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Pure Victory Podcast — 263 episodes
269. Tough Topic Series: Scrolling Ourselves Numb: Social Media, Addiction, and Guarding Our Hearts
268. The Dark Side of AI Girlfriends – When Virtual Love Destroys Real Lives
267. Are You Overcomplicating It? The Simple Link Between Physical & Spiritual Health
266. Breaking the Intentions Loop: From Saying the Right Things to Living Them
265. The Stress Trap: Why Numbing Leads to Crumbling
264. Tough Topic Series: Should I Tell Them? Navigating Porn Use in Dating
263. Closing the Gap: From Temptation to Intentional Living
262. Understanding Your Arousal Template: Why Your Brain Craves What Your Heart Doesn’t
261. Willpower vs. Wisdom: Why Trying Harder Isn’t the Answer
260. 10 Decisions Away: How Small Choices Shape Your Freedom
259. Guardrails, Not Handcuffs: Navigating Opposite Sex Friendships in Marriage
258. Stop Mowing Your Neighbour's Grass: The Power of Emotional Ownership
257. The Unseen Battle: Winning the Spiritual War Against Porn
256. Trusted vs. Trustworthy: The Difference That Brings Real Freedom
255. Karissa's Story (Part 2): From Confession to Courage
254. Karissa's Story: Breaking The Silence
253. How To Find The Right Group For Healing
252. Boundary Markers: Why They Matter for Your Freedom
251. The 20-Minute Window: Outlasting Temptation
250. The Sneaky Swap: Healthy Habits or Hidden Self-Medication?
249. Back Up the Bus — Finding Freedom Before the Crash
248. Neural Pathways- Why Porn Feels Powerful — and Why Freedom Is Still Possible!
247. Toxic People – The Company You Keep Can Determine Your Path
246. When We Rage Against God — Taking Ownership of Our Choices
245. What Appetites Are You Creating?
244. Vows vs. Intentionality — Why ‘I’ll Never Do That Again’ Doesn’t Work”
243. Are You Too Noisy? Finding God In The Quiet
242. Authenticity: The Freedom Of Being Real
241. Being Bold In A Crazy World!
240. I'm Back!!! A Podcast Update!
239. Is There Ever A "Good" Time To Confess?
238. Rewiring Bad Messaging Around Sex And Sexuality
237. Have You Taken Ownership of Your Healing?
236. The Bonfire Effect – Moving From Pain to Purpose: With John Rodermond
235. Who Are You Listening To? The Power of Voices in Your Journey to Freedom
234. Breaking Free on All Fronts – The 3 Areas We Battle Porn
233. How Porn Impacts Our Culture
232. How Porn Impacts Our Relationships
231. How Porn Impacts the Brain
230. Battling Tech Addiction: With Erick Vargas
229. Living with Sexual Integrity: Why It Matters More Than You Think
228. Escaping the OnlyFans Trap: Finding True Freedom in Jesus.
227. Breaking Free: What True Freedom From Porn Looks Like!
226. Managing Behaviour vs Freedom- Stop Managing Your Porn Addiction, Be Free Instead!
225. Parenting And Pornography: With Jacob Valk
224. Rebuilding Trust: Creating Safety in Marriage After Betrayal from Pornography: With Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith
223. New Year, New Purpose: How Embracing Your Purpose Overpowers Porn Addiction
222. Purity, Safety, Security: The Role of Men in Shaping a Better World: With Sathiya Sam
221. How You Think About Sexuality Affects Your Entire Life: The Union Movement
220. Why Do I Watch Porn For Hours?
219. How To Avoid Thirst Traps
218. Building A Healthy Journey Beyond Porn For Couples: With Geremy Keeton
217. Soul Care With Debra Fileta
216. Self Care With Brett Ullman
215. Patterns We Need To Beat Porn: Community Pt. 2
214. Patterns We Need To Beat Porn: Community
213. Patterns We Need To Beat Porn: Discipline
212. Patterns We Need To Beat Porn: Prayer
162. Why Bouncing Your Eyes Isn't The Answer
Brief Announcement!
6. Mary's Story: A Woman Addicted
5. 4 Pro-Tips For Powerful Accountability
4. The Lies That Keep Us Hooked
2. Matt's Story: Quitting Porn....Twice
1. Conquering The Quarantine
207. Parenting After Purity Culture with Nadine Crain
211. Help! I'm Scared to Quit Porn!
210. Are Porn and Poverty Connected? With Jean Louis
209. What Kanye, P. Diddy and Bill Hybels Have In Common
208. Healing the Church with Sam Black
206. Speak the Unspeakable with Elizabeth Good
205. Having Fun Together After Betrayal with Jonathan Daugherty
204. Grace-based Approaches To Beating Porn with Jonathan Daugherty
203. Spiritual Resiliency to Fight Your Battles
202. Breaking Through the Taboo with Mike Novotny
200. How Do You Respond to HALTS?
199. Friendship and Overcoming Porn
197. Does Your Social Media Need Redemption?
196. Porn is the Church's Biggest Internal Threat
195. Healing From the Imprints of Childhood
194. Do I Need To Be Delivered From The Spirit Of Lust?
193. Why Using Porn Makes Sense (In Our Minds)
192. Are You Straddling The Line?
191. Letting Others Help You Get Porn-Free with Walter Perez
188. Endurance for the Porn-Free Journey
187. Why We Got Rid Of Our Smartphones with Elisha and Katie Voetberg
186. Key Lifestyle Changes for a Porn-Free Life
185. Mark's Story: Abuse, Voyeurism, and a New Life in Christ
184. Growing in Spiritual Maturity with Mitch London
183. Listener Q&A Part 2: Betrayal Trauma, Dry Spells, Fasting and More…
182. Listener Q&A: Marital Duty, Shame, Identity, and more…
181. When Should I Seek Outside Help?
180. The Truth About STDs with Dr. Zee M.D.
179. Into the Light. A Documentary with Jacob Valk
178. How Do I Talk To My Kid About Porn? With John and Lucas Fort
177. Navigating Libido Differences with Javier and Shannan
176. Do You Know Your Spirit-Led Desires?
175. These Things Don’t Help You Quit Porn
174. Bustin' Myths: Porn Helps Me
173. Bustin’ Myths: Free Porn Use Doesn’t Contribute To The Industry
172. Bustin’ Myths: My Porn Use Doesn’t Hurt Anybody
171. Breaking Shame Through Sexual Discipleship with Joy Skarka
170. Living Unoffendable with Brant Hansen
169. Holy Sexuality and the Gospel with Dr. Chris Yuan
168. Hot Sex in Marriage with Brad and Lisa Valencia
167. Am I Married to a Narcissist? With Dr. Kim Kimberling
166. What is Purity?
165. What is Holistic Health? With Justin Roethlingshoefer
164. Andy Ponstein's Story: Porn, Affairs, Polygraphs, and a NASCAR career
163. Sex vs Making Love. Spot the Differences!
161. Connecting Porn and Financial Stress with Chris Scheele
160. Why Beating Porn Isn't A 2-5 Year Process
159. How Porn Impacts People and Culture
158. Can My Marriage Be Restored? With Kristy Rodriguez
157. Hope After Betrayal With Kristy Rodriguez
156. Spot The Difference: Sexual Arousal vs Sexual Desire
155. Does Right Belief About God Lead To Freedom From Porn?
154. AI, ChatGPT, Virtual Reality & Porn
153. Battling Complacency: Why It Matters In Being Porn Free
152. Are Ungodly Vows Keeping Me Stuck in Porn?
151. Man Up God's Way! With Jody Burkeen
150. Cole and Caitlin Zick: Are You Settling For Less Than God's Best?
149. The Effects Of Porn and Sexual Abuse On Men: Dr. Doug Carpenter
148. Dr. Doug Carpenter: Become The Man You Were Created To Be
147. Why Am I Having Sexual Dreams?
146. Hearing God's Voice in Your Freedom Journey
145. Dealing With Disappointment: How It's Related To Porn Use
144. Why Quit Porn?
143. Sex After Betrayal: How To Rebuild Your Intimacy!
142. Help! My Husband Is Looking At Porn
141. Join Relay: The App To Help You Beat Porn This Year!
140. Are You Compromising Your Freedom?
139. Name Your Pain: Matt Cline's Story of Sexual Violation
138. Breaking Free From The Cycles Of Porn Use
137: Facing the Darkness in Your Story with Will Brososky
136. Breaking Soul Ties 101
135. Forgiveness: It's A Transaction, Not A Process!
134: Forgiveness: Your Key To Freedom with Bruce and Toni Hebel
133. Want To Beat Porn? Do The Opposite Of Your Impulses!
132. Healing from Purity Culture with Kristen Miele
131. Sex Ed Reclaimed with Kristen Miele
130. Pt 2: Deconstructing Fantasies: What They Say About Your Path To Healing
129. Pt 1: Deconstructing Fantasies: Unfulfilled Desires
128. Helping Survivors Break Free of Sex Trafficking with Reflection Ministries
127. Linked: Porn and Sex Trafficking with Reflection Ministries
126. Growing Your Emotional Quotient
125. Should Sobriety Be Our End Goal?
124. Matt Andres: From Almost Losing His Family to Helping Others Get Free
123. Addicted To Porn At Age 7: Matt Andres' Story
122. Patrick's Story: 150 Gay Encounters, A Loving Wife, and One Faithful God
121. Jesus Redeems Your Details
120. Two Powerful Keys To See Temptation Differently
119. Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction: Yes, It's A Thing! With Shawn Bonneteau
