Presence vs. Purpose: What Do Our Kids Really Need from Us?

In this episode, I’m getting deeply personal about something so many of us carry but rarely talk about: mom guilt. After speaking at the Mom 2.0 Summit and leaving home with a sick child, I found myself questioning everything—again. Can I be a present, loving mom and still pursue the work that lights me up?  I explore the tension between purpose and presence, and how we can reframe guilt as a sign of how deeply we care—not proof that we’re failing. I also dive into the concept of the “good-enough mother,” the power of modeling joy, and why slowing down doesn’t mean giving up. If you’ve ever felt torn between who you are and who you’re becoming, this episode is for you. I discuss:  Why mom guilt isn’t always a red flag—it’s often a sign of growth and purpose. How modeling joy and ambition can actually strengthen your child’s emotional development. What it means to embrace shifting seasons in motherhood without losing yourself. We’d like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Welcome and Why This Episode Matters 01:20 – Guilt, Motherhood, and the Summit 03:21 – Speaking to Moms as Whole People 04:21 – The Return of Finding Joy 05:08 – The Good Enough Mother 06:18 – Purpose Beyond Motherhood 07:46 – When Purpose Feels Out of Reach 08:36 – Modeling Fulfillment for Our Kids 10:20 – Wholeness is the Legacy 12:49 – Integration, Not Sacrifice Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices