An Unfiltered Life

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An Unfiltered Life

Welcome to ‘An Unfiltered Life’! Join Melissa on a transformative journey through motherhood, female entrepreneurship, personal development, and divorce recovery. Expect raw, heartfelt stories, candid conversations, and inspiration for your healing journey. Perfect for anyone navigating the messy, beautiful middle of life.

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    The Cult Story I’m Finally Telling

    In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa shares one of the hardest stories from her past: the time she found herself inside a controlling church environment after a powerful faith awakening.She talks about loneliness, spiritual manipulation, being called a witch, learning to question authority, and the heartbreaking realization that love, faith, and control can sometimes get tangled together.This is a tender, honest episode for anyone who has ever had to leave a group, a belief system, a relationship, or a version of themselves in order to finally hear their own voice again.Melissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.Join the Magnetic Content Club:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/about⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Melissa:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.melissalahti.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisible⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown⁠⁠⁠⁠

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    Sourdough, Bathtubs & the Fear of Being Rejected

    In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa talks about thunderstorms, sourdough starters, clawfoot bathtubs, kids being kids, and the strange little adventures that make life feel alive again.But underneath the funny stories is a deeper realization: selling products never felt personal, but selling coaching, photography, and her own creative gifts does. Melissa opens up about ADHD, rejection sensitivity, self-promotion, and the fear that if people don’t say yes, it might mean something about her.This is an honest, funny, real-time reflection on learning to take the risk anyway.If this episode spoke to you, send it to a woman who’s overthinking her next move. And if you’re building a business and want help knowing what to post, come join us inside Magnetic Content Club.If you want to hear a story of how I wish our food truck had gone - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JagDWXnfIwo5paGiFxitH?si=sn87yBbwTlK1ACvYSq5itwCurious about LifeVantage and Biohacking? This website explains the science behind what we have - www.freedomleaders.lifeThis is my website - as always reach out if you have any questions! https://familyfreedominc.lifevantage.com/us-enMelissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.Join the Magnetic Content Club:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/about⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Melissa:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.melissalahti.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisible⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown⁠⁠⁠

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    I’m Learning to Stand Up for Myself

    This week, Melissa opens up about what healing really looks like after years of people-pleasing, peacekeeping, and survival mode.From navigating difficult relationships with her children, to unpacking old religious conditioning, to learning how to set boundaries and finally protect herself, this episode is an honest look at growth in real time.She shares how childhood patterns shaped the way she handled conflict, why she’s done consuming content that keeps her stuck in pain, and how she’s intentionally shifting toward joy, creativity, business, and building a beautiful life in the present.This episode is raw, deeply personal, and full of powerful reflections on self-respect, motherhood, healing, and choosing what gets your energy.Melissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.Join the Magnetic Content Club:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/about⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Melissa:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.melissalahti.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisible⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown⁠⁠

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    You Don’t Have to Pick the Perfect Business

    What if the business you start today doesn’t need to be your forever business?In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa shares the real story of her entrepreneurial journey - from knocking on doors as a kid to make Tootsie Roll money, to dumpster diving and flipping finds, running a food truck, building a seven-figure network marketing business, and now leading the Magnetic Content Club.This is an honest, empowering conversation about business, courage, learning by doing, and why no experience is ever wasted. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed trying to choose the “right” business idea, this episode will remind you that every step teaches you something valuable.Because entrepreneurship isn’t about getting it perfect.It’s about getting in motion.If this episode spoke to you, send it to a woman who’s overthinking her next move. And if you’re building a business and want help knowing what to post, come join us inside Magnetic Content Club.If you want to hear a story of how I wish our food truck had gone - https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JagDWXnfIwo5paGiFxitH?si=sn87yBbwTlK1ACvYSq5itwCurious about LifeVantage and Biohacking? This website explains the science behind what we have - www.freedomleaders.lifeThis is my website - as always reach out if you have any questions! https://familyfreedominc.lifevantage.com/us-enMelissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.Join the Magnetic Content Club:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/about⁠⁠⁠⁠Connect with Melissa:⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.melissalahti.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisible⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown⁠⁠

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    The Hidden Cost of Being “The Strong One”

    So many women have been praised their entire lives for being strong.But what happens when being “the strong one” starts to break your nervous system?In this deeply honest episode, Melissa shares her personal journey through chronic stress, raising six kids, living in survival mode, and eventually discovering how nervous system regulation changed everything.From unexpected weight loss during a year of off-grid travel to the realization that stress-not discipline-was driving her health struggles, Melissa explores how trauma, hyper-responsibility, and the pressure to hold everything together can drain our emotional and physical batteries.She also shares simple practices that helped her begin healing: sunlight, grounding, movement, honest conversations, and learning to ask for help.If you've ever felt like you're constantly on edge, exhausted from holding everything together, or afraid to admit you need support, this episode will feel like a conversation with a friend who truly gets it.Because healing your nervous system isn't about becoming weaker.It's about finally letting yourself stop surviving and start living.If you enjoyed this episode, please:⭐ Follow the podcast⭐ Share it with a friend who might need it⭐ Leave a review so more people can find these conversationsYour story matters - and sometimes hearing someone else's helps us understand our own.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Melissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.Join the Magnetic Content Club:⁠⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/about⁠⁠⁠Connect with Melissa:⁠⁠⁠https://www.melissalahti.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisible⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown⁠ ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown⁠

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    Trusting Your Intuition, Healing Conversations & Learning When to Rest

    Sometimes the most productive thing you can do… is absolutely nothing.In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa shares a deeply personal reflection after taking a full day of rest following an emotional weekend at an intuition workshop. From learning to trust her inner voice to exploring conversations about grief, spiritual experiences, and healing family relationships, this episode dives into the messy middle of personal growth.Melissa talks openly about exhaustion, intuition, grief, motherhood, emotional accountability, and the journey of learning to regulate your nervous system.If you've ever wondered whether you should trust your gut, struggled with burnout, or tried to navigate complicated family relationships while still growing as a person, this episode will resonate.Sometimes the greatest growth comes from slowing down long enough to listen.If you enjoyed this episode, please:⭐ Follow the podcast⭐ Share it with a friend who might need it⭐ Leave a review so more people can find these conversationsYour story matters - and sometimes hearing someone else's helps us understand our own.⁠⁠⁠Melissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.Join the Magnetic Content Club:⁠⁠https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/about⁠⁠Connect with Melissa:⁠⁠https://www.melissalahti.com⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisible⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown⁠

