The Reason We Beat Ourselves Up… (2198)

Self-criticism that sharpens into strength. In this episode, Kevin and Alan share why self-criticism can either fuel your growth or hold you back. Discover how to find the right balance of feedback, raise your standards without crushing yourself, and turn tough moments into powerful lessons. Don’t miss the perspective shift that could change the way you talk to yourself.Learn more about:🎙️ If you want to start, grow, scale, or monetize your podcast? Join our “Next Level Podcast Accelerator” – Round 20 – Starting October 7th. Use promocode: NLULISTENER, for 30% off - https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/group-coaching/📚 Think deeper, grow faster. Join our “Next Level Book Club”  – Every Saturday –https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJMkcuiupjIqE9QlkptiKDQykRtKyFB5Jbhc📅 One hour, endless breakthroughs. Join the “Monthly Masterclass” #46: “The Exact Step By Step Process to Create Your Own System of Success” - https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/f0lzaxieRhKXqMFxmwIfZA#/registration_____________________NLU is not just a podcast; it’s a gateway to a wealth of resources designed to help you achieve your goals and dreams. From our Next Level Dreamliner to our Group Coaching, we offer a variety of tools and communities to support your personal development journey.For more information, check out our website and socials using the links below. 👇Website 💻  http://www.nextleveluniverse.comInstagram 📷Kevin: https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid/Alan: https://www.instagram.com/alazaros88/Facebook ✍Alan: https://www.facebook.com/alan.lazarosKevin: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90/Email 💬[email protected]@nextleveluniverse.comLinkedIn ✍Kevin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-palmieri-5b7736160/Alan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanlazarosllc/_______________________Show notes:(3:11) Constructive feedback Vs. Rumination(6:20) Luck, skill, and responsibility(9:19) Finding the accurate middle ground(13:55) Feedback depends on the person(19:09) High standards and self-comparison(25:05) Mental maps and self-awareness(27:07) Too much or too little feedback(30:31) OutroSend a text to Kevin and Alan! 🎙️ Hosted by Kevin Palmieri and Alan LazarosNext Level University is a top-ranked daily podcast for dream chasers and self-improvement lovers. With over 2,100 episodes, we help you level up in life, love, health, and wealth one day at a time. Subscribe for real, honest, no-fluff growth every single day.