“Almost” Black Man

Yeeeerrr. We’ve made it through 2022 and now it’s time to end the second season, but don’t worry I’ll be back soon with some fresh ideas and a few more changes. Tune in to find out more as well as a brief summary of this year. Enjoy!!

Yeeerrr. In this episode I go over my recent struggles with Impostor Syndrome as I take on a new position in my career and how I am getting through it. Have you ever felt like you weren’t qualified for a position or situation you were in? Enjoy!

Yeeeeer. In this episode I go over some Do’s and Don’ts I’ve learned over the years when it comes to uplifting and celebrating people and things. Do you have any of the bad habits mentioned? Do you give people their “flowers”? Enjoy!!

Yeeeerr. In this episode I get a little out of character and talk my sh!t, but for a very valid reason. This episode is about when people doubt your ability to succeed due to their own insecurities and lack of faith in themselves. When this happens, it’s only one thing you need to explain to your doubters, IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU DOES NOT MEAN IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME. Overcome and prove them wrong! Enjoy!

Yeeeer. In this episode I speak on how we all have the power to change the world, but it starts within us. Are you trying to make a difference? Are you leading by example?? Enjoy!

Yeeeer. In this episode I give some words of wisdom and encouragement to those who are facing a lot pressure and insecurities as young adults. It can feel like a lot to live up to at the moment, but let me just remind you, WE ARE YOUNG. Life is not going to be remotely close to perfect for some time and that’s ok! Enjoy!

Yeeeer. In this episode channel my inner Pastor and talk about a revelation I had recently about accepting what comes with what we ask/pray for. We must be aware of the Pros AND Cons of what we choose to be a part of. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerr. In this episode I channel my inner Coach, and talk about the significance of practice. Practice doesn’t just apply to sports or games, there are plenty of situations we can practice for to make us better performers on our lives, even relationships. What’s something you can practice to make you “play” better? Enjoy!!

Yeeeer. In this episode I talk about sacrifice, and some things I’m considering sacrificing in the near future as I change my goals for the upcoming year. I give my opinion on the “right and wrong” of sacrifice, and even some unasked for relationship voice lol. Enjoy!

Yeeeerrr. A lot of people think that I don’t get embarrassed because of my personality, but trust me, I do just like everyone else. So here’s a story of one of the most embarrassing things that has ever happened to me 😂. Enjoy!

Yeeeer. In this episode I go over Support, and what it looks like to me in different ways. I also share my unique opinion on friends/family supporting your business. Do you agree?? Enjoy!!

Yeeeerr. In this episode I talk about my visit back to my home, Baltimore, MD, and what was going through my head before, during, and after my trip. I had a few revelations that will affect the way I think about where I come from and the role it plays in my identity and my purpose. Enjoy!!

Yerrrrr. In this episode, my first special guest of the season talk about how traveling, as kids and adults, has affected our mindsets. We cover traveling in the US as well as traveling internationally and it has helped to shift our thoughts about certain things. Enjoy!!

Yeeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about the way I view life as one big book that tells the story of you. All of our books have different chapters for different times of our lives, with some significant meaning. Are you aware of the chapter you are in?? Enjoy!!

Yeeerrrr. In this episode I talk about what happiness looks like to me and the values/practices I have used to stay happy throughout my life, even though things were not always perfect. It can be really challenging to stay happy these days, especially with social media making everyone’s life look like a movie, but I promise, it’s still possible! Enjoy!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about the benefits from “Moving in Silence “ as well as a situation I went through that helped me learn why I should’ve been from the start. Hopefully everyone accepts the challenge I give in this episode and accomplish a goal without telling anyone!! Enjoy!

Yeeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about being a people pleaser and how my perspective has changed from childhood to adulthood after many different experiences. From friends taking advantage to love life. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerr. In this episode I talk about the world’s most difficult sport, Effective Communicating. I go over how growing up in a black household has affected my communication as an adult, my negative experiences with communication, and the perfect analogy to help you become a better communicator today!! Enjoy!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about accepting friends, family and romantic interests for who they are, and how I’ve dealt with this in the past. When people show you the type of person they are, recognize it, accept it, and move accordingly! Enjoy!!

Yeeerrr. In this episode I talk about Self Awareness and what it, and the lack of it is, looks like. I also go over a few examples of how I wasn’t always self aware and the negative effects it had, but how I used reflection to learn my mistakes and grow. Enjoy!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I go over the concept of being proactive, controlling a situation before it happens, vs being reactive, waiting for a situation to happen to respond. I apply this concept I learned while getting my Masters to every day things like communication, dating, and even what I’m going to eat during the week. In what ways can you apply it in your life?? Enjoy!!

Yeeerrr. In this episode I go over my thoughts of being single vs being in a relationship at this current moment in my life. Being single can be so fun and free, but what about a healthy relationship? It’s Hot Boy Summer but is that what I really want deep down inside? Tune in. Enjoy!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about an observation I’ve made lately, that many people are doing things not for their own happiness but for the validation of others, strangers at that!! If you are living a “Fake Lit” life, this is for you! Stop trying to impress people and simply LIVE FOR YOU!! Enjoy!

Yeerrrr. In this episode I talk about times in my life where I felt like I was two different people/had two different personalities, and how a lot of other black men go through the same thing. Can you relate? Enjoy!!

Yeeerrr. This is the story of how I slipped up and my mother abruptly found out I that I was no longer a virgin 🤦🏾‍♂️. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I speak on one of my greatest internal conflicts as a young black man that grew up in the inner city, Should I stay and help develop the next generation or go somewhere and live a better life? Listen to my reasoning for both sides. Enjoy!

Yeeerrrr. In this episode I’m talking directly to those younger than me, and if you’re not younger than me, hopefully you can share this message to someone who is, DONT RUSH LIFE. You’ll have plenty of time to be an adult, so enjoy your childhood! I also reminisce on the days of being young and how childhood , or I should say lack of it, is in the black community. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode, I share a very simple message to those who are achieving and thriving right now, “Be Humble”. I go over my personal reasons for being humble and the reasons why I think everyone should be. Remember, what’s here today is gone tomorrow… Enjoy!

Yeeeer. In this episode I go over how practicing NOT taking things personally has allowed me to stay positive when dealing with people that are not in the best mood. I go over my experience living with my Grandmother/Mother, dealing with friends and interactions with women. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I speak on the importance of talking to your elders as young people, and how many of our problems aren’t new, they just look different. I also speak on how talking to your elders changes your view on who they are as individuals. Enjoy!!

Yeeeeerr. In this episode I talk about accountability and how I deal with it. From my experiences as a student, to how I hold my self accountable now. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerr. In this episode I tell the story of how I found out that I’m an American!! I know it sounds dumb because of course I’m American, I was born in America, but hear me out! Enjoy.

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I go over the internal conflict I’ve had about my career, try to get rich or have a comfortable lifestyle. I explain my decision and what it took to make it. Enjoy!!

Yeeerr. In this episode I talk about the importance of setting boundaries and sticking to them!! When you don’t reinforce your boundaries you betray yourself!!! Enjoy!

Yeeerr. In this episode I go off my usual program of planning an episode and just talk to y’all straight. I talk about how I fell into a small slump of discouragement over the last week, but how I was able to pull myself up with some mental maintenance. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerr. In this episode I talk about what Legacy means to me and how the word has shaped the plans for my life and the future of my family. Hopefully this makes you ask yourself, “What is my legacy and what impact am I leaving on this Earth?” Enjoy!!

Yeeeerr. In this episode I talk about what’s it’s like being one of, if not the only black person in predominantly white spaces since I’ve moved to Germany, some of the situations I’ve been in, and how it has changed my perspective on people as well as how I view myself. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I go over a big problem I see in my generation, living a “fake rich” lifestyle and falling victim to distractions over discipline. I encourage those working hard to continue to work until they receive the rewards of their actions, and even one method I use to stay on track. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerrr. I wanted to switch it up for y’all and introduce a potential new segment on the podcast called “Story Time”, where I’ll be recalling funny stories from my life that I can never forget. I’ve always enjoyed telling stories of my life, and most people do too, so hopefully y’all are entertained! Enjoy this story of why my grandfather shouldn’t have fell asleep babysitting me and my cousin! 😂

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about the difference between Reputation and Character, and how I have struggled with not having a reputation as I moved to a new country. I also go over the importance of good character, especially in the age of social media. Enjoy!

Yeeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about what having “fun” has looked like from my perspective growing up in the black community and how my view has changed since living somewhere with a completely different culture. I talk about how now I’m doing “White people stuff” and I genuinely enjoy my free time! Hopefully there’s something you can take from this episode. Enjoy!!

Yeeerrr. In this episode I talk about the difference between being Alone and Lonely. I go over my experiences being alone as I traveled throughout Europe in 2019 and what I’ve gone through since moving here in 2020 to combat loneliness. Enjoy!

Yeeerr. In this episode I talk about my experiences with religion from growing up in a black Christian household to find my own path as a young man. I go over my thoughts, opinions and struggles with spirituality throughout my life, and where I am today. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerrr. In this episode I talk about “decompressing” or taking mental and physical breaks from life’s constant a** whoopings. I go over the negative connotations that come with men relaxing and my own experience with decompressing and combating my depressive episode. Enjoy!!

Yeeeeeerrr. In today’s episode I go over balance and the role it played in my life, starting from my first relationship. I explain the method I use to evaluate whether I’m being too extreme with things like emotions, selflessness and even how I live day to day. Hopefully you can apply the Karon Balance scale to your life in some way. Enjoy!

Yeeeerr. Since the holiday of Love is approaching, in this episode I talk about Romantic Love and my experience with it throughout my life. From puppy love to learning about love as a black young man in this era. Enjoy!

Yeeerrr. In this episode I talk about the difference between Discipline and Motivation, and how lack of Discipline is the goal killer, not lack of Motivation. If you feel like there’s something you really want to do, but you just don’t feel the motivation to start, listen to this. Enjoy!!

Yeeeerrrr! In this episode I talk about Code Switching, or as we say in the black community “Talking White” , and my experience with it as a black young man. Let me know if you can relate and what you’ve experienced when you switch your voice in different environments. Enjoy!!

Yeeeer. In this episode I answered some questions for those always asking what life is like living in Germany. I covered everything asked, from food to Interracial Dating 👀. If you’ve ever wondered what it was like, tune in and hopefully some of your questions get answered as well.

Yeerrrr. In this episode I go over the light and dark side of “Leveling Up” that most people forget to talk about in their posts on IG. It ain’t always easy taking a step forward in life and can often feel like you’re taking two steps back, but you gotta get through the initial stage of being uncomfortable to really grow! Enjoy!