All Episodes - Not Your Average Gay

is this thing on?

Its been months since Connor James has been seated in front of a microphone talking to you guys. Welcome, if you're new here this is the perfect time to join the party. I update the world on where I have been the last 8-9 months, as well as updating you guys on a few elephants in the room, or should I say not in the room? I also talk about the things that I am looking forward to the rest of the summer. I'm not really going to

Introducing…. CeCe

It’s finally here!! Cece joins the show as a full time co-host. In this episode we discuss our friendship history, and how we made friends, we made enemies and trauma bonded. We also discuss the new layout of the show as well as giving some insight to our “unique” friendship. We hope you enjoy this episode.

the art of moving the f**k on

This episode is the end of an era, the final episode with just me Connor as your solo host. As we close this chapter I wanted to discuss the things that have made this ride special and what I’ve learned through the new therapy that I have gotten. And how the secret to the art of moving the f**k on with your life is moving like water. It’s great to be back, I hope you enjoy this listen. -C

Figuring it Out

This episode describes the emotional hells-cape that I have been in since the start of 2023. In a year where I asked to have things worked out, the universe has certainly dealt me a hand that would challenge all of my skills that I’ve learned come with adulthood.

I am Gen Z Hear Me Roar

In this episode I get candid about how I feel the powers that be in our nation are handling the gun epidemic in our country. Gun violence is now the leading cause of death among children that beats out fatal diseases AND car accidents. Something must change, and I discuss some ways that you can become that change. Every wave has to start with some ripple right? Please excuse my absence, I hope this episode fires you up like it did me, it feels extremely vintage NYAG. I love you guys and I am so happy to be here spilling my guts to y’all.

it all starts with you

This episode is a nice mellow start to 2023 well in the most NYAG way. We start with discussing SZA’s new album and my obsession with it. We also discuss what’s happening in Congress right now as well as what happened two years ago on this day in that same building. I also discuss the CFP semi finals and upcoming National Championship game between TCU and Georgia. I also talk about putting your heart on the line and really going after what you want because fortune always favors the bold.

let’s go out with a bang

I get a lot off of my chest including regrets, obsessions and crushes... the time of sitting on our feelings and staying silent has passed.

take your moment

The title is kind of self explanatory, I felt the need to come be real with y’all for a bit. Just a reminder to never settle for less than what you deserve and remember the moment your dream life starts is the moment you go out and grab it.

antisemitism needs to stop

Hey guys sorry that title is kind of a lot I just saw the rise in anti Semitic hate crimes so I felt like it was my duty as a proud Jewish American to speak out and tell my story. I completely take aim at Kanye and his atrocious statements that he still continues to make as well. And I also talk about why spreading hate towards any community needs to stop.

cfb: the best story ever played

Sooo this episode was supposed to drop yesterday morning before the college football Saturday got kicked off, but here is this episode any way, I still stand by most of what I said even though some things were wrong lol. Hopefully I’ll have this upcoming week preview out by Friday. Yesterday was certainly a college football Saturday I’ll never forget.

ebbs and flows

I’m back with a little life dump for y’all. Sorry I’ve been gone I’ve just been completely reconstructing my life anyways I’m back and I’m so happy and grateful to be here with you. Also go see Bros in theaters now!

scorched earth

In the Season 3 premiere change is in the air for me and I explain the odd ending to Season 2. But truth be told sometimes things just end, without warning and it knocks everything in life off course, what I’ve learned in my absence is that’s okay. As long as you know who you are and you can stand on that, who cares. I’m a Phoenix y’all, no matter what situation I get myself into I’m okay with burning everything down to find a way out, it’s who I am I thrive on rising from the ashes. Welcome to Season 3 y’all, buckle up.

Girl it’s the Met Gala Part 2

Have you ever gotten drunk and talked about the met gala with one of your best friends? Really, well you should. Anyway Ella joins us again as we discuss this years met gala and the theme of the exhibit which was, “America: An Anthology of Fashion” the fashion itself however took the “Gilded Glamour” theme. The important thing here is everyone looked absolutely beautiful, this is just all in good fun. I hope you guys laugh as much as we did making it. Also apologies to headphone users.