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    You Can’t Do It All (And Maybe You’re Not Supposed To)

    In this raw, unedited-feeling episode, Melissa reflects on motherhood, entrepreneurship, burnout, and the dangerous myth that women should be able to “do it all.”From building businesses for 20 years to homeschooling six kids, navigating divorce, regret, spoon theory, jealousy, mom guilt, and learning emotional capacity the hard way - this one is vulnerable.We talk:Why comparing yourself to “Superwoman” is toxicThe spoon theory and emotional limitsWhy burnout turns women into martyrsRegret, overcorrecting, and parenting grown kidsFriendship, independence, and healingThis is for the woman who’s exhausted from trying to be everything.You’re not weak.You just might be human.If this episode hit home:💬 Share it with a mom friend who needs to hear this.⭐ Leave a review if this podcast feels like therapy in your earbuds.💛 Join Magnetic Content Club if you’re ready to build something aligned — without burning your life down to do it.⁠Melissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.Join the Magnetic Content Club:⁠https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/about⁠Connect with Melissa:Website: ⁠https://www.melissalahti.com⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisible⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown

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    Dressing Your Truth: Why Some of Us Learned to Hide (And How to Start Shining Again)

    This episode comes with a gentle content note. If you usually listen around little ears, you may want to save this one for later.Melissa shares a deeply personal reflection on why many women dim themselves - through clothing, posture, personality, or even online presence. From childhood experiences that shaped her relationship with attention… to healing, remarriage, and unexpectedly gaining 700 followers from a dance video… this conversation is about visibility.If you’ve ever felt “too much,” or learned to hide for safety, this episode will feel like sitting across from a friend who gets it.We talk about:• Healing from unwanted attention• Divorce, safety, and identity rebuilding• Authenticity as a frequency people feel• Dressing Your Truth by Carol Tuttle https://my.liveyourtruth.com/dyt/home/• Dopamine dressing• Personal branding for women• Showing up online without shrinkingYou don’t have to dance on TikTok.But you do deserve to shine in your own way.Here is the link for Johnny Was, now I don't love everything - but some of it - I neeeeeeeed https://www.johnnywas.com/Melissa Lahti is an entrepreneur, podcaster, and creative mentor who helps women build businesses rooted in authenticity. After years of leadership in the network marketing industry, she now teaches women how to create magnetic content, grow an audience, and monetize their stories online. As a mom of six, Melissa blends real life with real strategy - showing women that visibility, healing, and success can coexist.**********Join the Magnetic Content Club:https://www.skool.com/magnetic-content-club/aboutConnect with Melissa:Website: https://www.melissalahti.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@wildlyvisibleTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrownFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown

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    Hard Seasons, Honest Love & Learning to Ask for What You Need

    In this deeply honest and vulnerable episode, Melissa opens up about patterns, parenting, marriage, trauma, and the quiet cost of survival. She reflects on years of doing “what she thought she was supposed to do,” the weight many women carry in silence, and what it looks like to learn how to ask for help, rest, and real partnership.This episode explores friendship breakups, healing after divorce, remarriage to a supportive partner, the realities of motherhood and homeschooling, and the long road of repairing relationships with your children while staying accountable and compassionate with yourself.It’s raw. It’s reflective. And it’s a reminder that growth doesn’t come from perfection, but from truth, humility, and continuing to show up - even in hard seasons.

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    From Armor to Alignment: Business, Boundaries & Becoming More Me

    In this episode, I’m sharing a real-time life update that weaves together business growth, emotional healing, creativity, motherhood, and personal boundaries.I talk about what it’s been like watching Kevin fully step into his company, Frostbite Creatives, and how that shift stirred up stress I didn’t even realize I was carrying. We dive into emotional awareness, learning how to feel again after years of survival mode, and why some coping skills help us survive but eventually stop helping us thrive.I also share what’s been lighting me up lately including launching Magnetic Content Club, learning to charge for my knowledge, rethinking content creation in a way that feels sustainable, and rediscovering joy through thrifting, dressing boldly, and letting myself be seen.We end with an honest conversation about boundaries, pressure to speak on every issue online, and why I’m choosing to run in my own lane without being bullied into someone else’s calling.If you’re navigating growth, creativity, healing, or redefining freedom in this season of life, this episode is for you.+If this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend or send me a message. And if you want help creating content that actually fits your life, Magnetic Content Club is open and growing with us.https://bit.ly/4sYMgHD🎙️Hi, I’m Melissa. I’m a mom of six, a business mentor, and a lifelong creative who believes you can build income, healing, and a beautiful life at the same time. Around here, we talk honestly about money, motherhood, personal growth, and learning how to live in alignment instead of burnout. You can find more about what I do at melissalahti.com.

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    Big Changes, Bold Moves & Charging for Your Wisdom

    Big life changes are happening over here.In this episode, I’m sharing some very real behind-the-scenes updates from our life right now. My husband is officially stepping out on his own and starting his own marketing agency, which means we are now fully self-employed. It’s exciting, scary, and stretching us in all the ways.We talk about what “failure” really means, how fear shows up when you’ve lived through hard seasons before, and how we’re navigating work, marriage, kids, money, and balance in the middle of transition.I also open up about my GLP-1 journey, my commitment to being honest online, and a big personal shift for me: finally charging for my knowledge and time after years of giving everything away for free. We get into my thoughts on the coaching industry, the pressure tactics I don’t love, and why I’m choosing a simpler, more accessible way to serve women through the Magnetic Content Club.This one is chatty, reflective, hopeful, and very real. If you’re in a season of change, building something new, or learning to trust yourself again, this episode is for you.** If you want support, structure, and encouragement creating content without pressure or perfection, come join me inside the Magnetic Content Club. Even one month can change how you show up. $15 a month for life if you sign up before March! https://bit.ly/4sYMgHD👋 Short “About Me” for First-Time ListenersHi, I’m Melissa. I’m a mom of many, a creative entrepreneur, and a woman who believes you’re allowed to build a life and business that actually fits you. I talk about money, business, healing, motherhood, and the messy middle of reinventing yourself in real time. You can find more at melissalahti.com.

