Why People Aren_t Dating

Millions of single people. Endless apps designed to connect them. And yet, fewer couples, fewer dates, and less intimacy than any generation in modern history. Why?In this episode, I uncover the real reasons people have stopped dating — and it is not just about phones or fear. The cost of a single date has risen 40% since 2019. One in three young adults now lives with parents, making privacy nearly impossible. Dating apps have gamified romance, turning human connection into a swipe that takes less than a second. But beneath the surface, something deeper is happening: a quiet epidemic of loneliness that has been building for twenty years. Based on sociological studies, economic data, and interviews with relationship experts, this episode reveals why the apps designed to bring people together are driving them apart. Turn down the lights, put on your headphones, and press play — because the problem is not you. The problem is the system.