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All Episodes - Think Like Me (or don't)

The life and musings of a digital handyman who also happens to be a semi-professional musician, amateur Muay Thai fighter, and divorced ex-mormon. Armchair philosophy at its finest :)

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40 Episodes

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The Precursor to Conflict

10/17/2021 36 min 41 sec

Short episode! I just needed to connect some dots so we can get into what I'm really excited to get into (coming next week).

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There are no moral obligations....probably

10/09/2021 56 min 10 sec

I build on the metaphor of the box and get into why the box is so powerful. I also take some fairly heretical and blasphemous roads to get there, so buckle up.

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You’re in control of your box

10/02/2021 36 min 1 sec

He’s back! In this episode I ramble about a new idea I’ve been chewing on.

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Season 4 Preview

09/26/2021 1 min 5 sec

Season 4 is gonna be FUN!

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Am I actually Ben Affleck?

11/03/2019 17 min 31 sec

Yo! It’s been a while. In this episode I talk about what’s been happening the last couple months. I’ve been struggling to figure out if pieces of how I self-identify are actually weaknesses in need of reform or if they are, as I tend to believe, actually my superpowers. This episode doesn’t answer those questions but it’s at least a start.

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Sexy Task Management (for freelancers or remote workers in 2019 and beyond)

08/09/2019 14 min 57 sec

Here's how I manage my tasks (after a long time of doing it wrong). I recommend watching the video on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0IDWHio5qk

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There's a difference between strategy and tactics (also, I'm TERRIBLE at chess)

08/08/2019 8 min 3 sec

Be sure to check out the video as well:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPUeAeGcQAM 

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Do you have a trust fund business?

08/07/2019 6 min 34 sec

Be sure to check out the video version of this on Youtube:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQ7rhg5Vbbc 

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I got fired today

08/06/2019 5 min 58 sec

There are some things I refer to in the audio that you kind of need to see - head here to watch the video version of this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8s8NJa-N-9A

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Commas Cont'd (and a thing about The OA and music/productivity)

04/18/2019 24 min 7 sec

I went and found my Style guide from college to back up my comma comments.

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Commas: The MOST Misunderstood Punctuation?

04/17/2019 43 min 47 sec

People don't know, how to use commas!

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A Reaction to The Inventor: Out For Blood Documentary (and some other things)

04/16/2019 24 min 38 sec

 We watched that HBO documentary on Theranos yesterday.   I had some thoughts.  Apologies for the background noise.

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To All The Haters Saying Don't Watch Game of Thrones

04/15/2019 36 min 22 sec

 After watching the premier of GoT season 8, it hit me that lots of business gurus were going to start talking about how people shouldn't watch.  I had thoughts (obvi). 

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S3E4 - Featuring Kevin "The Soul Assassin" Ross and Marvin "The Mad Lion" Madariaga

03/25/2019 100 min 22 sec

Absolute legends in their own right, Kevin and Marvin, stop by to chat a bit about fighting and some of the differences between the old school fight mentality and the struggle of a fighter coming up now.  As per the usual, Wick the Bear makes a cameo appearance and I do my best to stay quiet and let them talk, although I don't do a GREAT job of that, but we have some good conversation. Enjoy.

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S3E3 - Sure, but do YOU respect you?

02/05/2019 5 min 10 sec

More often than any of us is willing to admit, the reason we don't "get the respect we deserve" has nothing to do with anyone else.

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S3E2 - The Truth Doesn't Really Matter

02/04/2019 5 min 5 sec

I think we talk too much about the "honorable pursuit of Truth". I don't think truth matters nearly as much as we tell ourselves it does. It does, however, give us a nice excuse to ignore our very real emotions by bottling them up until they inevitably explode, destroying most of what makes sense in life.

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S3E1 - The Wife, The Mistress, and The Vice - Monday Morning Coffee #37

01/07/2019 19 min 56 sec

People (myself included most of all) often make the mistake of thinking that they are capable of handling anything that comes their way. The truth is, a person can really only juggle three things at once: The Wife, The Mistress, and The Vice. Read the full post here: https://bretmartineau.com/blog/morning-coffee-37

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Season 3 Intro

01/07/2019 2 min 24 sec

Season 3 starts tomorrow! Weekly episodes will be released on Monday Mornings, so check back for that!

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S2 Epilogue

12/13/2018 2 min 30 sec

Positivity is HUGE!

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Season 2 Finale!

12/06/2018 36 min 39 sec

This episode is my favorite, because it's the first (well, second) time I've been able to fully verbalize my vision. I hope you see the connections from past episodes and how everything has come together! See you in season 3!!

