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Are We Doing This?
by Lauren and Lauren
Feeling stuck in the same routine?Welcome to Are We Doing This?, the podcast where two moms, on the verge of 40 and refusing to settle, push each other out of their comfort zones and try something new. From revisiting old hobbies to challenges like shopping locally, journaling daily, or finding creative side hustles, we’re showing that growth doesn’t stop at 40—it gets more exciting. With a blend of humor, honesty, and a little chaos, we’re on a mission to shake things up. Ready to rediscover yourself, embrace change, and maybe laugh along the way? Come do this with us!
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One Year In: Heated Rivalry, Valentine Chaos & Mocktail Reviews
It’s officially our one-year podcast anniversary 🎉 and somehow… yes, we’re STILL doing this.In this episode, we reflect on how far the show has come since our very first recording (spoiler: it wasn’t as cringe as we feared), celebrate surviving a full year of podcasting, and ease into one of our favorite things—real, unfiltered life updates.We catch up on what’s been filling our weeks: solo parenting through illness, cake orders multiplying during Valentine’s week, kid birthdays, summer camp sign-ups that feel more competitive than concert tickets, and the ongoing question of how much effort is too much when it comes to classroom holidays and Valentine’s traditions.Then we dive into pop culture with our long-awaited conversation about Heated Rivalry—why it completely took over everyone’s feeds, what worked (and didn’t) for us, wildly different attraction opinions, and how watching it the “wrong way” can absolutely change the experience. We unpack the hype, the chemistry, the storytelling, and why everyone seems to have a very strong take.We also circle back to our “trying new things” theme with reviews of several non-alcoholic beverages, breaking down the different categories—from NA cocktails that mimic the taste of alcohol to drinks with adaptogens or mood-boosting ingredients—and what actually feels worth drinking when you’re cutting back but still want a vibe.It’s honest, funny, a little chaotic, and very much about navigating midlife, motherhood, relationships, and curiosity—without pretending we have it all figured out.Thanks for being here with us as we head into year two 💛
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The Dual Citizenship of Being Alive
On today’s episode, we wade through the overwhelming stream of difficult news pouring out of Minnesota — from federal immigration enforcement crackdowns and shootings to community fear and fatigue. Amid that heaviness, we remind listeners that even in the darkest times we still need pockets of joy to stay human. Lauren P. opens up about a book she couldn’t put down — the kind of escape that gives you something good to hold onto even when the news feels relentless. She also shares a recipe so simple that even she couldn’t mess it up (yes, it really is foolproof) and walks us through gel nails you can do at home — little self-care wins that matter more than we often admit.Lauren B. checks in through a rough patch — she’s been hit with a bout of illness that has kept her slow and sidelined. She talks about the comforts that actually help: Vicks Vapor Rub, her go-to cough drops, a must-watch TV show that’s helping her pass the sick days with a smile, and an affordable juice hack that somehow feels like a tiny victory in a gross week.Every story on this episode — the national fury, the personal anecdotes, the practical tips for comfort and joy — ties back to the same truth: life keeps happening, and while the world can feel heavy and those in power can feel untrustworthy, holding onto the good things we can control — books, food, self-care, laughter — is not just optional, it’s essential.Watch this episode on YouTube! https://www.standwithminnesota.com/LP's Dumpling Bake RecipeLP's At Home Gel Nails
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Soft Starts, Hard Truths
In this episode, Lauren P and Lauren B ease into the new year in very on-brand ways: one is reading books in a cozy cabin pretending life is soft and gentle, and the other is aggressively organizing her house after the holidays exploded it.Lauren P realizes (once again) that a few casual drinks will absolutely ruin her entire next day and questions why she keeps relearning this lesson. Lauren B shares that she’s officially ready to stop dabbling and get serious about finding a full-time gig — spreadsheets, confidence pep talks, and all.Along the way, they cover hair disasters, post-holiday chaos, the emotional whiplash of entrepreneurship, and the universal struggle of balancing ambition, rest, and real life. It’s honest, funny, slightly unhinged, and exactly the energy we’re bringing into the new year.
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We Actually Did That – A Year of Wins, Fails & Wild Challenges
It’s our end-of-year / New Year’s episode and we are unwell (in the best way) over our debut season stats. Apparently, our brand-new little podcast was more popular than 92% of other new shows on Spotify, landed in the Top 15% of video podcasts, got shared more than 94% of other shows, and somehow made its way into 8 different countries (hi Bulgaria, Germany, Australia, and our ride-or-dies in the US). Oh—and 21 people have us as their #1 show… which honestly feels illegal.After fully basking in that glow, we took a walk down memory lane and revisited all the challenges we bravely (and sometimes questionably) attempted this year. Remember when LP opened an Etsy shop that absolutely flopped? When LB took a poetry class? When we tried to sell feet pics (NOT our feet, thank you very much)? Some challenges were wins, some were fails, but all of them made this year unforgettable. Bonus plot twist: LP started an entirely new career with her cake business and somehow survived.We wrap things up by talking about what we’re leaving behind (hello, shame spirals) and what we’re carrying into 2026—a healthier, less unhinged relationship with our phones. It’s reflective, it’s ridiculous, and it’s the perfect way to close out the year with us.Cheers to trying things, failing loudly, winning unexpectedly, and doing it all together.
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The Book That's Changing Our Lives
In today’s episode, we’re basically here to say: hydration, less scrolling, and touching grass might actually work. We talk about the small habit changes that are making us feel mentally and physically better—drinking more water, moving our bodies, getting off sleep meds, and (gasp) spending way less time on our phones.We also tackle one of parenting’s greatest mysteries: how to keep the Christmas magic alive when your kids are old enough to ask… questions. Is Santa still believable? Are we still believable? We discuss.Most of this episode is a love letter to How to Break Up With Your Phone by Catherine Price, because WOW. We’re on day 16 of the 30-day Phone Breakup, our phones no longer sleep next to us (scandalous), our worst apps have been deleted (RIP), and we’ve replaced doom-scrolling with reading, walking, and cleaning like people who suddenly “have their lives together.” If your phone has a little too much power over you, come break up with it alongside us.LinksHow to Break Up With Your Phonehttps://www.amazon.com/How-Break-Up-Your-Phone/dp/039958112XThe Brickhttps://getbrick.app/products/the-brickTin Can Phonehttps://tincan.kids/
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Are We Okay? The Great Phone Breakup Day 1
In this week’s episode of Are We Doing This?, Lauren P kicks things off by recounting how her friend almost drowned in two feet of water in Mexico—because nothing says “vacation” like a near-death experience in ankle-deep waves.Lauren B then shares her recent ADHD diagnosis, connecting the dots on a lifetime of “Wait… is this not how everyone’s brain works?”Separately, the Laurens reflect on their former Texas era, when they felt obligated to keep up with the Joneses—and how moving away cured that instantly. They no longer get their nails done, and honestly? Freedom has never looked so chipped.They also dive into their newest self-help adventure: How to Break Up With Your Phone by Catherine Price. They’re on Day 2 of the 30-day Phone Breakup, still recovering from Day 1’s assignment to freak yourself out. Spoiler: it worked. They learned exactly how many hours they spend on their phones and how often they’re interrupted per hour… and let’s just say the numbers were not kind.The moral of the episode? If they’d just put their damn phones down, they actually could do all the things they claim they have no time for—cleaning, working out, reading, writing, and maybe even resurrecting their nail care era. But no promises on that last one.A chaotic, relatable, and slightly alarming episode. Enjoy!
