Built For More

This week we share of our intentions to press pause on the BFM podcast for a brief time.  With our upcoming move and family commitments, we need to step away for a bit. Our desire is to always steward well this gift of podcasting and we want to do so with excellence. We look forward to returning back to the microphones in a few months and hope you will join us! CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this episode, Lindsay welcomes guest Erin Port from @simplepurposefulliving. As a wife and mom of 4, she has recently authored a book, Tiny Tweaks Happy Life.  In this conversation, Lindsay and Erin talk about how small changes throughout your day can help simplify your life and daily routine. It is through these small shifts that we keep the important and vital parts of our lives front and center.  For any mom out there (or dad for that matter!) who feels stressed out, overwhelmed, or feeling “not good enough,” this is the conversation for you!  Find Erin on Instagram @simplepurposefullivingErin’s new book Tiny Tweaks, Happy Life: Simple Changes to Create Space for What Matters https://a.co/d/03C5mlMAQuick note: The audio isn't perfect on this one, but the conversation is too good not to share. Thanks for listening with grace!CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this throwback episode, we revisit a favorite conversation from early in Season 1 where we share the story of Eric feeling led to attend seminary, while working full-time and raising 5 kids.We talk about the fear and uncertainty that often accompany big decisions and what it looks like to trust God when the path forward isn't clear. Looking back, this step of faith became one of the most meaningful seasons of our family's life and shaped much of what we are doing today. If you've ever sensed God prompting you toward something that feels uncertain or even a bit scary, we hope this conversation encourages you to say "yes" and step out in faith. Because, often it's in those moments of faith that we experience the Lord's goodness and faithfulness in new and incredible ways that deepen our trust in Him. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY: Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast Instagram EMAIL: [email protected] SIGN UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Winning builds confidence but losing builds character. Youth sports provide one of the clearest opportunities for children to learn how to process disappointment, reflect on failure, and develop resilience. In this episode, we share the experience of one of our kids facing the first loss after an undefeated volleyball season and the meaningful conversation that followed on the ride home. That moment sparked a deeper discussion about how kids and parents respond to disappointment. We talk about why losing can be one of life's greatest teachers and refiners of character, and about the role parents play in shaping how our children process failure. In the end, youth sports aren't just about winning; they're about building character, humility, and resilience. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

What do you do when your child wants to quit? On a ski slope with one of our kids, we watched the familiar arc unfold: excitement followed by reality, frustration, self-doubt, and the strong desire to give up. But by the end of the day, something had changed. In this episode, we talk about how growth always passes through the "mid-mountain" moment and what it looks like to walk beside your child through the frustration, without rescuing them or pushing them too hard. We discuss how to help kids build perseverance and resilience, how to encourage without pressuring, and how security and steady presence matter the most. Ultimately, we explore the deeper truth: just as we parent our children through challenging situations, we are also children ourselves, dependent on a patient, loving Heavenly Father who never leaves our side. If your child has ever said, "I can't," this one's for you. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Every decision comes at a cost, and as our kids grow, those costs can feel heavier. As parents, our job isn’t to remove all risk from our children’s lives, because the truth is- we can’t. What we can do is walk alongside them, helping them think carefully, weigh the consequences, seek wisdom, and ultimately trust God with the outcome. From tattoos to motorcycles, in this episode, we talk through real decisions we’ve faced and the tension between protecting our children and preparing them for adulthood. In the end, we’re learning that faithful parenting isn’t about control, but about wisdom, unity, and a dependency on God for the well-being of our children.  CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this final episode of our Valentine's Day marriage series, we turn to the Bible and what Scripture says about marriage. We talk about how marriage was God's idea from the beginning, why it's a covenant, not a contract, and how our marriages are meant to reflect Jesus and the Church. We also share the importance of grace and forgiveness, along with a few encouraging words for married couples, parents guiding their children and young adults as they consider dating, marriage, and the example we set at home. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In Part 2 of our Valentine's Day marriage series, we continue the conversation about what it takes to have a marriage that's truly Built for More. We talk about how what we witnessed growing up through our parents' and grandparents' marriages often shapes what we believe marriage is supposed to look like.  We share why modeling a healthy marriage for our kids matters so much, why prioritizing our relationship is crucial, and how powerful our words can be towards one another. We also talk about the importance of a close community, and how being surrounded by people who love you, challenge you, and encourage you can strengthen your marriage for the long haul. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

