Baddies After Dark

Being the cool auntie means you hear everything…… Yes, even middle school tea 😂In this episode, my nephew Adan pulls back the curtain on what “dating” in 8th grade really looks like. It’s not all hand-holding and love songs… it’s texting, group hangs, mixed signals, and figuring things out in real time. Messy? A little. Relatable? Very.He opens up about a situation with a girl who maybe wasn’t ready for something new, and gets real about how it made him feel. We talk about what he learned, what caught him off guard, and what he thinks people should know before jumping into their first relationship.It’s honest, a little funny, a little “aww,” and lowkey a reminder that we’ve all been there.

What happens when you grow up too fast… and end up parenting the very people who were supposed to guide you?In this episode, we unpack the quiet reality of emotional role reversal—when children become the peacemakers, the providers, the “strong one” long before they’re ready. On the outside, it can look like maturity. Strength. Independence. But underneath, it often comes with unprocessed emotions, blurred boundaries, and a version of adulthood built on survival instead of choice.We talk about how this dynamic can follow you into relationships, self-worth, and the way you show up for yourself—and how it can be more damaging than people realize.But this isn’t just about the weight of it all.It’s also about the turning point—the moment you realize you don’t have to keep carrying what was never yours. The power in setting boundaries. The courage in choosing healing over habit. And the possibility of becoming the one who breaks the cycle, not just for others… but for yourself.Because growing up too fast may have shaped you—but it doesn’t have to define you!

In this episode, I’m diving into what happened after I shared my catfish story. Honestly, it’s been kind of amazing. Reconnecting with people from my past has been something I didn’t expect, but definitely needed.I’m also giving a special shoutout to my dad, because he truly is one of a kind. He’s not only turning 62 this week, but he’s also retiring! 🎉 I just feel really proud and grateful to celebrate him.Life has been a little chaotic lately, so this episode is a bit shorter than usual. But I’m really looking forward to unplugging soon and spending some time out in nature to reset.And as always, thank you for being here and going on this journey with me. It really means more than you know. 💕

Part 2… yeah, this is where it gets real.This is the chapter with the moments I still can’t fully explain. The weird coincidences, the gut feelings I ignored, the situations that didn’t add up until they really didn’t add up. The kind of chaos that makes you question your own reality for a second.And the heartbreak? Oh, it wasn’t just about one person. It was losing people I thought were solid… But let me be clear (enter Kamala Harris voice)—this didn’t ruin me. It refined me. I don’t second-guess my intuition anymore, I don’t chase closure, and I definitely don’t tolerate anything that feels even slightly off. If it’s weird, I’m already ten steps ahead.Some stories end with closure.This one ends with distance, discernment… and me minding my business like a pro.Press play if you’re ready for the details !🎙️

In this episode, I open up about a deeply personal chapter of my life, one that shaped how I understand love, identity, and mental health. At 14 and 15, I found myself caught in what felt like an all-consuming love story, one that blurred the lines between reality and illusion. What I didn’t realize at the time was that I was being catfished. 🎣 This isn’t just a story about deception (Lord knows there was a lot of that) it’s a reflection on vulnerability, emotional dependency, and the quiet ways our mental health can be impacted when we’re young and still learning ourselves. I revisit my younger self with compassion, unpacking how something that felt so real could ultimately unravel into confusion and heartbreak.Through this experience, I explore the importance of mental health awareness, especially during formative years, and how unhealed wounds, loneliness, and longing can make us more susceptible to situations that leave lasting emotional marks.This episode is both a recollection and a reclaiming. An honest conversation about navigating intense emotions, recognizing red flags, and honoring the growth that comes from surviving something that once felt like everything.If you’ve ever loved deeply, lost yourself in someone, or had to rebuild after emotional confusion, this one is for you.

Okay… let’s talk about it. This episode is full of unfiltered thoughts on Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni, and why I’m not exactly on the side you might expect. I break down my perspective, question the narrative a little, and say what needs to be said. And because balance is everything, I wrap things up by leaning into softer vibes: spring, fresh energy, and appreciating where I’m at right now.

OKAY baddies, it’s time to talk about the famous people who shaped my life. When I say inspiration, I’m not just talking about what these artists create… I’m talking about their energy, their message, and the feelings their work leaves behind.I start off with a little rant about Chappell Roan, because while artists give us so much, we are not automatically entitled to their space or energy. What we do get is the opportunity to enjoy the fruits of their labor—just like any other job.From there, I dive into the impact of Jack Black, Megan Thee Stallion, Kesha, Charli XCX, Johnny Depp, and Lola Young (artists who each left a mark on me in a way that truly changed who I am.)Now I want to know… who influenced you and why? Send me a DM or drop a comment and let’s talk about it 💗

In this week’s episode I am talking about a past relationship before the love I have today. It wasn’t toxic or chaotic, but it taught me more about myself at the time. Besties, sometimes we expect every relationship to be a lesson in what went wrong, but this one was a little different. This is my “thank you next” reflection and my “hello new world” moment when I met the love of my life. Mentioning an old flame not out of bitterness, but without that chapter, I wouldn’t have recognized the love I have now or the woman that I’ve become. This one is for my baddies who have had to let go of a relationship in order to make room for something even more aligned. 💗 it’s true, that some people are not meant to stay forever but they change you in all of the right ways .

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Baddies!!! Cheers to yet another episode about going to the gym, buying skin care and talking about part two of Bridgerton season four. Britney was arrested and I will wait for her to get better even if I have to wait til the cows come home.

Baddies, Yes, I’m still fighting with this mic. We’re manifesting an upgrade soon okay? 😭 But the real ones know it’s about the content. lol Thank you for the love and feedback. It genuinely means everything. I see you.Now… let’s talk about my unhealthy documentary obsession last week. In this episode, I’m giving my real-time hot takes on Jacob Elordi, Tyra Banks, the Filthy Rich Epstein documentary, and of course… my forever idol, Britney Spears.Join me bestie, let’s laugh and cry together.

Baddies this episode was a bit chaotic and the audio is in the works so I apologize in advance if all of a sudden my loud ass voice startles you 🫨In this episode we dive into deep rooted ideologies regarding body image. From childhood to adulthood we share how our experiences shaped the way we see ourselves. I discuss early memories as a girl and a teen, my journey through body neutrality, books that helped me along the way, and an honest conversation with the BADDEST aka Yesi my sister. Thank you for tuning in every week baddies I love you more than words could describe! 💜

In this episode we talk about the Super Bowl Halftime Show, Maddy from Euphoria, the Struggles of Removing Toxic People From your Life and Heated Rivalry ❤️‍🔥

Our first podcast episode Baddies! Today we talk about: ​ The reason I started this podcast ​ Bridgerton ​ The Steering Wheel ​ Messy Takes ​ Michelle Obama ​ I’m So Proud of You 🩷💅🏼