Breaking the Browndary Podcast

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Breaking the Browndary Podcast

Welcome to Breaking the Browndary with Rhea Kandel, where we share global stories from South Asians in their 20s and beyond, who choose to step outside the conventional norms.

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    The Grief No One Talks About: Miscarriage in South Asian Communities

    In this episode of Breaking the Browndary, I’m joined by Ananya, a workplace wellbeing and pregnancy loss specialist, certified coach, trauma-informed breathwork practitioner, and former reproductive biologist — for a thoughtful conversation on pregnancy loss, grief, healing, and the cultural silence that so often surrounds these experiences.We begin with a short grounding breathwork practice you can follow along with in the episode, before exploring Ananya’s personal journey through miscarriage, the pressure many South Asians feel to carry loss quietly, and the ways grief can show up emotionally, physically, mentally, and at work.✨ In this episode, we explore:🤍 Pregnancy loss and the silence that can surround it🌿 A grounding breathwork practice for grief and anxiety🫂 Miscarriage in South Asian communities💭 How grief can affect the mind, body, relationships, and work🌸 Pregnancy after loss and the emotions it can bring👧🏽 The pressure to be the “good Indian girl” while carrying pain privately🧠 Cultural shame, stigma, and inherited silence🫁 Breathwork, healing, and creating space for grief in the body💼 How workplaces can better support those affected by pregnancy lossThis is a compassionate conversation for anyone who has experienced pregnancy loss, is navigating pregnancy after loss, or wants to understand better how to support someone through it.Please share this episode with someone who may need it.---------------------------------------------------------------Connect with Ananya:Website: www.ananyaampersand.comInstagram: @ananyaampersandFree resources:🎧 Pregnancy loss audio bundle + PDF guide:https://ananyaampersand.myflodesk.com/freemiscarriageaudiobundle🧰 First response toolkit for HR professionals supporting staff through pregnancy loss:https://ananyaampersand.myflodesk.com/firstresponsekit🌿  Guided breathwork and meditation practice specifically for pregnancy after loss: https://ananyaampersand.myflodesk.com/pregnancyafterlossaudio-------------------------------------------------------------------If this episode resonated with you, I’d be so grateful if you followed Breaking the Browndary and left a review. It genuinely helps the podcast reach more people who might benefit from these conversations.Thank you for being here, for listening, and for supporting this space. You can follow ⁠@breakingthebrowndary on Instagram and always feel free to share your reflections with me there — I’d genuinely love to hear from you.Stay blessed,Rhea x-------------------------------------------------------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction to Grief and Pregnancy Loss02:37 Grounding Practice for Healing06:20 Ananya's Personal Journey with Pregnancy Loss17:26 Navigating Grief in South Asian Culture21:50 The Impact of Interracial Relationships on Grief24:48 Friendships and Grief26:30 Tools for Coping with Grief30:44 Understanding Support in Friendships During Grief34:26 The Pressure on Women and Male Factor Infertility34:49 Navigating Grief and Emotional Flexibility38:44 Cultural Taboos and the Role of 'Aunties'40:36 Pregnancy After Loss: Myths and Realities43:05 The Male Perspective on Grief and Support45:53 Workplace Policies and Support for Grieving Parents49:14 Future of Bereavement Leave and Support Resources

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    20: I Quit Law to Be a Full-Time Content Creator (with Ria)

    In this episode of Breaking the Browndary Podcast, we sit down with Ria Lakhani, a creator and brand founder redefining what it means to be a modern South Asian woman. She’s the visionary behind On Cloud Dine, a feel good food platform that celebrates culture through recipes, restaurant finds, and her beloved “Dad Hacks” series. Ria opens up about her journey from pursuing a traditional law career to following her passion for cooking, freelancing, and content creation.We discuss: 💼 Leaving law & breaking South Asian stereotypes🍳 Building a career as a full-time content creator💸 The money side of freelancing and how it all works👩🏽‍👩🏽‍👧🏽 Family expectations + cultural pressures ( being the eldest daughter)🧠 Overcoming imposter syndrome & self-doubt🌱 Advice for aspiring creators: how to just start🎙️ Breaking the Browndary shares global stories of South Asians who are rewriting the rules, breaking cultural expectations, and living boldly.👇🏽 Follow along if you want real convos on culture, self-growth & identityInstagram: @breakingthebrowndary-----------------------------------Chapters00:00 Intro & Rapid Fire12:09 The Journey from Law to Content Creation14:48 The Wake-Up Call: A Life-Altering Accident17:59 Finding Freedom in India20:55 Building a Brand: The Slow Process24:07 Time Management and Avoiding Burnout26:33 Family Support and Cultural Heritage28:12 The Journey of On Cloud Dine32:01 Navigating the Creator Economy37:30 Challenges in Content Creation42:38 Cultural Pressures and Personal Growth49:16 Breaking Boundaries in Content Creation--------------------------------Ria's socials: @on_clouddine @Ria_lakhs

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    19: Bringing Ancient Healing to a Modern World (with Anisah)

