426. Don't Open the Dating App Until You Hear This: Dating After Divorce with Erica McKay

If the thought of swiping again makes you want to throw your phone across the room, this conversation is for you.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Erica McKay—modern-day matchmaker, relationship realist, and founder of Erica Suzanne Matchmaking—for an honest and surprisingly uplifting convo on what dating after divorce really looks like. We talk about how to date with more intention (and way less pressure), why it's essential to focus on how you want to feel in your next relationship, and the power of doing the inner work before you hand over your number.   Whether you're cautiously dipping a toe into dating apps or completely swearing them off, this episode will help you date slower, date smarter, and maybe even feel excited about love again.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket   What We Discuss: 05:00 Mistakes to avoid when rejoining dating apps 08:08 Erica's story: From divorce to finding real love again 11:22 Building a coaching business as a divorced mom 12:45 Why you should visualize how you want to feel, not just what you want 19:12 Why inner work is essential before reentering the dating pool 22:04 The power of saying "yes" to new experiences 24:52 Navigating new relationships post-divorce 28:12 Dating questions to ask early—and which ones to avoid 35:54 How to date slower and deeper 40:42 Alcohol on first dates: yay or nay? 42:34 How matchmaking works (and when to consider it) 46:11 Introducing Young Lux for 22–38 year-olds   Find more from Erica McKay: Website: https://www.ericasuzanne.com/   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com