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    Making Money Is a Game (And It’s Time You Played It)

    If you’ve been feeling that itch to make more money, build something of your own, or finally stop asking permission to live your life - this episode is for you.In this chatty, unfiltered episode, I talk about how to think about money and business as a game, why fear of failure keeps so many women stuck, and how to spot real business opportunities hiding in plain sight. From messy kids’ rooms and co-parenting chaos to thrift stores, food trucks, network marketing, content creation, and weird ideas that just might work , we cover it all.I share stories from my own businesses (the wins and the ones I outgrew), how to know when to start small, when to pivot, and why not trying is the only real failure. We also talk about different ways to make money, what to consider before jumping in, and how to choose something that actually fits your life - not just your bank account.If you’re craving flexibility, creativity, and income without burning yourself out… this episode will light a fire.✨ What We Talk About• Why making money is a game - not a moral issue• How fear of failure keeps women stuck (and how to redefine it)• Starting small instead of waiting for the “perfect” idea• Finding business ideas in what’s missing or overflowing around you• My experience with food trucks, Etsy, thrifting, and creative businesses• Network marketing, affiliate income, and personal branding (the honest take)• Why consistency beats shiny objects every time• How content creation fits almost any business model• When to listen to advice - and when to trust your gut🔗 Mentions & Resources• Magnetic Content Club – Founding members open now• Weekly Zoom trainings + planning• Founders rate: $15/month (locked in for life)• Thursday Zoom: Monetization & strategy👉 https://buy.stripe.com/9B6dR975m3Mh4jU8zfebu00You can email me at [email protected] with any questions or find me over on fb at https://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrown👋 About Your HostIf this is your first time here, welcome. I’m Melissa Lahti. I’m a mom of many, a longtime entrepreneur, a teacher at heart, and a woman who believes life gets better when you stop waiting for permission. I’ve built and rebuilt businesses, navigated divorce and blended family life, and learned how to make money in ways that support real life, not drain it. This podcast is where I share what I’m learning about business, motherhood, creativity, healing, and making a living that actually fits the life you want.

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    Saving Money Without Shame: Frugal Living, Manifestation & Making It Work

    Saving money gives us a dopamine hit… but actually doing the things that save money? That’s where it gets real.In this episode, I share how I learned to save money when we truly had none - from paper routes and food stamps to garage sales, dumpster diving, negotiation tactics, and learning how to stretch food, fuel, and everyday life without shame.This isn’t about perfection or Pinterest frugality. It’s about letting go of ego, getting resourceful, and realizing that the best things in life really are free - or at least a whole lot cheaper than we think.If you’re in a tight season, trying to get out of debt, or just want practical, lived-in strategies that actually work for real families, this episode is for you.Next week, we’ll talk about my favorite topic of all: making money Because you can only save so much, but income has no ceiling.If this episode resonated with you, message me.Tell me what number you’re trying to get down; groceries, debt, gas, or something else and I’ll help you think through it.And make sure you’re here next week, because we’re talking about how to make money, not just save it.

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    Decentering Our Kids, Reclaiming Ourselves & Learning to Live Unfiltered Again

    Christmas break is over, the house is finally quiet, and I’m having some real realizations.In this episode, I talk candidly about what it actually means to decenter our kids - not by loving them less, but by finally including ourselves again. I share how years of motherhood, homeschooling, guilt, over-functioning, and saying yes at the expense of my nervous system slowly pushed me to the edge… and why I’m choosing a different way now.We talk mom guilt, identity loss, boundaries, content creation, social media backlash, creative courage, and what it looks like to become more self-aware instead of more self-sacrificing. If you’re a mom who loves her kids deeply but knows something has to shift so you don’t disappear in the process, this one is for you.If this episode resonated with you, please:Share it with a mom who needs permission to restSend me a message — I love hearing from youFollow along on Facebook & TikTok for daily unfiltered thoughts (Melissa Lahti Brown)Subscribe so you don’t miss what’s coming nextNew episodes drop weekly (again — we’re back on schedule 😅).

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    Christmas Eve Catch-Up: Love, Money, TikTok Controversy & a Little Life Hack

    It’s Christmas Eve, so I’m doing what I love most; jumping on for a yappy, chatty catch-up. We’re talking about why our brains choose “familiar” relationships even when they’re unhealthy, what my therapist said that absolutely rocked me, and how we can start building a new picture of what love is supposed to feel like.Then we pivot into real life: Goodwill bins (and how I’ve basically been “manifesting” through thrifting for 20 years), the financial whiplash of last year vs. this year, and what it’s like watching a “controversial” video blow up when you’re usually the encouraging, uplifting girl.I also share a personal update on tirzepatide (30 pounds down + the biggest surprise benefit), a kid update (driver’s permit?!), and my favorite Christmas storage tip that will make next December feel like you got a present from your past self.Merry Christmas, friend. Let’s keep healing, keep shining, and stop letting the “shoulds” steal the magic.TikTok: @melissalahtibrownWebsite: melissalahti.com Join Fridays referral code REFPGX9LW $120 off!!app.joinfridays.com

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    Dating After Divorce: How I Found My Best Friend

    Today is a happier one. Life update first… and then I’m telling you the real story of dating after divorce, what I worked on, what I looked for, what I avoided, and how I ended up remarried to a man who calms my nervous system.In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa shares a real-life look at dating after divorce - from the messy brain chemistry, to Facebook Dating, to the moment she realized safe love feels “boring” compared to a trauma rollercoaster. She breaks down what she focused on before dating (attachment style, masculine/feminine dynamics, safety, patterns), how she vetted men, and how she ended up marrying Kevin; a steady, self-aware man who shows up as a giver and partner. If you’re divorced, separated, or healing from a painful relationship, this episode is a reminder that peace can be real and love can feel like home.If this hit you, send it to a friend who’s dating after divorce - or who’s afraid to try again. And if you’re rebuilding your life right now, I’m cheering for you. Come hang with me on socials and on the next episode.

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    Patriarchy, Tarot & The Holy Spirit: My Unfiltered Deconstruction Story

    Melissa finally says out loud what’s been brewing for years: why she no longer trusts “church as usual,” how she still deeply loves God, and what happened the night the Death card showed up for her - twice.In this raw, unfiltered episode, Melissa shares the story she’s been nervous to tell: her journey out of traditional church culture and into a more expansive, Spirit-led faith.She opens up about being “a good little Christian soldier” for years; Bible studies, leadership, pastors as friends - while quietly wrestling with questions about patriarchy, power, fear-based teaching, and who gets to speak for God. After walking through divorce, abandonment from church community, and deep disillusionment, Melissa started studying, listening, and paying attention to her own inner knowing.You’ll hear how a book (The Dance of the Dissident Daughter by Sue Monk Kidd), midlife awakening, and a girls’ trip with tarot cards all collided to crack something open. Melissa talks about psychic gifts, sensing illness in other people, cord-cutting with her ex, and why she now believes intention matters more than religious labels.If you’ve ever secretly wondered, “Am I losing my faith or just losing my fear?” this conversation will feel like a permission slip. You don’t have to choose between loving God and telling the truth about your experience.If you want to hang out with me more you can find me at www.melissalahti.comhttps://www.facebook.com/melissalahtibrownhttps://www.tiktok.com/@melissalahtibrown

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    Finding Real-Life Mentors (Without Saying “Will You Be My Mentor?”)

    What if the mentors you’ve been praying for are actually the women already standing in your kitchen, at your church, or in your tiny hometown, you're just not asking the right way?You might’ve clicked in expecting a deep dive into my recent spiritual journey, and that episode is coming. But with my daughter home recovering from tonsil surgery and roaming the basement where I record, I needed a topic I could talk about without censoring myself mid-sentence. So today, we’re talking about something that’s shaped almost every good thing in my life: mentorship.In this episode, I share how I’ve found mentors in unlikely places, a cowgirl cousin with horses and dogs, a small-town trapper, food truck friends, pastors, older moms, and now an intuition teacher who reminds me of the woman who once made me feel deeply seen. We’ll unpack why asking, “Will you be my mentor?” often freaks people out, what to say instead, and how to offer help in a way that opens doors instead of draining people.We’ll also talk about the ego traps on both sides: the “I don’t need anyone” ego and the “I’m not worthy of asking for help” ego. I’ll share stories about trusting your own inner guidance (and the Holy Spirit), navigating imperfect mentors, and why you should probably stop expecting one person to mentor every area of your life. By the end, you’ll see how to turn real humans- not just internet gurus - into teachers, and how you might already be someone else’s mentor without realizing it.🔗 Want more from me; coaching, resources, and all the things? Visit MelissaLahti.comWhy I had to postpone the “big spiritual episode” and what that says about needing privacy to process deep stuffThe simple mindset shift that makes people want to teach you (without ever asking, “Will you be my mentor?”)How helping clean up after a class turned into a brand-new mentor and a lunch dateTwo sneaky forms of ego that block mentorship: “I don’t need help” vs. “I’m not worthy of help”Learning from imperfect people—taking their wisdom without adopting their whole lifeThe pastor story: when mentorship crosses into control and how to come back to your own inner guidanceHow I hunted down small-town mentors for my kids (sewing, painting, music… and even a professional trapper)Why receiving generously (yes, even bags of random hand-me-down clothes) can actually invite more provisionThe wild DMs with a 200k-follower creator who wasn’t making any money—and how teaching her will level up my skillsPractical scripts you can use to ask questions without sounding judgy or like you’re attacking someone’s choices

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    Tonsil Surgery, Co-Parenting & Clothing-Optional Hot Springs

    It’s the first Monday of Thanksgiving break and I’m coming to you from the basement in a towel and a moo-moo, giving a real-time life update. From my daughter’s tonsil surgery and autoimmune history, to my 12-year-old wanting to spend more time at his dad’s, to rethinking what Thanksgiving and Christmas actually look like after last year’s disaster… we’re going there. If you’re a mom feeling the holiday pressure, co-parenting chaos, or just craving nachos instead of turkey, this one’s for you.In this episode, I invite you into a very real Monday morning of Thanksgiving break: hair in a towel, cozy moo-moo, kids still asleep upstairs, and a daughter scheduled for tonsil surgery this afternoon.We talk about:Why school holidays feel so different now that I’m not homeschoolingHow I’m supporting my 17-year-old through tonsil surgery (homeopathy, collagen, AO scans, etc.)My own history with Epstein-Barr and what I believe about autoimmune issues and childhood traumaThe spiritual journey I’ve been on quietly in the background—and why I’m finally ready to share more next weekThe heartbreaking moment my 12-year-old asked if he could “basically just live at dad’s”The tension of wanting influence as a mom when you’re co-parenting and don’t have equal timeWhy last year’s Thanksgiving with 15 unhelpful guests was a hard no, and what we’re doing differently this yearOur new plan: pie for breakfast, fancy nachos for dinner, and a quiet family day at our favorite hot springsBig-family budgeting, secondhand couches, and how one “deal” turns into new rugs, pillows, and artThe pressure moms carry around holidays—and permission to make this season simpler and kinder to your nervous systemIf you’re someone who loves your kids fiercely, worries about screen time, carries mom guilt, or is renegotiating what holidays look like post-divorce or in a blended family, I think you’ll feel very seen here.This is An Unfiltered Life, where I share the real stuff -motherhood, business, healing, and everything in between. I’m Melissa, and if you want links, resources, or to reach me directly, head to MelissaLahti.com.