    Trigger Warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual abuse and trauma. Please listen with care.In this powerful episode of Breaking the Browndary, we explore what it truly means to come back home to your body. I’m joined by ⁠⁠Anisah⁠⁠, a holistic therapist specialising in somatic healing, trauma recovery, and nervous system regulation.We don't hold back- diving straight into intergenerational trauma, cultural shame, and the conditioning that’s kept so many of us stuck in cycles of control, people-pleasing, and emotional suppression. But we come out of the other sideto explore how we can start reconnecting to our bodies, reclaim our inner safety, and actually feel free.  Anisah breaks down how the bottom three chakras—root, sacral, and solar plexus—hold the blueprint for survival, shame, and power struggles, and how reconnecting with the body through simple somatic tools can create deep shifts right now. You’ll walk away with real tools to:🔹 Understand somatic therapy  & using it in daily life (aka: healing through the body, not just your brain)🔹 Break free from survival mode and generational trauma🔹 Use the chakra system as a roadmap for healing (Root, Sacral & Solar Plexus)🔹 Real-life grounding tools to root into your power(yes, including hugging trees 🌳)🔹 Practical ways to regulate your nervous system and not just pushing through it🔹 Set boundaries and navigate cultural expectations(without spiralling into guilt)🔹 Honour your South Asian roots while creating your own path🔹 Abundance vs scarcity mindset and how it links to our lineage🔹Connect to your body's innate intelligence and start inner child healing This episode is an activation. Take notes, take deep breaths, and get ready to remember your body’s wisdom.-------------------------------------------------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction to Breaking Boundaries01:02 Rapid Fire Round: Healing Practices08:07 Anisah's Journey to Somatic Healing 13:00 Understanding Somatic Healing15:52 The Throat Chakra: Speaking from your Authenticity18:00 Intergenerational Trauma in the South Asian Community20:25 The Root Chakra: Survival21:28 The Sacral Chakra: Shame23:23 The Solar Plexus Chakra: Control26:11 Reclaiming Our Heritage and Healing29:36 Understanding Ancestral Healing and Privilege30:36 Cultural Expectations and Personal Growth31:57 Setting Boundaries in Relationships35:10 Representation and Identity in the South Asian Community37:45 Abundance vs. Scarcity Mindset40:08 The Impact of Somatic Healing44:01 Connecting with your Body's Innate Language46:28 Honouring the Female Cycle48:53 The Mind-Body Connection in Healing50:16 Guided Somatic Practice: Practical Tools for Somatic Healing53:51 Grounding Practise: Nervous System Regulation55:18 Tree Technique: Nervous System Regulation57:24 Reclaiming Power and Community Healing01:00:08 Continuing the Conversation on Healing------------------------------------------------------------------Anisah's Socials: Instagram:@holistic.anisahTik Tok: @holistic.anisah------------------------------------------------------------------If you enjoyed this episode, please do give a follow to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps it to grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incrediblestories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms.Instagram:⁠⁠ @breakingthebrowndary⁠⁠ Stay blessed,Rhea x

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    18: Listen to This If You Feel Stuck: Life Coaching with Bhavya Arora

    Feeling stuck in your life, career, or relationships? Let's break it down and give you some practical, tangible steps to get un-stuck. I promise you this episode isn't just waffle- it's full of frameworks we can use to actually get un-stuck and overcome our limiting beliefs. Meet Bhavya Arora , a certified life transformational and career coach, and author of “Where The F**k Do I Go From Here?” (yes, that’s the actual title). She’s helped hundreds move from stuck to glowing and grounded – and now she’s coaching us.This isn’t just another fluffy self-help chat — we get into:🔹 The silent pressure South Asians face to “have it all figured out”🔹 Feeling like you're behind in your 20s and 30s (spoiler: you're not)🔹 Real frameworks to rewire your limiting beliefs🔹 How to actually take action when fear has you frozen🔹 Breaking free from family expectations + doing life your wayBhavya breaks it down with practical tips, mindset shifts, and 🔥 life coaching exercises you can apply today.✨ This one’s for you if you’re ready to stop playing small and start building a life that feels like yours.--------------------------------------------------------------------🔗 Connect with Bhavya Instagram: @forwardfocuslondonFacebook: Forward Focus LondonLinkedIn: Forward Focus LondonTikTok: @forwardfocuslondon--------------------------------------------------------------------Don't forget to subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and living life on their own terms.Instagram: @breakingthebrowndary Stay blessed,Rhea xChapters00:00 Intro & Rapid Fire06:00 Bhavya's Personal Story: From Fear to Freedom17:40 Common Struggles of Millennials: Career, Relationships, and Growth19:05 Common career struggles in 20s & 30s21:08 Common relationship struggles in 20s & 30s22:45 Common personal growth struggles in 20s & 30s24:52 The importance of stepping outside of your comfort zone26:21 Unpacking South Asian Specific Issues27:53 Practical Advice for Breaking Free from Family Expectations32:40 Practical Life Coaching Scenarios 1-442:17 The One-Size-Fits-All Myth in Personal Development46:09 Life Coaching Scenario 549:46 A Practical Framework for Overcoming Limiting Beliefs58:11 Understanding Quantum Leaping and Its Impact01:01:04 The Power of Choice in Creating Change01:05:17 Breaking Boundaries: Personal and Professional Growth

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    17: Becoming "That Girl": South Asian Edition – Feminine Energy & Inner Work

    This episode is for the South Asian woman who is healing, glowing & building her soft, rich girl life. ✨ This is all about real self-development, womanhood, and healthy habits—from a South Asian lens.In this juicy episode, I sit down with Rishani—a self-development YouTuber and podcaster with 80K+ subscribers—who’s become the big sister figure for so many women navigating their 20s and 30s. We’re unpacking what it really means to become that girl—not just aesthetically, but from within. We talk about:💫 Breaking out of survival mode, creating a safe space from toxic households & finally choosing yourself💫 Feminine energy hacks to glow from the inside out and attract growth & abundance effortlessly💫 Mindset shifts to level up your life & career and become your dream self💫 The truth about healing, self-love & becoming "that girl" 💫 Growing your platform while staying true to who you arePlus:🔹 How to tap into your feminine energy without guilt or shame🔹 Balancing masculine & feminine energy in a high-achieving world🔹 Inner work > outer glow: underrated glow-up advice no one talks aboutWhether you're navigating toxic family dynamics, feeling stuck, or just ready to glow differently this year—this episode is your reminder to slow down, turn inward, and choose you. 💖Don't forget to follow Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast to grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incrediblestories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms.Follow me at⁠ @breakingthebrowndary⁠ on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback,or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.Rhea xChapters00:00 Introduction to Breaking Boundaries12:30 Navigating Womanhood and Self-Development19:34 Understanding Feminine Energy24:54 Tapping into Feminine Energy32:11 The Journey into Self-Development39:09 Glow Up Tips: Internal vs External44:28 Thriving in Toxic Environments47:19 The Quality of Connections50:22 Authenticity and Self-Expression52:08 Navigating Social Media as a Creator56:32 Starting Your Content Creation Journey01:00:22 Sustainability in Social Media Careers

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    16: Dating in 2025: ghosting, breadcrumbing, what is a healthy relationship?

    Today, we have a JUICYYY episode which is all about dating. In a world where South Asians are often caught between tradition and modernity, dating can feel more confusing than ever.  Our special guest is Niti, a South Asian dating coach, who’s here to help us navigate the complexities of dating in today’s world.We’re diving into how to date with intention, avoid burnout, and set boundaries that feel empowering, all while staying true to yourself. Niti shares key insights on how to align your dating intentions, build trust in the early stages, and uncover blind spots that might be holding you back. Plus, we explore the role of dating apps and how to approach relationships without the pressure of timelines. The conversation wraps up with Niti’s ebook, ⁠Unrushed Romance,⁠ a guide to dating without pressure. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or lost in the modern dating world, this episode is for you.-----------------------------------------------------------Key Topics covered:🔹 How to align your intentions before dating🔹 Building trust in the early stages of dating🔹 Common blind spots we encounter in relationships🔹 Showing up authentically while dating🔹 Setting healthy boundaries in relationships🔹 Avoiding burnout & overwhelm in the dating scene🔹 How to be intentional when dating🔹 How can we become better at dating and finding our partner- mindset shifts that change everything-----------------------------------------------------------Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for next week's episode as we explorethe incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and living life on their own terms.Follow me at @breakingthebrowndary on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned fromthe podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatlyappreciated. Stay blessed,Rhea x

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    15: Trust Yourself: How to Think Critically & Live on Your Own Terms

    In this episode i'm joined byShilpa⁠, a London-based management consultant, writer and the founder of Kahaani Collective⁠,a platform dedicated to fostering professional and creative growth for South Asians. Shilpa opens up about her journey of navigating cultural identity, career challenges, and personal growth as a South Asian woman. We dive into topics such as self-validation, breaking free from family expectations, and the influence of social media on self-perception and worth. Shilpa emphasises the need for young South Asian women to reclaim authority over their lives and make decisions that align with their true selves, despite societal expectations.Through her platforms, she aims to increase exposure on the South Asian experience, across all aspects such as mental health, self-respect, motivation and unlearning toxic mindsets, and a space where individuals can share their experiences and feel understood. This episode is for you if you're:✨ A South Asian breaking boundaries in life & career✨ Struggling to balance personal freedom with family expectations✨ Tired of seeking validation from others & ready to trust yourself✨ Looking for real conversations about independence, self-worth, and authenticityKey points covered:🔹Reclaim Your Power: How to make decisions that feel true toyou, even when family and culture say otherwise.🔹Breaking Free from Expectations: The unspoken pressures of being a South Asian woman—and how to navigate them.🔹The Truth About Moving Out & Living Independently: Is it worth the risk? What no one tells you about it.🔹Self-Validation & Critical Thinking: How to trust your own voice in a world full of noise.🔹The Role of Social Media: Are influencers shaping our beliefs more than we realise?🔹The Power of Storytelling: Why sharing your journey can create real change.🔹Balancing Tradition & Individuality: How to stay connected to your rootswithout losing yourself.------------------------------------------------------------------Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Background01:09 Rapid Fire Round02:57 Family Dynamics and Breaking Free from Societal Expectations10:48 What is Consulting?12:57 Being the Eldest Daughter14:58 Do Parents Know Best? Upholding Family Expectations18:49 Challenges of Moving Out and Navigating Community Expectations21:42 Living Independently as a Brown Woman24:40 Dealing with Judgement & Criticism26:16 Creating Your Safe Space27:52 The Power of Critical Thinking and Self-Validation30:05 Navigating Social Media and the Influence of Influencers37:50 The Importance of Storytelling and Building Community44:31 The Need for Media Literacy and Discerning Consumption50:22 The Journey of Vulnerability, Self-Acceptance, and Self-Love51:53 Breaking Boundaries: Making Decisions Based on Personal Beliefs---------------------------------------------------------------------Don't forget to follow Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms.Follow me at @breakingthebrowndary on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned fromthe podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.Stay blessed,Rhea x 

