Before You Do with Verlyn

Most women and parents overlook thesilent crisis impacting our community’s future: our marriage rates are plummeting, and it's shaping a generation that’s disconnected from the importance of family. Why are so many of our daughters influenced by a narrative that undervalues marriage — and how can we change that perspective before it’s too late? In this eye-opening episode, Verlyn Tarlton, a seasoned premarital coach and cultural observer, dives deep into the messages we send our daughters about marriage and the alarming statistics revealing the decline in Black marriage rates — from 70% among Asians to only 34% among our community. She shares powerful stories and historical insights, including her grandfather’s writings and nostalgic reflections from 1991, revealing that these attitudeshave persisted for decades. Verlyn explores how societal and familial influences shape young women’s views about independence, love, and family.You’ll discover: The cultural messages influencing girls’ perceptions of marriage and whether they favor careers over commitment. How the absence of marriage perpetuates cycles of unwed motherhood and societal instability. Practical strategies for fostering conversations about family and marriage that plant positive seeds early. Why healing from past relationship wounds is critical tobreaking generational patterns. The importance of presenting marriage as a valuable, honorable goal — not just a fairy tale, but a viable, rewardingchoice. This episode underscores why understanding and addressing these cultural narratives is vital — because the health of our families, communities, and race depend on it. If we want future generations to thrive with strong, lasting families, we must act now by shifting the conversation and leading byexample. Perfect for parents, community leaders, and women ready to reclaim their cultural legacy, this episode challenges you to rethink what’s possible for our daughters and their futures. Let’s work together to prioritize marriage, instill family values, and restore hope — because the future of ourcommunity depends on it. #family #facts #podcast #goals #love #wisdom#relationship #couple Key words Decline in Marriage Rates, Black CommunityMarriage Trends, Cultural Narratives on Marriage, Family Values and Marriage, Generational Patterns in Relationships, Premarital Coaching Insights, Societal Influences on Marriage, Marriage and Family Stability, Empowering Women in Relationships, Cultural Legacy and Marriage Thank you for joining the conversation. Make sure to like and if you have not already hit the subscribe button and share with a few friends. Connect with VerlynHome - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love.

Our culture has lost sight of the power of shame — and the consequences are clear. In this provocative episode of Before You Do w/Verlyn, Coach Verlyn makes a compelling case for bringing shame back, not as guilt, but as a vital force to restore dignity, virtue, and community values.Growing up in Washington DC, Verlyn recalls a time when shame was a social glue—when adults cared about how they were viewed and took responsibility for their behavior in front of children. From men hiding liquor and cigarettes behind their backs to women dressing with class and modesty, a collective sense of shame fostered respect and self-control. Today, she argues, we've abandoned that moral backbone, leading to a culture of brazen disrespect and a lack of accountability.You'll discover:Why shame was once a key to personal and communal integrity. How modern fashion and media are eroding young girls' self-respect. Practical steps parents, grandparents, and communities can take to teach daughters true dignity. The critical role of nurturing a culture that values virtue, class, and civility. Verlyn’s powerful call to action: "Bring back shame" to elevate our daughters and preserve community values.This episode challenges you to reflect on what we're teaching the next generation—through our words and actions—and emphasizes why instilling a sense of shame can be an act of love and responsibility. It’s essential listening for anyone concerned about the moral direction of our society, especially parents and mentors who want to raise daughters with dignity and poise.Join Verlyn as she fiercely advocates for reclaiming shame as a moral compass—because without it, our culture risks losing its soul. Are you ready to make shame great again?Consequence-Driven Parenting Reinforces Values. Children’s behavior is shaped more effectively through setting clear boundaries tied to societal consequences than through abstract moral lessons. Why it matters. Actions motivated by fear of shame and community opinion create stronger internal discipline than guilt-based or permissive approaches. In practice parents should consistently connect behaviors to visible community standards, demonstrating that shame functions as a social adhesive for virtue.Cultural standards inform self-image and dress. Fashion choices for young girls should reflect societal expectations of modesty and class, rather than trends dictated solely by commercial interests. Early exposure to provocative styles signals a distorted value system, potentially shaping future behaviors and self-esteem. In practice, parents and guardians should model and enforce age-appropriate dress codes aligned with community values, emphasizing dignity over trendiness.Collective Responsibility for Cultural Transmission: Shame is a collective tool, and its erosion stems from individual choices not to uphold societal standards and to accept behavior that diminishes communal integrity. Individual complacency weakens community resilience, making social cohesion and moral standards impossible to sustain. In practice community-led initiatives, mentorship, and accountability partnerships can restore shared norms and reinforce the importance of cultural shame.Restoring Shame as a Civilizing Force: Shame functions as a vital social regulator that preserves dignity and inhibits degrading behaviors; its absence fosters reckless disregard for collective values. Rehabilitating shame helps curb lewdness, disrespect, and social divisiveness, fostering a society that values dignity and self-control. In practice. Public narratives, education, and media should emphasize shame as a sign of character and responsibility, not just an outdated concept.#shame #wisdom #saveourdaughters #family #values #virtue #podcast #love #respect Thank you for joining the conversation. Please like, subscribe, and share. Connect with VerlynHome - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love