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    When ‘Being a Good Christian Wife’ Almost Broke Me: A Rant on Marriage, Church & Midlife Awakening

    ⚠️ CONTENT WARNINGThis episode includes emotional discussion of marital distress, spiritual/church-related harm, body shame, and divorce. Not recommended for kids or for anyone currently feeling very raw around these topics without support.This isn’t a cute, tidy episode. Melissa hits record while she’s still pissed off after getting a message from yet another friend in a painful marriage. She talks about church messaging that trains women to die to themselves, what “being a good wife” cost her, and how midlife and healing work blew everything open. If you’ve ever wondered how long you’re supposed to sacrifice, this rant is for you. Not kid-friendly, but very, very real.This might not be Melissa’s most “fun” episode, but it might be one of the most important.Recorded in the heat of the moment after a friend texted her about a hurting marriage, Melissa talks honestly about what so many women have lived through in Christian culture:being praised for “submitting” and “dying to self,”treating husbands like children,carrying the full weight of the home, the kids, the money,and calling it all “being a godly wife.”She shares stories from her own 23-year marriage, the ways she shoved down her needs, enabled bad behavior, and stayed “for the kids” until she finally saw the cycles clearly. She talks about midlife awakening, Healing Journey, the moment she knew nothing was going to change, and why she ultimately left for her children and for herself.You’ll also hear about:the quiet trauma of being “never enough,”how teasing and bullying get disguised as joking,why some people can’t even imagine the way you’ve been treated,the difference between avoiding conflict and actually healing,and how to start asking, “What is my one next thing to work on?” instead of trying to fix everything at once.This episode isn’t a call to divorce; it’s a call to healing, honesty, and owning your life—whether that means staying and doing the work together or choosing a completely new path.If you’re in a hard marriage, if you’ve left one, or if you love someone who’s stuck, this conversation will make you feel a little less alone.

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    Co-Sleeping, C-Sections & Six Babies: My Unfiltered Birth Story

    In this raw, story-time episode, Melissa shares her real-life journey from being told she’d likely never have kids… to co-sleeping, navigating six C-sections, and raising a house full of humans. She talks about early motherhood regrets, fighting (and not fighting) for what she wanted, discovering the truth about her copper IUD, and the judgment that can come from both doctors and crunchy mom circles. If you’ve ever questioned your birth choices or felt “not enough” as a mom, this gentle, honest conversation is for you.Key TakeawaysYou can be deeply grateful for your kids and still grieve the birth experiences you didn’t get.Co-sleeping can be a powerful nervous-system regulator for both baby and mom—and also hard to transition out of.Medical professionals don’t always give the full story; informed consent matters, especially around birth control and interventions.Your birth story doesn’t need to match anyone else’s “ideal” to be valid or beautiful.Big families are chaotic, stretching, and also wildly worth it—even if life would be logistically “easier” with fewer kids.You’re allowed to outgrow judgmental communities and rewrite your beliefs around motherhood and your body.

  22. 19

    Plant Swaps, Nose Rings & Quantum Curiosity

    This week is cozy + candid: kids’ schedules, a birthday nose piercing debate, and a weekend running free AO scans at the Pueblo Holistic Fair. We talk ecstatic dance, why “weird” usually means “I don’t get it yet,” and how pushing past comfort grows us (no skydiving required). I’m planning a listener Q&A - ask me anything: motherhood, business, frequencies, faith, creativity. Email [email protected] or DM me on socials. Colorado Springs shoutouts + an invite to the Treehouse Café plant swap!Resources/mentions:Treehouse Café (Colorado Springs) – plant swap night Ecstatic dance – sober, consent-based movement communityFree AO scan link in bio (message me “free scan”) https://aoscanstudio.com/free-demo/Have a question you want me to answer on the show?→ Email: [email protected]→ DM me on IG/TikTok/FB: @MelissaLahtiBrownAsk me about motherhood, blended family life, business/marketing, creative confidence, frequencies/AO scanning, faith, relationships, or “the messy middle.” Say if you want your name shared or kept anonymous.“Loved this chat? Two quick favors: 1) Follow/subscribe so new episodes land every Tuesday, and 2) send me your Q&A question for next week’s show—nothing’s off limits, and I’ll answer as many as I can.”

  23. 18

    The Reno Debrief: Business Clarity, Bold Faith Shifts, and 20 Pounds Down

    Parenting curveballs, mastermind highs/lows, a brave shift toward unfiltered truth - and the tiny choices that change everything.This week is raw and real. I share a vulnerable parenting moment after a call from my son’s school, how we’re navigating language, kindness, and accountability at home, and why I’m grateful the right adult was there to guide him. Then I take you inside our Reno trip, what worked, what felt off, and the unexpected clarity it gave me about business, friendships, and this show.We talk bravery, authenticity, and the cost of being seen; my first Marconi energy session (yes, I cried); starting EMDR with a new therapist (and the Halloween “furry” joke I could not resist); and the long overnight drive home with a GLP-1 dose change, 20 pounds down in two months, and a whole lot of feelings. Also: all-you-can-eat sushi, e-bikes as wedding gifts, DIY Lorax trees, and the pumpkin dinner you’ll want on repeat.Content note: This episode includes a discussion about loaded/derogatory language, personal health decisions (vaccines/antibiotics/GLP-1), faith deconstruction, and trauma. Please listen with care.Resources & Mentions GLP-1 provider: Your referral linkREFPGX9LW (save $60) → www.joinfridays.com Aipas e-bikes we ride → https://aipasbike.com/?ref=MELISSABROWN“Pumpkin Stuffed with Everything Good” (sausage/cheese/breadcrumbs) recipe →https://www.mynameissnickerdoodle.com/stuffed-pumpkin/Photographer in Reno (Kevin’s Niece) →https://www.instagram.com/hopelouisephotography/The Millionaire Intensivehttps://xz662.isrefer.com/go/mit/melissabrown/If this helped, follow/subscribe to An Unfiltered Life and leave a quick review—it truly helps.