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    14: How to build wealth with your 9-to-5? Personal Finance 101

    Heyyy lovelies! Let’s kick off the year with some real talk about MONEY! It’s time to reset your finances in 2025 and make this year your most prosperous yet. 💸✨ In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Sanskriti Nigam— founder of @brownwomanwealth, Financial Wellness Coach, Chartered Accountant, and Investor. With 15 years in the Big 4 and a passion for empowering others, Sanskriti’s here to help you take control of your money and break through financial barriers. You're going to want to take notes. We dive into her journey of navigating money in immigrant communities, building generational wealth, and shifting mindsets around financial freedom. Whether you’re juggling a 9-to-5 or dreaming of long-term growth, Sanskriti’s got actionable tips to help you take the reins of your financial future. Let’s reset our finances in 2025 and make it the year we truly thrive! 🌟 Topics Covered 🔷 Sanskriti’s journey from Chartered Accountant to Financial Wellness Coach. 🔷 How cultural influences shape financial decisions in immigrant communities. 🔷 Practical steps to build wealth while working a 9-to-5 job. 🔷 The importance of financial literacy in breaking generational cycles. 🔷 Common misconceptions about building wealth. 🔷 Tips for creating and maintaining an emergency fund. 🔷 What is a SIPP, and how can it help you grow wealth for the future? 🔷 Mindset shifts: Scarcity mindset vs. wealthy mindset. 🔷 How to challenge family expectations around money and tradition. 🔷 Investing for long-term growth and understanding your financial goals. 🔷 The importance of tracking your expenses and paying off high-interest debt. 🔷 Breaking generational cycles of financial trauma to empower the next generation. Key Takeaways 🔷 Start tracking your income and expenses to build a clear picture of your financial situation. 🔷 Build an emergency fund for financial stability. 🔷 Pay off high-interest debt to improve your financial health. 🔷 Understand how cultural mindsets shape your money decisions. 🔷 Financial freedom means having control and choices, not just wealth. 🔷 Challenge traditional family financial advice if it doesn’t align with your goals. 🔷 Break generational cycles of financial trauma to empower future generations. 🔷 Invest with clarity on your goals and take small, intentional steps toward wealth building --------------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Follow me at @breakingthebrowndary on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.  Stay blessed, Rhea x Disclaimer: The information in this podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes only. It is not financial advice. Always consult a licensed professional before making any financial decisions.

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    13: The forgotten stories of the Indo-Caribbean community

    Welcome back to another episode Breaking of the Browndary! 🎙️ In this episode, we dive into the history and cultural identity, as well as the present day of the Indo-Caribbean community with Vinay Harrichan, founder of⁠ The Cutlass Magazine.⁠ From personal stories of resilience to the cultural legacies of Indian indentured laborers, this episode is a heartfelt homage to a heritage often overlooked. 🌍❤️ Vinay shares stories of the Indo-Caribbean diaspora, discussing the impacts of Indian indentureship, his family's heritage, and the historical and social challenges faced by Indo-Caribbean descendants today. Together, we explore the significant cultural journey from India to the Caribbean and its lasting influence on politics, religion, and identity in the Indo-Caribbean community. ----------------------------------------------------------  Topics covered: 🔹 Indo-Caribbean history: migration and indentureship vs slavery 🔹 High rates of suicide and sexual abuse in ships carrying indentured labourers 🔹 Gender roles: women as property in Indo-Caribbean societies 🔹 Matriarchy in the community due to men’s reduced life expectancy 🔹 Preserving Indo-Caribbean culture and legacy, including food and traditions 🔹 Intersectionality between South Asian and Caribbean cultures 🔹 Caste and class discrimination within the Indo-Caribbean community 🔹 Navigating rejection and identity in Caribbean and South Asian communities 🔹 Reviving and preserving Indo-Caribbean heritage: music (soca, chutney, calypso), food, and language (Bhojpuri) 🔹 Modern Indo-Caribbean culture in the UK ---------------------------------------------------------- Timestamps: (00:00) Exploring Indo-Caribbean Identity and History (12:35) Enduring Resilience in Indo-Caribbean Culture (21:15) Preserving Indo-Caribbean Heritage and Legacy (25:42) Navigating Indo-Caribbean Identity and Recognition (31:26) Navigating Indo-Caribbean Identity and Acceptance (43:24) Indo-Caribbean Culture and Music Fusion (55:11) Indo-Caribbean Identity and Cultural Preservation (01:03:31) Indo-Caribbean Caste and Culture Integration ---------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast to grow. Follow me at ⁠@breakingthebrowndary ⁠on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated. Stay blessed, Rhea x

