EP 13: Why Dating as a Christian is so Challenging With Dating Coach Mel New

In this week's episode, I sat down with special guest Mel New, a dating coach and the founder of 'If You Know, You Know' dating.  Together, we delve into the unique challenges Christian singles face in today's dating landscape. From navigating the pitfalls of social media to honing in on effective communication, we share personal anecdotes and practical advice to help you find love while staying true to your faith. Mel's passion for connecting people shines through as she reveals the inspiration behind her innovative 'mixers,' offering a glimpse into a world where meaningful connections flourish. Join us for an intimate conversation where faith, love, and personal growth intersect, offering guidance and camaraderie along the journey.About Mel NewMel New is the founder and owner of IYKYK Dating, a Christian dating coach, and runs a singles community with over 5000 members across the USA. Mel's own dating struggles with dating anxiety led her to develop a strong understanding of healthy dating relationship dynamics. Her approach is grounded in a strong biblical worldview, which emphasizes the importance of knowing true identity in Christ for a peaceful, enjoyable dating experience.  With over 80 first dates, trial and error, and eventually successfully implementing these concepts in her own life, Mel has honed her skills and expertise in helping anxious Christian women who overanalyze dating, uncover their stumbling blocks, and attract and maintain healthy, loving relationships.Instagram: IFYKYK Dating https://www.christiandatingworkshop.com/ Book a Call With Mel00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:47 Guest's Journey into Dating Coaching02:55 The Concept of Mixers and Dating Coaching05:23 The Challenges of Modern Dating05:59 The Impact of Technology on Dating09:52 The Role of Online Dating13:14 The Importance of Connection in Dating15:00 The Challenges of Online Dating17:13 The Importance of Self-Awareness in Dating25:28 The Lost Art of Dating25:35 Challenges in the Christian Dating Scene26:12 Understanding Gender Roles in Dating27:15 The Impact of Society's Expectations on Dating29:02 The Importance of Advocating for Yourself in Dating29:57 The Role of the Church in Christian Dating31:12 The Importance of Communication and Confidence in Dating33:03 The Role of Faith in Dating35:12 The Need for More Singles Ministries in Churches37:24 The Importance of Intentionality in Dating39:10 The Role of Discipline and Self-Improvement in Dating52:38 The Need for Better Dating Advice in Churches55:16 Final Thoughts on Christian Dating1:1 Coaching with BeatriceDating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit.Book a Call Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/