From Troubled Youth to Military Leader

Real leadership often rises from unlikely beginnings. In this episode of Delusional!, Michelle Coyle connects with Amber Houghton, Owner of Elite Performance Strategies, who shares the story of moving from a troubled youth into one of the most respected leadership roles in the United States military. Through structure, accountability, and a commitment to growth, she rose through the ranks to become part of the top one percent of enlisted leaders.  Amber reflects on the difference between authority and real leadership, and explains how military lessons like mission clarity, personal responsibility, and leading through uncertainty translate directly to business, investing, and entrepreneurship.Lasting leadership begins with self‑mastery and the courage to hold yourself to a higher standard. Lean in and listen closely to this episode of From Troubled Youth to Military Leader.  Enjoy the podcast? Subscribe and leave a 5-star review!Michelle Coyle is a business expert, investor, and transformational trainer with over 20 years of entrepreneurial experience. She believes you don’t have to choose between success and well-being because you can have both. With a mix of honesty, humor, and heart, Michelle guides leaders to step into who they really are and grow from that place. She’s the founder of BGSD Strategies and the Political Business Institute, where she supports people who want to make a real difference without losing themselves in the process. Michelle holds an MBA from Dartmouth and is trained in tools like NLP, Hypnosis, and Emotional Release to help others break free from what’s holding them back and create the life they know they’re meant for.Connect with Michelle Coyle:Website: https://delusionaluniverse.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelletoscale/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michelletoscale/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michellelaree Join The Delusional! Movement Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1VK6wf6Fxq/Amber Houghton is the Owner of Elite Performance Strategies and an enterprise operations executive with over 30 years of experience leading high-risk, mission-critical organizations. Rising from a troubled youth to a respected military leader, Amber has directed complex operations supporting thousands of personnel and billions in strategic assets. She is known for stabilizing organizations under pressure, strengthening accountability, and building systems that deliver reliability in zero-failure environments. Through Elite Performance Strategies, Amber translates hard-earned leadership lessons into practical frameworks for disciplined execution, resilience, and high performance. Connect with Amber Houghton:FB: https://www.facebook.com/Amber.Leigh.Houghton/    LI: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amberhoughton/X: https://x.com/Coach_AHoughton    Elite Performance StrategiesFB: https://www.facebook.com/ElitePerformanceStrategies/       <