Create the Work of Your Life

You've probably said it to yourself: "I don't want to be selfish." And then you answered the text. Did the laundry. Took the call. Said yes when you meant no. And your art waited — again. In this episode, Jordan names the word that stops a lot of artists cold — selfish — and reframes what's actually happening when you put your work last. This isn't about blame. It's about the cost. When your art is constantly at the bottom of the list, your work doesn't develop. Your artistic voice — that singular, irreplaceable thing that can only come through you — stays out of reach. You stay scattered. And quietly, over time, you stop believing your work matters at all. Jordan breaks down:Why women in particular are conditioned to feel that time for their art is indulgentWhat's really happening when you're "endlessly available" — and who it's actually hurtingThe difference between selfishness and appropriate self-directionWhy art specifically requires time, repetition, and protected space — and what becomes possible when you give it thatThe one question to replace "Is this selfish?" withThis episode is for the artist who is tired of waiting until everything else is done — because everything else will always be there. Your work won't create itself.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

You don't feel like creating today. Maybe you're dragging your feet. Maybe the idea that felt exciting last week feels heavy now. Maybe you've been telling yourself you'll start when you feel more ready, more inspired, more like a real artist.This episode is about that feeling — where it comes from, why it gets louder the closer you get to your real work, and what to do instead of waiting for it to go away.Jordan shares why she published only seven podcast episodes in two years and three months — not for lack of ideas, but because of the creativity fantasy: the belief that creating is supposed to feel like flow, passion, and ease. And the way that fantasy quietly keeps artists from making the work they most want to make.In this episode: What the creativity fantasy actually costs you — and the math that makes it undeniable.Why resistance gets louder the closer you get to your real work (and what's actually driving it) What Chuck Close and Twyla Tharp both understood about showing up without waiting to feel inspired Why making the stakes too high is one of the most common ways artists stop themselves before they start.The reframe that changes everything: your worst created piece is infinitely more valuable than your best uncreated one.If you've ever: Convinced yourself you needed one more thing before you could beginTold yourself you'd go to the studio tomorrowWondered if real artists struggle the way you do — this episode is for you.Mentioned in this episode: The Creative Habit by Twyla TharpChuck Close on inspiration and showing upWork with Jordan + David: The Create Anyway Collective (CAC) is a six-month high-touch mentorship program for visual artists who are ready to stop waiting and start creating a cohesive body of work — ready to show, share, and sell. Learn more or join the waitlist at createanyway.today/cacLearn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

What do you do when the person closest to you just doesn't connect with your art? In this deeply personal episode, master artist coach Jordan Blaquera shares the story of her own long struggle with this exact situation — and what she finally did about it. Jordan opens up about the years she spent in silence, afraid that admitting she didn't love some of her partner David's work would be read as a failure of love or support. She unpacks the painful conundrum she found herself in: tell the truth and risk hurting him, or hide the truth and betray herself. The breakthrough she arrived at is simple but powerful — you can love the artist completely and still have your own honest opinion about the art. These are not the same thing, and untangling them can be the key to both creative freedom and authentic intimacy. If your partner's silence about your latest piece has you spiraling, or you're carrying the weight of an unspoken opinion about someone else's work, this episode will help you look at what meaning you're making — and whether it's actually true.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

What if believing you're special as an artist is actually holding you back? In this episode, Jordan Blaquera makes a provocative case that the idea of art — and artists — being uniquely special, mysterious, or reserved for the chosen few is one of the most limiting beliefs a creator can hold. Drawing on six problems with "special" thinking, Jordan explores how it clouds your judgment, fuels feelings of inferiority or superiority, disconnects you from others, and can leave you feeling like a victim of circumstances beyond your control. The antidote isn't lowering your standards — it's rooting your worth somewhere nothing can touch it. When you stop chasing specialness and start asking "what do I want to create with my time, energy, and resources?", something surprising happens: the work gets freer, more original, and more genuinely you.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Most artists focus on improving their skills and their work — but Jordan Blaquera argues there's a deeper layer that determines everything: your artist identity. In this episode, Jordan introduces the CORE framework (Circumstance-Optional, Reality-Optional) and makes the case that what you believe about yourself as an artist matters more than any external validation, sale, or review ever could. Drawing from her own journey out of deep self-doubt — and her experience co-founding the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) — Jordan walks through a set of powerful identity beliefs that artists can adopt and make their own. From "I can believe into the void" to "I am not my art," these aren't affirmations to repeat mindlessly, but genuine commitments that build the creative resilience to keep going when circumstances aren't cooperating. If you've ever waited for someone else to green-light your ideas, struggled to push through rejection, or quietly wondered whether your desire to create is enough of a reason to create — this episode is for you.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Being behinds the scenes at an art school and seeing what it takes for a teacher to create a great art classroom experience can help artists go from being a "student" and taking art classes to taking on the role of being an artist who creates with their own Artistic Voice. Tips to help you go from learning in an art classroom to becoming a self-directed artist who creates your own work.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

An allegorical tale about the journey to express your True Authentic Self.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

"Wherever you go, there you are" reminds us that our True Self is not defined by external circumstances. Be mindful of your thoughts, as they directly impact your emotions. Align your vibrations with what you want to attract using the law of attraction. Recognize yourself as a channel of awareness, tapping into your creative potential and fulfilling your purpose. Stay conscious of your thoughts, vibrations, and your role as a conduit of awareness.https:/www.soulcoach.today/Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

There is an unsung and very overlooked trait that can help you become more authentically you. It will help you to be who you are, express yourself exactly as you are, and go after bigger, more innovative dreams. Discover the Capacity to Disappoint and how to harness it for greater freedom and the personal fulfillment of being uniquely you.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Would you rather be right or happy? "Better than" or peaceful? We humans so don't want to be "wrong," but that leaves us fighting like hell to be "right." What if there is no absolute right and no absolute wrong? Change your life for the better and increase your inner peace by dropping your addiction to being right as well as going beyond ideas of what you consider "wrong."Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

In Rumi's famous poem, he invites us to meet him in The Field. But why would you want to go out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing to go to The Field? What is this mysterious Field, and what will you find there? I want you to inspire you to do the work of challenging your perspectives and beliefs in order to find your way to the beautiful freedom and peace of The Field.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

If being fully & completely ourselves was ALL THAT, we would be doing it already. But most of us have some reservations about letting ourselves be completely visible. Learn the top three reasons we limit ourselves, and how we can let go of the frames we hold that limit the full vista of what's possible.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Do you have parts of yourself that seem unacceptable that you still keep in shadows? What if accepting those parts of you was the next right step? What if that helped others to do the same? Explore the possibilities that open up when we can be ourselves for a day or...when we can be ourselves from now on.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Have you ever felt there were aspects of you that were uacceptable or unlovable? Have you tried to hide those aspects of you? What if we decided we're no longer going to spend Life Energy hiding these parts of ourselves? It's possible. We can make that choice. I share my own journey of feeling embarrassed by my own tear-y, water-y eyes.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Our minds offer us many concerns, worries and fears about the possibility of the "worst thing happening." I won't sugar-coat it. Sometimes the "worst thing" does come to pass. Learn more about how we can navigate our way through rocky periods like this.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

As Creators we will pursue our dreams and go about bringing our creative ideas to fruition in many different ways. We will take many shots at bringing our creative impulses to life. Don't derail the trajectory of your creative path by telling yourself, "This is my last chance." That won't be useful. Discover alternatives in today's track.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Have you ever thought that you were weird, different or that you didn't belong? Have you ever wondered if there was something wrong with you? It has been said that we think 60,000 thoughts a day. Maybe we don't need to take all of those thoughts so seriously. Especially when many of them make us feel so badly. Ready to question what your brain offers you? Let's dive in.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Overcome with tears, I find myself in public, sitting across from a manicurist, with little place to hide. Feelings of risk, uncertainty and overhwlem overtake me, and I do my best to navigate this very vulnerable proposition -- when strong emotions arise quite inconveniently. It takes everything I have to open myself to The Guest House of being human. To not explain myself. To not believe I am being embarrassing. To not apologize for this very human and authentic experience I am having. This is an example of inviting it all in without collapsing or closing.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

In our society, we are invited to believe that how someone appears on the outside is how they feel on the inside. Pretty on the outside equals pretty feelings on the inside. Appearing confident on the outside means that person must feel confident on the inside. People who look “strong” on the outside must feel strong on the inside. However, how a person appears to you doesn’t necessarily equate to how they actually feel. I beileve that feeling good inside myself, regardless of any external compliments or admiration I may or may not receive, eclipses looking good. Feeling good inside is what I want more ofLearn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

There was a time when my internal emotional environment was extremely Inhospitable. This episode shares a key technique I used to walk my way out of persistent and brutal self-talk and into the creation of a compassion, kind and loving internal voice, which made all the difference in the world.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

When you are part of the way through a challenging situation, path, process or class, your mind may inundate you with thoughts of worry, stress, quitting, and justifying your every complaint. Here is an alternative to following the urgings of your mind by being more deliberate and choosing what you think "on purpose."Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Have you ever envied the Cool Girls? Or wanted to be a Cool Girl? Do the Cool People have a different experience than the rest of us? And is there really such a thing as the Cool Crowd. Today's episode explores looking good vs. feeling good. Which one "is" your priority? And which one do you "want" to be your priority.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

It is possible to let people love you or hate you, or anything in between. When you know who the most important person in the world is, you can let others sing your praises or not. (And that includes mom, dad, child, spouse, whoever). Learn about the one opinion that matters most.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

As Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." And what if...the opposite is true as well? People can influence us positively or negatively, but ultimately, we own our internal belief systems.Note: I mis-quote Eleanor Roosevelt in this episode. The correct quote is: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

As we bring ourselves and our creations into the world, there are moments when our minds will offer up these questions: What's the point? It doesn't matter anyway? It's never going to work? Are you sure you're cut out for this? Learn how to meet The Moments like these.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Do you have a big creative vision that you want to bring to life? Do you think that achievement will finally prove that you are "somebody" or that you're finally "worthy"? Not so fast. Bringing that vison to life will be challenging and require effort, but you're never compensating for worth. Learn a better way to go about builidng your big dream.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Have you ever thought that you shouldn't even be here, that your birth was a mistake, or that the odds surrounding your survival were so stacked against you that your presence on Earth isn't even warranted? This very personal story details the suffering caused by the painful interpretations we believe about our very existence.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera

Putting your creative work in the world can feel perilous and challenging to your nervous system. Expect it and plan accordingly. The threat of being eviscerated doesn't have to stop you. You can decide that expressing yourself fully is worth the risk.Learn more about Jordan Blaquera: www.SoulCoach.Today/.Learn more about working with Jordan Blaquera or the Create Anyway Collective (CAC) where visual artists create a new cohesive series in 5 months: About Jordan Blaquera