  24. 17

    The Loneliest Highway: Hot Springs, Highways & Heart-to-Hearts

    Join Melissa and Kevin on their unfiltered road trip from Colorado to Reno - complete with hot springs, fossils, rock shops, ancient petroglyphs, and a few hilarious detours.In this storytelling-style episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa shares her reflections on freedom, creativity, and finding calm in the chaos. From sneaking bikes into hotel rooms and discovering roadside fossils to exploring Lake Tahoe and learning how to make business a write-off, it’s a mix of humor, heart, and adventure on the open road.👉 Follow Melissa on Instagram at @melissalahtibrown for photos and videos from this trip, and share this episode with a friend who needs a reminder that business and joy can absolutely coexist.Dewey's Restaurant and Bar (Moab, UT): deweysmoab.com Dewey's Restaurant and Bar+1Hickison Petroglyph Recreation Area (Nevada): BLM site 🪞 Timestamps / Outline:0:00 – Recording from the car: the start of something different1:30 – Spontaneous detour to Penny Hot Springs7:45 – Hanging Her Story flyers & finding elk in Colorado11:30 – Golden Hour in Arches National Park & the pinhole camera moment18:15 – Moab memories: chimichurri chicken, fossils & sneaky bikes26:00 – Kevin’s childlike joy at the rock shop & art inspiration33:45 – Crossing into Nevada: the loneliest highway adventure41:20 – Desert treasures, bones, and first-time dispensary honesty50:00 – Ancient petroglyphs & roadside bull encounter54:00 – Lake Tahoe winds, waves, and snow on the mountains58:30 – Reno arrival, family meetups & conference preview1:02:00 – Reflection: living unfiltered, even on the roadAn Unfiltered Life, Melissa Lahti Brown, road trip podcast, travel stories, Lake Tahoe, Moab Utah, Penny Hot Springs, Reno conference, Lorel Langmeier, entrepreneur life, business travel, living unfiltered, married road trip, mindfulness, adventure stories, creative business coach

  25. 16

    Mastering Family Travel: Tips for Large Families

    In this conversation, Melissa Lahti shares her extensive experience traveling with a large family, offering practical tips and insights on how to manage logistics, keep everyone engaged, and ensure a smooth travel experience. She emphasizes the importance of planning, flexibility, and the educational value of travel for children.TakeawaysTraveling with a large family requires careful planning and organization.Creating a flexible itinerary can help accommodate everyone's needs.Involving older kids in responsibilities fosters independence.Using visual aids like photos of luggage can prevent confusion.Meal planning is crucial for maintaining energy and mood during trips.Allowing free time in the schedule enhances enjoyment for everyone.Managing energy levels is vital, especially for active kids.Traveling is an educational experience that broadens children's perspectives.Encouraging kids to share their preferences can lead to a more enjoyable trip.Traveling with kids is a job, but it's worth the investment. "Spend the money. It's worth it."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Family Travel02:52 Traveling with a Large Family05:47 Planning and Organization for Trips09:08 Creating a Flexible Itinerary12:01 Food and Nutrition on the Go14:48 Managing Energy and Activities18:08 Travel Tips and Tricks20:59 The Value of Travel EducationKeywordsfamily travel, travel tips, large family, travel organization, itinerary planning, food on the go, managing kids, travel education, travel experiences, parenting tips

  26. 15

    Healing After the High: Forgiving Yourself and Finding Focus Again

    In this heartfelt life update, Melissa opens up about the emotional wave that followed her San Diego wedding - the joy, the exhaustion, and the deep healing that’s come in its wake. She talks about forgiving herself for the seasons when she let unhealthy energy into her life, how emotions resurface when the noise quiets, and where her focus is shifting now - into the Her Story. Her Journey podcast, this An Unfiltered Life space, and her passion for helping others through the AO Scanner.This episode is a reminder that healing isn’t always loud, sometimes it’s quiet, reflective, and beautifully human.💡 Key ThemesEmotional healing after big life milestonesForgiving yourself for past choicesNavigating post-wedding emotionsRefocusing on purpose and alignmentThe power of the AO Scanner and energy workBuilding Her Story. Her Journey and creating meaning through storytellingInterested in checking out the AO Scanner? Go here- https://shop.solexnation.com/aoscanstudio/homeIf you want a free scan, email us at [email protected] healing after wedding, emotional healing, forgiveness journey, post wedding reflection, self forgiveness, spiritual growth, AO Scanner, frequency healing, women entrepreneurs, creative business, her story her journey, An Unfiltered Life podcast, Melissa Lahti Brown, life update podcast, energy healing,

  27. 14

    Blending Families & Beachfront Vows: Our San Diego Wedding Adventure

    In this heartfelt and laughter-filled episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa shares the wild, beautiful chaos of pulling off a destination wedding in San Diego - with ten kids in tow. From Catalina Island snorkeling adventures to a sun-soaked La Jolla beach ceremony, this episode is all about love, family, and embracing the imperfect magic of blending two households.Melissa opens up about what it’s really like traveling as a big family, the moments that took her breath away, and the vendors who helped make the day unforgettable. Whether you’re planning a wedding, traveling with kids, or navigating life’s beautiful mess, this one’s for you.💍 Vendor Shoutouts & Thank Yous:Officiant: SoCal Vows | Facebook | InstagramFlorals: The Queen’s Pick | InstagramTaco Bar: Taquizas Los Chuchys | Facebook | InstagramCruise Party: Cruise San Diego | Facebook | InstagramDJ & Sound: Audio Brilliance | FacebookCake: Babycakes | Facebook | InstagramCeremony Music: Caprice Strings | InstagramVideography: Amari Productions | Instagram | TikTokPhotography: DSM Photography | Facebook✨ From heartfelt vows to hilarious kid chaos, this episode captures the real-life joy of two families becoming one -unfiltered.

  28. 13

    San Diego Wedding Plans, Catalina Snorkeling & Preparing for Joy Amid Family Disappointment

    With just days to go, Melissa Lahti shares her last-minute San Diego wedding plans; managing nine kids, a Catalina Island snorkeling adventure, and a bonfire celebration to follow. She opens up about her mom’s decision not to come, and how she’s choosing to focus on the joy ahead instead of the disappointment. This raw, unfiltered episode is about celebrating love, staying grounded in the chaos, and finding peace as you step into life’s biggest moments.

  29. 12

    Powwow Reflections, Family Fun Struggles, Wedding Prep & Finding Courage with GLP-1

    In this unfiltered life update, Melissa Lahti shares reflections from attending a powwow, what it was like growing up in a Native home while being white, and the challenges of scheduling fun with kids who’d rather resist. She opens up about wedding prep, how GLP-1 is helping her step out and do more, and the courage it took to join a dance class. A candid, encouraging reminder that being brave in everyday life builds confidence, connection, and joy.

  30. 11

    Running the Race: My Sobriety Journey, God’s Voice & Trusting the Process

    In this heartfelt episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa opens up about her personal sobriety journey and how God continues to speak to her through the ups and downs. She reflects on the calling we all share; to run the race of life as if we are going to win, even when the outcome is unseen. With raw honesty and faith-filled encouragement, Melissa reminds us that God’s plan often unfolds in ways we don’t understand until much later. This is an invitation to trust the process, stay the course, and believe that every step is part of something greater.If you’ve ever wrestled with surrender, faith, or perseverance, this episode will speak directly to your heart.

  31. 10

    Charlie Kirk, Trusting Your Gut in Business, and Embracing the In-Between

    In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa Lahti unpacks trusting your gut in business, navigating the in-between seasons, and releasing the fear of judgment as a former homeschool mom with kids now in class. She reflects on the Charlie Kirk controversy, the courage it takes to connect with people who think differently, and why choosing love over division is the key to healing our world. A raw and encouraging conversation for women balancing motherhood, entrepreneurship, and growth.An Unfiltered Life with Melissa Lahti explores the messy middle of motherhood, entrepreneurship, and personal growth. Through raw stories about family, divorce recovery, ADHD, business, and healing, Melissa helps women see what’s possible when you build a life and business that align with your values. If you’re navigating mom life, female entrepreneurship, or your own healing journey, this podcast offers unfiltered conversations, inspiration, and encouragement to keep going.

  32. 9

    Brandi Carlile Concert Reflections, Tirzepatide Week One, and Self-Care for Nervous System Healing

    In this unfiltered episode, Melissa Lahti opens up about attending a Brandi Carlile concert, her first week taking tirzepatide for weight loss and wellness, and the surprising emotions that came with it. She shares practical self-care rituals and ways to calm and heal your nervous system while balancing motherhood, business, and personal growth. If you’re navigating health changes, seeking inspiration, or craving a reminder to care for your whole self, this episode is for you.An Unfiltered Life with Melissa Lahti explores the messy middle of motherhood, entrepreneurship, and personal growth. Through raw stories about family, divorce recovery, ADHD, business, and healing, Melissa helps women see what’s possible when you build a life and business that align with your values. If you’re navigating mom life, female entrepreneurship, or your own healing journey, this podcast offers unfiltered conversations, inspiration, and encouragement to keep going.

  33. 8

    Mom Life Unfiltered: Big Fights, Zepbound Journey, and Enneagram 8 Insights

    In this raw and relatable episode of An Unfiltered Life, Melissa Lahti shares what really happens when motherhood, health, and community collide. From navigating her child’s school fight to stepping into her own health journey with Zepbound, Melissa opens up about the challenges and humor of everyday life.She reflects on back-to-school routines, what it’s like living as an Enneagram 8w7, and even breaking up a high school fight. Along the way, she emphasizes the importance of resilience, personal growth, and finding joy in simple moments like playing outside with family.Interested in starting your own GLP1 journey? Check out Fridays and use my code (REFPGX9LW)to get your Discount!!! https://www.joinfridays.com/✨ Topics covered: parenting challenges, health journeys, Enneagram insights, conflict resolution, motherhood, and embracing everyday adventures.📌 TakeawaysParenting isn’t perfect conflict happens, but we can grow through it.Starting new health routines (like Zepbound) is both scary and empowering.Back-to-school brings structure, but also big emotions.Being an Enneagram 8w7 means leading with boldness and play.Playing outside isn’t just for kids it restores joy and balance.🕒 Chapters & Timestamps00:00 Welcome and Catching Up02:40 When Your Kid Gets in a Fight at School07:15 Starting Zepbound: Why I Said Yes12:00 Back-to-School Routines and New Rhythms18:05 Enneagram 8w7 Life: Bold, Playful, and Unapologetic23:45 Breaking Up a High School Fight (Yes, Really)29:20 The Power of Playing Outside and Finding Joy34:00 Final Reflections and TakeawaysHer Story. Her Journey Podcasthttp://melahti.com/HerStoryPodcast

  34. 7

    Grey Hair, Growing Pains & Friendships in Transition | ADHD, Aging & Doctor Visits Unfiltered

    Going grey isn’t just about hair , it’s about identity, growth, and learning to love the process. In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, I get real about the cycles of friendship (some last a season, some a lifetime), what it means to grow through change, and how ADHD shapes the way I experience it all.I also share my thoughts on finally making those long-overdue doctor’s appointments and asking the real question: do we actually trust them, or are we just checking boxes?If you’ve ever wrestled with aging gracefully, navigating shifting friendships, or figuring out the balance between self-advocacy and trusting the system, this episode is for you.grey hair journey, friendship cycles, female growth, ADHD podcast, doctor appointment anxiety, women’s health, female entrepreneurship, motherhood & identity

  35. 6

    Back to School Chaos, ADHD Mom Hacks & Why Grandparents Still Matter

    In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, I’m giving you the real scoop on our first week back to school - four kids in three schools, new schedules, meltdowns, and all the emotional ups and downs. I’m sharing what’s working (hello Google Calendar ), what I’m still figuring out, and why I believe grandparents play a bigger role in confidence-building than we often realize.From parenting and ADHD mom hacks to family dynamics and the reminder that we’re all just figuring it out as we go - this is your come-hang-out, laundry-folding, car-line episode. If you’ve ever felt stretched thin or just needed a friend in your ear, this one’s for you.And launching this week is the Her Story. Her Journey Podcast, you can check it out here - http://melahti.com/HerStoryPodcast

  36. 5

    Life Lately: Wedding Plans, ChatGPT Questions & Movie Nights

    In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, I’m catching you up on… well, life. From the emotions (and chaos) of upcoming wedding plans to riding e-bikes, what I’ve been watching (How to Train Your Dragon marathon, anyone?), and even the random questions I’ve been throwing at ChatGPT lately.Think of it as a walk-and-talk with your bestie — no agenda, just company. If you’re folding laundry, sitting in the car line, or need a voice in the background while you go about your day, press play and let’s hang out.