118. * Update and Encouragement*
117. Sexy Talk Before Marriage
116. Growing In Self-Awareness
115. Purity Culture: Helpful Or Harmful?
114. How To Gain God’s Approval: Performance vs Surrender
113. Summertime Temptations: How Are Your Eyes?
112. Protecting Your Kids From Porn with Kristen Jenson
111. Can We Affair Proof Our Marriage?
110. Talking Sex In Church with Bryan and Bonnie Pue
109. Bryan and Bonnie Pue: We Aren't The First Sexualized Culture
108. Inviting God Into Your Sex Drive
107. David's Story: Freedom On The Other Side Of Apprehension
106. 3 Pillars Of Recovery with Sathiya Sam
105. A Deep Clean From Porn: Sathiya Sam
104. Dr. Juli Slattery: How Does Sexuality Define Identity?
103. Dr. Juli Slattery: Trusting God With Our Sexuality
102. Healing The Inner Child with Drew Boa
101. Befriending Our Sexuality With Drew Boa
100. Sexpectations: 4 Things You Need To Know with Mike Novotny
99. Forgiveness and Confession with Mike Novotny
98. Safe Communication with Travis and Adelle Graham
97. Travis and Adelle's Story: Red Flags, Betrayal, And Jesus' Transforming Love
96. Does Sexual Compatibility Matter?
95. Becoming Aware Of Our Default Responses
94. The Art of Unplugging
93. Dave and Kirsten Samuel: A Brand New Marriage...With The Same Spouse!
92. Dave and Kirsten Samuel: Exposing Secrets After 25 Years Of Marriage
91. Brad & Lisa's Unrelenting Pursuit Of Restoration
90. Brad & Lisa's Story: Porn, Infidelity, And A Divorce Lawyer's Confusion
89. Why Does Jesus Matter?
88. Deliverance, Sex, And Porn Addiction with Doug Balzer
87. Restoring Deliverance To Discipleship with Doug Balzer
86. The Vahen King Story: Infidelity In A Wheelchair And A God Who Restores
85. What Support Do I Need In Marriage?
84. How To Identify Shame - And Crush It For Good!
83. Husbands: Here's What To Tell Your Wife
82. The Dave Hafner Story: Meeting Jesus In Prison
81. Are You Really OK? With Debra Fileta
80. Roots To Addiction: Trauma And The World's Subtle Messages
79. Is Your Family Dysfunctional?
78. The Slippery Slope To Addiction
77. Exposing Fantasies
76. Taking The "Taboo" Out Of Sex with Brett Ullman
75. Brett Ullman's Story: Navigating Mental Health
74. Lust And Sexual Desire: What's The Difference?
73. The Company You Keep: Why It Matters
72. Sheila Wray Gregoire: The 47 Point Orgasm Gap
71. Sheila Wray Gregoire: The Great Sex Rescue
69. Myth Busters: Porn, Libidos And A Lifelong Battle
68. Myth Busters: Wedding Nights & Sexy Test Drives
67. Myth Busters: Blue Balls And Wet Dreams
66. Covenant Eyes: Why It's A Must Have
65. Path Out Of Porn P4: Lifelong Growth
64. Path Out Of Porn P3: Healing In Community