Most women miss the secret to truly empowering their relationships — and it’s all wrapped up in a misunderstood word: submission. What if understanding this simple concept could unlock the peace, protection, and partnership you've been craving? Verlyn Tarlton, your favorite premarital coach and Auntie who’s seen the transformational power of truecooperation, dives deep into how submission isn’t about weakness or losing control — it’s about creating order, strength, and harmony in your marriage. She reveals how embracing this principle can liberate women from the burdens of decision-making and change the dynamic with your man from constant conflict to mutual support. In this episode, you'll discover: The true meaning ofsubmission and how it aligns with everyday hierarchies like workplaces, schools, and governments. Why women often resist submission and how to reframe it as a source of power and peace. Practical ways to support your husband’s leadership and why it benefits the whole family. How faith, prayer, and cooperation can turn conflicts into moments of bonding and growth. The surprising ways feminism and modern culture have skewed perceptions o submission, and why returning to faith-based principles is essential. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re battling against your husband, or if you want a marriage built on trust, respect, and divine order, this episode is your wake-up call. Perfect for women of faith, those seeking peace in their home, oranyone wanting to redefine strength in marriage. Get ready to see submission as your secret weapon for a healthier, happier partnership — and start building the love life you truly deserve. Verlyn Tarlton is a seasoned premarital coach and speaker dedicated to helping women embrace their divine roles in marriage and life. Her insights stem from years of experience guiding women to lead with faith and purpose. Don’t miss this opportunity to transform your perspective and your marriage. Hit play now and take the first step toward a relationshipwhere love, respect, and harmony reign supreme. Thank you for joining the conversation. Please make sure to hit the subscribe button, like, and share with three or four friends. Make marriage great again. Connect with Verlynhttps://verlyntarlton.com/ #respect #love #marriage #wisdom #family #relationship #couple #goals #peace #podcast Key words Submission, Empowerment, Partnership, Hierarchy, Cooperation, Faith-based, Spiritual unity, Gender roles, Feminism, Marital dynamics, Support and growth, Relationship foundation, Decision-making, Mutual support, Peace and harmonyMay you experience extraordinary love.

Most people overlook the real test of a relationship — how your partner responds when life doesn’t go according to plan. In this eye-opening episode, Verlyn Tarlton shares profoundinsights from her personal health challenge, revealing what truly defines a partner’s character beyond the honeymoon phase. Discover why the foundation of lasting love isn’t just about chemistry or shared interests but about resilience, dependability, and how someone shows up when everything is falling apart. Verlyn breaks down the critical traits you must assess — from leadership under pressure to family values — to avoid costly mistakes that could impact your future children, finances, and emotional well-being.You'll learnHow to recognize "stickability"- the ability to stay composed and dependable through adversityThe importance of observing your partner's response to simple challenges and stressesWhy character and heart matter more than looks when life hurdles ariseHow to shift from emotional infatuation to strategic future focus making in choosing a spousePractical questions to ask yourself and partner to determine if he's truly marriage mindedIf you’re tired of making choices based solely on fleeting feelings, and ready to build a love that lasts through challenges, this episode is your must-listen. Verlyn, a seasoned pre-marital coach, draws from over 20 years of marriage and real-life experience to guide you toward discerning intent over attraction. Her insights will inspire you to see beyond the surface and focus on the qualities that create a legacy of love. Perfect for women serious about making smarter, future-proof relationship choices. Tune in for a mindset shift that could change your life — because love built on character, trust, and resilience lasts forever.#respect #love #marriage #wisdom #family #relationships #couples #goals #peace #podcast #levelupKey wordsRelationship resiliencePartner's characterLeadership under pressureFamily valuesEmotional infatuationFuture-focused decision-makingMarriage materialTrust and resilienceThank you for joining the conversation. Please remember to like, share with friends, and subscribe. That is greatly appreciated. Pick up your freebies as well as connect with Verlyn:Home - Verlyn Tarlton May you experience extraordinary love

Unlock the truth about submission that could transform your marriage or relationships today. Why do so many women struggle with the concept, and what do you really need to know to navigate it successfully? If you've ever felt confused, overwhelmed, or evenresistant to the idea of submitting to a husband or authority figure, this episode will challenge your perspective and equip you with practical insights.In a candid conversation, EB Davis reveals the four core categories of submission—spiritual, natural, logical, and mutual—and explains how understanding these can empower you to create peace and progress in your relationship. You'll discover how everyday acts of submission, like cooperating with your boss, adhering to laws, or making compromises at home, are proof that submission isn’t as daunting as society makes it seem. EB walks you through concrete steps like introspection,setting standards, and trusting God's guidance, helping you see submission as a tool of strength rather than weakness.We break down common pitfalls: poor decision-making, unforgiveness, unrealistic expectations, and childhood trauma that hinder your ability to submit. Plus, learn why respectingyour husband’s leadership is not about giving up autonomy but about fostering mutual growth, respect, and peace. Coach and host Verlyn Tarlton shares her personal journey of balancing strong wills in marriage and how respectfulcooperation leads to protection, provision, and long-term happiness.Why is ignoring the importance of submission a risk? Without it, couples can face stagnation, resentment, and missed divine blessings. This episode is perfect for women seeking clarity, healthy relationship strategies, or practical guidance in applying submission in real life. Whether you're single, dating, or married, these insights pave the way for stronger bonds and deeper trust.Remember, understanding submission is not just a religious principle; it’s a pathway to harmony, growth, and love. Tune in now to shift your mindset, unlock peace, and step into the fullness of your relationships with confidence and purpose.Who should listen? Women eager to deepen their understanding of submission, couples wanting harmony, or anyone seeking practical wisdom rooted in faith. Don't miss the chance to transform your perspective and your marriage today.#marriage #submission # relationships # yielding #faith #husband #wives #authority #acceptance #peace #liberationThank you for joining the conversation. Make sure to hit that subscribe and like button. Share with a friend or two. Stay tuned for my future container just for women. If there's one thing I know how to do, that's get a good man. Connect with VerlynHome - Verlyn Tarlton  

Most women underestimate the profound impact their habits and mindset have on attracting and sustaining a healthy marriage. Viair Myles shares empowering, practical strategies that transform your focus from self-improvement to becoming the partner your spouse—and you—deserve.In this eye-opening episode, discover how your emotional maturity, appearance, and daily routines directly influence your relationship's success. Viair reveals the importance ofself-care, emotional intelligence, and community support, backed by her ow journey from health challenges to becoming a holistic wellness advocate forwomen preparing for marriage.You'll learn:Why starting with yourself is the key to lasting love and healthy partnerships. How to audit and upgrade your habits around food, finances, and self-image. The role of emotional maturity in accepting correction and growth. The impact of your environment, support circle, and spiritual walk on marriage readiness. Simple but powerful ways to show up confidently for yourself and your spouse every day.Many women miss out on deeper intimacy and respect because they overlook daily upkeep and emotionalgrowth. This episode is perfect for singles and those in relationships ready to level up and attract a fulfilling marriage. Whether you're dating or married, these insights will help you create a foundation of confidence, love, and resilience.Hosted by Verlyn Tarlton, a proven relationship coach, this conversation offers real tools to transform how you view yourself—and how the world sees you. Learn how small shifts today can prevent future regrets, unlock your best self, and build a marriage rooted in mutual respect and continuous growth.Are you ready to become the best version of yourself and truly show up in your relationship? Tune in now—your future happily ever after starts with how you prepare today.Thank you for watching. Please share, like, and hit the subscribe button.#marriage #love #relationships #couples #peace #goalsKey Words• Preparation and upkeep of being a wife• Getting your mindset right• Spiritual walk• Emotional maturity• Bad habits and traits• Energy and habits to be a wife• Therapy• Emotional intelligence• Self-improvement• Relationship successConnect with Viair Myles on all social media platforms including: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok Also look for The Holistic Sister Circle on Facebook and Podcast Playground For Female EntrepreneursConnect with Verlyn and pick up your freebies as well as your couples vision board template, click the link below. Home - Verlyn Tarlton

In this episode of "Before You Do w/Verlyn," Verlyn is joined by Dean and Tiffany Parker to explore the multifaceted nature of marriage. They discuss how treating marriage as purely romantic overlooks its biological and economic intentions.The conversation delves into the importance of intentional decision-making in relationships, the role of community in supporting marriages, and how these elements contribute to health, wealth, and long-term stability. Discover howaligning values and community involvement can transform personal and family wellness.Explore the depth of arranged marriages and intentional relationships in our latest episode! Discover how thesepractices contribute to legacy building, generational wealth, and family stability. Tune in to learn more about the power of intentionality in love and life. 💍✨ #respect #love #marriage #wisdom #family #goals #arranged marriage #planning #intentional marriage #legacy #relationshipsConnect with Dean and Tiffany(404) 777-9790ReFrame Health & Wellness | Modern Wellness ProgramsConnect with VerlynHome - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love

In this conversation, Coach Verlyn Tarlton and Dr. Joyice Robinson Myers discuss the critical importance of understanding boundaries and access in marriage. Theyexplore how managing access before marriage can prevent issues later on, emphasizing the difference between social and emotional misuse. The discussion highlights the dynamics of attraction, the significance of awareness in relationships, and the potential consequences of mismanaged access. They also touch on the practice of male monogamy and the responsibilities that come with marriage, stressing that marriage is not just a practice field but a site of responsibility. In this conversation, Verlyn Tarlton and Joyice Robinson Myersdelve into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the dynamics of dating, marriage, and the ethical considerations surrounding infidelity. They discuss the importance of establishing boundaries, practicing vigilance, and understanding community ethics in maintaining healthy relationships. The conversation also highlights the challenges single women face when navigating relationships with married men, emphasizing the need forself-reflection and accountability in their choices. Ultimately, the discussion aims to provide insights and tools for fostering healthier relationships and preventing emotional pitfalls. Thank you for joining the conversation. Make sure you share and hit the subscribe button!Connect with Dr. Joyice Robinson MyersJoyice Robinson Myers |The DC Relationship Education Center - The DC Relationship Education CenterConnect with Coach VerlynHome - Verlyn Tarlton                

In this episode of "Before You Do w/Verlyn," Verlyn Tarlton delves into the realities of marriage beyond the wedding day. Celebrating 19 years of marriage, Verlyn shares insights on the effort, patience, and intention required to build a lasting partnership. She challenges the fairy tale mindset, emphasizing the importance of problem-solving, emotional maturity, and mutual support in a marriage. Tune in to discover how to prepare for a fulfilling marital journey and the true essence of being a supportive spouse.🎙️ Dive into the realities of marriage beyond the wedding day. Discover the importance of preparation, emotional maturity, and building a legacy together. 💍#MarriageAdvice #BuildingPartnerships #LegacyBuildingThank you for joining the conversation. Make sure to like, share, and hit the subscribe button.Visit my website and pick up your freebies as well as the couple's vision board. Connect with Verlyn and your freebie by clicking the link below.Home - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love..

In this episode, Verlyn Tarlton delves into the real agenda behind media narratives, exploring the dynamics of gender wars and societal perceptions. She shares her insights onhow media influence shapes public opinion and the importance of accountability and positivity in addressing these issues. Verlyn draws from her personal experiences to highlight the need for a more balanced and truthful narrative.So, if you're looking to be married don't be discouraged by the media hype.Thank you for joining the conversation. Please like, share, and hit the subscribe button. Connect with Verlyn and download your freebies below. Home - Verlyn TarltonFrom the Auntie you didn't know you needed. May you experience extraordinary love.

In this conversation, Verlyn Tarlton shares her insights on love, relationships, and self-improvement. She reflectson a recent concert experience that highlighted the beauty of love in the city and emphasizes the importance of maintaining a positive mindset. Verlyn encourages listeners to work on their appearance and attitude to attract love, while also stressing the significance of healing from past wounds. She believes that genuine happiness and a positive environment are key to fosteringmeaningful relationships.Thank you for joining the conversation. Make sure to like, share, and hit the subscribe button. Connect with VerlynHome - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love.

Do you have the proper support you need? Does your world revolve around your spouse? In this enlightening conversation, Verlyn Tarlton and Lisa Chin explore the complexities of marriage, emphasizing that it involves more than just two individuals. They discuss the importance of understanding relationship dynamics, the empowerment of partners in parenting, and the necessity ofcommunity support. The dialogue also delves into the significance of trustduring crises, the inevitability of growth and change in partnerships, and the identification of red flags and deal breakers. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the critical role of self-understanding in fostering healthyrelationships. This is a conversation you don't want t miss.Thank you for joining us. Please like, share, and hit the subscribe button! Contact LisaLisa for Real - live inspiredHome - Lunar Roots | Postpartum Doula & CoachInstagram @itslisaforreal Connect with VerlynHome - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love   

In this insightful episode of "Before You Do w/Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton delves into the complexities of blended families and the crucial role of setting boundaries with ex-partners. Discover why it's essential for the current partner to address issues with the ex, and how establishing clear boundaries can lead to a harmonious family life. Verlyn shares personal experiences and practical advice for navigating these challenging dynamics, emphasizing the importance of healing and open communication. Tune in for a candid discussion that offers valuable insights for anyone in a blended family or considering marriage. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to foster a peaceful and respectful home environment.Thank you for joining the conversation. Please like, share, and subscribe. I appreciate each and every one of you. Connect with Verlyn and download your freebies and couples vision board by clicking the link below. Home - Verlyn TarltonFrom the Auntie you didn't know you needed. May you experience extraordinary love.

In this engaging episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton welcomes back her favorite couple, Byron and Margaret McKie, to discuss the intricacies of relationships and marriage. They delve into the challenges of modern dating, the importance of self-healing, and the evolving dynamics of partnership. With candid insights and personal anecdotes, the McKie's share their journey of rebranding their marriage philosophy and the significance of focusing on 'we' instead of 'I'. Byron and Margaret discuss the significance of inner character over physical appearance in relationships. They emphasize that true value lies in being a good humanbeing, rather than succumbing to superficial judgments based on looks. The dialogue explores the complexities of human interactions and the importance of internal values in forming meaningful connections.Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that explores the essence of building a lasting and meaningful relationship.Thank you for joining us. Connect with Byron and Margaret:http://www.youtube.com/@beyondidopodcastInstagram: @beyondidopodcastTikTok: beyondidopodcastFacebook: Beyond I Do Podcast Connect with Verlyn:Home - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love...

In this thought-provoking episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton and guest Amani Jackson dive deep into the concept of "high value" in relationships. They explore the subjective nature of value, challenging superficial standards and emphasizing the importance of character, integrity, and emotional intelligence, while challenging societal norms and encouraging listeners to reflect on their own values. Join them as they discuss the dynamics of modern dating, the role of self-awareness, and the power of community over competition. Tune in for an engaging conversation that encourages listeners to redefine what it means to be truly valuable in today's world.Thank you for joining us. Please like, subscribe, and share.Connect with [email protected] my website:Home - Verlyn TarltonMay you experience extraordinary love...

In this insightful episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton welcomes Jatoyia Armour to discuss the profound journey of self-discovery within marriage. Jatoyia shares her personal experiences on how marriagerevealed her strengths and the importance of nurturing oneself alongside the relationship. The conversation delves into the balance between love and self-awareness, the challenges of personal growth, and the significance ofcommunication and effort in sustaining a fulfilling marriage. Tune in for valuable advice on embracing change and growing together with your partner.Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing. Leave your comments or questions below. Connect with Jatoyia PodcastListen & subscribe to Bariatric Paths on all streaming platforms WebsiteExplore more episodes, blogs, and resources: https://www.BariatricPaths.com CommunityJoin the Facebook group: Bariatric Paths: Your Journey, Your Tribehttps://www.facebook.com/groups/595270663220246 Follow on SocialsInstagram: @BariatricPathsFacebook Page: Bariatric PathsTikTok: @BariatricPathsYouTube: Bariatric Paths PodcastBluesky: bariatricpaths.bsky.social EmailPodcast inquiries: [email protected] with VerlynHome - Verlyn TarltonInstagram: @BeforeYouDowithVerlynFacebook Private Grouphttps://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudoTikTok: @BeforeYouDowithVerlynMay you experience extraordinary love. Bye for now.

Join host Verlyn Tarlton in this engaging episode of "Before You Do" as she explores the essence of femininity and the importance of embracing the qualities that define being a lady. Through personal stories and cultural insights, Verlyn discusses how societal changes have influenced women's roles and the value of maintaining dignity, class, and softness. Discover the power of femininity in fostering harmonious relationships and be inspired to reclaim your feminine spirit. Tune in for a journey of rediscovery and empowerment.    Keywordsfemininity, being a lady, communication, presentation, grooming, silence, class, dignity, relationships, women empowermentThank you for listening, be sure to subscribe, like, and share. Visit my website: Home - Verlyn Tarlton Pick up your couple's vision board and freebies. May you experience extraordinary love.

In this candid conversation on the Before You Do with Verlyn podcast, Gerald Davis shares his insights on the modern dating landscape, particularly focusing on the challenges posed by social media and the pre-application process that many face in dating today. He discusses how these factors contribute to a jaded perspective among individuals navigating relationships.He shares advice about dating, building trust, and the importance of finding your person from his 15-year marriage experience. Gerald challenges societal norms and emphasizes the true wealth found in love and partnerships. #relationships #marriageadvice #podcastThis special episode marks our one-year anniversary of the Before You Do with Verlyn podcast.Thank you for joining us. Please like, share, and subscribe! Connect with Gerald.Youtube: https://youtube.com/@gdavislwtck?si=VD467fhv87rLTPUwConnect with Verlynhttps://www.verlyntarlton.comMake sure to pick up your couple's vision board and download your freebies from my website.May you experience extraordinary love...

Do you believe your man should think like you? Are you surprised when he doesn't act like you? The conversation explores the dynamics of communication in marriage, focusing on gender differences in problem-solving approaches, the importance of emotional support, and strategies for effective conflict resolution. Verlyn Tarlton shares personal experiences and insights on how couples can navigate these challenges to build a stronger partnership.Keywords:marriage, communication, gender differences, problem solving, emotional support, conflict resolution, partnershipThank you for listening. Please like, share on social media, and subscribe. Feel free to post your question or comment.I appreciate each and every one of you. Connect with Verlyn. Download your freebies and couple's vision board template.https://www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love.

In this episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn," host Verlyn Tarlton delves into the complexities and insights of polygyny with guests Iyyob and Rebkah Yahudah. They explore the purpose and vision behind polygyny, addressing common misconceptions and emphasizing the importance of integrity, unity, and community building. Join the conversation as they share personal experiences and perspectives on how polygyny can strengthen family bonds and empower women. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that challenges traditional views and offers a fresh perspective on relationships.Thank you for watching. Please share on social media, like, subscribe, and leave your comment. Connect with Iyyob and Rebkah.Facebook: IyyobHoiPrincess Rebkah YahudahInstagram@houseof iyyob@loyalroyalrebkahConnect with Verlynhttps://www.verlyntarlton.comUntil next week.May you experience extraordinary love.

Join Verlyn, your favorite pre-marital coach, as she discusses how to stop debating with men using the art of effective listening and conflict resolution in relationships. Verlyn shares personal experiences and practical insights on how to bridge the communication gap, manage conflict, and understanding between couples. Discover the power of listening, the importance of empathy, and how to transform debates into meaningful conversations. Tune in for a journey towards stronger, more harmonious relationships. Thank you for joining the conversation. Please share on social media and tag me if this was useful. Comment your favorite part, take away, or question. Connect with Verlynhttps://www.verlyntarlton.comhttps://www.verlyntarlton.comUntil next week.May you experience extraordinary love.

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In this heartfelt episode of the "Before You Do with Verlyn" podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton welcomes Jocelyn McClure to explore the profound role of forgiveness in marriage. Jocelyn shares personal insights and practical advice on how to navigate offenses, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and communication. Tune in to discover how talking to each other with love and understanding can transform relationships and foster growth. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that promises to inspire and empower couples on their journey together.Thank you for joining us. You may connect with Jocelyn:301-219-9578Connect with Verlynhttps://www.verlyntarlton.comhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudoMay you experience extraordinary love.

In this episode of the "Before You Do" podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton delves into the essential topic of how to treat a man, emphasizing that the journey begins long before marriage. Verlyn shares personal insights and experiences, highlighting the importance of mindset and the role of community wisdom from "big mamas" and aunties. Tune in to explore the dynamics of respect, understanding, and nurturing relationships, and discover how these lessons can transform your approach to love and partnership. Join us for a heartfelt conversation aimed at empowering women to build lasting, meaningful connections. #Relationships #Respect #CommunityWisdomThank you for watching. Please share on social media and tag me if this was useful. Visit my website for your freebies. Also get your couples vision board template. https://www.verlyntarlton.com Join my ladies only private facebook group.https://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudoMay you experience extraordinary love.

In this insightful episode of "Before You Do with Verlyn" podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton and guest Elmira Lofton delve into the importance of understanding family dynamics before tying the knot. Elmira shares her personal experiences and wisdom on how family influences can shape a partner's character and behavior. They discuss the significance of observing family interactions, the impact of estrangement, and the role of intuition in relationships. Tune in to discover key insights and practical advice for navigating family dynamics in the journey to a happy marriage.Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing. We appreciate each and every one of you. Connect with [email protected]: Elmira Loftin Connect with Verlyn.https://www.verlyntarlton.com Instagram: before_you_doTikTok: thebeforeyoudopodcastMay you experience extraordinary love...

In this insightful episode of the Before You Do podcast, host Verlyn Tarlton and guest Amani Jackson delve into the intricate dynamics of trust and cooperation within marriage. They explore the often-misunderstood concept of submission, reframing it as a form of partnership and mutual support.Through candid discussions, they highlight how trust and cooperation can lead to harmonious and fulfilling relationships, emphasizing the importance of choosing the right partner and doing the inner work necessary for a successful marriage. Tune in to discover how to foster a stronger, more resilient bond. Thank you for listening, liking, sharing, and subscribing. Please leave your comment. We appreciate each and every one of you. Contact information for Amani: https://starpointpub.comFacebook: Amani JacksonPick up your freebies and couples vision board on my website.www.verlyntarlton.com May you experience extraordinary love.

In this episode of the "Before You Do Podcast" host Verlyn Tarlton sits down with Princess Rebkah Yahudah to explore the complex and often misunderstood topic of polygyny. They delve into it's cultural significance, historical context, and potential benefits in modern society. Princess Rebkah shares her personal experiences and insights, offering a unique perspective on how polygyny can contribute to family structure and community support.Tune in for an enlightening conversation that challenges conventional views and encourages thoughtful dialogue. #polygyny #familystructure #communitysupportThank you for joining the conversation. I appreciate each and every one of you. Please like, share, and subscribe. You may connect with Princess Rebekah on social media. Facebook: Princess Rebkah YahudahInstagram: @loyalroyalrebkahVisit my website for your freebies and other goodies!https://www.verlyntarlton.com Until next week. May you experience extraordinary love.

Are you having those important conversations about money? Does having money conversations make you uncomfortable? Do you know your partners money story?Listen in as we dive into this very important conversation. Christiane David, a financial expert, breaks down the significance of money, marriage, and the emotions behind them.Thank you for listening, sharing, and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you. Leave your comment below.Visit my website for your freebies! Download your free magazine. Join my Ladies Only Private Facebook group.https://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudo www.verlyntarlton.comTo contact Christiane David:Podcast : The Guilt Free Spending Podcast (on Apple)Website: https://www.greenwealthylegacy.com Until next week. May you experience extraordinary love.

Too often we don't know who we are at our core. Do you know who you are as a woman? Are you taking time to become HER first? Have you realized all of who you are? Make sure you're a woman first before becoming a wife. Listen closely as we delve into this topic that's not talked about enough. Thank you for listening and sharing! Please subscribe and post your questions or comments below. I appreciate each and every one of you.Check out my website for great freebies and a couple's vision board template. Be sure to grab a copy of my FREE digital magazine.www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love...

Have you seen him when he's angry? Do you know how he responds when he can't have his way? How your man handles conflict is important and you need to see it before you say I do.Thank you for listening, subscribing, and sharing. I appreciate each and every one of you. Leave your comment or question, as well as a topic you'd like to see covered. Please visit my website and see the valuable resources I have just for you. Especially my FREE digital magazine!Make sure you join my private Facebook group for women only. You'll be glad you did. https://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudoMay you experience extraordinary love.

Are you healing before going into the next relationship? Is hurt still in your heart? Do you recognize your triggers? Are you over your ex? Michelle has a message for your healing. Everything she says is spot on!!Thank you for joining the conversation. Leave your comment, question, or topic suggestion. I appreciate each and every one of you!Join my PRIVATE Facebook group for ladies only. https://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudoCheck out my updated website and download your freebies.*Be sure to grab a copy of the couple's vision board template.P.S. My FREE magazine is ready, make sure to download your copy today. www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love...

Are you confused about what you really want? Have you sat down to think things through concerning your future spouse and what you want from him or her? Tune in as we delve into this to get the answers you need. Marriage, just like a business, is serious business. Time to get to it. Thank you for listening, sharing, and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you. Make sure to leave your comments or questions below.Join my new PRIVATE Facebook group for ladies only.https://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudoCheck out my updated website and download the freebies!*Be sure to grab a copy of the couple's vision board template. P.S. My FREE magazine is ready, make sure to download YOUR FREE copy today. www.verlyntarlton.com May you experience extraordinary love...

Do you know how many people get married just to find out they are not so compatible? Listen in as we chat about what to look for and how to navigate this part of the relationship. You'll be glad you did!Thank you in advance for liking,sharing,and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you. Leave your comment or question below.If you'd like to contact Christine Nerney, you may find her on Facebook.Check out my updated website and free resources.www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love...

Let's take a dive into this conversation with Amanda the wedding officiant. Would you want to write your own wedding vows? Do you want a traditional ceremony? Have you talked with your future spouse about what you really want?Amanda shares her experience with over 200 weddings and some sage advice. You can have the ceremony experience you desire.Contact Amanda here:Facebook: Officiating by Amanda or Amanda Walck OttingerSpotify & Apple: The Wedding WhereEmail: [email protected]: Amanda Walck OttingerThank you in advance for liking, sharing, and subscribing! I appreciate each and every one of you. Head on over to my site to see all the free goodies including my digital magazine. It's packed with some good stuff just for you. www.verlyntarlton.com Until next week.May you experience extraordinary love...

Is marriage a relic of the past? Have you given up on love? Why is marriage being discouraged? Listen to the statistics in this episode and then ask yourself some questions. This episode is short but epic in thought.Join the conversation. Share with a friend. Post your comments and opinions. I'm here to support one million women who want to be and stay happily married. Visit my website for a few fantastic freebies! verlyntarlton.com I have also started a private Facebook group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/beforeyoudo Thank you for listening, liking, sharing, and subscribing.May you experience extraordinary love.

Does your mate know your money story? Do you know your mate's money story? Should money be a part of your dating conversation? These and many more questions will be answered in this chat. Christiane David has a lot to say about money and marriage. Join the conversation and be sure to share with a friend!Thank you for listening in, like, share, and leave your questions below. We appreciate each and every one of you. Stay tuned for part 2 next week.Also, there are NEW things happening in the Before You Do world, coming soon! Can't wait to share with you. You're going to love it!May you experience extraordinary love...