  37. 4

    Healing After Divorce, E-Bikes, Glucose Spikes & What’s Next for Her Story

    In this raw and rambly episode of An Unfiltered Life, I’m giving you a real-life check-in from the messy middle — healing from divorce, recovering from injury, riding e-bikes for joy, and managing blood sugar like a wellness nerd (thank you, Glucose Goddess).I’m also sharing behind-the-scenes progress on Her Story. Her Journey., how I’m navigating business as a creative with ADHD, and what’s next for this podcast and our wild, beautiful life.No fancy teaching, just a vulnerable update from one woman figuring it out as she goes. If you need a friend in your ear today — this one's for you.Fave Links-My Story Telling Youtube!! https://www.youtube.com/@HerStoryHerJourneyThe Amazing Airbnb we stayed at in Kingston https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/724731109080256131?guests=1&adults=1&s=67&unique_share_id=65b86056-4fc8-420a-b417-a4ac4ee8deafOur RAD ebikes! (link coming) podcast, personal growth, ADHD, parenting, relationships, e-bikes, health, creativity, blended family, wellnessSummary-In this episode of The Unfiltered Life, Melissa Lahti shares her journey of personal growth, parenting, and creativity. She discusses the importance of taking action despite imperfections, her adventures with e-bikes, and the challenges of navigating life with ADHD. Melissa reflects on healing from past relationships, the joy of a supportive marriage, and the complexities of blended family dynamics. She also shares her health journey with the Glucose Goddess and her aspirations for creative writing, aiming to inspire and connect with her audience.TakeawaysEmbrace imperfection and take action on your dreams.Family adventures can lead to unexpected joys.Navigating life with ADHD requires understanding and support.Reconnecting with friends can lead to personal revelations.Healing from past relationships is a journey worth taking.A supportive marriage enhances personal growth and happiness.Parenting in a blended family presents unique challenges.Transitioning to school life can be both exciting and difficult.Health and wellness journeys can be simplified with the right guidance.Creative outlets can provide fulfillment and connection.Chapters00:00 Introduction to The Unfiltered Life Podcast01:26 Embracing Imperfection and Taking Action02:24 Adventures with E-Bikes and Family Memories10:45 Navigating Life with ADHD11:43 Reconnecting with Friends and Personal Growth15:11 Cutting Ties and Finding Closure18:14 The Journey of Motherhood and Blended Families20:14 Back to School and Parenting Challenges21:41 Health and Wellness Insights24:37 Creative Ventures and New Projects32:30 Future Aspirations and Closing Thoughts

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    Why I Chose Unschooling (And Why We Stopped): Our Homeschool Journey with TJEd

    In this episode of An Unfiltered Life, I’m sharing the heart behind our homeschooling years — the style we used (a blend of unschooling and Thomas Jefferson Education), what worked beautifully, what didn’t, and why we eventually chose to make a change.Whether you’re deep in the homeschool world, exploring your options, or just curious how one mom of six made it all work (for a while), this episode offers an honest look at education, freedom, burnout, and pivoting with grace.Grab your laundry pile or a hot cup of tea — let’s hang out.homeschooling, education, parenting, project-based learning, socialization, family, learning styles, transition to school, Melissa LahtiSummaryIn this episode, Melissa Lahti shares her personal journey of homeschooling her six children, discussing the motivations behind her decision, the challenges she faced, and the joys of project-based learning. She reflects on the importance of fostering a love for learning and the socialization aspect of homeschooling. Melissa also addresses the transition from homeschooling to public school and the lessons learned along the way.TakeawaysMelissa has six children and began her homeschooling journey with a desire to provide a better educational experience.She emphasizes the importance of socialization in homeschooling, countering common concerns about isolation.Project-based learning was a key focus in her homeschooling approach, allowing her children to thrive.Melissa believes that learning should be driven by passion and interest rather than traditional methods.She enjoyed the freedom and flexibility that homeschooling provided, allowing for a more personalized education.Melissa faced challenges with the judgmental nature of some homeschooling communities.She acknowledges the difficulties of managing homeschooling alongside her growing family and business.The transition to public school was motivated by the need for more structured support for her children.Melissa encourages parents to try homeschooling without the fear of a long-term commitment.She highlights that there are many ways to homeschool, and each family's approach can be unique.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Homeschooling Journey06:31 Deciding to Homeschool: The Socialization Question10:47 Project-Based Learning and Its Impact16:03 What I Loved and Hated About Homeschooling21:11 Transitioning from Homeschooling to Public School25:13 Embracing Authenticity in Motherhood25:15 Navigating Challenges and Celebrating Wins

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    ADHD, Divorce, Motherhood & Reinvention: What to Expect on This Unfiltered Podcast

    Welcome to the very first episode of An Unfiltered Life! I’m Melissa Lahti — mom of six, entrepreneur, ADHD-brained creative, and forever a work in progress. In this short intro, I’m giving you a glimpse into my world: who I am, where I’ve been, and what you can expect from this podcast.We’re talking business, motherhood, healing, identity, messy middles — and doing it all with humor, honesty, and zero filters. Whether you're folding laundry, driving to soccer, or hiding in the pantry with snacks... I’m glad you're here. Let’s hang out.podcast, personal growth, entrepreneurship, motherhood, healing, ADHD, faith, divorce, mindset, businessSummaryIn this episode of 'Unfiltered Life', Melissa Lahti shares her personal journey, discussing her experiences with motherhood, divorce, and entrepreneurship. She emphasizes the importance of growth, healing, and community, inviting listeners to join her on this journey of self-discovery and learning. Melissa's candid approach highlights her passion for sharing life lessons and connecting with others.TakeawaysMelissa Lahti introduces her podcast as a space for unfiltered conversations.She shares her love for podcasts that reflect everyday life experiences.Melissa discusses her journey through homeschooling and entrepreneurship.She emphasizes the importance of teaching and sharing lessons learned.Her experience with divorce shaped her perspective on life and growth.Melissa highlights her commitment to personal growth and healing.She expresses her rocky relationship with faith and the church.Melissa shares her entrepreneurial spirit and success in network marketing.She is passionate about mindset and manifestation in business.The podcast will feature diverse topics and a mix of fun and serious discussions.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Podcast Journey03:16 Personal Background and Life Experiences06:12 Homeschooling and Parenting Insights09:05 Business Ventures and Entrepreneurial Spirit12:27 Faith, Politics, and Personal Growth14:46 Embracing Authenticity in Motherhood14:48 Navigating Challenges and Celebrating Wins

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Welcome to ‘An Unfiltered Life’! Join Melissa on a transformative journey through motherhood, female entrepreneurship, personal development, and divorce recovery. Expect raw, heartfelt stories, candid conversations, and inspiration for your healing journey. Perfect for anyone navigating the messy, beautiful middle of life.

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