After Hello Podcast

Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here:https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here------------------------☎️Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006In this episode of the After Hello Podcast, hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray explore the realities of modern dating with a unique twist, combining thoughtful conversation and real-life matchmaking. They are joined by John Rotonti,Senior Analyst; Head of Investor Training and Development at The Motley Fool, along with two remarkable women Amanda Abadie, a lawyer and nonprofit founder, and Amy Orgeron, a nurse practitioner as they explore connection, compatibility, and what it truly takes to build a meaningful partnership. Through candid dialogue and shared experiences, the episode discusses the importance of emotional readiness, balancing family responsibilities, and the chemistry that can spark when people show up authentically.After a series of insightful conversations, both Amanda and Amy expressed a desire to continue exploring their connection with John and are excited to see where things could go on a real-life date. Expect to LearnHow real-time conversations help uncover chemistry and connection beyond dating profiles.What modern singles value most when it comes to balancing work, family, and intentional dating.The role of vulnerability and emotional availability in navigating the complexities of adult dating.How personal growth, life stage, and family responsibilities influence romantic decision making.Insights from a Love Is Blind-style dating experience about what truly matters in forming a lasting partnership.Episode Breakdown with Timestamps[00:00] - Teaser[01:12] - Setting the stage for modern dating: How responsibilities impact relationships[04:11] - John talks about his hobbies: Fitness, travel, and finding joy in simple activities[06:03] - How finding the right partner could change John's life and daily routines[08:51] - Navigating the challenge of dating while caring for aging parents[11:31] - Maintaining personal identity in a partnership: Amanda’s approach[15:27] - Balancing career, fitness, and dating: Amy’s strategy[23:59] - Ideal first dates: Activity-based, engaging, and not conventional[30:38] - Deal-breakers in dating: John’s stance on drugs and smoking[35:10] - Final reflections: How values and chemistry play a role in modern datingFollow the Guests:👉 John Rotonti - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-rotonti-8ba92326b - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jrogrows/ - X: https://x.com/JRogrow 👉 Amanda Abadie - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-abadie/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amanda.abadie/ Follow Guest Company:👉 Follow The Motley Fool on LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-motley-fool/ Follow the Hosts:👉 Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/👉 Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/Follow After Hello Podcast:👉 Website - https://www.afterhello.com/👉 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking👉 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/👉 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/👉 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here:https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here-------------------------------------In this episode of the After Hello podcast, hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray get into real-life relationship dilemmas that many face when balancing ambition and connection.The first caller: Is a young lawyer who struggles to find time for love while constantly traveling for work and feels torn between his career and personal life.The second caller: Is an entrepreneur questioning whether his partner aligns with his ambitious lifestyle and whether they can build a future together, given their differing goals.The third caller: Is a corporate professional who feels unsupported in social settings that are crucial for his career and is uncertain about the future of his relationship. Expect to LearnHow technology is reshaping dating dynamics and fostering more meaningful connections.The impact of AI and algorithms on matchmaking and dating apps.Insights into how professionals, especially engineers, approach relationships and emotional vulnerability.Personal stories of growth, love, and finding balance in the fast-paced tech world.Episode Breakdown with Timestamps[00:00] - Teaser[01:08] - Introducing the After Hello Hotline and today’s core theme[01:33] - Career-first ambition and the challenge of making time for dating[03:16] - Why “winging it” doesn’t work for long-term relationships[04:56] - Are career-driven professionals really behind in dating?[07:37] - Getting intentional: vision, values, and proactive dating choices[10:21] - Nurturing connection when work dominates the calendar[14:21] - Where ambitious professionals are most likely to meet a partner[17:27] - Seasons of life: balancing growth, relationships, and priorities[29:41] - When career success and partnership expectations collide[35:58] - The role of partner dynamics in professional advancement[42:40] - Why core values act as an anchor during uncertainty[47:40] - Unpopular Opinion: Keep only those who lift you up📞 Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006Follow the Hosts:👉 Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/👉 Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/Follow After Hello Podcast:👉 Website - https://www.afterhello.com/👉 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking👉 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/👉 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/👉 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

Ready to rewrite your love story? Join the After Hello registry here:https://bit.ly/start--your-love-story-here-------------------------------------In this episode of the After Hello Podcast, hosts Ann Parnes and Maria Murray take dating out of theory and into real life with a Love Is Blind style conversation centered on connection, chemistry, and intentional dating. They are joined by Esteban Gershanik and three incredible women Jessica Holtzman, Stephanie Douglas, and Anna Tisdale, for an unscripted exploration of what happens when profiles fade away, and real conversations take the lead. Through candid dialogue, shared values, and moments of vulnerability, the episode talks about modern dating culture, emotional readiness, and the often unpredictable chemistry that emerges when people show up as their authentic selves.Following the Love Is Blind-inspired experience, Jessica, Stephanie, and Anna all indicated they were curious to see where things could go with Esteban and were interested in meeting him for a real-life date. Expect to LearnHow real time conversations reveal chemistry and connection beyond dating profiles.What modern singles value most when it comes to intentional dating, communication, and emotional availability.How vulnerability, presence, and lived experiences shape romantic decision making.The role of timing, life stage, and personal growth in forming meaningful relationships.Insights from a Love Is Blind-style dating experience on what truly matters when building a lasting partnership.Episode Breakdown with Timestamps[00:00] - Teaser[02:27] - Introducing Esteban: A physician balancing work and life between Boston and New Orleans[05:37] - Discussing what’s been missing in Esteban’s past relationships and what he seeks in the future[06:51] - Exploring what Esteban is looking for in a partner and the importance of mutual support[14:22] - Host discusses the importance of family values and their impact on relationships[23:16] - Reflecting on authenticity, communication, and the role they play in relationships[31:00] - Reaching a “zen” mindset about dating and embracing uncertainty[33:46] - The importance of being intentional & consistent in relationships and putting in effort[39:38] - Learning to recognize “breadcrumbing” and mixed signals in dating[46:26] - Experiencing exclusion and navigating minority identity[53: 44] - Roundtable responses to a shared question on self-description and relationship expectations[1:04:49] - Final reflections: Finding a partner with similar values and staying present in dating📞 Have questions or need assistance? Call our hotline today at (504) 233-4006Follow the Guests:👉 Esteban Gershanik - https://www.linkedin.com/in/esteban-gershanik-312a3310/👉 Jessica Holtzman - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jsholtzman/Follow the Hosts:👉 Ann Parnes - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-parnes/ - Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ann.parnes/- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/annparnes/👉 Follow Maria Murray - LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/maria-murray-bewell- Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bewell.maria/Follow After Hello Podcast:👉 Website - https://www.afterhello.com/👉 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@AfterHelloMatchmaking👉 Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/afterhellomatchmaker/👉 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/afterhellomatchmaking/👉 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@afterhello

In this introductory trailer, we pull back the curtain on After Hello, the elite matchmaking firm designed for the modern, high-performing man. Founders Ann Parnes and Maria Murray share the vision behind the After Hello: a podcast dedicated to solving the complex dating and relationship dilemmas of CEOs, entrepreneurs, and driven professionals.In a world of endless swiping and low-ROI dating apps, we bring precision, science, and strategy to your personal life. Tune in to hear how we are reshaping the modern dating landscape for men who value their time, their discretion, and their legacy.Subscribe now to join the hotline. Your next great chapter starts here.