63. Path Out Of Porn P2: Getting Honest And Receiving Forgiveness
62. Path Out Of Porn P1: Awareness Of The Problem
61. Sneak Peek! Intro To The Path Out Of Porn 4-Part Series
60. The Nick Stumbo Story: Breaking The Chains Of Shame
59. Richard De La Mora: The Pastor Who Married An Ex-Porn Star
58. From Porn-Star To Pastor: The Brittni De La Mora Story
57. Keith Johnston: Porn Use And A $15,000 Phone Bill
56. Trey Morgan: Intimacy Busters In Marriage
55. Trey Morgan: The Nitty Gritty Details Of Amazing Sex In Marriage
54. Ben Bennett: Thriving As A Porn-Free Single
53. Josh McDowell: How Every Church Can Tackle Porn (And Why It's A Must)
52. EXPOSED: Hidden Routines That Lead To Porn
51. Wives Roundtable With Rosie And Charity: Feeling Safe After Betrayal
50. Wives Roundtable With Rosie And Charity: Responding To Porn In Your Marriage
49. Lessons From The Fall Of Ravi Zacharias
48. Pastor Gary: The Power of a Clear Conscience
47. Dalton's Story: Married And Same-Sex Attracted
46. God's Heart For You!
45. Dr. Fenske: Rewiring Your Brain 101
44. Dr. Fenske: How Porn Affects The Brain
43. Former NHL Star Ryan Walter: A Marriage In The Spotlight
42. Stanley Cup Champion Ryan Walter: Boundaries In Marriage
41. Developing Practical Intimacy With Jesus
40. Ways To Connect To God (And How It Helps You Beat Porn)
39. Building Intimacy In Your Marriage
38. Sorry! Marriage Won't Fix Your Porn Problem
37. The When, Where, & Why Of Your Porn Habit
36. The Munoz Story: Intimacy After Betrayal with Clinton and Charity
35. Talking To Your Kid About Porn with Marilyn Evans
34. Parents Beware: Porn Is Coming For Your Kids with Marilyn Evans
33. Life After A Porn Addiction
32. How To Be A Great Accountability Partner
31. 4 Must-Do's To Beat Porn
30. Matt's Story: Beating Insecurities For Good
29. The Link Between Social Media And Porn
26. Are You Sorry You Look At Porn? How You Can Know For Sure!
25. The Mindset Of A Conqueror
24. Vern's Story: A Porn-Addicted Pastor
23. What To Expect On The Porn-Free Journey
22. Establishing Identity: The #1 Key To Beating Porn
21. Being Single In A Hook-Up Culture
20. Sexual Abuse Recovery with Dr. Kelli Palfy
19. Why Trying To Quit Porn Doesn't Work
18. Guilt-Free Godly Sex Acts
17. Bonnie's Story: Betrayal In Marriage
16. Taking Fantasies Captive
15. The Porneia Standard
14. God's Design For Sex
13. Sheldon's Story: Rebuilding A Life
12. Pastors: When Porn Infests Your Church
11. Triggered: Planning for the Win
10. Masturbation: Helpful or Harmful?
9. Al and Val's Story: Porn Almost Ended Our Marriage!
8. How We Got Porn Out Of Our Marriage
7. Can God Still Use Me If I Watch Porn?
3. Braden’s Story: Busted By His Wife