This episode kicks off a three-part Valentine’s Day series on marriage and what it means to have a marriage truly Built for More. We look back on 23 years of marriage, what we’ve learned, where we’ve grown (and are still growing!), and some of the lessons that have shaped us along the way. We share our story, talk honestly about intimacy, and discuss why healthy communication is so important in marriage. We’ll never get it all right, but if we’re honest, don’t we all want a marriage that’s built to last? Join us in the conversation!CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

As we step into a new year and a new season of the podcast, we reflect on priorities, goals, and the difference between good intentions and intentional living. In this episode, we talk honestly about why planning matters and why saying something is important isn't the same as living like it is. At the core of it all is stewardship, recognizing that our time, health, relationships, faith, and resources are gifts we're called to manage with purpose. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In the second part of our Thanksgiving series, we’re talking about what it really looks like to cultivate contentment. In a world that constantly tells us we need more, newer, or better, we share honest stories, encouragement, and a biblical perspective on learning to joyfully rest in what God has already provided. We hope this conversation helps you find peace, gratitude, and joy right where you are. No matter what your Thanksgiving week looks like, may this episode give you a moment of calm and help you walk into this holiday week with a refreshed mind and heart.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

As Thanksgiving approaches, we’re kicking off a two-part series all about gratitude and contentment. This week, we’re diving into gratitude with a fun, real conversation- everything from the chaos and busyness of life to the everyday blessings we tend to overlook, we explore how gratitude keeps us grounded in God’s grace towards us. We share stories, Scripture, and practical ways to cultivate a grateful heart this Thanksgiving and see God’s goodness in the ordinary moments of life. Don’t miss next week’s episode, when we talk about how gratitude leads to contentment and a settled, joy-filled heart.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this fun and festive episode, we kick off the holiday season with laughter, stories, and a few friendly debates, like when it’s actually acceptable to put up the Christmas tree and whether or not Mariah is quite thawed out just yet. From Mannheim Steamroller to the timeless duo of Kenny and Dolly, we talk of the road-trip soundtrack that has marked our Thanksgiving travels for years. We (well, Eric) make a playful case for keeping Thanksgiving sacred and not skipping straight to Santa before the turkey is even carved! Along the way, we remind listeners to slow down, laugh often, and approach this season with intentionality, savoring what truly matters. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In the second half of our listener Q&A, we tackle some of the tougher questions our listeners sent in, from navigating a strained mother-daughter relationship to shaping godly standards in today's culture. We also share our own parenting highs and lows and talk through decisions such as school choice and family priorities. It's an honest, faith-centered conversation meant to bring hope, perspective, and encouragement to everyday life. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this special Q&A episode celebrating our 25th show, we answer listener-submitted questions that range from the lighthearted to the deeply personal. We talk about prayer through the lens of the Lord's Prayer and the story of Elijah, and share honest reflections on discipline, sibling relationships, and the importance of investing in your marriage while raising kids. It's a mix of laughter, honesty, lessons learned, and hopefully some real-life encouragement for anyone striving to live out their faith at home and beyond. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

This week, we talk about how faith shapes the way we work and the people we work alongside. From Lindsay's recent experience at a Christian retreat for women entrepreneurs to Eric's career in a faith-based medical practice, we explore what it means to steward your work well and build genuine community in the process. Whether you're surrounded by believers or standing alone in a secular workplace, this episode reminds us that our work is more than just a means to a paycheck... it's a place of purpose, calling, and connection.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

