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A Couple Queers

Wives, Keara Graves & LAVREN, welcome you to join them in their cozy sofa chats discussing everything from eloping during a pandemic, to their experiences as a neurodivergent couple, to learning to accept their bodies as non-binary folks.

  1. 40

    Taboos in Lesbian Relationships That Shouldn't be Taboo

    S*x is a Skill so let's educate ourselves on ✨Beducated✨: https://beduc.at/bg2620-acouplequeers

  2. 39

    Busting Lesbian Sex Myths *as a married couple*

    Use code 'WETFORCOUPLEQUEERS' if you want some $$$ off on Wet For Her products ❤️‍🔥 We recommend the RideHer Boxer Harness & the RockHer Duo 👀 https://wetforher.com/WETFORCOUPLEQUEERS

  3. 38

    Relationship Red Flags You NEED to Know 🚩🚩🚩

    These are red flags in relationships that give us the ick.

  4. 37

    7 Lessons We've Learned in 7 Years Together 💕💍

    For your personal guide to success in the bedroom, we love using Beducated: https://beduc.at/bg2617-acouplequeersIt's Keara & Lauren's 7 year dating anniversary 🥹 So they figured they'd share 7 lessons they've learned together as a couple throughout the years.

  5. 36

    Advice We'd Give to our Baby-Gay Selves

    Keara was reminiscing on their old content with Lauren on their YouTube channel and it sparked an question... what would we tell our babygay selves with the knowledge we have now?

  6. 35

    10 Ways to Improve your Mental Health for FREE

    Here are our tips & daily habits we practice to feel better mentally, especially when we don't have the money to afford therapy LOL. 🙃

  7. 34

    The Truth About Lesbian Bed Death *from an actual married couple*

    You've probably heard it ... LESBIAN BED DEATH. Is it real? Have we experienced it? Today we break down the topic as a married lesbian couple who's been together for 7 years.

  8. 33

    Would We Ever Have a Threesome? *married wlw couple Q&A*

    Your favourite married lesbian couple answers your juicy questions from our coming out stories, threesomes, dating as a baby sapphic, and an update on our OnlyFans!

  9. 32

    Things Other Couples Care About that We Don't

    We don't give a shart about these things that are like dealbreakers for other couples.

  10. 31

    How to Beat Chronic Fight-or-Flight Mode

    Welcome to Lauren's therapy session where they admit their feelings of being in survival mode, and Keara offers help in how to overcome it.

  11. 30

    Our Neurodivergent Love Languages 💕

    This relationship is very ✨neurospicy✨ and we love in ways that may be different than others, but it's love nonetheless!❤️

  12. 29

    Autism VS AuDHD: How to Tell the Difference

    Keara & Lauren discuss the differences in their expressions of neurodivergence; Keara having just autism and Lauren having autism & ADHD.

  13. 28

    How Coming Out as Nonbinary Healed our Body Image

    Keara and Lauren chat how they discovered their genderfluid and agender identities, and how this discovery has benefited the rest of their lives, including their relationship with their afab bodies.

  14. 27

    Our 'Firsts' as a Sapphic Couple

    Storytimes about our "firsts!"

  15. 26

    8 Taboos we Actually Think are Normal

    Taboos we actually think are normal.

  16. 25

    We Eloped... (why we didn't tell anyone for a year)

    Finally sharing our in-depth love story of how we got married and literally planned it the day-of.

  17. 24

    How Burnout Feels as an Autistic Couple

    Keara & Lauren feel like they're in a constant state of autistic burnout with no hope in sight... Who can relate??? 🙃🙃🙃

  18. 23

    We trigger each other

    The truth about long-term relationships is... sometimes you have to trigger each other (although not intentionally).

  19. 22

    Saturn Return be hitting HARD (what we're learning from it)

    Has your Saturn returned yet? Keara's is just beginning and Lauren's is well on it's way... and this is what we're learning from them.

  20. 21

    we're struggling...

    **TW: depression, anxiety, su!c!de** Keara and Lauren talk about how seasonal depression has gotten the best out of one of them - it's a real mental health check-in this episode. If you're struggling and looking for help, please call: CANADA - 9-8-8: Su!c!de Crisis Helpline UNITED STATES - 9-8-8: Su!c!de Crisis Helpline

  21. 20

    OCD has us in a chokehold rn…

    We both struggle with OCD but in very different forms, so we figured we'd squash the stigma and just talk about it, damn it! In this episode, we share the most vulnerable un-truths our OCD tells us daily and tips in not letting it overcome us, in hopes someone out there feels less alone ❤️

  22. 19

    How to Know if You Have AuDHD? (Autism & ADHD)

    Today we dive into what it's REALLY like to be AuDHD from Lauren's perspective of having both ADHD and Autism.

