A Couple of Couples

Can you truly grow as a couple if you’re not growing as individuals? In this episode, we unpack the delicate dance between personal growth and relationship growth — how to pursue your own evolution while still nurturing “the us.” We explore how your childhood experiences quietly shape the way you connect, argue, and love, and why understanding each other’s love languages is more than just a fun quiz result — it’s a roadmap for deeper connection. Whether you’re in a relationship or reflecting on past ones, this conversation will help you see yourself, your partner, and your love story with fresh eyes.

In this episode, we dive headfirst into burnout—where it comes from, what it really means, and whether it’s just exhaustion… or a deeper spiritual signal. We ask the big question: is everything spiritual, and if so, does that mean everything is a spiritual problem? (Spoiler: maybe not.) Tune in for some honest reflections, a few spicy takes, and the kind of conversation that might just be the permission slip your soul’s been waiting for.

Feeling fried from nonstop scrolling, group chats, and screen time overload? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive into digital burnout—why it hits so hard, how to spot it, and what to do when your brain says ‘nope’ but your phone says ‘one more scroll.

We’ve all been there—wondering if a friendship still fits who we are today. In this episode, we open up about the tough moments of realizing you might be outgrowing a friend. Is it normal to drift apart? Should you keep trying even if it feels one-sided? We talk about what it means to grow, when it’s okay to move on, and how to handle the guilt that can come with letting go. It’s honest, a little messy, and something we don’t talk about enough.

In this episode, we dive into the realities of conflict in relationships - why it happens, how different communication styles can clash, and what it means to 'fight well.' We share insights on resolving disagreements in healthy ways, building deeper understanding during tough conversations, and strengthening relationships through honest (and somethings messy) communication. Whether you're navigating small arguments or big blowups, this conversation is all about turning conflict into connection

In Episode 2, we're settling back into the groove after our Season 3 kickoff. We catch up on what we've been up to, talk about our love for food, and travel, and we shared where our adventurous spirits come from. Plus, tips on how to explore the world on a budget - because the best adventures don't have to break the bank.

We took a break… and it lasted a little longer than expected. But we’re back! In this episode, we catch up on everything that’s happened while we were away—from travel adventures to pregnancy and birth. Join us as we share all the big (and little) moments from our time off.We’d love to hear from you too—what have you been up to while we were gone? Let us know!

In this "pause" episode, we take a moment to reflect on a full year of podcasting and celebrate the end of Season 2! Join us as we look back on the journey so far and key takeaways. We also discussed our top 10 most played episodes and tried to remember what resonated with us and our listeners the most. Whether you're a day-one listener or new to the pod, this episode is the perfect way to wrap up the season and get ready for what's next! Contact Us: Instagram: @acoupleofcouplespod TikTok: @acoupleofcouples Email: [email protected]

Is marriage really necessary in today’s world? We talk about how long couples should wait before saying “I do,” whether marriage is just about validation for some, and why it might not be a must for everyone. But here’s the twist—we also explore what makes marriage feel essential for others. Tune in as we share our own thoughts and challenge the ideas of what marriage means. This episode will give you something to think about. Don’t forget to subscribe and join the conversation on Instagram! Contact Us Insta: @acoupleofcouplespod Email: [email protected]

In this second part of our take on church hurt, Ebenezer, Berica, Hannah, and Patrobas continue their candid discussion about the pain many face within the church. We share how seeking healing in the church can sometimes lead to hurt, highlight red flags we won’t overlook in the future, and offer honest tips for those who have been hurt by a church. Whether you're continuing from our first episode or tuning in now, this conversation offers further insight into a topic that demands our attention and empathy. Contact Us Insta: @acoupleofcouplespod Email: [email protected]

This is the first of two-part episodes on church hurt. Ebenezer, Berica, Hannah, and Patrobas delve into the complex topic of church hurt. Why? We believe there is healing in sharing personal stories from their experiences in church. We will talk about the often hidden emotional toll of religious trauma. We explore the disconnect between the church's mission and the reality some people face. Whether you've experienced church hurt firsthand or want to understand its impact, this episode and the next offer a compassionate look at a rarely discussed issue. Contact Us Insta: @acoupleofcouplespod Email: [email protected]

