98 - Faith, Friendship, and a Few Forgotten Hymns

In this roundtable-style episode of The Barn Philosopher, Shelby sits down with two of his favorite faith companions—his wife, Rita, and their friend Joan—for an open and honest conversation about the twists and turns of their spiritual journeys. What starts as a thoughtful discussion about belief, growth, and gratitude becomes both heartfelt and humorous. Shelby reflects on how Joan and Ridge have been steady guides in his and Rita’s path toward a deeper Catholic faith—not by preaching, but by simply walking alongside them. Joan admits that the support goes both ways, joking that being tested by Shelby and Rita has grown her own faith as well. Rita lovingly crowns herself and Ridge the “faith dumb-dumbs,” bringing levity and humility to the conversation. Joan shares a charming moment trying to remember a favorite hymn (spoiler: she mostly gets there), and Rita recalls how the hymns of her childhood—sung in a blend of Spanish and Guamanian—shaped her understanding of worship in a unique way. It’s a warm, funny, and genuine episode about faith, friendship, and the power of walking the road together—even if you forget a few lyrics along the way. Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and more. Don’t forget to rate, follow, and share!