FRIDAY FAVES: is a lack of self love sabotaging your finances?

Step into my time machine: for this week's Friday Fave we're going all the way back to 2023 to hear a fave ep about the link between a lack of self love and financial self sabotage, WOOF! Buckle up, it's a juicy one. When we exist in a society that conditions us (especially women and marginalised groups) to constantly pursue "better" versions of ourselves, our finances often suffer as a result. I share how my own struggles with self-esteem in my teens and early twenties led to financial leakage, and how therapy and self-awareness have transformed my relationship with both myself and my money. Highlights: Emotional Spending Cycles: How using shopping as a coping mechanism creates a vicious cycle of temporary highs followed by financial regret Self-Sabotage Patterns: Why we unconsciously derail our own financial progress when operating from a place of low self-worth The "Worthiness" Factor: How feeling undeserving can prevent you from saving, negotiating better pay, or charging what you're worth Identity-Based Purchasing: The danger of buying things to "become" someone else rather than to enhance who you already are The Awareness Solution: Practical first steps to notice the connection between your self-esteem and spending habits What you'll learn: The 7 specific ways low self-love sabotages your financial confidence How to identify when you're spending to fill emotional gaps rather than actual needs Why struggling financially might feel like your "comfort zone" (and how to break free) The psychological difference between healthy vs. toxic identity-based purchasing Simple reflection practices to begin healing your relationship with both yourself and your money If you're stuck in a cycle of taking one step forward and two steps back with your finances, this episode will help you understand the underlying self-worth issues that might be holding you back. Where to find The Broke Generation Website: https://thebrokegeneration.com/?v=518f4a738816 Instagram: https://instagram.com/the.brokegeneration TikTok: @the.brokegeneration  Order my book, Good with Money! Sign up to The Glue: the weekly money psychology and mindset newsletter www.thebrokegeneration.com/subscribe, where you’ll also get your free Financial Values workbook.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.