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    12: Connecting with Your Body: How to Reclaim and Redefine Pleasure

    In this empowering and feel-good conversation, we sit down with Rakhi Sachdev, an empowerment and embodiment coach for Women of Colour (WOC). Rakhi shares her insights on how women can deepen their relationship with their bodies, reclaim pleasure, and challenge the perfectionistic and people-pleasing tendencies ingrained in them. As a first-generation British-born Gujarati woman, Rakhi’s unique perspective on cultural and societal expectations sheds light on the importance of self-trust, vulnerability, and authentic self-expression. Listen to understand the transformative power of connecting to our bodies, how we can redefine and connect to our bodies and pleasure, and value ourselves. Topics Covered: 🔹 Personal and Cultural Background: Growing up as a first-generation British-born Gujarati woman. Influence of Bollywood and cultural heritage on self-image and beliefs. 🔹 Journey of Empowerment: Transition from perfectionism and people-pleasing to self-trust and empowerment. Personal experiences with body image issues and the quest for perfection. 🔹 Understanding and Reclaiming Pleasure: What is pleasure, and why is it important for women, especially WOC? How societal expectations and perfectionism affect our connection to pleasure. The role of play and pleasure in creating possibilities. 🔹 Embodiment Practices: Connecting to the body as an antidote to shame and vulnerability. Dance and mirror work as tools for self-empowerment and rewriting beliefs. The significance of savoring moments and entering a childlike state for joy and self-connection. 🔹 Sexual Pleasure and Body Connection: Defining sexual pleasure and how women can connect to it. Combatting internal and external barriers to experiencing pleasure. The importance of vulnerability and lowering guards to fully embrace self-expression. 🔹 Overcoming Cultural and Societal Barriers: Addressing respectability politics and the “hush hush” culture surrounding pleasure. Breaking generational cycles of perfectionism and shame. Advice for women feeling disconnected from their bodies and those seeking to reconnect. -------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Follow me at @breakingthebrowndary on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.   Stay blessed, Rhea x

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    11: Unmasking Autism: A South Asian Perspective

    Join us in this eye-opening episode of 'Breaking the Browndary' as we explore the unmasking journey of being autistic within the South Asian community. Meet Niraj, a financial consultant working in London, who has autism, is an open neurodiversity advocate, and established public speaker, having spoken at several universities and Autism Conferences. His written work sheds light on the diverse facets of life with autism through his own newsletter ⁠'Niraj's thoughts'⁠ Discover his personal story, advocacy insights, and the unique intersectionality of culture and neurodiversity. Tune in to 'We All Mask: A South Asian Perspective on Autism'! 🎙️ #AutismAwareness #SouthAsianVoices #BreakingTheBrowndary ----------------------------------------------------------- Topics covered: 🔹 Intersectionality of being autistic and South Asian🔹 Being more than autistic🔹 How neurodiversity shapes your worldview🔹 Not fitting into societal expectations🔹 Autistic burnout during COVID🔹 Sharing experiences via a blog: autism and friendship🔹 Autism masking: what is it?🔹 Two-way learning between neurodivergent and neurotypical individuals🔹 Masking: rebellion or freedom?🔹 Benefits and reality of unmasking🔹 Advice for your unmasking journey🔹 Authentic relationships with autism🔹 Neurodivergent/neurotypical friendships🔹 Neurodivergent vs. neurotypical perspectives🔹 Traveling with autism🔹 Breaking out of the bubble🔹 How to support and understand people with autism🔹 Networking ----------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms. Instagram: ⁠Breaking the Browndary⁠ Feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.    Stay blessed and tuned for the next, Rhea x

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    10: 5 things i wish i knew before turning 25 (and i'm still learning)

    In this special 10th episode of "Breaking the Boundary," I take a moment to reflect on my personal journey, and I'm eager to share with you five key insights that I wish I had grasped before I turned 25. My intention for these valuable lessons is for them to help you navigate your own life more effectively. The episode is a blend of life advice, personal anecdotes, and practical tips that may help you navigate your 20s and beyond. Topics covered: (00:01:24) Investing in Myself   Financial, health, and self-development investments for personal growth and future security. (00:06:17) Being Kind to Myself Overcoming perfectionism and self-criticism, embracing uniqueness, and allowing grace for mistakes. (00:09:51) Understanding Impermanence Accepting the temporary nature of life, relationships, and experiences, and appreciating the present moment. (00:11:44) Trusting Your Intuition Connecting with inner voice, following excitement, and overcoming self-doubt to make empowered decisions. (00:15:34) Avoiding Assumptions Challenging subconscious assumptions, communicating to avoid misunderstandings, and questioning personal belief ---------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for next week's episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and living life on their own terms. Follow me at @breakingthebrowndary on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated. Stay blessed, Rhea x --------------------------------------------------- Disclaimer: Please note that the content provided in this podcast is for entertainment purposes only. I am not a financial advisor, and the information shared here should not be considered as financial advice. Any actions taken based on the content of this podcast are at your own risk, and I cannot be held liable for any consequences. Always consult with a qualified professional before making any financial decisions. Thank you for listening, and enjoy the show.