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2,768 Steps and a Break Up
In this episode, Lauren and Lauren Parajon catch up on all the big things—like conquering Thanksgiving, surviving the 2,768-step Manitou Incline (aka: the StairMaster from hell), and planning a handmade Christmas because apparently nothing says “festive” like stabbing fabric thousands of times with a tiny needle.Lauren Butler shares how she’s rediscovering her crafty side through hand embroidery, all while navigating the rollercoaster of parenting older kids—complete with new boundary-setting adventures and the realization that big kids can outsmart you.The Laurens also dive into their complicated relationships… with their phones. They talk about what it might look like to officially “break up” with their devices, how screen time hijacks real-life moments, and why a digital detox might actually save their sanity. Toss in some tips for cutting back on scrolling, a rant or two about social media brain fog, and a group challenge to put the phones down before they fuse to our hands.And because we’re grown-ups now, they even squeeze in some chat about sleep, health, and doing small things to prevent future problems—like dementia, burnout, or turning into those people who insist they don’t need rest. It’s an episode full of laughs, honesty, and the shared goal of being a little healthier (and slightly less glued to our screens).Helpful Links:How to Break Up with Your Phone (book)https://a.co/d/0wqlNXTDementia Prevention (book)https://a.co/d/50F7LWo
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Are We Okay? Still Figuring It Out at 40
Lauren and Lauren reflect on how much the podcast—and their lives—have evolved. Turning 40 has brought new perspectives, new hobbies, and a whole lot of self-discovery. From handmade holiday gifts to ADHD, perimenopause, and the rollercoaster of mental health, they open up about what it means to really understand yourself in midlife. They also talk writing as therapy, reality TV as research (hi, Love Is Blind), and why embracing change might just be the best gift of all.
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Are We Obsessed? Rallies, Reads and Masked Shirtless Men
Sleep-deprived and slightly unhinged, Lauren P kicks things off by confessing that life without her sleep meds has turned her into a nocturnal raccoon. Meanwhile, Lauren B channels her inner activist at the No Kings rally and comes back feeling empowered. Then it’s time for this week’s obsessions: Lauren P is deep in the Plated Prisoner series (a spicy romantasy involving King Midas, which isn't as weird as it sounds), Lauren B is reading Culpability and questioning whether AI is about to take her job and her soul, and both Laurens dive into their latest TV addictions—Love Is Blind (Lauren P’s Halloween costume inspo) and Chad Powers (Lauren B’s newest crush). Lauren P also introduces Lauren B to the strange, seductive world of “MaskTok,” proving once again that her algorithm is chaos incarnate.
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The One Where We Turn Forty
Watch is episode on YouTube!Lauren and Lauren are officially 40! In this episode, they look back on their birthday celebrations and what it really feels like to enter a new decade. Lauren P. shares stories from her throwback slumber party—complete with games, laughter, and heartfelt moments—while Lauren B. recounts the surprise of a lifetime: a Life of a Showgirl–themed celebration, a spa day, and three of her best friends flying in from Texas and Colorado to join the fun.Together, they unpack what turning 40 really means—saying goodbye to old habits from their 30s, rethinking social media, and finding balance between parenting, self-care, and personal growth. It’s a warm, funny, and honest reflection on friendship, change, and celebrating life—messy parts and all.Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTube
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Episode 28: When the Laurens Went to Therapy with Guest Niki Froman
This week, the Laurens sit down with Niki Froman, licensed clinical social worker and owner of Inner Shell Therapy in Fort Collins. What starts as an interview quickly turns into a mini therapy session—covering everything from what it’s really like to work in the mental health field, to the mental toll of perimenopause, to the connections between sleep, trauma, and ADHD. Lauren B gets personal as she asks Niki about her own interest in making a career change into mental health, while Lauren P digs into the challenges women face during hormonal transitions. Honest, supportive, and packed with wisdom, this conversation feels like a warm hug and a wake-up call at the same time. Every woman will walk away with something valuable from this episode.Follow Niki on social media:Instagram @innershelltherapyllcFB: facebook.com/innershelltherapyinnershelltherapy.comKeywords: mental health, career transitions, women's health, perimenopause, self-care, therapy, neuroscience, hormonal changes, collaborative care, emotional well-being, ADHD, perimenopause, mental health, sleep, community support, women, therapy, career in mental health, coping mechanisms, emotional well-beingTakeawaysMental health is crucial during career transitions.Identifying your passion can guide your career path.Personal experiences shape professional insights in mental health.Hormonal changes significantly impact mental health.Self-care and boundaries are essential for mental health professionals.Collaborative care models enhance patient support.Understanding hormonal shifts can aid in managing mental health.Therapy is becoming more normalized, but stigma remains.Experience-based learning is vital in becoming a therapist.Practical strategies can help manage mental health effectively. ADHD symptoms can overlap with perimenopause symptoms.Finding a good provider is crucial for mental health.Sleep patterns significantly affect mental health.Community support is essential for women during transitions.Therapy can provide validation for emotional experiences.Sleep training techniques can be applied to adults.Mental health careers require strong boundaries.Peer support roles can provide valuable experience.Therapists often face emotional challenges in their work.Understanding trauma can redefine personal experiences. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Mental Health and Career Paths06:26 Niki's Journey into Social Work13:00 Exploring Career Changes in Mental Health15:29 The Importance of Personal Experience in Therapy19:51 Breaking Stigmas Around Therapy22:27 Collaborative Care Models in Mental Health25:41 The Importance of Collaborative Care29:00 Navigating Women's Health Transitions30:22 Understanding Hormonal Changes and Mental Health33:53 The Impact of Neurotransmitters on Well-being38:11 Exploring ADHD and Perimenopause Connections42:45 Navigating Women's Health Challenges45:59 Understanding Emotional Responses and Trauma49:55 The Impact of Sleep on Mental Health53:05 The Importance of Community and Support57:05 Lessons in Therapy and Boundaries58:34 The Challenges of Being a Therapist59:54 Navigating Clinical Responsibilities and Safety01:01:07 Exploring Career Paths in Mental Health01:03:30 Volunteering and Gaining Experience in Mental Health01:06:04 Understanding the Role of Peer Support01:06:59 The Importance of Practical Experience in Training01:13:27 Future Topics and Closing Thoughts
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Are We Okay? Freelance Fears, Spicy Scenes & Unhinged Energy
ARE we okay? Honestly, back-to-school season has us feeling a little unhinged—and that’s before you add freelancing, imposter syndrome, and planning milestone birthdays into the mix. This week, we talk about the anxiety of starting something new (hello, freelance life), the surprise of realizing when romance writing gets too personal, and why we’re done being embarrassed about throwing ourselves 40th birthday parties.We also dive into parenting chaos, celebrate tiny wins, and process our shocked-to-our-core reactions to Netflix’s Unknown Number. Basically, it’s a little therapy session, a little business pep talk, and a lot of “Are we Okay?” energy.Check out our new baker friend at KupcakeKonnoisseur.com ! Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTube
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Are We Obsessed? Tayvis, a must-read book, male strippers and Demon Hunters
This week’s episode took an unexpected turn when Lauren B got a FaceTime call mid-recording from our friend Ashley—who came bearing the BREAKING NEWS that Taylor Swift is engaged! Naturally, Ashley hopped on the pod and she and Lauren B went full fangirl mode (yes, there were tears).Once we finally recovered from the Swiftie meltdown, we dove into our current obsessions:Lauren B is all about Taylor’s new album (and now upcoming nuptials), the hilarious We Do Not Care Club trend, and Tyler Childers’ hauntingly good track The Bitin’ List.Lauren P couldn’t stop raving about the Magic Mike movies as the ultimate girls’ night pick, plus her love for the twisty novel The Compound (fueled by her reality TV obsession).And both Laurens shared their hype for the epic K-pop demon hunters movie that totally stole their hearts.It’s equal parts fangirl frenzy, fun recs, and genuine laughter—aka classic “Are We Obsessed?”Helpful links:Taylor Swift's Breaking News!https://www.instagram.com/p/DN02niAXMM-/?img_index=1Magic Mike Dance Scenes you Don' want to Miss:https://youtu.be/9FoM9JHXCWQ?si=VrDe1cj9x2tgBNTnhttps://youtu.be/TCdwW9zE2Mc?si=-mb1z2vThjc_tFpuhttps://youtu.be/dr6i4em2YQ4?si=tn-psuGRCtW9dMKAMelani Sanders of the "We Do Not Care Club"https://www.instagram.com/justbeingmelaniAshley Judd Video - We Do Not Care Clubhttps://www.instagram.com/reel/DMavbVes_F0/?igsh=bzVwY245bGIwNDN1LP's Book Rec - The Compoundhttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/218460337-the-compoundTyler Childers Bitin' List Videohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ydoSpHB7KiE
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Swiftie Chaos, Career Pivots, and Lauren’s Romance Novella
You can watch this episode on YouTube!We made it—25 episodes! In this one, we look back at how far we’ve come and spill about what’s next. Think: summer chaos, the sudden shift to fall routine, family-life juggling acts, and our very important reactions on Taylor Swift’s new album announcement. We get honest about career curveballs, wrestling with imposter syndrome, and finding community in unexpected places. Plus, one of us shares the latest twists and turns in her short story draft (character teasers, plot challenges, spicy scene details and all). It’s part reflection, part pep talk, and very much us—figuring it out as we go. Join us! Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTok
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What happens in Vegas... stays on this Podcast
Fresh off a 3-day girls trip to Vegas, Lauren and Lauren are back—and they brought souvenirs in the form of stories, laughter, and just a few rum-soaked Dole Whips. In this episode, we’re recapping the unforgettable weekend we spent with our college besties, Joy and Ashley—from getting way too into the Magic Mike show (no regrets), to living our best lives in a cabana at the Bellagio pool, and of course, losing our voices at the ICONIC Backstreet Boys concert at the Sphere.We’re also sharing a very special segment recorded from our hotel bed (in pajamas, obviously): Pillow Talk Confessions from Vegas. The four of us get nostalgic about how we met, reflect on how we’ve kept our friendship strong for 20 years, and share some heartfelt, hilarious, and possibly embarrassing truths.This one’s for the girls, the group chats, and the friendships that stand the test of time (and tequila).
