Dear Nigerians

In this conversation, Aramide Kehinde and Anne-Rose Obidi, creator of The African Parent, delve into the complexities of parenting within Nigerian culture, discussing the implications of raising obedient versus good children, the importance of identity, and the role of therapy in personal healing. They explore the costs associated with silent obedience, the necessity of emotional safety, and the transformative power of apologizing to children. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-awareness and open communication in parenting, advocating for a shift towards nurturing wise and confident children who can navigate the real world effectively.

In this engaging conversation, Aramide Kehinde and Peace Udechukwu-Ezeka explore the cultural dynamics between Nigerians and African Americans, addressing perceptions, identity, and the impact of media. They share personal stories and insights on the importance of unity and understanding within the black community, while also discussing the challenges posed by stereotypes and cultural misunderstandings. The dialogue emphasizes the need for empathy and connection across cultures, ultimately celebrating the richness of their shared heritage.

In this episode, Aramide Kehinde explores the complex relationship between faith and cultural performance among Nigerians, particularly focusing on the experiences of millennials and Gen Z. Through personal anecdotes and the story of Akin, the discussion delves into the nuances of faith, the expectations placed on younger generations, and the spiritual inheritance that awaits them. The conversation emphasizes the importance of finding a personal relationship with God while navigating the challenges posed by traditional church environments and cultural expectations.

In this engaging conversation, Aramide Kehinde and Peju Akintorin explore the dynamics of showing up at work as millennials and Gen Z individuals with Nigerian backgrounds. They discuss the importance of faith in the workplace, unspoken corporate rules, networking, mentorship, and the impact of cultural identity on professional experiences. Peju shares her personal journey, insights on problem-solving, and the significance of being a quintessential colleague who enhances the workplace environment. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, listening, and the proactive approach to building relationships in a corporate setting.

In this episode, Aramide Kehinde explores the complex dynamics of marriage within Nigerian culture, questioning the health and emotional safety of these unions. Drawing insights from Dr. Tolu Okorogare, a trauma-informed relationship therapist, the conversation delves into the dysfunctions prevalent in many Nigerian marriages, including emotional neglect and unhealthy gender roles. The episode also features voices from the community, revealing a spectrum of experiences and perspectives on marriage. Ultimately, it emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and responsibility in fostering healthy relationships among millennials and Gen Z with a Nigerian influenced identityKey TakeawaysMarriage is exalted in Nigerian culture but often lacks emotional safety.Many Nigerians grow up without a blueprint for healthy marriages.Dr. Tolu Okorogare highlights the dysfunctions in Nigerian marriages.Community voices reveal a mix of hope and disappointment in marriage.Dysfunctional patterns are often passed down through generations.Cultural and religious norms can stifle open communication about marriage.Self-awareness is crucial for building healthy relationships.Understanding one's attitude towards money and sex is essential in marriage.The importance of questioning traditional marriage roles and expectations.Healthy marriages do exist, but they are rare and often require active effort.

In this thought-provoking episode, Aramide Kehinde delves into the complexities of raising daughters within the Nigerian cultural context. She challenges traditional norms and explores the impact of societal expectations on young girls' self-worth and identity. Through personal anecdotes and insightful reflections, Aramide invites listeners to reconsider the values passed down through generations and encourages a more empowering approach to parenting. Join the conversation as we navigate the delicate balance between cultural heritage and modern aspirations.

Join podcast host Aramide Kehinde as she explores generational fears that are passed down through Nigerian families, particularly affecting millennials and Gen Z. Through personal anecdotes, she illustrates how these fears manifest in everyday life and impact decision-making. The discussion delves into the cultural upbringing that shapes these fears, the definition of generational fears, and the common anxieties faced by individuals with a Nigerian identity, such as fear of poverty and social stigma. The episode emphasizes the need to confront these fears to embrace opportunities and empower future generations.

Join Aramide Kehinde in this episode of Dear Nigerians, as she explores the cultural and generational fears surrounding swimming within the Nigerian community. Through personal anecdotes and community responses, the conversation delves into the historical context of swimming as a skill often overlooked in Nigerian upbringing, the fears instilled by parents, and the societal perceptions that contribute to a lack of swimming proficiency.

Join podcast host Aramide Kehinde and her father, Modupe Odusanya, as they explore their family's journey migrating from Nigeria to the US in 1998. Listen as they explore the complexities of Nigerian identity, cultural practices, and the immigrant experience in America. They delve into topics like work ethic, being a black immigrant in the US, and the endangered attempt of exploring an arts education

Join podcast host Aramide Kehinde as she discusses the 2024 US elections, emphasizing the importance for Nigerian Americans to stay informed when voting. The conversation explores the multicultural nature of America and how voters should view their options in Kamala Harris and Donald Trump. The host encourages listeners, particularly Nigerian Americans, to evaluate candidates beyond their platforms and to research political platforms thoroughly. Core values such as immigration, reproductive rights, family support, and innovation are also discussed with candor. The episode concludes with a practical voting survival kit for those with a Nigerian-influenced identity

In this episode, Dear Nigerians podcast host, Aramide Kehinde, delves into the cultural implications of Halloween from a Nigerian perspective, exploring how traditions and beliefs shape the understanding of this holiday among millennials and Gen Z. The conversation highlights personal experiences, societal reactions, and the historical origins of Halloween, while also addressing the challenges faced by Nigerian parents in navigating their children's participation in Halloween festivities

Join Dear Nigerians host Aramide Kehinde and her guest, Molayo Ifebajo, in a conversation that explores the complexities of body changes, parental connections, and cultural perspectives among Nigerians. Delve into how these factors influence youth identity and self-perception, especially as youth in diaspora reconcile their western exposure with ideals from back home in Nigeria.

In this conversation, Dear Nigerians host Aramide Kehinde and her mother, Ola Odusanya, explore the complexities of Nigerian parenting, particularly the influence of Nigerian mothers on their children's upbringing. They discuss the cultural expectations placed on children, the challenges of parenting in a new, Western environment, and the importance of emotional availability in fostering a healthy relationship between mother and child. The conversation also reflects on the strictness often associated with Nigerian parenting and offers advice for the next generation of parents navigating these dynamics.

Hear responses from the older generation on how they view Millennials and Gen Z with a Nigerian-influenced identity. Find out what Eddie Murphy, Michael Jordan, and a story of three millennials have to do with how we show up to our opportunities. Also learn from podcast host Aramide Kehinde's personal stories of her parents' journey migrating to the US from Nigeria, and how they chose to do so with integrity.

This first episode of the Dear Nigerians podcast explores the theme of generations and the expectations and roles of the older and younger generations with a Nigerian-influenced identity. Hear responses from the younger generation on their views of the older generation, highlighting both admiration and frustration. Also, learn about the meaningful frivolity of 'gele tying' and what it has to do with a conversation about the generations.

Introducing Dear Nigerians: a space for those with a Nigerian-influenced identity to talk about its beauty, joys, and also its pains. If you want to embody the fullest expressions of this identity, Dear Nigerians is for you. Join in for laughs, cries, Aha! moments and everything in between. Get a fresh take on Dear Nigerians by way of of its leading voice, Aramide Kehinde.