Love and Action

This episode discusses the unfortunate event that took place on May 24 in Uvalde, Texas at Robb Elementary School. Our hearts are with the people of Uvalde as well as families all over the country who have to bury their children due to gun violence. It’s a stark reminder of events like Virginia Tech, Sandy Hook, and Marjory Stoneman Douglas to name just a few of these categorically American tragedies. We talk about what needs to change and how we do it. I also talk about how love can help us all create the better world that we all want and deserve to have for our own children.

My Story

Happy Pride month everyone. I know I kind of told my story last year, but this is a more non rushed story that describes the emotions that came with coming to terms with my sexuality. I read a letter that I wrote 16 year old me and I also talk about how things have changed since I came out. It’s just important that you know if you are struggling with figuring things out, you are loved and you aren’t alone. I love you I hope your month is beautiful.

Leave Nothing Unsaid

After recent events I couldn’t help but do some self reflection. We all have to do better if we want to see better and that starts with us simply being kind to one another. Take it as a challenge to go out of your way to be kind to someone you don’t know, it’s much easier to be mean. I also go off on a couple of other tangents that may lead somewhere, who knows.

He’s Talking About Sports Again

Hi everyone Happy Easter weekend! On today’s episode of NYAG Connor discusses what is left in Season 2 to look forward to, while also teasing what is coming in Season 3. I take a deep dive into what’s going on in softball including what makes this year’s Oklahoma team possibly the greatest ever. And Tennessee baseball we see you, keep killing it. Have a great holiday weekend you guys!

Straight Up Exposing

In this episode I expose some things.. I expose a plan I have had for a long time called Not Your Average Gay: On Campus where I go to the best college campuses in the country and take in the vibes and experience what their students would in a day, or at a tailgate. I also tell a story about “Cayden” and “Laurel” two friends of mine and how I stupidly got caught up in an entanglement. We also discuss some baseball and softball in this episode and I tell you that softball is superior because it is. I hope y’all enjoy this one. Happy Weekend!!

Shiny Things

Oh lord this boy has a crush again.... But for real, Connor takes you through the final weekend of college basketball and gives his analysis while also discussing the 64th annual GRAMMY Awards and the winners while also discussing the looks of the evening.

Embrace the Madness II

Happy Last Day of March Madness!!! In this episode we talk about my YouTube channel and when I will be posting again. We also talk about what to expect from the future of my YouTube channel (lots of vlogging). A discussion about Justice Clarence Thomas’ wife is had and let’s just say she’s a shady person, but we’ll tell you why. We also discuss what her husband did that was so bad, and why you should care. As the episode title hints, we discuss March Madness on both the men’s and women’s sides. My two picks are Duke for the Men’s and South Carolina for the women’s, now these are who I think will win not who I want to.. Happy last day of madness brought to you by March!

Embrace the Madness

This episode starts with me giving an update on my mental health and kind of what I was going through earlier this week. And I also can’t express how much all of the support you guys have given me has meant, life is really crazy and scary right now and I don’t I have to doubt my support and I’m pretty lucky. We also break down my March Madness brackets for both men’s and women’s and where I went wrong but more importantly where I went right.. (jk) then we discuss where I think the tournament will go heading into its second weekend. A quick reminder to be kind you guys and remember to also do what? that’s right — embrace the madness.

I don’t think I’m okay

I’m at a crossroads in my life. I can chose to do better, to be a better person, or I can continue down the same path I’m on. After a life changing experience in Austin I come clean about some stuff that has been eating me alive from the inside for a while. Don’t worry about me though, it’s a new energetic year, so my feelings are just super intense and all over the place. Things are about to change for the better y’all, they just have to hurt first.

Affirming Who I Am

This episode is kind of all over the place. We talk about meditation habits, you get to see me talk about my trip to Austin for SXSW before and a little bit after. Basically I’m at a crossroads in my life where every thing is about to change. Keep your eyes peeled there’s a part 2 to this episode.

just say gay

In this episode we discuss some serious sh*t. We talk about more ways you can help the people of Ukraine. We also discuss 2x Olympic Gold Medalist Brittney Griner being detained in Russia by officials for over three weeks before it was announced publicly. We also talk about the cowardly “Don’t Say Gay Bill” in Florida by Governor Death-Santis and why it’s harmful to a whole new generation of children, teachers and their families. We also discuss a little bit about how we got here and why 45 should never get off scoff free from all of this mayhem.

The Power of Empathy

During this episode I discuss the brutal Russian invasion of Ukraine who is a sovereign nation and a democracy just like us here in the United States. I discuss what we can do to help those in the war zone. We also talk about how we got to this point and how this falls on nobody but the “President” of Russia, Vladimir Putin.

Moving Forward

2022 has been a lot already and that’s okay. I’ll tell you about a boy who thought a kiss was worth ruining a friendship with me. I’ll explain my return to politics and why it’s important that we all take a stand for voters rights and a better tomorrow. I also discuss the upcoming 2022 Louisiana Senate race and the candidates we’ll be discussing in depth later this season on NYAG. I talk about the generational sensation that is HBO’s Euphoria. I also go in depth about the previous mentioned boy who we’ll call “Joe Shiesty” (another J name) and we’ll discuss why I’m not mad and just want my friend back. Thank y’all for being patient with me, the last few weeks have been a lot.

Cancel Cancel Culture

Happy New Year beautiful people! Are you boosted yet? It’s never been easier to get your COVID vaccine and booster. Also my merch is finally here!! Check out my website and my social media for more information. This episode covers Cancel Culture, and my opinion on this American Gen-Z phenomenon. Spoiler Alert: I don’t like it.

the year that things change

Happy New Year everyone! In this episode of NYAG we discuss what you can expect from me in the NYAG and YouTube universes respectively. You get to hear 10 goals I’m setting for myself some silly and some serious. I also wrote a letter to me in 2023 and you get to hear it. Also if you haven’t already get your booster shot.

would you call it drunk or tipsy?

I drunkenly fumble about talking about the playoff, LSU’s new football coach, my top 5 hottest NFL players, I even gave my Heisman pick (Bryce Young), I also talk about how I drunkenly lost my entire life at LSU over a span of two consecutive weekends. It’s truly a great episode I hope you enjoy. Also keep your eyes on our socials to vote on our merch! Happy Holidays!

idk my sexuality

This episode doesn’t really have a set plot line, I just really felt like I needed to word vomit. I’m in a really odd place where I’m not really sure what is what anymore. That’s normal right? Anyway get you a snack, load you a bowl and listen to the scattered train wreck that is my life:) Happy Holidays everyone!

born into it

The long anticipated “McNasty” series has finally arrived. Now I want to preface this with the fact that it is only called McNasty because that’s what students of the university refer to the mentioned institution as it is not a negative or a dig. This first episode sets the table for the rest of the series by discussing the enriched history my family has with my former school. This will definitely be the shortest of the episodes. I hope you all enjoy!

know your worth

In this episode of NYAG I discuss my recent YouTube video while also discussing the value of knowing your worth. I also discuss my CFP Top 4 ahead of the committee’s first rankings being revealed tonight.

Girl it’s the Met Gala

This episode is basically me and one of my closest friends Ella discussing the Met Gala looks, the theme along with all of the pop culture icons that attended this year. Also catch my hot takes on the targeting rule in college football and what NFL team or player in particular I’ve got my eyes on this season.

August

As Taylor Swift says “August slipped away into a moment in time..” I don’t know where the time went but I’m finally back from my month long break. I’ve been hard at work on the McNasty series, plus I talk about how I moved into my own apartment! I also talk about my life changing trip to Colorado, Simone Biles and Naomi Osaka get candid about Mental Health, and my CFB Top 5 running backs. I also talk about the monster hurricane that just hit southeastern Louisiana and brought flooding all the way to New York City. If you want to Donate to Hurricane Ida relief you can donate to The Cajun Navy on GoFundMe, United Way of Southeast Louisiana (www.unitedwaysela.org) and the NOLA Project.

XOXO, get vaccinated

Episode 3 of Season 2 discusses the news on the marijuana legalization front in Washington D.C. We also talk about HBO Max’s new Gossip Girl reboot, which is a new modern take on the 2007 CW classic. We also discuss the rising positive COVID cases in Tokyo as the games of the 32nd Olympiad get underway tonight. Also get vaccinated, I honestly don’t care what your excuses are, because unless it’s medical you are being selfish to everyone else who also inhabits your community and you are risking them and their loved ones health by you not taking the shot. Also my Top QBs of the upcoming College Football season are discussed.