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From Spotlights to Storylines: Kimberly Page Writes Her Own Chapter
Watch this episode on YouTube! In this "Are We Best Friends Now?" episode, we sit down with Kimberly Page—a former entertainment insider turned romance author—for a candid chat about what it really takes to write, publish, and put your heart on the page. Kimberly opens up about the wild ride of launching her books, the creative sparks behind her characters, and how feedback from readers and editors shaped her work. We dive into favorite tropes, the ups and downs of the publishing world, and why building a social media presence isn’t just a “nice to have” for authors today. Plus, Kimberly shares honest advice for aspiring writers and reflects on the surprising ways storytelling can change you—and connect you with your readers.Follow KimIG @iamkimberlyjpage TikTok @iamkimberlyjpageKimberlyjpage.comFollow UsInstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywordswriting, publishing, romance novels, author journey, entertainment industry, character development, editing process, personal growth, challenges, book release, writing, romance, parenting, tropes, spicy content, character development, book recommendations, writing process, aspiring authors, personal journey
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Are We Obsessed?: Thots, Books & Porch Beers
In this Are We Obsessed? episode, the Laurens dive into their latest fixations—because when they love something, they really love it. Lauren P reveals how a spicy little Ali Hazelwood novel yanked her out of a six-month reading slump (12 books in one month, y’all!) and shares her newfound love for old-school porch hangouts with neighbors while the kids run wild in the street like it’s 1993. She also sings the praises of living in a neighborhood where all the kids' friends are within five minutes—it takes a village, but like, a close one.Meanwhile, Lauren B is obsessed with Phoebe Robinson’s Substack, Thots and Prayers, and is on a mission to enjoy summer with her kids rather than white-knuckle her way through it. (We see you, moms hiding in the pantry with the boxed wine.)If you’re looking for laughs, book recs, community feels, and a nudge to go sit on your dang porch—this episode’s for you.Helpful links:Phoebe Robinson's Substack Thos and Prayers:https://dopequeenpheebs.substack.com/Ali Hazelwood's New Book, Problematic Summer Romancehttps://amzn.to/4kcCqvXKeywordssummer, parenting, reading, community, slumber parties, family fun, creativity, porch hangs, adventures, podcastTakeawaysSummer brings a unique set of parenting challenges.Slumber parties can be a fun way for kids to bond.Reading can help unlock creativity and joy.Community connections are vital for family life.Porch hangs foster relationships among neighbors.Summer adventures create lasting family memories.It's important to savor the good moments in parenting.Planning spontaneous trips can lead to great experiences.Building a supportive community is essential for parents.Finding joy in simple summer activities is key.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Summer Challenges03:42 Navigating Slumber Parties and Parenting06:42 Overcoming Reading Slumps09:31 Creative Inspirations and New Obsessions12:38 Phoebe Robinson and Social Commentary15:56 Cultural Reflections and Movie Discussions16:36 Exploring New Movies and Cultural References17:40 The Importance of Community and Porch Hangs26:24 Summer Adventures with Kids30:02 Planning Family Getaways and Road Trips
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Plotting Our Next Chapters (The Laurens' Version)
(Edited with improved audio!) In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Are We Doing This?, Lauren and Lauren dive into the chaos and comedy of summer parenting. They swap stories about teaching their kids to ride bikes, surviving splash pad birthday parties in the rain, sunset paddle board picnics, and letting daughters get bangs and purple highlights.The conversation turns to their June movement challenge—Wall Pilates and daily activity—and their confessions about how much (or little) they actually stuck to it. They reflect on what worked, what didn’t (looking at you, glitchy app), and how “cheating” on your challenge might still count as growth.Lauren B then unveils her July challenge: to actively explore a career pivot. She’s feeling the pull away from digital marketing and toward something more fulfilling—like coaching, therapy, or facilitation—and lays out her plan to research new paths, reconnect with her strengths, and take the first step toward what’s next. Meanwhile, Lauren P (who, by the way, is a little wine drunk during this recording) dives into her next creative challenge: writing a romance novella. She's already 800 words in on a story about a woman who’s a social media manager for a celebrity chef. Think: love, kitchen chaos, and content strategy.It’s raw, real, and full of laughs and "me too" moments for any listener trying to juggle personal growth, parenting, and summer chaos.Follow usInstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywordssummer parenting, wall pilates challenge, daily movement, fitness habits, bike camp, splash pad birthday, paddle board picnic, kids with bangs, purple hair dye, Crocs, short story writing, creativity, career pivot, coaching, therapy exploration, informational interviews, mom guilt, ADHD tendencies, StrengthsFinder, career change, balance, self-discovery, movement motivation, BetterMe app, working moms, flexibility, life after 40TakeawaysThe importance of balancing summer activities with parenting responsibilities.Celebrating children's milestones can be a joyful experience for parents.Birthday parties can be fun, even with unexpected weather challenges.Engaging in outdoor activities like paddle boarding can enhance family bonding.Fitness challenges can motivate individuals to stay active and healthy.Finding a balance between work and family life is a common struggle for parents.Exploring new career paths can lead to personal fulfillment and growth.Coaching and counseling roles can be fulfilling career options for those seeking change.It's essential to prioritize self-care and personal interests amidst parenting duties.Creating a supportive community can help navigate the challenges of parenting. Exploring career aspirations can be daunting but rewarding.Self-doubt and imposter syndrome are common feelings when considering a career change.Support from others can provide encouragement and motivation.Setting small, achievable goals can help in navigating career transitions.Self-reflection is key to understanding one's strengths and interests.Creative outlets can unlock personal growth and fulfillment.Writing can be a therapeutic way to express thoughts and emotions.It's important to research and understand different career paths before committing.Networking and informational interviews can provide valuable insights into new careers.Embracing the creative process can lead to unexpected and fulfilling outcomes.
