The ONE Thing You Must Have In Any Relationship With Dr. Henry Cloud

This is a deeply personal episode as John and I chat with a world-renowned expert about the ONE thing all relationships need: TRUST. Dr. Henry Cloud is a clinical psychologist, beloved by millions for his New York Times’  bestselling books on boundaries and trust.  You may know that John and I were separated for a time in our marriage, and the trust we had was broken. So, how did we repair it? Can trust always be rebuilt? How do you know when it’s time to walk away?  Today, we’re talking about it.  Dr. Cloud, John, and I discuss why trust is the most important aspect of any relationship, a framework of questions we can use to know who to trust and how to build it, what to do when trust has been broken, and knowing when to walk away.  Life Happens. Let’s Talk About It.  Listen in to learn more :  (00:30 - 01:56) Improving Relationships Through Proactive Communication (06:00 - 06:54) How The Podcast Is Bringing People Together (10:03 - 10:54) Building Trust in Relationships (17:01 - 18:26) Attunement and Motive in Relationships (37:01 - 37:29) Work Life Balance Discussion In this episode, we are diving into why “believing the best” and “trusting until there’s a reason not to” aren’t the best ways to approach trust, the relationship between our motives and trust, how forgiveness and trust are related but different, and why being careless is a good thing when it comes to trust.  Remember to subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts to hear what we’re talking about each week… RESOURCES:  https://www.drcloud.com/ Dr. Henry Cloud’s website: https://www.boundaries.me/ Dr. Cloud’s book on Trust:  https://www.drcloud.com/books/trust  LINK TO PAULA’S NEWSLETTER https://www.paulafarisofficial.com/newsletter FOLLOW PAULA ON INSTAGRAM   https://www.instagram.com/paulafaris/?hl=en LINK TO CARRY’S NEWSLETTER  https://carrymedia.com/the-carry-all/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices