As I Was Saying Podcast

In this episode, we talk about the new year and share our thoughts on how we could look at it differently, not just as a fresh start filled with pressure, but as a chance for growth, reflection, and intention. We discuss letting go of unrealistic expectations, embracing change at our own pace, and finding meaning in small, everyday progress as we move forward.

We reflect on what it means to be away from home during the Christmas period. The episode delves into the emotions that come with distance from loneliness and nostalgia to moments of quiet reflection, while highlighting how being away from familiar traditions can reshape the way we experience the holidays.

We are getting real about identity, culture, and the moments we realized that growing up African in Australia was a whole different experience from that of our Aussie peers. We unpack the culture clashes, the double consciousness of navigating two worlds, and the unique beauty in that blend. It's not about better or worse—it’s about recognising the differences, laughing at the awkward moments, and honoring how our heritage shaped who we are today.

We're asking the question: If your life was a movie, what would it look like? Would it be a heart-pounding thriller? A slow-burn drama? Maybe a comedy full of awkward moments and unexpected laughs? Or even a horror film—cue the plot twists and life lessons. This isn't just about genres and storylines, though. It's about reflecting on how we see ourselves, the roles we play, the challenges we've overcome, and the kind of main character energy we're bringing into our lives.

oday, we’re diving into a mindset shift that can truly change your life: Gratitude is a must. In a world that often pushes us to focus on what’s missing or what’s next, we’re taking a moment to recognize the power of simply being thankful for what we have right now.

In the episode, we talked about things from the past that we’d love to bring back—some that made us smile, and others that sparked debate. From old-school cartoons and childhood snacks to retro fashion and the slower pace of life before smartphones, we shared the nostalgia that still holds a special place in our hearts. But we also touched on things that might not be so great to bring back, like outdated mindsets or trends that probably should stay in the past. It was a fun mix of memories and reflections on how the past still influences what we value today.

In the episode, we talked about how kids today are growing up to become the next population of people shaping the world—some for the better, and some not so much. We explored how their environment, influences, and the choices being made around them are molding who they’ll become as adults. From young leaders already showing promise to troubling trends in behavior and values, we dove into both the hopeful and concerning sides of this upcoming generation. It was a real conversation about what kind of future we’re heading toward, depending on how these kids grow, learn, and lead

In this episode, we explore the intriguing question of whether you can hold your partner responsible for what happens in your dreams. We dive into the psychology behind dreams, discussing how they are shaped by our subconscious mind, emotions, and experiences, rather than external control.

In this episode, we talk about the importance of personal space and boundaries, and how sometimes, we just need to be left alone. Whether it’s needing silence in the bathroom, not wanting surprise visits when we’re sick, or just having time to recharge, respecting these boundaries is crucial for maintaining our mental and emotional well-being. We explore why some of us crave solitude in certain situations, and how honoring those needs can strengthen relationships and lead to greater understanding. Tune in as we dive into how respecting personal space is an essential part of creating healthy, balanced connections with the people around us.

In this episode, we dive into the age-old question: "Do nice guys finish last?" and explore whether being nice really pays off in today's world. We’ll examine the challenges and rewards of kindness, and whether being considerate, empathetic, and generous leads to success or leaves you behind. Is there a hidden cost to always putting others first, or do nice guys find their way to the top in the long run? Tune in as we discuss how kindness can shape our personal and professional lives, and why it's so important to stay true to our values while navigating the complexities of life.

In this episode, we talk about the importance of apologising as loudly as we accuse. It's easy to point fingers and place blame when things go wrong, but it’s just as crucial to take responsibility for our own actions and offer sincere apologies when needed. Apologising with the same intensity ensures that we acknowledge the impact of our behavior and show respect to others. It fosters accountability, heals relationships, and demonstrates emotional maturity. Just as accusations can leave lasting effects, a well-delivered apology can create an opportunity for growth, understanding, and resolution. Balancing both is key to maintaining trust and harmony in any relationship.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of knowing when to leave after visiting someone’s house, especially if you're staying overnight. While it’s great to spend time with friends or family, it’s crucial to recognize when your visit has overstayed its welcome. We explore how staying too long can sometimes create tension or make the host feel burdened, even if they’re too polite to say it. Understanding the subtle cues, respecting personal space, and being mindful of the host’s routine is key to maintaining good relationships. Knowing when to leave—not just physically, but also emotionally—ensures that everyone feels comfortable and appreciated. After all, a good guest knows that sometimes, the best way to show gratitude is to leave at the right moment.