did She Cause You to Sin?

162

The Tension of Beauty

163

Do I Need a Filter?

164

Mercy Meet Me Here

165

Sacred by Design

166

How are Your Eyes?

167

The Power of Your Sexual Fantasy

168

What Sexual Sin Says About You

169

Your Body Is Not the Enemy

170

They Will See God

171

The Reality of Temptation in a Fallen World

172

When Shame is Driving You

173

Embracing God, Not Results

174

3 Steps to Navigating Temptation

175

Sexuality Doesn’t Have It’s Own Rules

176

What Do You Really Want!?!

177

Pulling on a Thread of Lies

178

Why Can’t I Stop Watching Porn? Part II

179

Why Can’t I Stop Watching Porn? Part I

180

Road Hazards to Sexual Integrity

181

The Integrity of Sex

182

Breaking Unholy Agreements

183

The Defining Source

184

Lust is a Fractured Thing

185

Easter: Redeeming Reunion

186

Not My Will

187

A Pledge for Your Body

188

The Life in Confession

189

A Lenten Meditation

190

Freedom through Fasting

191

Your Invitation this Lent

192

Your Father's Response

193

Beyond Your Imagination

194

Gay or Same-Sex Attracted – The Words Matter

195

The Fruit of a Tree and Sexual Brokenness

196

Powerful Partnership: Do’s and Don’ts

197

Your Story and Your Sexual Integrity

198

Pursuing Sexual Integrity

199

Sexual Integrity & Your Emotions

200

Sexual Integrity Starts Here

201

Was Porn Your Teacher?

202

A Christ-like Christmas

203

If You Want Integrity, You Have to Wait

204

Meditating on Mary

205

An Embodied Advent

206

5 Steps to Shutting Down Temptation

207

4 Reasons to Open Up About Your Sexual Past

208

2 Reasons You Don’t Want to Talk about Sex

209

Does God’s Love Save You?

210

Why Our Bodies Matter

211

I Can't Yet See

212

Moving Beyond Marital Manipulation

213

Do You Want to Look at Porn?

214

The What and Why of Unwanted Sexual Behavior

215

Getting Practical About Recovery

216

“That was Weird” - A Conversation for Men

217

There’s Another Option

218

Focus On the Cross

219

Identity and Orientation Part 2

220

Identity and Orientation Part 1

221

Theology of the Body

222

Fragments of You

223

Parenting Pioneers

224

To See and Be Seen

225

Enemy on the Prowl

226

Disarm the Alarm

227

Good God, Good Light

228

Damn These Eyes

229

Tread Boldly

230

Jesus Wants to Wash Our Feet

231

7 Mistakes Parents Make When They Learn Their Kid is Watching Porn

232

Temptation's One-Two Punch

233

Examine the Roots

234

Is Lust Okay in Marriage?

235

Postures of Recovery

236

Desire

237

The Earthquake of Sexual Betrayal

238

Looking At Sex in a New Way

239

At the End of You

240

We Are All Searching For Meaning

241

Disordered Desire

242

Healthy Touch

243

Waiting for Healing

244

Healing from Abuse: A Personal Story

245

How to Suffer Well

246

A Deeper Kind of Friendship

247

When Temptation Gets Loud

248

Making Moments Sacred

249

Rewind to Reveal

250

Recognizing a Destructive Marriage

251

Power Issues

252

Moving into Hope

253

The Reason for the Season

254

Expectations vs. Hope

255

Self-Kindness Heals

256

Practicing Solitude

257

No Longer Afraid of Fear

258

Stopping the Shame Cycle

259

When Spouses Have Different Sex Drives Part 2

260

When Spouses Have Different Sex Drives Part 1

261

The Confusion with Infatuation

262

Band of Brothers - Men Need Each Other

263

10 Tips for Parents When Your Kid’s Viewing Porn

264

Lovingkindness for LGBTQ+

265

Single: More than Un-Married

266

Powerful Parenting

267

Recovery Mission: Healing from Infidelity

268

Contentment and the Ache Within

269

The Art of Human Relationships

270

Come Back to the Cross

271

Discovering Your True Self

272

Understanding and Healing the Mother Wound Part 2

273

Understanding and Healing the Mother Wound Part 1

274

What is Spiritual Coaching?

275

Mending the Split between Spirituality & Sexuality

276

Are You Listening?

