Episode #25: My Collie Won’t Calm Down! Practical Q&A for Real Owners

Is your Border Collie bouncing off the walls when visitors arrive, struggling to settle around children, or just can’t seem to relax - no matter what you try? You’re definitely not alone! Welcome to Collie Conversations, the place where we answer real Collie owner questions, live and unscripted.I’m Gemma Fisher, Border Collie specialist and founder of Collie Culture. In this week’s episode, I tackle questions straight from our Facebook community about Collies who are overexcitable, unsettled, or struggling with big feelings - especially when kids or new people are involved.Here’s what you’ll find in today’s Collie Conversation:Why some young Collies go from 0 to 100 when they hear excited voices - especially from children or certain visitorsWhat to do when your Collie jumps up, zooms around, or can’t settle in busy family situationsHow reinforcement (praise, treats, even eye contact!) might be accidentally making things worse—and how to use it the right wayReal, practical tips for teaching your Collie to settle calmly on a mat, even around high-energy family membersThe importance of starting with easy (low-distraction) “reception class” tasks before expecting your Collie to succeed in the most challenging “PhD level” momentsAdvice on helping nervous or reactive Collies feel safe and comfortable around children - without relying on toys or just managing by distractionWhen and why muzzle training might be necessary for safety, and how to create positive associations so your dog doesn’t become more stressedHow to use counter-conditioning to change your Collie’s feelings about children or visitors, turning worry into calm confidenceWhy patience, clear communication, and celebrating little wins really do make a differenceWhether you’re struggling with an excitable adolescent, a noise-sensitive rescue, or simply want a calmer household, you’ll find honest, expert guidance and encouragement here.👉 Have a question for next week’s Collie Conversation? Join our free Facebook group to submit yours, connect with supportive Collie owners, and get access to free resources: https://bit.ly/3Mn3GtCDon’t forget to subscribe for more practical advice and uplifting stories from Collie owners just like you.Thanks for watching! Remember - progress, not perfection. Every calm moment is a win.#CollieConversations #BorderCollie #DogTraining #CollieCulture #GemmaFisher #DogBehaviourBorder Collie expert Gemma Fisher has dedicated her career to empowering collie owners with the skills they need for a reliable recall and a joyful partnership with their dogs. Gemma’s hands-on experience and commitment to positive methods shine in each Collie Conversation. Her podcast brings practical, inspiring advice for every Collie owner, from recall training to managing reactivity. Join her Facebook group (https://bit.ly/3Mn3GtC) for even more tips and community support.