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    9: Vogue's Trailblazer: Tamil Nadu's First Male Fashion Model (with Kaviraj)

    Meet Kaviraj: A 5'7 model, actor & filmmaker from the vibrant landscapes of Tamil Nadu, South India. Breaking stereotypes as the first male fashion model from Tamil Nadu, Kaviraj has graced the pages of Vogue, Atmos, and been featured on billboards in London without any initial connections to the fashion industry. His story is truly inspiring and we discuss his journey and how he fought against industry norms as the shortest male model in his state. Join us for an intimate conversation with Kaviraj, as he breaks barriers and redefines standards in the world of fashion. ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Topics covered: 🔹 Kaviraj's fashion model inspiration🔹 Modeling challenges in South vs North India🔹 Accidental journey to becoming a writer and director🔹 South India's conservative influence🔹 Being mocked for long hair 🔹 Lack of model industry support in Tamil Nadu🔹 Small creative community in Tamil Nadu🔹 Challenges of being brown and 5'7" as a male model🔹 Lack of representation for brown models🔹 Traveling to all the fashion cities in India🔹 Reaching out to 400 photographers to build a network🔹 Contacting 2000 people for opportunities🔹 Missed opportunity at London Fashion Week🔹 Reality of networking as a model🔹 Kaviraj's feature in Vogue India🔹 Insights into Salem, Kaviraj's hometown🔹 Advice for aspiring young models🔹 Positive shift for South Asian Models🔹 Starting from scratch in the modeling industry🔹 The first male fashion model from Tamil Nadu ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Kaviraj's Socials: Instagram Website ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as your support helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their terms. Instagram: ⁠Breaking the Browndary⁠ Stay blessed and tuned for the next, Rhea x

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    8: India's surge of 'Influencer' Marketing (with Prachi & Harsh- @twoticketstofreedom)

    Today, we have a special Valentine's Day episode. We're delving into the stories of the amazing travel couple Prachi & Harsh, known as @twoticketstofreedom They've built an online community of over 350,000 people by sharing what they love. The dynamic duo took a bold risk transitioning from full-time Pharma corporate roles to being full-time travel content creators. They're here to spill all their secrets creating authentic content that captivates audiences, sharing the story of how they pivoted their careers, and their thoughts about the rise of Indian creator economy as well as the industries that are really booming for influencers right now. Topics covered: 🔷 The story of how Prachi and Harsh created 'twoticketstofreedom' together. 🔷 The meaning of 'twoticketstofreedom.' 🔷 Transitioning from full-time pharma roles to full content creation - traveling the world and getting paid for it. 🔷 Pushing the boundaries of parents' expectations. 🔷 How Harsh carved his own role as a digital marketer in the company he was working at. 🔷 Pivoting careers and dealing with uncertainty when jumping into the unknown. 🔷 How to navigate uncertain career paths. 🔷 Advice for transitioning to another career. 🔷 How other creators inspired Prachi and Harsh. 🔷 The attitude of 'no back-up.' 🔷 Where content is booming for South Asians. 🔷 The creator economy in India. 🔷 Their audience strategy. 🔷 Creating meaningful content and finding your why. 🔷 A typical day in the life of a travel content creator. 🔷 How South Asian heritage plays into being a 'creative.' 🔷 The reality of being a travel content creator. 🔷 Is it sustainable to be a travel content creator? 🔷 Doing a corporate gig and making content - figuring out what makes sense for you. 🔷 How Prachi & Harsh deal with creative burnout. 🔷 What they wish they had known before starting.

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    7: Being a South Asian Freelancer: DJing, Building a Community & Sustainable Design (with Sarith)

    Hey lovelies- here is the last episode of 2023! Join us in a rich conversation with Sarith, a Sri Lankan creative currently in London. We discuss the creative force behind Dhaga—a South Asian collective making waves in London. From navigating rejection to finding inspiration in sustainable design, Sarith's journey is a testament to resilience and creativity. 🎨 Dive into her story as she shares insights on DJing, therapy through music, and the origins of Dhaga. This conversation delves into the diverse aspects of creativity, personal growth, and the resilience found in pursuing one's passion. Sarith Ratnayake (she/her) is a versatile professional dedicated to fostering inclusive environments and uniting communities through her expertise in art, design, and music. With a background spanning various disciplines, she is recognized as a multidisciplinary artist, designer, curator, and DJ. In this episode we cover: 🔹 Adapting to the UK from Sri Lanka 🔹 Sarith's Creative Journey & Avoiding Burn-Out 🔹 Pressure as a Designer & Rejection as Redirection 🔹 Social & Sustainable Design 🔹 Designing an Art Exhibition 🔹 Working on Sustainability within Real Estate 🔹 Monetising a Hobby: DJing for Adidas 🔹 How Music becomes Sarith's Therapy 🔹 Navigating Parental Expectations 🔹 How Sarith started Freelancing 🔹 Founding Dhaga: A South Asian Collective ------------------------------------------------------- Sarith's Socials: Instagram Tik Tok Dhaga's Instagram Dhaga's Website ------------------------------------------------------ Don't forget to follow Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their terms. Instagram:⁠ Breaking the Browndary⁠ Feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.  Stay blessed and tuned for the next, Rhea x

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    6: Managing PCOS & Body Image: A South Asian Health Coach’s Perspective

