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Why She Stayed — 79 episodes

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Ep. 87: (Re-Release) Lundy Bancroft Interview: Why Does He Do That?

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Ep. 86: What If I Ruin His Life?- The Fear, the Grooming, and the People Who Said She'd Destroy Him.

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Ep. 85: Twist, Blame, Repeat

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Ep. 84: Quiet Control: When Culture Masks Coercion

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Ep. 83: How Abuse Stripped Me of Myself

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Ep. 82: Facing Pain Head-On: The Only Way Is Through

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Ep. 80: When The Unknown Feels Scarier & The Courage To Leave What You Know | with Stephanie Strickland

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Ep. 79: "He Gaslit Me So Sweetly"

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Ep. 78: Help, I Can't Define My Experience!

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Ep. 77: The Threshold That Never Comes: The Ambiguity That Keeps Survivors Silent

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Ep. 76: Will The Abuser Change For The New Supply? | Dr. Jaime Zuckerman

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Ep. 75: "He Poisoned Me With Abortion Pills" - Catherine's Story

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Ep. 74: Their Weight On Our Shoulders: How Abuse Makes Us Feel Responsible For Them | Wendy's Story

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Ep. 73: How Did I Get Here (Again)? : A Story of Two Abusive Relationships

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Ep. 72: When Faith Is Weaponized: Naming the Abuse, Healing the Grief, Finding Hope Again | Beverly's Story

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Ep. 71: Q&A Part 5

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Ep. 70: Life Post- Abuse | Imposter Syndrome, Fear, & Staying the Course

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Ep. 69: Sadistic Behaviors And The Normalization Of Boundary Pushing

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Ep. 68: "The Greatest Weapon An Abuser Has Is To Make Us Not Trust Ourselves" | Monica Moore Smith

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Ep. 67: Behind the Blame: Understanding DARVO

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Ep. 66: You Won't Get Closure From The Same Person Who Hurt you | Laura Richards

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Ep. 65: "The Way He Operated Was So Subtle"

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Ep. 64: "He's Not Going to Change"- Erin's Story

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Ep. 63: "Purposeful, Determined, & Unwavering"- Sarah's Story

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Ep. 62: He Knew Which Lines Not To Cross

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Ep. 61: Weaponization Of Mental Health, Triangulation, & Charisma

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Ep. 60: How Abusers Control The Narrative | with Quinn Padilla

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Ep. 59: Discussing the Diddy Trial- with Dr. Nadine Macaluso

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Ep. 57 Reasons We Stay & Helping a Loved One | Bethany Comerford

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Ep. 56: Love Bombing, Illusion of Stability, & Devaluation | Lindsay Abernathy

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Ep. 55: Lundy Bancroft Interview | Why Does He Do That?

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Ep. 54: Red Flags, Trusting Yourself, & Dating Post- Abuse | with Ashley Maland

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Ep. 52: My Story Updated- One Year of Podcasting

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Ep. 51: Hot & Cold Behaviors and Infidelity

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Ep. 50: A Conversation About the Family Court System | Courtney Gilmartin

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Ep. 49: Unpacking Control, Possessiveness, & Stalking

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Ep. 48: "He Pretended to do a Total 180" | How She Finally Broke Free

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Ep. 47: Understanding Coercive Control and Manipulative Behaviors | Dr. Emma Katz

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Ep. 46: Trusting Your Gut Instinct- with Laura Richards

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Ep. 45: Emotional Abuse Can Feel like Death by a Thousand Paper Cuts - with Leah Aguirre

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Ep. 44: "I Was An Advocate For Victims, But I Didn't Realize I Was One Too"

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Ep. 43: Confusion Is The Hallmark Of Abuse

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Ep. 42: "It Felt Like Whiplash"

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Ep. 41: Coercive Control- Dr. Christine Cocchiola

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Ep. 40: "It Felt Like My Brain Was No Longer Mine"

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Ep. 39 Psychological Abuse, Isolation, & Leaving with a Child

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Ep 38: Can Coercive Control be Accidental? Do I Owe Him One Last Talk?- Full Q&A

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Ep. 37: When He's on a Pedestal & Puts You in Lose-Lose Situations

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Ep. 36: Non-Fatal Strangulation: How it's Introduced and Escalates- Dr. Dana Anderson

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Ep. 35: Will Trying to be Perfect Make Them Change?

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Ep. 34: Cognitive Dissonance, Euphoric Recall, and What if He's Changing?

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Ep. 33: DV Survivor & Mass Shooting Survivor- Elle Gargano

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Ep. 32: Coercion, Reactive Abuse, and what if it's me "causing" this?

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Ep. 31: Am I "Supposed" to Stay in an Abusive Situation?- Karen DeArmond Gardner

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Ep. 30: "No one will ever believe you because you look too happy"- Savannah's Story

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Ep. 29: How to Help Someone Who's in an Abusive Relationship by Holding Space for Them

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How Abusers Weaponize Mental Health and Triangulation

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How to Look Through the Lens of the Cycle of Abuse- Knowing Your Truth with Quinn Padilla

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Psychological Abuse, Blindness, & Resilience Through Adversity- Sherrie Lynn Lilley

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"Reactive Abuse", Abusers Who Discard, Hoover, & Breaking Free- Shannon's Story

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Abuse, Second Guessing Yourself, Withdraw, & The Strength to Stay Gone- Claire's Story

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The Insidious Nature of Abuse & Spiritual Abuse - with Tatenda

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It's Not High Conflict, It's Abuse- Maureen's Story

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Inside the Abuser's Mind- Part 2

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Ep. 18: Kidnapped by her Abuser: Lex's Story

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Ep. 17: Lauren's Story

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Ep. 16: How to Know if you're in an Abusive Relationship, Smear Campaigns, Coercion, and More.

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Coercive Control and being FRAMED by the Abuser in Family Court- with Dr. Christine Cocchiola & Amy Polacko

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Run Like Hell- with Dr. Nadine Macaluso

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Overcoming Tragedy- with Stephanie J. Bond

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Surviving Abuse: Red Flags, Triangulation & Escalation.

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Why is it so hard to leave?- My Experience & Mindset Tips

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Q&A Part 2: Your Most Asked Questions

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Financial & Emotional Abuse: Tanna's Story

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Full Q&A Episode

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Navigating the Court System & Post Separation Abuse: With Divorce & Custody Coach- @momswithswords

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Healing from Abuse: Rumination, Dissociation, Building Self-Trust, & More

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Inside the Abuser's Mind- with Eleni- Abuse Educator

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More Than Bruises with- Dr. Jennifer Gardella