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Secure, Not Superior

Episode 10 of the The Unavoidable Podcast podcast, hosted by Caitlin Childs, titled "Secure, Not Superior" was published on May 20, 2025 and runs 21 minutes.

May 20, 2025 ·21m · The Unavoidable Podcast

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In this episode, I’m joined by my brother Elliott (yes, the Elliott — the one with the dry humor and the sneaky one-liners) to talk about something we’ve both wrestled with in different ways: how to be confident and humble, especially when it comes to relationships. We unpack what real confidence looks like — not the loud, look-at-me kind, but the grounded, quiet strength that makes space for others. We also talk about why humility doesn’t mean shrinking back or pretending you don’t have some...

In this episode, I’m joined by my brother Elliott (yes, the Elliott — the one with the dry humor and the sneaky one-liners) to talk about something we’ve both wrestled with in different ways: how to be confident and humble, especially when it comes to relationships.

We unpack what real confidence looks like — not the loud, look-at-me kind, but the grounded, quiet strength that makes space for others. We also talk about why humility doesn’t mean shrinking back or pretending you don’t have something to offer. Somewhere in the middle is the sweet spot: being secure in who you are without making it all about you.

There are stories, some sibling banter (obviously), and honest reflections on how our personalities shape the way we show up in relationships — for better or worse. If you've ever struggled to find the balance between being bold and being gracious or wondered how to build relationships that aren't fueled by ego or insecurity, this one’s for you.

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