From the outside, our family of seven might look like a story of effortless blessing, but the truth is, the road to having five kids was anything but easy. In this honest conversation, we open up about our journey through infertility, the emotional and spiritual toll of waiting, and some funny moments along the way. We share lessons we learned about faith and God’s timing and we pray it encourages you, whether in the waiting or walking with someone who is, to remember that God’s plan is always good, and His grace is more than enough. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Between kids' sports, long work days, and weekends that blur together, it's easy to have full calendars but hearts that feel stretched thin. In this episode, we talk honestly about what it means to live with margin— the intentional space between our limits and our load. From running late to church (again) to wrapping up a whirlwind of fall sports, we share how even good things can crowd out what's best. Through personal stories, practical reflection, and biblical insight, we explore how God designed us for rest, not relentless striving. We hope you'll hear how learning to say no can make room for renewal, rest, and a quiet confidence that God is at work and will provide.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Last week, we shared the story behind selling our "forever home." For us, it was a step of obedience that continues to challenge and strengthen our faith as we learn to trust God more fully. We've been so encouraged by listener stories and messages we have received since then. This week, we're continuing the conversation (with a few less tears!) by talking about what it means to step out of the boat when Jesus says, "Come." We'll share listener stories, reflect on Peter's moment of courage in Matthew 14, and talk about how our faith grows when we keep our eyes on Jesus. Whether your step of faith feels big or small, our prayer is that this episode encourages you to trust God in the waves and gives you the courage to step out of the boat.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this episode, we share the story behind a surprising decision—  selling our “forever home” we built just three years ago. What led us here were two convictions: a desire for financial freedom and a call to obey God’s leading, even when it didn’t make sense. We’ll unpack (all of) the emotions surrounding the decision, the overwhelming peace God has given us along the way, and what it means to trust Him in the middle of the story. We hope that you’ll be encouraged to listen closely to His voice, even when His leading feels uncomfortable or unexpected.  CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this episode, we reflect on the tragic passing of Charlie Kirk, reminding us how fragile life is and why we must not take a single day for granted. We explore what it means to live with a grateful heart, through birthdays, aging, hardship, and the everyday blessings we often overlook. Grounded in Scripture and personal stories, we share how gratitude fosters contentment, reshapes perspective, and deepens our trust in God’s goodness. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this episode, we unpack the true meaning of hospitality... not just hosting guests in our homes, but living with a posture that sees and values others. We explore the tension between convenient, planned opportunities for hospitality and the everyday interruptions that invite us to slow down, sacrifice, and pour into  others, even when it feels inconvenient. Through personal stories, biblical examples, and practical takeaways, we hope that you'll be encouraged to reframe "inconveniences" as divine appointments and discover simple ways to make others feel seen, valued, and loved.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Walking through senior year as a parent is a mix of joy, sadness, pride, and release. In this episode, we share what we learned when our oldest graduated high school a couple years ago and how we're approaching it again with our second son. From celebrating the "lasts" to planning intentional conversations and giving space for friendships, we'll talk about how to make this season meaningful. Senior year goes by fast— don't let the busyness rob you of the wonderful moments! (Now, grab Eric a tissue.)CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In a follow-up to last week's interview with our college-aged son, we're taking a parent's perspective on alcohol. From our family backgrounds to the way we now (try to!) model healthy habits, we share biblical wisdom and some practical tools for guiding teens through a culture where drinking is common. We talk about setting clear boundaries, keeping open communication, and preparing our kids for the real-world pressures they'll face. We hope this episode will encourage parents to approach this subject with wisdom, honesty, and love.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Parents, cover your ears, this one's for the kids! Well...not exactly, but we are handing the mic to our oldest son for part two of the "Sending a Kid Off to College" series. He shares what it was like stepping onto campus for the first time, the importance of putting yourself out there, and how to actually enjoy the adventure while figuring out how to balance it all. From meeting new friends to learning to live away from his (tearful) parents, his perspective is honest, funny, and real. If you've got a kid about to launch, or you just want to peek inside what they're thinking, this conversation is for you! CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

We’re kicking off a special two-part episode all about sending a kid off to college,  stories from both sides! In Part 1, we share our perspective as parents on the emotions of letting go, the challenge of trusting God with your college-aged child’s well-being and future, and the beauty (and heartbreak) of giving them space to grow on their own. It’s heartfelt, it’s funny, and the tears? Some are from sadness, some are from laughing. At least once, you may find yourself thinking, “I’m not crying…are you?”CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

The back-to-school chaos is real! With our kids returning to the classroom this week, we're doing our best to bring some calm to the crazy! From Sunday planning and peaceful mornings to light-hearted drop-offs and family dinners, we're sharing ways to set a peaceful tone at home, so we send our kids out the door each morning ready for whatever the day holds. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

At Eric’s recent 20-year medical school reunion, we did not expect to leave feeling so sobered...and so inspired. In this episode, we share powerful stories of love through suffering, legacies shaped by quiet faithfulness, and how easily life can veer off the path we plan. From the heartbreaking beauty of a husband tenderly caring for his disabled wife, to the quiet passing of a friend who lived with purpose, we reflect on what it truly means to live intentionally. These stories remind us that life is fragile, time moves fast, and nothing is guaranteed. We hope the stories will inspire and challenge you, as they did us, to live today with purpose, love deeply, and stop assuming "later" is always an option. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Life isn't always a casual stroll. Sometimes it feels like we are rucking uphill with a pack full of burdens we did not ask for. In this episode, we share how turning our evening walks into rucks led us to reflect on the many heavy loads we carry in life.  We explore how God shapes us through the strain and how the struggle strengthens our faith as we learn to turn it all over to Him. It's in the tension and fatigue that we grow, our character shaped, and ultimately, we find ourselves ever more dependent on Him.  Mentioned in This Episode:Ruck Backpack, Weight plate, Weighted Vest and The Comfort Crisis book all here.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this special 10th episode, we are celebrating with a fun and honest look at what life's really like in a big family and how most of it applies to every family.  From a grocery budget that rivals a mortgage to laundry piles that never end, we're sharing our Top 10 truths from the trenches of parenting five kids. You'll laugh, relate, and probably say, "Yep, us too!" more than once. It's lighthearted, a little chaotic, and full of heart... just like family life. Come celebrate with us!CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

