Family Culture is a Mother

Family culture is a mother! And when we say culture we are not talking about race, gender, or ethnicity but rather an agreed-upon set of expectations of the social communities we exist in with our family units at the foundation. As we grow families of our own, it becomes a balancing act of integrating each parent’s respective cultural norms to create your core family’s unique culture. In episode 12 of ___ Is a Mother, Jamie uses the foundations of the Intercultural Conflict Style (ICS) assessment with PV and Brett (married and co-parenting a 4.5-year-old) to illustrate how it can help us understand our authentic approach to communication and addressing conflict—key elements of any family’s culture. Some of the talking points we go over in this episode include:A set of questions to consider to ground into our respective cultural beliefs. How someone might perceive themselves vs. how others may perceive them depending on their communication styles.The way we naturally react to conflict is rooted in our cultural norms and upbringing. Our individual culture and conflict style balances with the style of our partners’ to guide how we parent our children and define our core family’s culture. How Jamie uses the ICS assessment to help organizations establish an inclusive culture by understanding everyone’s unique and individual communication and conflict resolution styles.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, please take a screenshot of the episode to post and link in your stories and tag us! Follow, rate, and review the podcast, and tell us your key takeaways. If there are topics you would like us to discuss in a future episode, please let us know. Thanks for being part of our inner circle and an important part of this community. Go call your best friend!CONNECT WITH US:@_IsAMotherpodcast on InstagramWork with Jamie! LINKS MENTIONED IN / RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:Intercultural Conflict Style AssessmentDr. Becky’s (parenting coach & clinical psychologist) TED talk on connection, modeling, and repair in parentingTrauma psychologist Dr. Mariel Buqué’s book Break The Cycle: A Guide to Healing Intergenerational TraumaEpisode 10 Financial Planning is a Mother | www.karenholloway.nm.com