  23. 18

    How To Survive Long Distance Relationships

    We chat all about how we survived long distance as a wlw couple living in 2 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES!! and how you can survive long distance too ❤️

  24. 17

    Our Childhood Autism (+AuDHD) Signs!

    Taking a look at our childhoods, it was *very* evident we were on the spectrum... but we didn't know until our 20s. Today, we share all our childhood autism and audhd signs with you (and there's probably more where that came from).

  25. 16

    The Unspoken Rules of our Relationship *wlw married couple*

    Today we share the unspoken rules of our relationship... (things that we both just know to do / or not to do) because, well, we have telepathy.​

  26. 15

    Married Lesbian Couple Gives you Sex Advice

    Today we're answering your *highly anticipated* lesbian / wlw sex questions from Instagram, anything from scissoring to strapping to how often we do it! 😈🔥 To participate in the next one, follow our pod's Instagram @acouplequeerspod and watch out for our stories!

  27. 14

    Queer Love Ultimatum... We need better lesbian reality tv shows

    Today we express our concerns with popular Netflix reality tv show, Queer Love Ultimatum, how we need better queer representation on TV and online, and then we ramble about Sirens (irl?)...

  28. 13

    16 Autism Accommodations that Made our Lives WAY Easier (Autistic/AuDHD couple)

    Today we share the autism/audhd accommodations we've made that've helped us since being diagnosed! :)

  29. 12

    Propaganda we're NOT falling for... Skinnytok

    Keara got triggered AF and it led us into a rant about diet culture, skinnytok, and how the rise of thinness is not sitting well with us.

  30. 11

    Why We Got Cancelled on TikTok in 2020.

    Explaining the lore of why we deleted our couple's TikTok account in 2020 after getting backlash for a video we posted on sexuality labels.

  31. 10

    We got diagnosed at 26 & 28...

    Keara is late-diagnosed autistic and Lauren is late-diagnosed ADHD. Today we dive into how we both recently got diagnosed and the impact it's had on our lives today.​

  32. 9

    We Started an OnlyFans...

    Spilling ALLL the tea on how our first month on OF has gone as a lesbian couple, why we started it, and how much $$$ we've made so far... 🤭

  33. 8

    Do Autistic People do "The Deed"?

    Keara & LAVREN answer the BURNING question... "Do autistic people have s*x?" and take a personal dive into their intimate lives as wives.

  34. 7

    alcohol vs. weed

    Keara and LAVREN sit down to talk about their personal experiences with both substances; how they've helped and how they've hurt.

  35. 6

    How to know if you've met a soulmate

    Keara & LAVREN bust myths about soulmate connections and get down to the truth of what it feels like to be in a soulmate partnership.

  36. 5

    We're having a GREEN Christmas 🍃💨

    Join LAVREN and Keara on a very stoner holiday episode while they contemplate some deep, stimulating questions about life.

  37. 4

    How to survive the holidays as a queer/neurodivergent !

    As the holidays near, Keara Graves & LAVREN give listeners the ultimate guide to navigating family holiday events from their experience as queer, non-binary and neurodivergent humans.

  38. 3

    We're tired of masking for other people... (autistic p.o.v.)

    Keara and LAVREN, both high-masking autistics, reveal how the effects of masking can be both harmful and exhausting. They give advice to those who are first discovering they're autistic and/or have ADHD.

  39. 2

    We're DONE with masc lesbian body standards...

    LAVREN has an uneasy experience with body dysmorphia while shopping, so the couple talks it out, and discusses their qualms with the current body standards for masc lesbians and afab folks online.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Wives, Keara Graves & LAVREN, welcome you to join them in their cozy sofa chats discussing everything from eloping during a pandemic, to their experiences as a neurodivergent couple, to learning to accept their bodies as non-binary folks.

HOSTED BY

Keara Graves, LAVREN

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Wives, Keara Graves & LAVREN, welcome you to join them in their cozy sofa chats discussing everything from eloping during a pandemic, to their experiences as a neurodivergent couple, to learning to accept their bodies as non-binary folks.

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