Are you stuck in the future and NOT living in today? Do you struggle with focusing on "this day"? Are you anxious about getting married? If you answered yes to any of these questions, this episode is for you. Coach Renee is sharing how to live in joy today while still planning for tomorrow. Join the conversation and please like, share, and subscribe! We appreciate each and every one of you. Stay tuned for great changes on the way!Comment with your questions. To reach Coach Renee:info@youngwiserwoman.comwww.youngwiserwoman.com443-420-8404Facebook: Renee DixonLinkedIn: Renee DixonPurchase "Love Notes to Self" by Coach Renee

Are you aware of your presentation and what it says about you? Did you know your vibe attracts the men in your life? Listen as we delve into what it is to have class, dignity, and elegance again. These are things to know before you say "I do."Thank you for joining the conversation and telling a friend. Make sure to subscribe and leave a comment or question below.May you experience extraordinary love...

Join this phenomenal conversation with Mrs. Margaret McKie and Mr. Byron McKie from the Beyond I Do Podcast as they drop some serious gems and break it all the way down. This was our first time having a couple on the show and I am beyond thrilled with this episode.Make sure to share with a friend. Comment, and post your questions, let's show this super fantastic couple some love!Contact information for the McKie family is below:www.beyondidopodcast.com IG: beyondidopodcastFB: Beyond I Do PodcastYT: The Beyond I Do PodcastMake sure to pick up a copy of their book! www.verlyntarlton.comThank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you!May you experience extraordinary love...

Join the conversation as we delve into what it means to have "no expectations". It's not what you think. Mrs. Jackie Jones breaks it down.Thank you for listening, liking, sharing, and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you. Leave your comments or questions below. To reach Mrs. Jackie follow her on:Facebook: Jackie JonesInstagram: mpressions4uwww.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love.Bye for now.

Join me as we discuss the different transitional phases of relationships. First there's the courtship phase, next the honeymoon phase, and then the marriage phase. Prepare yourself to face them all. Please remember to like, share, and subscribe. Leave your comment or your question.Thank you for listening. I appreciate each and every one of you. Be sure to check out my website. www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love.

Do you recognize generational blessings or curses? Join Amani Jackson as she spreads light on this much needed subject matter. Who you attach yourself with is crucial. Thank you for listening, liking, sharing, and subscribing. I appreciate each and every one of you.You can find Amani at:www.starpointpub.comemail: [email protected]: Amani Jacksonwww.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love.

Do his children respect him? Does he respect his ex? Do they respect each other? Have you considered the effort that will go into blending a family? Creating a blended family, while it can be done, will most definitely require lots of thought and consideration beforehand. Listen carefully and take lots of notes. We may have a part 2.Thank you for listening, liking, sharing, and subscribing. Leave your comment or question.May you experience extraordinary love...Click the link to my website to order the book I mentioned and to hear any previous podcasts.www.verlyntarlton.com

Does gratitude make a difference in marriage? Listen as Chanelle Carlin breaks this down. Gratitude starts in small everyday ways and helps prevent complacency. Thank you for watching, liking, sharing, and subscribing. Leave your comment or question below. To connect with Chanelle and learn more about her couples retreat and what she does find her here:www.chanellecarlin.comIG: @chanelle.carlinFacebook: Chanelle CarlinAgain, thank you for watching.To learn more about me and the books I offer find me here:www.verlyntarlton.com May you experience extraordinary love.

This episode is packed with great conversation! Listen as Tasha shares her experience of how she opened up her life to new things.Thank you for listening, sharing, and subscribing! Leave your comment or question below.To see more of Tasha Johnson go to:Instagram @tishtash2.0You may visit me at: verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love.

Did you know your marriage will go through seasons just like the seasons in nature? Join the chat with me and Mrs. Tee as we discuss how to pivot through the seasons.Thank you in advance for liking, sharing, and subscribing. Leave a comment or question below. To contact Mrs. Tee Way email her at: [email protected] or visit her website at www.tee-way.comwww.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love...

Do you really know what a prenuptial agreement is? Join this conversation to find out more, you might be surprised. Samantha Granderson, Esq drops the gems, take a listen.Thank you in advance for liking, sharing, and subscribing. We appreciate each and every one of you.Remember to leave a comment and participate in the poll. To reach Attorney Samantha Granderson call 301-615-9520 or contact her via social media: Facebook @ The Law Office of Samantha Granderson.www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love...

Sitting in silence can be life changing. Do you ever sit in silence and just listen? Join the conversation as we chat about it.Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing. Join us next week with Samantha Hailey-Granderson, Esq.For details on the Sacred Oasis Silent Retreat coming in the fall, email: [email protected] www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love.

Is deflecting, defending, or denying your go to during confrontations? Join the conversation as we delve into this before you say, "I do". Thank you for sharing, subscribing, and liking!www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love...

Do you understand the words coming out of your man's mouth? Are you really listening? Join me and let's chop it up. I'd love to hear your comments about reflective listening, and communication skills, leave them below.Thank you for liking, sharing, and subscribing. www.verlyntarlton.comMay you experience extraordinary love.