Are you secretly an Olympian? The Olympics are over, and we begin this episode by discussing our own Olympic dreams. Then, we dive into the exciting yet challenging journey of starting over. From relocating to a new country or a different part of the country to embarking on a path of self-reinvention, we share our personal moving experiences. Whether you’re seeking a change of scenery or a complete life transformation, join us as we embrace uncertainty and begin an adventure of self-discovery! Contact Us Instagram: @acoupleofcouples Email: [email protected]

In this relatable episode, we share a little about the world of firstborns and the valuable lessons that come with being the family trailblazer. We explored how firstborn issues are the "first-world problems" of sibling dynamics - because setting a good example is not so easy. So if you are a firstborn, remember, you didn't choose the firstborn life - it chose you. So grab your "World's Best Child" mug and join us for an episode that'll make you appreciate your role as the family guinea pig. For the middle children and lastborns, you can listen too! Want to hear more about our firstborn escapades? Let us know, and we will be happy to share. Contact Us Insta: @acoupleofcouplespod Email: [email protected]

On this new episode, we have our first guest on the show. We are joined by Patrobas’s brother, Victor, to chat about what it was like growing up together in Nigeria, the woes of traveling internationally for the first time and adjusting to life in Canada.

*TW - some of the topics we discuss on this episode may be triggering* Welcome back to another episode of ACOC.  In this episode we dive into the real conversations about friendships, scandals and trust. We discussed about how to navigate the difficult challenges one can encounter as a friend in relationships where trust is broken due to unacceptable moral failures. How does one be a good friend when the choices of your friend hurt you and or other people around you? Carl Lentz, a prominent (now former) preacher at a globally renowned Christian organization had a huge public falling out due to the personal challenges and moral failure in his life. In 2024, about four years later, on his podcast, he talks about how he and his family navigated this difficult time in their life in the public eye but also in their private life. There’s so much to learn and unpack from their conversations for anyone going through a similar situation  Our conversation spanned across multiple topics such as      ⁃    How to know when to walk about from a friendship and when to stay after when there’s been irreconcilable hurt      ⁃    How to heal from the consequences of someone else’s actions      ⁃    What it means to be a ride or die friend      ⁃    The tension of conflicts in friendship through difficult seasons  This is a heavy and deep conversation. Thank you for taking the time to listen and please seek professional help if needed in your own situation.  If you’d like to share your story or feedback with us, feel free to contact us through any of the means below  Instagram: @acoupleofcouplespod Email: [email protected]

Another one! Because we couldn't get enough of the conversation in episode three, we've added a bonus episode, the first of possibly many more to come. So what are you waiting for? Press play and listen to us rank love, happiness, money, sex, and faith from least important to most important.

Love: a deep feeling of affection, care, and emotional attachment towards another person. It involves a strong desire for the well-being of the other person and a willingness to make sacrifices and compromises for their sake.Happiness: a feeling of fulfillment, satisfaction, and a sense of emotional and psychological well-being with one's partner.Money: a source of stress, conflict, or security. In the context of relationships, money often relates to financial compatibility, shared values and goals regarding finances, and the ability to manage and budget resources effectively as a couple.Sex: the physical and intimate expression of affection and desire between partners. It involves physical intimacy and sexual activities that can contribute to emotional closeness, pleasure, and overall relationship satisfaction.Faith: religious or spiritual beliefs and practices shared by partners. It can also encompass a broader sense of trust, confidence, and belief in the relationship itself and in the commitment made to each other.Press play and listen to us unpack Love, Happiness, Money, Sex and Faith, the essential elements that people claim shape relationships. In this candid episode, we share personal perspectives and stories, exploring what people should consider. It's an episode you won't want to miss! Contact UsInstagram: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

This episode felt like a debate. Why? Because we delve into the intricacies of family dynamics and went back and forth on divided loyalties to partners and parents. We discuss about a man who left his pregnant wife in the delivery room to attend to his mother in the emergency room.Also we talk about the importance of prioritizing your partner while still honoring your parents and maintaining your individuality. Finding a balance that respects your spouse, parents, and yourself. Press play now!Contact UsInsta: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

