351: Your Confidence Inventory

We made it to the final week of April. And I want to close this month the way it deserves to be closed, not with a lecture, but with a conversation.This episode has two parts.Part one is a coaching session. Just you and me, like we're sitting across from each other with coffee and nowhere to be. I'm walking you through your confidence inventory, three categories of evidence you've been sitting on and not counting: what you've survived, what you've built, and what you know. I'll be asking you the questions I ask every client I coach through a confidence conversation. Bring a notebook. Pause and actually answer them. This part only works if you do the work.Part two is listener Q&A. Real questions that came in this month and I'm answering them as honestly as I can.Including the one that stopped me for a minute: "Is there a point where you just accept that you're not a confident person?" I have a lot to say about that one.We also get into: what to do when self-doubt comes back loud after you've been doing the work, how to build confidence when your environment keeps knocking it down, why you feel confident in some areas of your life and not others and what that actually means, and how to stay grounded after a big failure or setback.This is the close of the month. And if you've been here all four weeks, thank you. You showed up for yourself. That matters more than you know.If this is your first episode, go back to week one. This series builds on itself and it's worth starting at the beginning.The person you are becoming is not a future version of you. She is you, with more reps.