With the recent passing of Eric's grandmother, we reflect on what truly matters when it comes to legacy- the kind that doesn't show up in a will or get spent. In this episode, we talk about spiritual inheritance: what it means to pass down sincere faith from one generation to the next. Whether you're continuing a long line of faithful believers or starting something brand new, this conversation will help you think intentionally about the legacy you're leaving behind. We'll all leave a legacy, but what kind will it be?CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Thinking about our recent family beach vacation, we dive into a powerful beachside metaphor: the shark in the water. When danger is near, why do we linger instead of run? Drawing from real-life moments, Scripture, and honest reflection, we explore the enticing temptations that can threaten our relationships, personal integrity, and walk with God. From Proverbs to the story of David and Bathsheba, we ask the hard question- What's the shark in the water you're lingering near, risking getting bitten? CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

This week we're talking about the power of words in the home- how they create a strong base for trust, lasting relationships, and a culture centered on love. We share how we talk honestly with our kids about everything, from relationships to real-life consequences, and why affirmation is the heartbeat of it all. At the end of day, don't we all want our home to be a place where everyone feels safe, valued, seen, and deeply loved? If so, join us in the conversation!For more on healthy communication, we mention Crucial Conversations, a book that's been really helpful to us and shaped how we approach tough conversations. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this episode, we talk about the kind of deep, authentic friendships that bring encouragement, accountability, and real growth. We share personal stories and unpack why these relationships are worth pursuing. Whether you're craving connection or are already surrounded by great people, this episode will challenge and inspire you to build stronger, more rooted relationships.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Vacations with kids are rarely picture-perfect—but they’re almost always unforgettable. In this episode, we share hilarious and heartfelt stories from our own family getaways, from lost children and jellyfish stings to broken bones and rainstorms. We talk about why these trips matter, how they shape our relationships, and how to protect time to simply be present together.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this episode, we share the story of when Eric felt led to attend seminary (with 5 kids and a full time job!)--  a step taken in faith, full of questions and uncertainty about what would come next. We talk about the fear that often comes with big decisions and how, over time, we learn to trust God in the unknown. For anyone sensing a quiet prompt to take a leap of faith, even without all the answers, we hope this conversation encourages you to say "yes." When we follow the Lord's lead, the outcome is often more meaningful than anything we could plan for ourselves.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

What does it mean to be a "successful" parent? In this episode, we wrestle with that question, share how we're learning to love our kids through the hard moments, and talk about why grace and perspective matter more than perfection. Parenting is messy and beautiful- and we weren't meant to do it in isolation. We'll talk about the power of community and why having people who encourage and support you on the journey is absolutely essential. CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

Marriage doesn't thrive by accident- it takes intentionality, communication, and a whole lot of grace. In this episode, we share part of our story- 22 years of marriage, 5 kids, and the unique challenges and joys that have come with both. We'll talk about what it looks like to truly invest in your marriage, even in the midst of chaos. We'll also share why being surrounded by people who love, encourage, and support your relationship is vital. Whether your marriage feels rock solid or a little shaky, this conversation is for you.CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this first episode, we (Eric and Lindsay) introduced ourselves, share a bit of our story, and talk about why we are launching this podcast. With 5 kids, 22 years of marriage, and a whole lot of life in between, we've had plenty of experiences- some funny, some hard, all of them real. Our heart is to create a space for honest, authentic conversations about relationships, family, and faith. We'll keep it transparent, rooted in biblical truth, and hopefully a little fun along the way! CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER

In this debut episode, Eric and Lindsay Parks introduce the heart behind the Built for More podcast. They share the story of how it came to be and what listeners can expect in the weeks ahead. If you're looking for honest conversations about faith, family, and relationships- this is where it starts!CONNECT FURTHER WITH LINDSAY:Website | Instagram TheBuiltForMorePodcast InstagramEMAIL: [email protected] UP FOR MY NEWSLETTER