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EPISODE · May 23, 2026 · 9 MIN

New Managers and the Art of Saying No

from New Manager Conversations with Fexingo: First 90 Days, Managing Former Peers, and Leadership Basics · host Fexingo

Episode 7 of New Manager Conversations tackles one of the hardest skills for first-time leaders: saying no to your team, your boss, and yourself. Lucas and Luna walk through a real scenario — a new marketing manager at a mid-size SaaS company who inherited a team drowning in low-impact work. They break down the 'strategic no' vs. the 'defensive no,' why new managers overcommit, and a simple framework called the 'three-question filter' to decide what to decline. Lucas shares a specific study from Harvard Business Review showing that leaders who say no strategically are rated 23% higher on team effectiveness. Luna pushes back on the fear of looking uncooperative, and they discuss how to frame a no so it strengthens relationships. No generic advice — just concrete language and a real example you can use in your next one-on-one. #NewManager #LeadershipBasics #SayingNo #ManagementSkills #CareerAdvice #FirstTimeManager #TeamEffectiveness #Boundaries #StrategicThinking #WorkplaceCulture #Productivity #HarvardBusinessReview #SaaS #Marketing #Careers #FexingoBusiness #BusinessPodcast #LeadershipConversations Keep every episode free: buymeacoffee.com/fexingo

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