Is it still Tokyo 2020 if it’s 2021?

The Tokyo 2020 Olympic Games were delayed an entire year which meant one year longer for athletes to continue working toward their life long goals. Another Olympic Games means new personalities, who are my favorite new athletes going into the Olympic Games? We discuss the great Simone Biles. And we also discuss Sha’Carri Richardson’s Olympic Suspension. I also reveal my annual College Football Pre-season Top 10.

Coming in Hot #FreeBritney

Welcome to Season 2 of Not Your Average Gay! We are coming to you with a whole new look, that is still enough of the same. We have a new website, we are in the process of developing merch, and a streamable version of NYAG? We also tackle the #FreeBritney Movement and talk about the unjust treatment of Britney Spears by her family and conservators. We also talk about the cast shake-up at ABC’s the View. Welcome back to the show, this season will be one to remember...

Love is Love

In the season 1 finale I tell my coming out story, which is honestly rather laid back. I also tease what’s to come in the upcoming season and the rebrand of the entire podcast. Stay up to date on all things NYAG by following me on Twitter @connor_way or on Instagram @connor.way

Don’t Call it a Comeback

I’m back!! It has honestly been way too long. Hey guys! How are you? I’ve been getting a lot of personal stuff handled over the last few months, but I’m feeling good and I’m ready to deliver some more gay ass content for y’all. We talk about where I’ve been, Hurricane relief, women’s basketball, men’s basketball, and of course addressing the hate crimes that have been taking place around the United States. #StopAsianHate #ENDRACISM

Coup D'etat

On today, one of the darkest days in modern American history, the 45th president called on his supporters to storm the United States Capital Building in order to delay the votes to certify Joe Biden's victory. During this coup attempt complete and utter chaos ensued in the Capital Building and on it's grounds and a person was reportedly shot inside the building. The 45th President is a danger to himself and everyone around him, he should be removed from office ASAP under the 25th Amendment.

I'm a liar

The title is pretty self explanatory, I have been keeping some things from everyone including the people closest to me. I'm unhappy, and I have been for a long time but 2020 made that extremely worse, as most people on Earth can agree. I want to do better and I intend to do better, but even I know actions speak louder than words. Time to put my money where my mouth is. I also reveal a new project that I am working on that is extremely close to my heart. Please remember to spread love and please wear your mask!

United We Stand

Welcome back to the Podcast, after a couple of weeks away I have returned just to discuss some recent happenings. We discuss Election 2020, SWLA post Hurricane Laura and Hurricane Delta. We also talk about some history being made in the SEC, along with some controversy at the home of the defending National Champions. It’s a great return episode, let’s dive in!

Happy Thanksgiving, let’s reflect.

Take a moment to stop and smell the roses, or stuff your face if that’s what you are into. Happy Thanksgiving everyone, I hope everyone stays safe and healthy!

Deficient Values

We discuss Demi Lovato’s powerful new political anthem “Commander and Chief,” we also talk about a Republican Senator’s scathing comments about Trump’s presidency and a warning he issued. We talk about Nancy Pelosi and Wolf Blitzer’s wild interview and more!

Hurricanes, Gays, Elections, and Hearings.

We talk about the damage Hurricane Delta did to Southwest Louisiana as well as early voting in Louisiana. Of course we talk about President Tr*mp and I give my input on Judge Amy Coney Barrett and her senate confirmation hearings. I also talk about National Coming Out Day.

SWLA, I 💙 YOU!

Hurricane Delta is about to make landfall on the Southwest Louisiana coast this would be the second major landfall in six weeks for the area me and many of my loved ones call home. This is for you SWLA.

The Sport

In this episode we talk about this past week in college football, Athletes Unlimited softball, MLB baseball playoffs, some music and yes, Donald Trump (🤢)

Welcome to the Podcast

Welcome to the podcast as we discuss getting justice for Breonna Taylor, voting, Hurricane Laura, Sports, Voting, and being a better human in general. Did I mention voting already?

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