277

Parenting: Surviving & Thriving through the Teen Years

278

5 Steps to Finding Freedom

279

To the Women Who Struggle With Porn

280

Redemptive Seeing

281

Shifting the Story on Shame

282

Unwrapping Intimacy

283

The Paternal Puzzle Piece

284

Spiritual Friendships

285

Your Story Matters

286

The 4 Paradigm Shifts of Healthy Sexuality With Juli Slattery Part 2

287

The 4 Paradigm Shifts of Healthy Sexuality With Juli Slattery Part 1

288

Understanding Partner Trauma After Sexual Betrayal

289

Enduring in a Sustained Extraordinary Context

290

And Yet, Undaunted With Connally Gilliam

291

Why Emotions Matter With Tristen and Jonathan Collins

292

Ordinary Ain't Sexy

293

Bored and Tempted

294

Lent, and Why It's Meaningful

295

Mere Sexuality with Todd Wilson

296

Romance

297

Aching for Manhood

298

Be Curious About Your Story

299

How Do We Cultivate Healthy, Sexual Intimacy In Our Marriages?

300

Singleness, Sex, and the Church: A Conversation Everyone Needs to Hear.

301

What Does God Think About Masturbation?

302

Digging Into (and Dealing With) Desire, with Christopher West

303

Choosing Spaciousness Over Addictions This Christmas

304

When You Want Sex but Can't Have It

305

Can I Really Overcome a Sexual Addiction?

306

Nurturing the Soul of Your Marriage

307

Navigating Porn Addiction as a Couple

308

Living a Godless Christian Life

309

Give Them a Bigger Why

310

An Interview with Drew Berryessa

311

Giving up Your Soul Mate

312

Porn as a Best Friend

313

Processing and Healing from your Past Pains

314

Parenting out of Fear

315

Your Questions about Same-Sex Attractions

316

Becoming the Man or Woman Who God Created You to Be

317

It’s Important to Fight Fair

318

Pulling down the Idols of Romance, Marriage & Sex

319

How Did I Become Codependent and How Do I Change?

320

Sexual Sin as a Squatter

321

Impact of the Family You Grew up in and Your Present-Day Struggles

322

The Best Thing You Can Do For Your Kids

323

The Powerful Link between Identity and Behavior

324

Intimacy, What Does It Mean?

325

Don’t Be So Hard On Yourself

326

Sex - Any body won't do

327

Detaching in Love

328

Breaking Soul Ties

329

Comparison is a killer

330

The Dangers of Idolizing Our Kids

331

Sex and Self-Worth

332

Grieving our Expectations

333

Don't Should or Ought on yourself!

334

The Sexual Addiction Cycle

335

The Nitty Gritty of Forgiveness

336

What Forgiveness Is and Isn’t

337

The Gifts of Forgiveness

338

Sexual Discipleship Part 2

339

Sexual Discipleship Part 1

340

Women Dealing with Pornography: The Practicals

341

Women Dealing with Pornography: Why Am I Stuck?

342

Women Dealing with Pornography: How Did I Get Here?

343

A Woman’s Journey Out of Pornography

344

Breaking Agreements About God

345

Breaking Agreements - Homosexuality

346

Breaking Sexual Agreements

347

Breaking Agreements

348

BONUS: Does a Spouse Need to Share Their Pornography Struggle?

349

Does a Spouse Need to Share Their Pornography Struggle?

350

Why Wait Until Marriage to Have Sex?

351

How To Answer “Is Homosexuality a Sin?”

352

Am I the Only Woman Struggling with Porn?

353

037 Slowing Down During the Holidays pt. 2

354

036 Slowing Down During the Holidays pt. 1

355

035 When the Most Wonderful Time of the Year Isn’t pt. 2

356

034 When the Most Wonderful Time of the Year Isn’t pt. 1

357

033 Alyssa’s Story

358

032 Ted’s Story

359

031 Danny & Juliet's Story

360

030 Manny’s Story

361

029 Barb’s Story

362

028 Couples Healing pt. 4: Rebuilding

363

027 Couples Healing pt. 3: Foundation Repair

364

026 Couples Healing pt. 2: Cleanup

365

025 Couples Healing pt. 1: Triage

366

024 Consecrating Singleness

367

023 Singleness and the Church

368

022 Singleness and Dealing with Loneliness

369

021 Singleness and Sexual Temptation

370

020 Reconciliation After You Fall

371

019 Reflection After You Fall

372

018 Receiving God’s Good After You Fall

373

017 The Fog After You Fall

374

016 Comfort

375

014 Parenting Towards Purity

376

013 Kids and Social Media

377

012 Tech Tools for Families

378

011 Parenting (& Living) in a Sex-Saturated Culture

379

010 Is Decreasing Temptation Possible?

380

009 Preemptive Measures Against Temptation

381

008 What Can I Do When I’m Tempted?

382

007 Your Temptation Doesn’t Define You

383

006 Where Is This Temptation Coming From?

384

005 Intimacy and Healing from Sexual Addictions

385

004 Intimacy, Pornography, and What You’re Really Looking For

386

003 Intimacy and the Risks of Vulnerability

387

002 Intimacy and Loneliness

388

001 Intimacy: The Starting & Ending Point