Co-Active for Sport leaders

Most of us know the feeling.You pour yourself into something. You care deeply. You do the work. And somewhere along the way, you realize there is a quiet disconnection between who you are and what you are doing every day.I know that feeling from the inside. I built a company called Beyond Pulse for seven years. The mission was real. I believed in it completely. And still, the distance between the why and the daily reality had me drifting without fully realizing it.This episode is where the philosophy behind the whole series finally lands. Every tool we have explored so far, listening, the saboteur, all of it, flows from one idea. Being before doing. And the order matters.We get into:What the being actually is and why it lives in the body before the mindThe difference between leading from doing and leading from beingWhy a twelve-year-old reads your energy before your wordsJosete in Spain and what it means to stay yourself when the environment pulls hardestKen Lolla at Louisville and what being looks like at the highest levelThree questions that start the most important work a coach can doWhy you have to design your life to return to your being, again and againThe being shapes the doing. Not the other way around. Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. Learn more at acumencollective.co

I never thought I was running a critical inner voice. I was just moving too fast to hear it.Then I went through Co-Active training. Hundreds of hours of coaches coaching coaches. You can't hide behind the theory when someone is always sitting across from you, paying attention. And somewhere in those sessions, I heard it. The saboteur. And everything changed.In this episode, I walk through what the saboteur actually is, where it comes from, and how it is quietly running your locker room right now. We cover the Judge, the nine accomplice saboteurs, and what neuroscience tells us about why you cannot be fully present and in judgment at the same time.We get into:What the saboteur is and why it feels like the truthThe Judge and the three directions it pointsThe nine accomplice saboteurs and the ones most common in sportHow you are authoring your athletes' inner voice every single dayThe Anson Dorrance approach to comparison and why transparency worksWhat this means for youth, elite, and professional athletesAnd the question that rarely gets asked in coaching rooms: how are you actually doing? Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. Learn more at acumencollective.co

I never thought I was a bad listener. I just had no idea what real listening actually was.For 30 years, I was at Stage 1 without knowing it. Unconsciously incompetent. You don't know what you don't know.In this episode, I walk through the Co-Active framework that changed how I show up with athletes. Four stages of learning. Three levels of listening. And what it actually looks like on the ground with youth, college, and professional athletes.We get into:Why most coaches are stuck at Level 1 without knowing itWhat Level 2 listening looks like in a real conversation with an athleteHow Level 3 changes everything -- what isn't being said matters as much as what isWhy the kid on the bench is carrying something, and what to do about itWhat elite and professional athletes actually need from a coachThe athletes in front of you already have the answers. Your job is to listen at a level that lets them come forward. Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. Learn more at acumencollective.co

Most sport leaders are trained to perform. To plan, execute, and deliver results. But somewhere between the scoreboard and the locker room, something gets lost -- the human doing the leading.This is the first episode of Co-Active for Sport Leaders, a series that follows the Co-Active coaching model as a guide for sport leaders who want to lead from the inside out. Not just manage performance, but develop the person behind it.In this episode, we introduce the core idea: Being before Doing. What it means to be grounded in who you are before deciding what you do. And why the best sport leaders aren't just tactically sharp -- they're deeply self-aware.Whether you're a head coach, an athletic director, or a leader in sport who feels like something is missing, this series is for you.Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. Learn more at acumencollective.co