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S2E9 - Ride the Mean

11/29/2018 46 min 47 sec

In this episode I talk about trying to find a way to "anchor" (no pun intended) myself between emotional highs and lows to avoid the motivational black hole that keeps me from doing anything. Enjoy (and check out the YouTube vid: https://youtu.be/9x8VRuFz69Q)

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S2E8 - "You are my son, and the one true king"

11/22/2018 67 min 38 sec

Happy Thanksgiving! In this episode, I deal a lot with discovering and then actively pursuing your true potential. Lots of Lion King references :)

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S2E7 - Plans and positivity can't survive without action and time

11/15/2018 77 min 39 sec

In this episode, I get a little frustrated because things aren't moving as fast as I want. The cathartic high of a realization can lead to this kind of disappointment if you don't plan for it with ACTION.

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S2E6 - Foreshadowing....

11/08/2018 61 min 30 sec

This episode is just chock full of foreshadowing. It's amazing to listen to how the ideas and thoughts I talk about in this episode find their way into the *finished* product.

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S2E5 - Ohhhhh THAT'S what I've been doing wrong...

11/01/2018 41 min 59 sec

In this episode, I realize one of the major things that has held me back in both my personal and business life, and I make specific plans to avoid it in the future. Also, cigars :)

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S2E4 - Talking with friends helps

10/25/2018 53 min 6 sec

In this episode, some things start to shift. A conversation with great friends and colleagues shifts my perspective, and a long weekend away gives me space to really think.

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S2E3 - Does any of this matter?

10/18/2018 42 min 16 sec

In this episode I start to really doubt myself, my business, my ideas, and even whether this podcast idea is any good. It's a bit depressing, but I think there is value in relating to the low points.

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S2E2 - How did I get here?

10/12/2018 44 min 36 sec

This episode is a wandering selection of stories from my past as I try to piece together why I'm in the situation I'm in. You can tell I'm trying to find a way to both rationalize my situation AND navigate my way out of it.

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S2E1 - The business is in shambles

10/05/2018 63 min 8 sec

It's Ground Zero. Hitting one of the lowest points in my business that I've ever been at. I describe some of my personal financial problems, as well as some of the things that have led to the business being where it's at. This is the first few hours of realizing that my business was in huge trouble, and my emotional reaction to that realization.

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Seaon 2 Preview

09/28/2018 4 min 34 sec

Season 2 is a slight departure from the norm of what you may have come to expect from this podcast. I'll be honest, I'm nervous to release it, but I think you'll find it either beneficial or educational.

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(Season Finale) The Twenty-Second One

09/21/2018 72 min 0 sec

Season 1 finale! Lots of thought jammed into this one to get ready for Season 2. Enjoy!

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The Twenty-First One

09/14/2018 68 min 6 sec

Some new segments, some fun times, and some other things.

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The Twentieth One

09/07/2018 74 min 2 sec

My very first caller/comment! Featured at the very beginning. It's fairly creepy sounding, but also quite awesome :) This episode ranges all over - Arianna Grande, entrepreneurship, altruism, even some killer Star Wars metaphors. Check it!

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The Nineteenth One

08/31/2018 80 min 27 sec

This episode features a segment guaranteed to bore you tears followed immediately by one that might upset you. #shrug

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The Eighteenth One

08/24/2018 71 min 34 sec

This episode is unique and special for a lot of reasons. First, it's recorded entirely on my phone. Second, it's recorded in chunks over the course of a week. And lastly, really cool audio transitions!! Also today is my birthday.

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The Seventeenth One

01/29/2018 61 min 19 sec

The podcast is back! I ramble about practice and study and training, and even do some piano playing! (the first 5 minutes are cut off in the audio, but you can get them in the Youtube video)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pfMksX-x7TQ

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The Sixteenth One

09/23/2016 105 min 41 sec

*Language Warning*Denis, Michelle and I watch some amazing fights on The Ultimate Fighter and then discuss some stuff about training Muay Thai.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IETJAmrLMc

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The Fifteenth One

09/21/2016 71 min 0 sec

*LANGUAGE ALERT*Denis and I watch the latest episode of TUF - and we're joined by Michelle for part of it! We also watched a little bit of Bellator MMA.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6c8FOJT2A9I

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The Fourteenth One

09/09/2016 71 min 0 sec

*Language Warning*Denis and I watch the latest episode of The Ultimate Fighter and provide our commentary.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4T5VIbgNDU

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The Thirteenth One

09/01/2016 23 min 43 sec

I dink around on the guitar and piano a bit, but mostly chat about how I wish people would stop being afraid to say things to me for fear of backlash or retaliation.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ej5t9HPz8Dk

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