    This episode is one of my most vulnerable yet. It is an authentic and unfiltered discussion shedding light on the realities of PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome)—what it is and truly entails, as well as effective management strategies and insightful tips to stay on course. This episode features Chita, our incredible guest who is a Gujarati women's health coach. Join us as we explore her unique health journey, sharing personal experiences with PCOS and navigating the challenges of body image. Our conversation goes deeper into the unique aspects of handling PCOS as a South Asian. From navigating its impact on dating to candid talks about fertility, we explore the intersectionality of being South Asian while dealing with PCOS. Tune in for valuable insights, covering everything from essential blood checks to personal growth and the journey of breaking free from cultural stigmas. Just remember if you have PCOS, you are not alone and there are ways to manage it, and I hope this episode is a starting point for you as it's something I wish I heard when I was first diagnosed with PCOS. Embark on a journey of self-discovery, health, and empowerment with Chita. It's an episode filled with relatable stories, expert advice, and the warmth of genuine conversation. -------------------------------------------------- Chita's socials: Instagram: @trainwithchita Podcast: ⁠Chat with Chita -------------------------------------------------- Topics Covered: 🔹 Chita's journey with PCOS  🔹 My experience with PCOS 🔹 Evaluating online coaching quality for PCOS  🔹 Benefits of personalized advice 🔹 Adopting new habits and behavioral changes 🔹 Chita's approach to body image for herself and her clients 🔹 Navigating PCOS in dating and marriage 🔹 Disclosing PCOS to partners 🔹 Fertility and pregnancy considerations with PCOS 🔹 Intersectionality of South Asian identity with PCOS 🔹 Specific challenges South Asians face with PCOS 🔹 Significance of regular blood checks 🔹 Identity transformation during health changes 🔹 Impact of 'fun' on health 🔹 Coping with anxiety and depression related to PCOS 🔹 Balancing a corporate job and passion projects 🔹 Transitioning from a victim mindset  🔹 How passion provides purpose 🔹 Tips for Productivity 🔹 Managing a dual life during childhood 🔹 Coping with the uniqueness of being the brown kid with PCOS 🔹 Breaking away from old cultural narratives and South Asian stigmas Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms. Instagram: ⁠Breaking the Browndary⁠ Feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.  Stay blessed and tuned for the next, Rhea x

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    5: Life After ‘The Apprentice’: Breaking Free From the Corporate World & Entrepreneurship

    In this episode, we learn all about Avi Sharma, the youngest contestant on the BBC Apprentice 2023. Stay tuned to discover the top 3 things Avi learned from Lord Sugar- one of Britain's most celebrated business moguls- and how took one of the largest risks to quit his corporate banking job at Barclays to join a UK reality show: The Apprentice. We also dive into his upbringing as a Punjabi born in the UK, how he got into Entrepreneurship and built a personal brand, advice on networking, and touch on controversial topics such as how the UK media portrays young men.  Topics Covered: 🔹 Growing up as a 3rd generation South Asian in the UK 🔹 Entrepreneurship boosting Avi's confidence 🔹 Being the 'golden boy' 🔹 Intergenerational contrasts and privileges within the brown community 🔹 Adopting a risk-taking mentality 🔹 Avi's career journey from Barclays to 'The Apprentice' 🔹 Breaking free from the 9-5 lifestyle 🔹 'Scammed' into the educational system and what Avi would have done differently 🔹  Building a personal brand 🔹 How to connect and find mentors 🔹 Insights into 'The Apprentice' and media industry 🔹 Imposter syndrome and Lord Sugar's input 🔹 Transitioning from the corporate world to an entrepreneurship lifestyle 🔹 Going sober for 'The Apprentice' and adapting to real-life post-show 🔹 Giving back to young men and dealing with the pressure of appearance 🔹 Avi's journey in starting his own business -------------------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms. Instagram:⁠⁠Breaking the Browndary⁠⁠ Feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.  Stay blessed and tuned for the next, Rhea x

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    4: Interracial Dating, Sex before Marriage & Politics (with Sarina)

    Today we have an extremely exciting and loaded conversation with Sarina Kiayani of Pakistani descent. Sarina is the Women's Officer of Young Labour and creator of TikTok news channel sarinadoespolitics.  We dive into supposed 'taboo' topics, such as Sarina's experience with interracial dating, the guilt and shame of sex before marriage, and the complexities of relationships and family, as well as the challenges of embracing South Asian Identity. We explore her insights on casual relationships and the delicate balance between South Asian and Western identities. Sarina also discusses the complexities of being a Muslim in a world marked by Islamophobia and her personal choices, including undergoing surgical procedures as a South Asian. We uncover the hard and cold truth about working in politics as a young South Asian female, how she made connections and became the Young Women's Labour officer, as well as her insights on where the future of Politics is heading.  Join us for an eye-opening conversation that challenges taboos, celebrates individual identities, and sparks discussions on the topics that deserve our attention.  Topics covered:  🔹 Navigating South Asian Muslim Identity in London  🔹 Lessons from youth  🔹 Balancing career choices amid family judgement  🔹 Unveiling relationship guilt and hidden pressures  🔹 'Secret dating' as a South Asian  🔹 Overcoming the stigma of sex before marriage  🔹 Exploring the complexities of interracial relationships  🔹 Battling shame and embracing South Asian Heritage  🔹 Navigating life as a Muslim amid Islamophobia  🔹 Surgical Procedures in South Asian culture  🔹 Her journey in politics  🔹 How she became Young Women's Labour Officer  🔹 Confronting racism as a public figure  🔹 Insights on entering the Politics Industry as a South Asian female