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Are We OK? Emotional Whiplash, Self-Diagnoses & Sweet Wins
In this episode of our Are We OK? series, Lauren and Lauren dive into the emotional whiplash of living in America right now—covering everything from the administration's immigration tactics to the hope sparked by the No Kings protests. They explore how activism and community help ease feelings of helplessness, especially when current events feel overwhelming.The conversation also takes a personal turn, with candid reflections on mental health, parenting struggles (hello, summer chaos), and the surprising impact of social media on health awareness. Lauren P shares her journey of possibly having Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome after seeing relatable TikToks and opens up about how baking brings her both creativity and joy. Meanwhile, Lauren B discusses her own “wait, do I have ADHD?” moment, and a parenting strategy that’s helping her respond to her kids with more kindness during stressful moments.It’s messy, real, and filled with heart—just like life.Helpful LinksClimbing the Walls Podcasthttps://www.understood.org/en/podcasts/climbing-the-wallsThe Ehlers-Danlos Societyhttps://www.ehlers-danlos.com/Together Risinghttps://togetherrising.org/Keywordsmental health, current events, activism, parenting, Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, emotional well-being, social issues, community support, kindness, personal growth, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, health awareness, social media, ADHD, healthcare challenges, cake baking, creativity, women's health, autoimmune disorders, diagnosisTakeawaysIt's important to check in on our mental health regularly.Current events can significantly impact our emotional well-being.Finding ways to take action can help combat feelings of paralysis.Activism can provide a sense of community and hope.Parenting during challenging times requires balance and self-care.Summer can bring unique challenges for parents and children alike.Practicing kindness towards our children can improve relationships.Understanding personal health issues can lead to better self-care.It's okay to seek help and support from others.Finding joy in small moments can help counterbalance negativity. Understanding Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome can provide context for various health issues.Social media platforms like TikTok can raise awareness about health conditions.Navigating the healthcare system can be challenging, especially for women.Adult ADHD is often underdiagnosed, particularly in women.Baking cakes has become a fulfilling creative outlet for Lauren.Feedback from customers can boost confidence in creative endeavors.It's important to seek a diagnosis for health concerns to understand them better.The joy of creating something tangible can be incredibly rewarding.Finding a supportive primary care doctor is crucial for health management.Exploring new hobbies can lead to unexpected opportunities and income.Chapters00:00 Welcome to Episode 20: Mental Health Check-In03:28 Current Events: Discussing Mental Health and Societal Issues06:31 Taking Action: Finding Ways to Help and Support09:27 The Fear of Current Events: Navigating Safety and Community09:46 Finding Community in Chaos11:48 The Need for Leadership and Organization13:37 Normalization of Troubling Times15:39 The Impact of Kindness Amidst Turmoil16:40 Taking Action in Difficult Times17:31 Navigating Parenting Challenges23:33 Creating a Positive Home Environment26:56 Navigating Daily Frustrations28:32 Understanding Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome34:12 The Impact of Social Media on Health Awareness41:15 Exploring ADHD in Adults44:47 Understanding ADHD in Women52:39 The Journey of Cake Making01:01:29 Reflections and Future Challenges
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Are We Obsessed? June 2025
In this "Are We Obsessed?" episode, the Laurens catch up on what they’re currently loving—from go-to products and comfort-first fashion to new TV obsessions and what’s on their bookshelves. They swap weekend updates, talk through recent fitness ups and downs, and share how they’re trying to stay on track with health goals while still enjoying life.The conversation winds through everyday essentials like anti-chafe shorts and the perfect bralette, the surprising joy of permanent jewelry, and how they’re navigating perimenopause and experimenting with adaptogens. There’s a little talk about keto, a lot of talk about reality TV, and plenty of honest moments about what’s working—and what’s definitely not.LP: Waterproof/Sweatproof Necklacehttps://atoleajewelry.com/products/rope-chain-necklace-womenFlat Back Earringshttps://amzn.to/3Zs7P6hCooling Shortshttps://amzn.to/3FH9I8vThe Secret Lives of Mormon Wiveshttps://www.hulu.com/series/the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-58cd73be-408d-4eed-8e3d-82339f3f93e2LB: Bralette (Also available in a regular/non curvy version!) https://www.meundies.com/products/curvy-feelfree-ruched-bralette-blackAshwagandha Supplementshttps://a.co/d/8N8WexZYour Friends & Neighbors https://tv.apple.com/us/show/your-friends--neighbors/umc.cmc.74o37kzay0yuuub8iumddjsgThe Wedding Peoplehttps://a.co/d/hkfjF2kFollow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywordsobsessions, products, TV shows, books, personal growth, fitness, baking, concert experiences, recommendations, fashion, perimenopause, adaptogens, jewelry, TV shows, reality TV, book recommendations, keto diet, lifestyle, wellnessChapters02:53 Weekend Catch-Up and Life Updates05:47 Fitness Challenges and Personal Growth08:51 Concert Experience with Neon Trees13:42 Baking Adventures and Cake Creations19:38 Exploring New Products and Recommendations21:25 The Comfort of Undergarments24:15 Finding the Right Fit: Anti-Chafe Solutions31:47 Navigating Perimenopause: The Role of Adaptogens35:35 Jewelry Hacks for Everyday Elegance39:18 Entertainment Recommendations: New Shows to Watch40:59 The Downfall of a Character44:07 The Allure of Trash TV47:15 Book Recommendations and Literary Insights50:09 Navigating Keto and Social Life54:51 Final Thoughts and Future Topics
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From Petals to Parties: Jen Gayden on Building Vivian James Events
This week, the Laurens are back with updates on their fitness challenge—and let’s just say things escalated quickly. Wall Pilates is no joke and Lauren B accidentally found herself in a HIIT cardio class that nearly ended her. Spoiler: she survived, but barely.Then, they sit down with the incredible Jen Gayden, the creative force behind Vivian James Events in Fort Worth. Jen shares how she blends her love of event planning, photography, and florals into one stunning business—all while raising two kids and staying (somehow?) sane. She spills the tea on why flowers can be ridiculously expensive, and why having a mentor is a total game-changer when launching a business.Don’t miss this episode full of laughs, inspiration, and a little post-workout regret. And be sure to tune in next week for the Are We Obsessed episode when the Laurens dive into their current faves—products, shows, and whatever else is living rent-free in their brains.Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeFollow Jen: https://www.instagram.com/vivianjameseventshttps://www.facebook.com/vivianjameseventshttps://www.tiktok.com/@jen_vivianjamesevents Keywordsbusiness, entrepreneurship, floral design, event planning, photography, side hustles, work-life balance, creative passions, client education, logistics, floral design, entrepreneurship, photography, business challenges, mentorship, creative parties, floral parties, event planning, small business, women in business
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Finding the Fun in Fitness (Finally?)
This week, the Laurens are back with a wild mix of firsts, fails, and future plans. Lauren P recounts her shocking near hole-in-one during her very first golf outing—and her dream of assembling a glam golf crew for a weekend of cute outfits and cocktails. Meanwhile, both Laurens took on the challenge of watching all 10 Academy Award Best Picture nominees (well… almost all), and they’re not holding back on their hot takes. (The Substance = yes. Emilia Perez = hard no.)They also get real about their struggle to find joy in working out—and what they’re doing about it. Lauren B is diving into a ChatGPT-generated 30-day movement challenge (think: brushing your teeth while doing calf raises), and Lauren P was influenced by TikTok (again) to try the 28-Day Wall Pilates Challenge.Plus, a sneak peek at next week’s guest: Jen Gayden of Vivian James—Petals, Portraits, and Parties. You’ll want to hear her story!Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywordspodcast, parenting, field day, gardening, golf, Academy Awards, challenges, motherhood, routines, chaos, workout routine, motivation, fitness challenges, Pilates, exercise, health, women, personal trainer, accountability, movementChapters00:00 Late Night Vibes and Wine02:49 End of School Year Chaos05:50 Field Day Fiasco08:51 Parenting Challenges and Bodily Fluids11:39 Gardening Adventures14:35 Embracing New Experiences15:44 Family Golf Adventures20:24 Challenge Accepted: The Academy Awards32:30 Looking Ahead: New Challenges33:14 Struggles with Workout Routines35:15 The Impact of Life Changes on Fitness38:07 Chasing the Workout High41:08 Finding Joy in Physical Activity50:17 Embracing Movement: A New Approach to Fitness55:59 Setting Goals: The Importance of Accountability in Fitness Challenges59:44 Exploring New Fitness Trends: Wall Pilates and Beyond01:03:24 Upcoming Guest: A Journey into Event Planning and Entrepreneurship
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The Summer Survival Guide for Busy Moms
In This Episode:Lauren P debates whether competitive soccer is the right fit for her son—especially if it means giving up her beloved Soccer Saturdays with friends. Meanwhile, Lauren B tries Pilates for the first time, shows up late, and accidentally does the entire class on the hardest setting thanks to some reformer confusion.The Laurens also unveil an exciting new structure for the podcast! Each month will now feature four themed episodes:Are We Really Doing This? – Trying new things and stepping out of our comfort zonesAre We OK? – Honest convos about what’s on our mindsAre We Obsessed? – Books, shows, and products we can’t stop talking aboutAre We Best Friends Now? – Guest interviews that go deep and make us laughPlus, they share their Summer Survival Plans for getting through the chaos of summer with two young kids each. Spoiler: snacks, screen time, and low expectations might be involved.Keywordssummer, parenting, fitness, soccer, podcast, family, challenges, routines, survival strategies, motherhood, parenting, summer activities, screen time, routines, kids independence, family meals, summer learning, outdoor play, family bonding, summer plansTakeawaysSummer is approaching, leading to parenting anxiety.Weekend activities include birthday parties and family outings.Field trips can be both fun and exhausting for parents.Physical fitness challenges are a common struggle for busy moms.Deciding on competitive sports for children can be challenging.Summer routines need to be planned to keep kids engaged.Balancing screen time and outdoor activities is essential.Podcast format is evolving to include more relatable topics.Moms often feel overwhelmed during summer break.Community and support from other parents is invaluable. Managing screen time can be challenging for parents.Creating a structured summer learning routine is beneficial.Morning routines help kids start their day positively.Balancing work and family activities is essential during summer.Encouraging kids' independence fosters confidence.Outdoor play is crucial for children's development.Utilizing school lunch programs can ease meal planning.Planning simple summer lunches can reduce stress.Daily snack management is important for healthy eating.Creating a family summer bucket list can enhance family bonding.Chapters00:00 Summer Countdown and Survival Strategies02:40 Weekend Shenanigans and Family Activities05:41 Field Trip Adventures and Nature Exploration08:37 Fitness Journeys and Challenges11:31 Soccer Struggles and Competitive Decisions14:26 Crawfish Boil and Family Gatherings17:20 Podcast Evolution and Future Directions20:24 Connecting with Guests and Community23:23 Balancing Work and Family Life26:26 Lunch Planning for the Summer27:28 Encouraging Independence in Kids28:25 Final Thoughts on Summer Strategies36:51 Kitchen Independence for Kids37:57 Snack Management Strategies39:57 Summer Plans and Activities42:11 Creating a Family Summer Bucket List44:23 Exploring Outdoor Adventures46:07 Summer Camps and Learning Opportunities48:09 Nostalgic Plans: Backstreet Boys in Vegas50:56 Seeking Summer Survival Tips
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Movies, Motherhood, Money… and Almost Reality TV
In this episode, LB and LP get real about motherhood, money, and the elusive search for balance. From Mother’s Day reflections to summer survival strategies with kids, they cover it all — with detours into the world of film (Wicked, Conclave, and A Complete Unknown), podcast rabbit holes, and a possible kid cameo. LP spills the financial details of her cake biz — and that one time a reality TV producer slid into her DMs. LB keeps chasing that ever-elusive sweet spot gig, and together, they tackle fame, nostalgia, and figuring it all out one messy moment at a time.Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywords:podcast, motherhood, movies, challenges, family, traditions, Mother's Day, Wicked, Conclave, Bob Dylan, nostalgia, film performance, cake business, work-life balance, parenting strategiesTakeaways:The podcast introduces a new audio-only format due to personal circumstances.Mother's Day reflections highlight what we REALLY wantListeners are encouraged to share their podcast preferences between audio and video.The discussion of the movie 'Wicked' reveals differing opinions on its appeal and themes.'Conclave' explores the complexities of choosing a new pope and the moral dilemmas involved.'A Complete Unknown' raises questions about fame and the struggles of artists.The conversation touches on the societal pressures faced by public figures.The pressure of instant communication can be overwhelming.Performance in film can evoke strong opinions and feelings.Running a cake business involves both creativity and financial strategy.Work-life balance is a constant negotiation for parents.Summer presents unique challenges for working parents.Finding the right income balance is crucial for family dynamics.Personal fulfillment in work is important for mental health.Exploring new career paths can be daunting but necessary.
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Chicken Wings and Oscar Screams
In this episode of Are We Doing This?, we're diving into two Best Picture nominees as part of our Oscars challenge: Anora and The Substance. We react to the shocking, grotesque imagery in The Substance—including an unforgettable chicken wing moment—and unpack the intensity of Anora, especially that wild Russian "bad guys" scene (we’re pretty sure we wouldn’t scream that loudly, even if we tried). We also share a peek behind the scenes of our real lives: sick kids (flu and Hand, Foot, and Mouth—yay), the chaos of motherhood, and the unexpected thrill of my Espresso Martini Cupcake video going viral on TikTok.keywordsparenthood, illness, family activities, teacher appreciation, cake business, marketing, social media, collaborations, work-life balance, movies, Anora, The Substance, character analysis, film reviews, dual passions, themes, Academy Awards, exploration, storytellingTakeawaysParenting often requires juggling multiple responsibilities, especially during illness.Community support is crucial during challenging times, such as sickness in the family.Teacher appreciation week can be overwhelming for parents, with various themes and expectations.Engaging in family activities can provide a much-needed break from daily stressors.Social media can significantly impact small businesses, leading to unexpected opportunities.Collaboration with local businesses can enhance visibility and create new partnerships.Maintaining a work-life balance is essential for mental health and productivity.Feedback from clients is vital for improving products and services in a business.It's important to prioritize self-care and personal interests amidst busy schedules.Finding joy in work can help alleviate feelings of burnout and identity crises. Exploring multiple passions can lead to unexpected insights.The juxtaposition of different interests can create unique experiences.Movies can serve as a backdrop for personal exploration.Character motivations often reflect deeper societal themes.The portrayal of relationships in film can be complex and multifaceted.Understanding character dynamics enhances the viewing experience.Graphic content in films can evoke strong emotional reactions.The impact of aging and beauty standards is a recurring theme in cinema.Film reviews can spark engaging discussions about storytelling.Future movie selections can reflect current societal issues.Chapters00:00 Navigating Parenthood and Illness03:32 Weekend Adventures and Family Activities06:30 Teacher Appreciation Week Insights09:31 Balancing Health and Business12:31 Celebrating Teachers and Community Support16:05 Teacher Appreciation Week: The Emotional Toll22:25 Balancing Parenting and Work: The Mental Load28:48 Cake Business: Creativity and Challenges31:00 Identity Crisis: Navigating Career Changes33:13 Introduction to the Characters and Plot35:09 Exploring Relationships and Motivations37:57 Conflict and Climax: The Screaming Scene39:08 The Ending: Power Dynamics and Emotional Release42:35 Transition to the Second Movie: The Substance43:57 Plot Overview and Themes of The Substance46:17 Exploring Body Horror and Disgusting Imagery48:06 The Concept of Self and Identity50:35 The Pursuit of Youth and Its Consequences52:23 Graphic Scenes and Their Impact55:47 Acting Performances and Industry Commentary58:34 Final Thoughts and Future Plans01:02:30 AWDT Podcast Intro Video (1920 x 1080 px).mp4
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Type C Moms, TikTok Diagnoses and Movies that Shaped Us
This week on Are We Doing This? — Lauren and Lauren dive into the chaos of over-planning kids’ birthday parties (even when we swear we won’t), finding balance with our energy and anxiety, and yes, turning to TikTok for self-diagnoses. Lauren P. pitches a bold new cake business idea—shed included—and the duo kicks off a fresh May challenge. Plus, they take a nostalgic trip through the movies that shaped them most.Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywordscake business, health, medication, movie recommendations, birthday party, personal well-being, nostalgia, classic movies, cultural reflections, entrepreneurship, moms and mental load, party planning burnout, anxiety, TikTok health hacks, mompreneurs, cake business idea, movie nostalgia, personal growth, monthly challenges, friendship and motherhood
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When the Dog Eats the Cupcakes and Party City Disappears
Lauren P’s cake business is officially up and running—and holy shit, it’s been a ride. First week in and the dog ate 15 cupcakes (RIP funfetti), orders are flying in, and chaos reigns in the best way possible. Meanwhile, Lauren B. is diving headfirst into small biz marketing magic, ready to help brands find their voice and their people. But we need to talk about the real crisis: Party City is GONE. How are we supposed to throw parties now—DIY everything? Possibly. Probably. Definitely. Also: We’ve got hot takes on Netflix’s The Life List and Ransom Canyon, and a very important question... how is Josh Duhamel still aging like fine wine? Tune in, weigh in, and party on—even if you have to make your own balloon arch.Helpful Links:LoLo Bakes Cakes Website: https://bakesy.shop/b/lolo-bakes-cakesCanva: Canva.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/arewedoingthispodFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/arewedoingthispodYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AreWeDoingThisPodKeywords:Easter, family traditions, Netflix shows, The Life List, cake business, baking challenges, Mother's Day, party planning, marketing strategies, personal branding, AI, career coaching, small businessTakeawaysEaster celebrations can be a mix of fun and chaos.Family traditions often evolve as children grow.Finding entertainment that resonates can be a bonding experience.Reflecting on childhood dreams can inspire current goals.Running a cake business involves both creativity and logistics.Learning from baking challenges is essential for growth.Customer feedback can drive business success.Creative ideas for holidays can enhance customer engagement.Navigating party planning can be simplified with the right supplies.Marketing strategies need to adapt to current trends.Building a personal brand requires thoughtful planning.AI tools can assist in career development and marketing.New client projects can provide fresh opportunities.Affordable services can help small businesses thrive.Feedback from listeners can shape future podcast content.Chapters00:00 Easter Reflections and Family Traditions01:54 Netflix Shows and Girls' Night In04:57 The Life List: A Journey of Self-Discovery08:00 Creating Lasting Memories for Kids10:48 Baking Adventures and Business Lessons16:55 Future Plans and Custom Orders18:03 Navigating Seasonal Flavors and Custom Orders21:25 Creative Solutions for Mother's Day Treats26:07 Exploring Party Planning Opportunities27:11 Building an Online Presence and Portfolio35:15 Local Marketing Strategies for New Businesses35:22 Exploring Affordable Solutions for Small Businesses38:39 Leveraging Technology for Business Efficiency41:57 The Importance of Branding and Marketing42:14 Navigating the Challenges of Small Business Management43:05 Seeking Guidance and Support in Career Development45:44 Future Directions and Listener Engagement
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Kids, Chaos and Cake Dreams
In Episode 11, Lauren and Lauren are back with stories from their recent travels and some major anniversary celebrations! They open up about a few heart-pounding scares involving their kids and explore how they'd handle real-life emergencies. Lauren P. dives into her struggles with sleep anxiety—plus a mysterious case of sleepwalking in her house. Big news: she's going all-in on her cake business in Colorado and just survived a wild rush of Easter cupcake orders. Meanwhile, Lauren B. takes a big step in her marketing freelancing journey by productizing her services and leveling up her online portfolio. Oh—and someone gets inked and picks up a brand-new sport. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a few surprises!Follow LoLo Bakes Cakes on Instagram! Follow AWDT on:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywords: parenting podcast, mom life, women entrepreneurs, cake business, sleep anxiety, small business journey, podcast for moms, creative business, freelance marketing, online portfolio, productized services, Colorado baker, emergency mom stories, tattoo story, trying new things
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Ten Episodes, Ten Lessons: What We’ve Learned So Far
Double digits, baby! In this milestone episode, Lauren Butler and Lauren Parajon look back on their first two months behind the mic and share their Top 10 Takeaways so far. Who needs to work on their listening skills, and who’s realizing they effing LOVE podcasting? You’ll have to listen to find out!From surprising lessons (spoiler: podcasting is way easier than they expected!) to why you should give it a try, the Laurens are keeping it real, reflective, and ridiculously fun. Plus, Lauren B. spills a new strategy she’s using to level up her writing game, and Lauren P. gives us the scoop on a photo shoot involving feet pics and dollar store accessories. Yep, it’s as wild as it sounds.Grab your headphones and come celebrate 10 episodes with us—because we’re just getting started!Helpful links:LP's Book Recommendation:Thank you For Listening by Julia Whelan https://amzn.to/42BXg2fLB's Book Recommendation:The Artist's Way: A Spiritual Path to Higher Creativity https://amzn.to/427DdJ3Podcasting Software: Riverside.fmTakeawaysCelebrating small milestones is important in any journey.Spring brings opportunities for outdoor activities and family bonding.Time management is a common struggle for many, especially parents.Side hustles require more effort than initially anticipated.It's okay to pivot away from creative passions that no longer resonate.Podcasting can foster deeper connections and friendships.The process of podcasting is more accessible than it seems.Feedback from listeners can be surprising and encouraging.Jumping into new projects can lead to unexpected rewards.It's essential to embrace the learning curve in any new endeavor. Communication styles can differ greatly between friends.Reconnecting with old friends can deepen understanding.Defining success in adulthood is a complex challenge.Social media addiction is a common struggle.Embracing boredom can lead to personal growth.Creative ventures can be both fun and challenging.Rediscovering creativity requires structure and commitment.Listener feedback is crucial for podcast improvement.Personal growth often involves exploring new interests.It's okay to not have everything figured out.Keywordspodcast, milestones, time management, side hustles, creativity, friendships, parenting, spring, reflections, challenges, communication, personal growth, success, social media, creativity, podcasting, relationships, adulthood, reconnecting, listener engagementChapters00:00 Celebrating Episode 10: A Milestone Reflection05:43 Spring Adventures: Embracing the Outdoors10:19 Lessons from Podcasting: Takeaways and Surprises19:43 The Reality of Side Hustles: More Work Than Expected22:35 The Desire to Write and Create26:02 The Joy of Podcasting29:23 Realizations About Podcasting31:07 Deepening Relationships Through Podcasting35:41 Learning from Others' Stories39:58 Navigating Life Transitions41:33 Navigating Boredom: A Modern Dilemma43:33 The Challenge of Sleep: Seeking Solutions44:33 Creative Ventures: The Feet Picture Project53:37 Rediscovering Creativity: The Artist's Way
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Behind the Biohazard: The Heart and Hustle of Crime Scene Cleanup
In this conversation, guest Krista Gregg shares her unique journey from working in healthcare marketing to becoming a business owner in the crime scene cleanup industry. She discusses the challenges and emotional aspects of her work, the importance of empathy, and the training required in this unregulated field. The conversation delves into the realities of hoarding cleanup and the transformative power of understanding and support in helping clients navigate their traumatic situations. In this conversation, Krista shares her journey in the world of hoarding cleanup and mental health advocacy, the challenges of starting her own business, and the emotional toll of dealing with trauma. Krista also highlights her upcoming podcasts, 'Light a Match' and 'She Diaries,' which aim to raise awareness about hoarding and the experiences of women who have lost loved ones to suicide. The discussion touches on the need for better mental health support for men and the importance of storytelling in healing and connection.About Krista: Krista Gregg and her husband, Matt, left stable careers to take a bold leap into business ownership. They now run Bio One of Colorado and Bio One of Asheville, and they're specializing in biohazard remediation, including crime scene cleanup, hoarding remediation, and drug decontamination. More than just cleaning spaces, they help restore normalcy for people facing life's toughest moments. Krista is also the CEO of Bright Sky House, a media company whose mission is to bring hidden stories to light, giving voice to narratives that deserve to be heard.You can find Krista online at https://www.instagram.com/kristagregg BrightSkyHouse.com Follow AWDT on:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywordscrime scene cleanup, hoarding remediation, business transition, emotional support, healthcare to entrepreneurship, biohazard cleaning, customer care, team building, insurance challenges, empathy in business, hoarding, mental health, storytelling, entrepreneurship, grief, resilience, advocacy, women's issues, suicide awareness, emergency services
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Testing AI, Sleep Gummies, and Our Patience with Summer Camp Costs
Lauren B's Spring Break just started and Lauren P's Spring Break just ended. In this episode, you'll hear if Lauren B survived Open Mic Night and hear us both complain about how AI is taking over the world. We introduce a new series called Try it or Trash it, where we try products so you don't have to! Lauren B. tries a product that locks her phone and keeps her off social media and Lauren P. tries a new sleep gummy. Will it cure her insomnia? Listen to find out! Our next guest is someone who quit her job to open a Crime Scene Cleanup Business with her husband. Send us your questions so we can ask her on the next podcast! Send us a message on social media!https://www.facebook.com/arewedoingthispodhttps://www.instagram.com/arewedoingthispod/https://www.tiktok.com/@arewedoingthispodhttps://www.youtube.com/@AreWeDoingThisPodHelpful links: Brick App: Use this link to get 10% off! https://www.getbrick.app/LAUREN85505Sleep Mask with Bluetooth Headphones: https://amzn.to/4hKrcgULauren P.'s Cake YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lolobakescakeskeywordspodcast, parenting, summer plans, childcare, technology, hobbies, open mic, writing, cake decorating, family activities, podcast, product reviews, sleep remedies, career changes, business ventures, social media, digital marketing, audience engagement, challenges, self-improvementTakeawaysOur kids think we're famous!Summer Camps are effing expensiveThe podcast is introducing new segments to keep content fresh.The 'Try It or Trash It' series will review various products.Screen time addiction is a common struggle among many.Physical devices can help manage phone usage effectively.Sleep remedies often require trial and error to find what works.AI is changing the landscape of job applications and resumes.Creating an online portfolio is becoming essential for career advancement.Engaging with the audience is important for feedback and questions.Unique business ventures can stem from personal experiences and humor.The hosts are excited about upcoming guests and topics for future episodes.