Your favourite podcast is back! It's been a while, but we're excited to be back for season two. A lot has happened since we last talked, so we hope you are ready! In this first episode, we introduce ourselves and personally share the stories of how we went from being just friends to couples. You'll hear all about our first impressions of each other and hear us laugh about our memorable dating moments. Also, we reminisce about how this podcast started with our love for sharing and wanting to see each other grow. So, join us in this fun, lighthearted conversation about friendship, love, and the little moments that brought us together.  Contact Us Insta: @acoupleofcouplespod Email: [email protected]

The last episode of season one! In this short episode, we take you behind the scenes and share our experiences creating the podcast and what it's like to be a podcast host, from the best parts of sharing our thoughts and ideas with all of you to the not-so-glamorous side of things in producing every episode. Plus, we share how we love you (the listeners) who connect with us on how much you appreciate, love, and support the podcast. Listen now and get ready for even more amazing content in season two. Make sure to follow everywhere you listen to your podcasts so you don't miss out on the latest episodes and follow us on Instagram: @acoupleofcouplespod for updates and sneak peeks! Email us at [email protected]

Can you believe it? Because we can’t! We are 8 episodes deep this season on the Pod. In this episode, we talk about March and where it falls on the best month ranking. Then, we dive into everyone's favourite reality TV obsession, Love is Blind, on Netflix. We'll share our thoughts on this season's cast and reveal who we think takes the title of the proverbial worst person. Next, we tackle a tricky relationship topic: how to handle a partner who seems to prioritize their opposite-sex best friend over you. We offer some tips on how to approach this sensitive issue with honesty, empathy, and maturity. The episode ends with a hilarious and relatable discussion about embarrassing things that have happened to us as a couple from awkward date nights to cringeworthy situations. Let us know what you think via email: [email protected] and follow us Instagram @acoupleofcouplespod.

This episode is all about talking. We had a lively discussion on our first Valentine's Day as a married couple, making fashion choices for outings, Love is Blind on Netflix, what we recently changed our minds on, and something about a husband, wife, and girlfriend. Let us know what you think about this episode via email: [email protected] and follow us on Instagram @acoupleofcouplespod

In this episode, we chat about the ins and outs of making friends. We share our thoughts on the importance of being kind, patient, and open, even when someone might not be your cup of tea. Plus, we dish out our hot takes on friendships. We come to the conclusion that, at the end of the day, everyone deserves kindness, even if they are not your friend. Tune in for some laughs and some real talk about building meaningful connections, and let us know if you want to hear more about this topic.Contact UsInsta: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

Are you ready for a mouth-watering episode? As we dive into the world of food, Hannah’s favourite topic. In this episode, we explore some of the most controversial foods out there, as well as reminisce about the sugary treats of our childhood. And of course, we'll hear all about Hannah's favorite foods and culinary adventures. So sit back, relax, and get ready to indulge your taste buds and your curiosity!Contact UsInsta: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

We dive into the experience of meeting the in-laws. We share our personal stories of meeting each other's families and explore the intricacies of ask-versus-guess cultures and the lasting impact of first impressions. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who has ever felt the nerves of meeting their significant other's family, or for those seeking insights into the complex world of cross-cultural relationships. Join us for a lively discussion about building bridges between families.Contact UsInsta: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

In this down-to-earth and engaging conversation we reflect on the year that was 2023 — what we loved, what we learned, and what we are ready to let go of. You'll get a glimpse into our mindsets for 2024 from staying positive to finding gratitude and contentment. We hope our reflections will leave you feeling encouraged and ready to face the new year with a fresh perspective on the power of your own thoughts. Don't miss out on this!Contact UsInsta: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

Get ready for a festive feast of holiday humor and jolly jabs in this (pre)Christmas episode. We are spreading more cheer than Santa's sleigh as we exchange tales of our own Christmases past, ponder the true essence of Saint Claus, and engage in a merry debate on the ultimate holiday showdown: Christmas vs. Easter. Whether you're a jingle bell junkie or a bah humbug grinch, this episode is sure to stir up some holly jolly laughs.Contact Us Insta: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

Almost everyone has an opinion about planning a wedding and how it works, but there are things you don’t get to know until you’re in it. In this episode, we talk about things nobody told us would happen in planning our wedding and post-wedding day—the good and the not-so-good.Contact UsInsta: @acoupleofcouplespodEmail: [email protected]

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