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    3: Multifaceted Creativity, Neurodiversity, and South Asian Success (with Hena)

    Meet Hena Sharma, a versatile creative with a global upbringing currently working at Universal Music Group. We explore her journey as a writer, fashion designer, musician, as well as a champion of culture and travel. We discuss Hena's South Asian upbringing, growing up in Ghana, Sri-Lanka, Bhangladesh, and London, and her ability to adapt and pivot her creative ventures. We look at the creative process behind her music and fashion brand "rasa", how she found mentors in the music industry and pushed past barriers including balancing creativity with family expectations, the lack of representation of South Asians in creative industries, and achieving financial stability as a creative. The conversation also explores the powerful relationship between neurodiversity and creativity, uncovering its potential as a superpower. Join us in redefining 'success' in the South Asian context and learn how to overcome creative pressures and imposter syndrome. Tune in for an inspiring discussion and a dose of creative inspiration! Topics covered: 🔹 Growing up across four countries: London, Ghana-Accra, Bangladesh, Sri Lanka. 🔹 Navigating creative careers and balancing parental expectations. 🔹 Financial stability within the creative sphere. 🔹 The impact of ADHD on creativity. 🔹 What 'success' means in the South Asian context. 🔹 Coping with external and internal pressures as a creative. 🔹 The reality of South Asians in creative fields. 🔹 Confronting imposter syndrome, especially in music. 🔹 Finding mentors and guidance in the music industry. 🔹 Hena's evolution as a musician, from her debut Spotify track. 🔹 Leveraging unemployment gaps for creative growth in London. 🔹 The vision for her own fashion brand. 🔹 Enjoying the creative process as a designer. 🔹 Navigating the complex relationship between creativity and finances. Keywords: South Asian creative, career pivot, neurodiversity, financial stability, creative pressure, imposter syndrome, fashion design, music industry, success, global upbringing. ------------------------------------------------------- Hena's socials: Instagram: ⁠@henasharma⁠ Fashion Brand: ⁠@rasa.ldn⁠ Spotify: ⁠⁠⁠⁠Hena⁠ ------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.  Instagram: ⁠⁠Breaking the Browndary⁠⁠ Stay blessed and tuned for the next, Rhea x

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    2: Pivoting Careers, AI, and the future of South Asian Millennials (with Advait)

    Today we are talking with Advait Naik, a multidisciplinary creative with roots in Mumbai, who is making waves as a designer and strategist at an East London design studio. We discuss Advait's diverse journey and the challenges he faced as an international student living in multiple countries, as well as how he pivoted his career aspirations from Engineering to Industrial Design and now Strategy. We delve into his mindset and how he continues to pursue his creative interests without labels. The conversation also explores philosophy and future thinking topics, such as AI, the cultural diffusion of the East and the West, and their impact on the future of South Asian millennials. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion.  Topics covered: 🔹 Growing up as a South Asian living in different countries 🔹 Eastern and Western philosophy intertwining 🔹 The future of South Asian Millennials 🔹 Where we think AI is headed 🔹 Transitioning careers from Engineering to Industrial Design to Strategy 🔹 Parental Expectations when pivoting careers 🔹 Job hunt as an International Student 🔹 Dealing with rejection in the job market 🔹 Transitioning into the real world in a design career after university 🔹 Using your unique perspective to your advantage as a young professional  -------------------------------------------------- Advait's socials:  Instagram: @id.naik LinkedIn: Link Newsletter: Super[set] -------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for the next episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms.  Instagram: Breaking the Browndary Feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated.  Stay blessed and tuned for the next, Rhea x

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    1: What does it mean to be South Asian?

    🎙️ Welcome to the first episode of "Breaking the Browndary" podcast. In this episode, it's just you and me – your host Rhea. I discuss the exciting vision behind 'Breaking the Browndary', and what it means to be South Asian. Then, we'll dive into my personal story, growing up as a first-generation South Asian in London and the challenges I've faced, and discovering how I broke free from some of the barriers that once held me back. Topics covered: 🔹 South Asian culture 🔹 Navigating parental expectations 🔹 Being an overachiever 🔹 Overcoming mental blocks 🔹 Different sources of motivation ---------------------------------------------------------------- Don't forget to follow or subscribe to Breaking the Browndary Podcast and leave a review as it really helps the podcast grow. Stay tuned for next week's episode as we explore the incredible stories of South Asian millennials and beyond, who have challenged conventional norms, and are living life on their own terms. Follow me at @breakingthebrowndary on Instagram, and feel free to send me feedback, or anything you've learned from the podcast. I would love to hear your thoughts. Your support is greatly appreciated. Stay blessed, Rhea x

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Welcome to Breaking the Browndary with Rhea Kandel, where we share global stories from South Asians in their 20s and beyond, who choose to step outside the conventional norms.

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