Limerence, Romantic Longing & Abstinence with Amanda McCracken

Understanding Limerence: Insights with Amanda McCrackenIn this episode of the Silver Disobedience Perception Dynamics podcast, host Dian Griesel explores the concept of limerence with guest Amanda McCracken. They discuss the psychological state of intense infatuation, the difference between love and limerence, and the impact of these feelings on one's relationships. Amanda shares her personal experiences and journey of abstinence, as well as her thoughts on how self-worth and societal messages affect dating behaviors. They delve into the cultural shifts surrounding hookup culture, the complexities of human relationships, and the importance of believing in one's worthiness for love. Amanda's forthcoming book, 'When Longing Becomes Your Lover,' is discussed, focusing on breaking free from patterns of infatuation and finding authentic love.Amanda's Website: https://www.amandajmccracken.com/Book: https://amzn.to/3M3qVvWPlease SUBSCRIBE!I’m Dian Griesel and in November of 2017 I began blogging as @SilverDisobedience on my website and @SilverDisobedience on ⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠Facebook⁠ and @DianGriesel ⁠X⁠ Career-wise, I am a perception analyst, counselor, hypnotherapist, author of 16 books and a Wilhelmina model. For 30 years, via owning an investor & public relations firm, while being in private practice, I have helped my clients to achieve greater understanding as to how perceptions impact everything we do whether personally or professionally. A couple of years ago I added a podcast. Episodes are unscripted, with plenty of no-holds-barred revelations from fascinating, accomplished guests living diverse lives. Intimate stories about work, play, psychology, relationships, pop culture, trends, B.S. + more are unpacked through thought-provoking questions that spark honest revelations, pivotal moments, and unguarded insights — stunning even the boldest guests with their own “aha” truths. ✨🔗 YouTube Channel Spotify i❤️podcasts 🍎podcastsLinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/diangriesel/⁠ Show Run: 00:00 Introduction to Limerence01:47 Amanda McCracken's Journey with Limerence02:44 Defining Limerence and Its Impact04:24 The Role of Uncertainty in Limerence06:12 Navigating Ghosting and Rejection09:50 Personal Stories and Reflections13:02 The Influence of Culture and Society19:36 Abstinence and Dating Challenges27:07 Internet Connection Issues28:09 Defining Limerence in Early Dating28:47 Personal Experiences with Limerence31:34 The Impact of a College Relationship33:21 Writing and Researching Limerence36:37 Patterns in Attraction40:31 Advice for Future Generations42:56 Book Details and Final Thoughts