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When the Dream Job Doesn't Fit Anymore
In this week's episode, hosts Lauren Parajon and Lauren Butler catch up and introduce their first guest, Lauren Stark. The episode explores how she decided to leave her on-paper dream job and make a complete change. The conversation delves into Lauren Stark's career transition from apparel design to real estate, exploring the challenges and joys of home buying, client acquisition, and the balance between work and personal life. The three Laurens discuss the journey of transitioning careers, the emotional aspects of leaving a job, the challenges of building a new identity, and the importance of community and support in the real estate field. The discussion also touches on the practicalities of being a real estate agent, including navigating the market, costs, and the emotional journey during the home buying process. They conclude with advice for those considering a career change, emphasizing the importance of pursuing passion and trusting yourself to take the plunge!Follow Lauren Stark @laureninmadison on InstagramCheck out Real Estate Rookie podcast from Bigger PocketsFollow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeKeywordsReal Estate, Career Change, Home Buying, Client Acquisition, Work-Life Balance, Podcast, Personal Growth, Investment Properties, Creative Careers, career transition, real estate, identity, emotional journey, creative outlets, market understanding, brokerage, community, client managementChapters00:00 Introduction to Lauren Stark22:55 The Catalyst for Change: COVID-1925:59 Getting Started in Real Estate30:54 Navigating the Real Estate Journey33:20 Transitioning to Full-Time Real Estate34:39 The Emotional Journey of Quitting a Job36:25 Shifting Identities: From Designer to Realtor37:52 Maintaining Friendships Beyond Work39:13 Exploring Creativity in Real Estate40:28 Concerns About Market Stability41:37 Understanding Costs in Real Estate42:35 Choosing the Right Brokerage44:17 Building a Supportive Community in Real Estate45:58 Finding the Right Fit in Real Estate47:09 Overcoming Paperwork Anxiety48:44 Setting Expectations in a Competitive Market51:41 The Emotional Journey of Home Buying54:21 Taking the Leap: Career Changes and Personal Growth
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Call the Midlife Midwife
In this episode, Lauren and Lauren discuss midlife career changes, what we miss about working in an office, and the challenges of navigating e-commerce ventures, particularly with Amazon and Etsy. The episode highlights the ups and downs of parenting, like solo parenting, daylight savings time struggles and the need for Happy Half Hour. They explore the importance of health and wellness, particularly as women age, and share insights on navigating hormonal changes and healthcare challenges. The conversation also touches on personal projects, creative passions, and the need for supportive resources like a menopause midwife.Follow us:InstagramFacebookTikTokYouTubeCheck out LP's Amazon Deals here: LoLo's Amazon Deals on FBKeywordsparenting, family, solo parenting, weekend activities, social gatherings, Zumba, Harlem Globetrotters, midlife crisis, e-commerce, Amazon, community involvement, career choices, family life, personal growth, health and wellness, aging, women's health, creative passions, parenting, work-life balance, menopause, perimenopause, midlife health, midwivesChapters01:44 Solo Parenting Adventures04:30 Fun Activities and Family Time09:46 Mom's Night Out and Self-Care15:23 Weekend Excursions and Family Fun17:23 Weekend Adventures and Social Batteries19:29 Challenges in Online Marketplaces21:34 Exploring New Avenues for Income25:26 Navigating Career Changes and Work-Life Balance26:15 Midlife Reflections on Work and Identity35:37 Creative Aspirations and Future Goals37:10 Navigating Career Transitions38:39 Balancing Family and Personal Goals39:35 Creative Pursuits and Overcoming Challenges41:27 Exploring New Ventures and Listener Engagement42:32 Health and Wellness in Midlife44:20 Finding the Right Healthcare Support46:19 Aging and Self-Care Strategies50:10 The Importance of Proactive Health Management52:53 The Need for Specialized Care in Aging57:02 Closing Thoughts and Community EngagementTakeawaysSolo parenting requires planning and energy to keep kids engaged.The Harlem Globetrotters offer a unique and entertaining experience for families.Midlife reflections often lead to questioning career paths and desires for teamwork.E-commerce ventures can be challenging but also rewarding if approached creatively.Maintaining friendships is crucial for personal well-being as a parent.It's important to give ourselves grace and time in our pursuits.Maintaining a routine is essential for personal projects and goals.Health and wellness discussions are crucial as women age.Navigating hormonal changes requires informed healthcare support.Finding a supportive doctor can significantly impact health outcomes.It's important to advocate for one's health and well-being.Creating a supportive community can enhance personal and professional growth.
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Toes & Snooze: The Hustle of Feet Pics and Early Mornings
In this episode of 'Are We Doing This?', hosts Lauren Parajon and Lauren Butler share their progress on their current challenges. Lauren Butler has been trying to wake up early to write, but her kids are waking up early to make that impossible. Lauren Parajon gets rejected from Amazon Merch on Demand yet again, but gets approved for a different Amazon content community, and still has no idea what she's doing.Then both Laurens dive into the wild (and wonderful?) world of selling feet pics, and discover how surprisingly sophisticated the feet pic market truly is.Useful links:Get paid to take surveys/participate in studies: https://app.respondent.io/r/laurenparajon-3ac24e424bd2Books by Christina Lauren: https://christinalaurenbooks.com/books/Lauren's Etsy Store (Merch for Book Lovers) https://www.etsy.com/shop/LoLosApparelTakeawaysJanuary felt like nine months long.Family life can be unpredictable with sick kids.Finding time to write is a challenge for many.Morning routines can be disrupted by kids.Self-promotion can feel uncomfortable.Writing for fun is important for creativity.Sleep struggles are common among adults.Side hustles can provide extra income opportunities.Paid focus groups can be a viable side hustle.Collaboration in writing can be a fun exercise. Brands can match products with influencers for extra commissions.Authenticity is crucial in influencer marketing.Requesting product samples can enhance content creation.Social media communities influence marketing strategies.Amazon Merch on Demand presents unique challenges.The feet pic industry is a sophisticated market.Creating a separate account for niche products can be beneficial.Engaging with followers authentically can drive sales.Understanding customer preferences is key in niche markets.Digital marketing strategies are essential for success.Chapters00:00 Introduction and High Energy Start00:45 Weekend Updates and Family Life04:18 Challenges and Writing Goals08:39 Reflections on Writing and Creativity12:53 Sleep Challenges and Routines18:29 Concluding Thoughts on Life's Challenges19:53 Navigating Side Hustles and Productivity24:03 Exploring Paid Opportunities and Focus Groups26:05 Challenges in Online Selling and Merchandising27:26 The Journey of Influencer Marketing36:44 Diving into the Feet Pick Economy37:39 Exploring Feet Finder and Its Market43:20 Navigating the Challenges of Selling Feet Pics49:40 The Business of Foot Content Creation52:46 AWDT Podcast Intro Video (1920 x 1080 px).mp4Keywordspodcast, challenges, writing, family life, sleep struggles, side hustles, parenting, productivity, self-improvement, creativity, influencer marketing, affiliate programs, authenticity, Amazon Merch, feet pics, social media, content creation, digital marketing, online selling, influencer strategies
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On the Struggles of Online Selling and Starting Our Second Lives
In this episode, Lauren Parajon and Lauren Butler celebrate their one-month podcast anniversary while sharing personal stories about family adventures, including birthday celebrations and a kid-free trip to San Francisco. They discuss the joys of fine dining, the experience of self-driving cars, and the challenges of writing and personal growth. The conversation also touches on parenting reflections, the bittersweet nature of watching children grow up, and the excitement of future goals. In this conversation, Lauren Parajon and Lauren Butler discuss their experiences with online selling, particularly on platforms like Amazon and Etsy. They explore the challenges of getting approved to sell on Amazon, the alternative of setting up an Etsy store, and the difficulties of promoting merchandise. The discussion also touches on their aspirations in the fitness industry and the potential for unconventional income streams, including exploring unique ways to monetize their creativity.Check out LP’s Etsy shop herehttps://www.etsy.com/shop/LoLosApparelBeatbox Fitness YouTube herehttps://www.youtube.com/c/beatboxdancefitnessTakeawaysCelebrating milestones strengthens connections.Family adventures create lasting memories.Traveling without kids offers a different experience.Fine dining can be a unique and memorable experience.Self-driving cars are an intriguing technology.Writing regularly helps maintain creative flow.Embracing change is essential for personal growth.Parenting brings both joy and challenges.Reflecting on the past can provide perspective.Planning for the future can be exciting and daunting. Navigating Amazon's approval process can be challenging.Having a strong social media following can aid in selling products.Etsy provides a viable alternative for selling merchandise.Imposter syndrome can affect confidence in selling designs.Promoting personal merchandise feels different than affiliate marketing.Exploring fitness ventures can lead to new opportunities.Collaborating with others can enhance business prospects.Unconventional income streams can be explored creatively.Researching market trends is essential for success.Engaging with audiences can provide valuable feedback. Keywordspodcast, parenting, family, travel, writing, self-improvement, dining, technology, personal growth, motherhood, Amazon, Etsy, merchandise, fitness, influencer, income streams, entrepreneurship, creative business, online selling, marketingChapters00:00 Celebrating One Month of Connection01:58 Family Adventures in Denver05:31 A Kid-Free Getaway to San Francisco09:14 Experiencing Self-Driving Cars11:59 Cultural Exploration and Personal Growth14:40 Writing Journey and Creative Challenges17:28 Embracing the Morning Routine19:35 Navigating Parenting Challenges21:02 Reflections on Aging and Milestones23:35 The Journey of Becoming an Entrepreneur30:43 Balancing Authenticity and Promotion34:42 Creative Merchandising and Personal Branding37:20 Fitness Ventures and Social Media Success41:15 Exploring New Opportunities in Fitness46:05 Unconventional Income Streams and Kinks49:45 Future Challenges and Community Engagement
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The Plague, a Poem and Potential Profits
In this episode, Lauren Parajon and Lauren Butler discuss their personal updates, including Lauren B's snow days and a visit from the in-laws, Lauren P's dramatic encounter with "the plague," and the excitement of upcoming trips. They delve into their creative pursuits, particularly poetry, and Lauren P. shares one of her favorite poems from Kate Baer. The conversation shifts to exploring new ventures and side hustles, including Amazon Merch and paid survey opportunities. They also share their current reading and watching recommendations, highlighting the importance of creativity and personal growth.Lauren B's current Challenge: Taking a poetry class and hopefully finding an open-mic event to share her own words.Lauren P's current Challenge: Learning how to make money using Amazon Merch On Demand. Helpful links:How to Start Print on Demand with Amazon (Beginner Tutorial) https://youtu.be/GJzH7QHECnQ?si=3_ZmJa6OBayvuZDgTakeaways The importance of family support during hectic times. Health challenges can impact daily life significantly. Creative practices can enhance daily experiences. Social media detox can lead to a healthier mindset. Exploring new side hustles can be exciting and rewarding. Reading and watching can provide valuable insights and entertainment. Finding time for creativity amidst busy schedules is challenging. Personal growth often comes from trying new things. Sharing experiences can foster community and support. It's okay to prioritize self-care and enjoyment. Chapters00:00 Introduction and Excitement for Episode 302:53 Celebrating Milestones and Family Dynamics05:46 Health Challenges and Illness Experiences11:36 Valentine's Day Reflections and Family Traditions14:31 Creative Practices and Poetry Exploration16:38 Finding Creative Space Amidst Chaos22:35 Exploring Poetry and Its Impact26:47 The Journey into Amazon Merch on Demand31:28 Reintegration and Social Media Detox33:02 Exploring Unique Money-Making Ideas34:18 Survey Opportunities and Market Research35:56 Gardening Ventures and Planting Tips38:21 Book and Media Recommendations43:57 Upcoming Plans and Listener EngagementKeywordspodcast, family, health, creativity, social media, side hustles, reading, watching, personal growth, love is blind
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A Spa Day and a Digital Detox... A Welcomed Reset
In this episode, Lauren Butler and Lauren Parajon reflect on their experiences since launching episode 1, discussing personal growth, feedback from listeners, and their recent adventures. They share insights from a spa day, a first cold plunge experience and aerial yoga class, a snowboarding adventure, and the emotional rollercoaster of being a Dallas Mavs fan. The conversation shifts to the impact of a social media detox, revealing lessons learned about personal connections and creativity. They explore new hobbies, including poetry writing and potential side hustles, while emphasizing the importance of community engagement and support.LinksLauren B'sPoetry ClassLauren B'sFavorite PoetOur friendMike's PodcastTakeawaysThe importance of seeking constructive feedback for growth.Experiencing new activities can lead to personal development.Setting boundaries is essential for mental well-being.Social media detox can enhance personal connections.Creative pursuits can be fulfilling and rewarding.Trying new hobbies can be intimidating but worthwhile.Engaging with community can provide support and inspiration.Sports fandom can evoke strong emotions and connections.Quality time with family is more valuable than social media validation.Exploring side hustles can lead to new opportunities.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Reflections on Episode One02:25 Personal Updates and Adventures07:14 Lessons on Boundaries and Self-Care11:56 Challenges of Learning New Skills17:37 Social Media Detox Experience23:12 Reflections on Sleep and Well-Being24:50 Navigating Sleep and Social Media Challenges26:51 Exploring Creative Writing and Poetry28:05 Diving into Online Learning and Feedback30:35 The Journey of Gardening and New Hobbies34:48 Exploring Dance Classes and Physical Challenges38:32 Starting a Side Hustle with Amazon Merch44:07 Engaging with the Community and Future PlansKeywordspodcast, personal growth, social media detox, hobbies, sports, skiing, spa day, creative pursuits, community engagement, challenges
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Meet the Laurens
In this first episode of 'Are We Doing This?', hosts Lauren Parajon and Lauren Butler, two millennial moms on the brink of 40, share their journey of self-discovery and the challenges they face as they navigate motherhood, career, and personal growth. They discuss their desire to shake up their routines, explore new hobbies, and find balance in their lives and careers. The episode highlights their commitment to taking on new challenges, including a social media detox and creative writing, while also engaging with their audience for ideas and support.TakeawaysBoth hosts are navigating life as millennial moms approaching 40.They reflect on their identities beyond motherhood and career.The importance of trying new things to break the routine.They discuss the challenges of balancing work and family life.They emphasize the need for accountability in pursuing new goals.The hosts are committed to a social media detox as their first challenge.They explore unique side hustles and creative money-making ideas.The power of community engagement and sharing experiences is emphasized.They encourage listeners to join them on their journey of self-discovery.Follow us Instagram @arewedoingthispodFacebook Are We Doing This PodcastTikTok @AreWeDoingThisPodWe want to hear from you! Ideas for new stuff we should try? Email us at [email protected]
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Feeling stuck in the same routine?Welcome to Are We Doing This?, the podcast where two moms, on the verge of 40 and refusing to settle, push each other out of their comfort zones and try something new. From revisiting old hobbies to challenges like shopping locally, journaling daily, or finding creative side hustles, we’re showing that growth doesn’t stop at 40—it gets more exciting. With a blend of humor, honesty, and a little chaos, we’re on a mission to shake things up. Ready to rediscover yourself, embrace change, and maybe laugh along the way? Come do this with us!
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Lauren and Lauren
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